swagguElite:
You need to continue your legacy and raise issues. Get married, raise your kids your style.

As for loyalty, you think 19yrs old gurl did not have a boyfriend who kissed and played with her boob while she was 17yrs. Talkmore of twenty sth. You need to start going to gym or hit 100 push ups at home everyday. Focus more 100 is hard, divide it into 5sets-20reps, you're worried about things that will happen with or without you.

As you have options, she has options too. As you decide to be loyal, another gurl is there too - same reasoning. You will keep meeting them until you find one you can manage.

Marriage emerges as a management crisis training camp. You will learn and unlearn, forgive and commit , make sacrifices and be sacrificed.

isabi2lof:
Your guys like wasting lady's time .

Why not date btw 6months to a year and then settle down .

I have been opened to two nairlanders before but they're not ready for anything serious, although it was just online, I haven't met them physical.

Some guys are not ready to settle down, that's the truth , they're just after sex and nothing more

Lordatkinson:



Dear brother! Foremost, thanks for coming to public instead of choosing suicide as an option.

The truth is, there is no perfect relationship or

Ha ha

E done reach suicide level?

UyaiIncomparabl:


You’re looking for perfection and perfection is illusory.

StrongAlphMale:


Men are always spec irrespective of how many hoe we have knacked but same can't be said about a Nigerian olosho.

Dude, when a Man fvcks around, you too go and fvcks around. At the end, we'll know who will lose and who the society will see as a prostitute. Keep becoming silly

StrongAlphMale:


He's right. Every sane man must look for a woman who has everything 100%. Or were you you expecting him to marry an olosho and a runz girl before? We all know you have numerous body counts. Madam na tear rubber every guy need not used product

Eagba:
Smartguy"
Please next time you sit for an exam, don't check the results because you're afraid of what you will see.

UyaiIncomparabl:


So, when a woman gives you sexual exclusivity, does that make her perfect or a 100/100?

Besides, keep your fingers on a leash. I’m not in a brawl with you.

Kingsley123456:
I will go straight to the point.....
I've not dated a faithful lady since I started dating and I've dated up to 6 different ladies aside from Shop and clean mouth).

My girlfriend which I thought I will at least manage to settle down with was cooking for me 2days ago and I took her phone went straight to WhatsApp and telegram to see chats. One was wooing her and she's responding normally, no iota of restrain in the chats and another was inviting her over and she said, sure, she will come.

I dropped the phone immediately , I was still thinking of where to start with her when I received a call from work and I had to leave, I message her while I was at work and asked her while she's doing all these to me, as usual she claimed they are platonic friends and nothing more.

I blocked her immediately she mention there is nothing wrong in visiting Platonic friends in open places and even at home....

This is isn't the type of woman i want.

That wasn't her first time but she always accuse me of not wanting her to have good male friends.

I'm tired of things like these, I will be 35 by September.

Initially I thought I'm getting older and I should settle down, but, will I ever meet a Woman of my choice?? Someone I can at least trust?? someone who won't be going round visiting Platonic friends, ano wan loseguard, I need a woman in my life but I think I'm giving up......

I don't want to die young...
Lastly Nairalanders

Do I have to look for another relationship again or
Take her back and give her last chance?? Or, concentrate on money making for another 5yr? And forget about getting married,
Pls advice.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Nothing but the truth.

Most of them just want to pipe and swipe. Explore. Eat their cake and have it back.

Women should be very meticulous and selfish about who they render their exclusivity to. Many of these men aren’t ready for commitment. When you find one who’s committed and provides, keep him.

pocohantas:


Men are spec, yet all of una dey find wife and hiding ID to wail. You never start sha. Reality go soon hit you. No be me and you go run mouth.

StrongAlphMale:


I just told you that when a Man fvcks around, you too go ahead and fvck around. At the end we'll know who will lose and who the society will see as a prostitute ..

pocohantas:


Men are spec, yet all of una dey find wife and hiding ID to wail. You never start sha. Reality go soon hit you. No be me and you go run mouth.

Nicenixon:
To be candid, ladies also have the right to keep their opinions open just as guys do to avoid disappointment, it is now left to a guy never to be an option to a lady.

StrongAlphMale:


Guys are calling out your prostitute gender and you said they're wailing. E sure me die say your body count alone is numerous. Olsohos! You cannot keep yourself and close your legs! And yet you want a man to marry you.

Kingsley123456:
I will go straight to the point.....
I've not dated a faithful lady since I started dating and I've dated up to 6 different ladies aside from Shop and clean mouth).

My girlfriend which I thought I will at least manage to settle down with was cooking for me 2days ago and I took her phone went straight to WhatsApp and telegram to see chats. One was wooing her and she's responding normally, no iota of restrain in the chats and another was inviting her over and she said, sure, she will come.

I dropped the phone immediately , I was still thinking of where to start with her when I received a call from work and I had to leave, I message her while I was at work and asked her while she's doing all these to me, as usual she claimed they are platonic friends and nothing more.

I blocked her immediately she mention there is nothing wrong in visiting Platonic friends in open places and even at home....

This is isn't the type of woman i want.

That wasn't her first time but she always accuse me of not wanting her to have good male friends.

I'm tired of things like these, I will be 35 by September.

Initially I thought I'm getting older and I should settle down, but, will I ever meet a Woman of my choice?? Someone I can at least trust?? someone who won't be going round visiting Platonic friends, ano wan loseguard, I need a woman in my life but I think I'm giving up......

I don't want to die young...
Lastly Nairalanders

Do I have to look for another relationship again or
Take her back and give her last chance?? Or, concentrate on money making for another 5yr? And forget about getting married,
Pls advice.

pocohantas:


But one of your brother is 35 with no same woman. Another is 37. We can already see who is losing.

StrongAlphMale:


Stop asking me dumb questions.

Every man needs a new tear rubber. can you go to the market and buy a used product?

StrongAlphMale:


Men have all the time they need to get married. Whether they're 75 or 80. A man still have an option unlike a girl of 24 who's already fading away due to her numerous body count. The moment she hits 30, she starts attending Shiloh to Shiloh, with frustration and bitterness in her heart. At this stage she's not sure if men will marry her again because of her olosho life and no man wants a use product. The girl then becomes available for any man. Whereas she has no option anymore .so who come lose?

pocohantas:


They are wailing. Join a seminary or marry a man. Ntooorrr!😝😝😝😝

pocohantas:


But one of your brother is 35 with no same woman. Another is 37. We can already see who is losing.

Bobxin:

I don't think you read the story clearly, she was accepting a date from another guy, and was accepting a meet-up, from where I come that's more than being colleagues.

Maynmann:

Colleague is different from friends.
And most guys are not friends with women for that sake, are women that interesting that many men wants to be friends with her.
Even as a guy how often do you have NEW many male friends?

pocohantas:


Cry cry baby, you want to see a wife...
Shay shay shay...shameeeee! 😝😝😝

izzou:




You no well!

UyaiIncomparabl:


Why are you angry?

GboyegaD:


There's nothing like a date. A friend asked her when she is coming over. It could mean so much. The other person was wooing her. I only mentioned colleagues when he said he doesn't expect his girlfriend to have a male friend.



I am friends with a few females and I am sure their husband's have no concern because we have healthy boundaries. I only read online on nairaland where some guys feel a male can't be friends with a female.

pocohantas:


He wants women to marry him, but e no wan humble. Na 70yrs e go see next.

Men have options, but right on the same thread, a man of 35 is crying for help

The irony !

Kingsley123456:
I will go straight to the point.....
I've not dated a faithful lady since I started dating and I've dated up to 6 different ladies aside from Shop and clean mouth).

My girlfriend which I thought I will at least manage to settle down with was cooking for me 2days ago and I took her phone went straight to WhatsApp and telegram to see chats. One was wooing her and she's responding normally, no iota of restrain in the chats and another was inviting her over and she said, sure, she will come.

I dropped the phone immediately , I was still thinking of where to start with her when I received a call from work and I had to leave, I message her while I was at work and asked her while she's doing all these to me, as usual she claimed they are platonic friends and nothing more.

I blocked her immediately she mention there is nothing wrong in visiting Platonic friends in open places and even at home....

This is isn't the type of woman i want.

That wasn't her first time but she always accuse me of not wanting her to have good male friends.

I'm tired of things like these, I will be 35 by September.

Initially I thought I'm getting older and I should settle down, but, will I ever meet a Woman of my choice?? Someone I can at least trust?? someone who won't be going round visiting Platonic friends, ano wan loseguard, I need a woman in my life but I think I'm giving up......

I don't want to die young...
Lastly Nairalanders

Do I have to look for another relationship again or
Take her back and give her last chance?? Or, concentrate on money making for another 5yr? And forget about getting married,
Pls advice.

pocohantas:


He wants women to marry him, but e no wan humble. Na 70yrs e go see next.