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Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by superCleanworks(m): 4:15pm On May 17, 2023 |
slawomir: that is YOUR OWN TRUTH. do not impose your own code of conduct and ideology on others. soon as you see your woman doing what you do not like you POSITION her and if she no gree the positioning you comot mind and find someone who agrees with you just like the OP did. he did the right thing. we start to quench the fire when it is still smoke and not when it has become full blown wild fire. If you like wait till she becomes your wife before she adjusts to conform with you, your coffee. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Flora2Sweet: 4:17pm On May 17, 2023 |
You know them.... Love the way u write tho... Persephone1: |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Bintexx: 4:20pm On May 17, 2023 |
Kingsley123456: Not justifying but I strongly think that most women cheat because they are playing safe. Even though they are in a relationship with you, they are not certain you will marry them. Otherwise why do you think most ladies are surprised when their men propose to them? Don't give up yet, watch this space something huge is coming up before end of this year and I will post it in this forum and all these issues will be a thing of the past. 2 Likes |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Fearyourcreator: 4:20pm On May 17, 2023 |
worldclass68:You dey reply person wey weed don scatter him sense 3 Likes |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by saysugar(m): 4:20pm On May 17, 2023 |
Well, i hope u got atleast a kid or two somewhere, don't let marriage carried u away from ur own actual life,get one gel give pregnant and nurse , abi u never see 20yr marriage without kid yet |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by OOLUSEG(m): 4:23pm On May 17, 2023 |
WoroSeeWoro: But if people like you don't patronize them they won't be there. You are there no 1 customer..that is why you know all the hoes site. OLOSHO MAN....better become gay and have peace of mind...Pot calling kettle black. 1 Like |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by emanobis(m): 4:30pm On May 17, 2023 |
Someone who is nt remorseful and even still accuses you of not allowing her to have GOOD male friends...my brother never reason of any second chance coz she won't stop If she's truly into you, she will give up every distraction and focus on you. She will have to give up anything and everything that will affect both of you |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by silvoclaira: 4:37pm On May 17, 2023 |
Rmace: Shior?! |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Remijuice: 4:49pm On May 17, 2023 |
Persephone1: Lol! Where is that man? He needs award You friend zoned a fool grown man for 8 years! Chai! Fear God oh... |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by GboyegaD(m): 4:50pm On May 17, 2023 |
Maynmann: They rarely visited; however, I do the visit most times. There are many reasons to visit, and we engage in intellectual discussions. |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Maynmann: 4:53pm On May 17, 2023 |
GboyegaD:You are more like a family friend. Like you said you are visiting their “home”. The OP said his gf doesn’t mind visiting people houses. 1 Like |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Benwems(m): 5:03pm On May 17, 2023 |
slawomir: For writing this you are not a real nigga and u are not rugged. 1 Like |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Maynmann: 5:07pm On May 17, 2023 |
Persephone1:I’m sure he misses your “friendship”. |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Nobody: 5:16pm On May 17, 2023 |
Maynmann:Lol of course he does. He called two days ago to check on me and rant about "how I dey misbehave" 😂 |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by GboyegaD(m): 5:19pm On May 17, 2023 |
Maynmann: They are single and married friends. I guess my concern is how people date people they can't trust and whose values do not align with theirs. I think these are things that are ironed out right from the beginning of the relationship. However, I find it extreme that someone has issues with another making friends with another gender because s/he feels the person is sleeping around. My simple question to such a person is that whenever they are alone with the opposite sex, does it mean all their brain and hormones can process is just to have sex? |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Nobody: 5:19pm On May 17, 2023 |
Remijuice:Lol I don't know what you are talking about. We have always been just friends. |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Nobody: 5:20pm On May 17, 2023 |
Maynmann: That guy na mumu. He stayed in a non beneficial friendship for 8 years just hoping to taste puna ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by GboyegaD(m): 5:22pm On May 17, 2023 |
Persephone1: The bold is just so true. I still wonder why people think friendship with the opposite friend is all about sex. I guess to many of our guys, they think sex is a conquest thus, the reason why that is all they process when they see a female. |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Remijuice: 5:22pm On May 17, 2023 |
Persephone1: I never understand o... As in, gossiping together or what ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Golden75(m): 5:44pm On May 17, 2023 |
Hmmm dis country sha,just imagine what is coming from the mouth of a man who has dated 6 girlfriends with lots of chop and clean mouth,From d description above am very sure u re just a regular guy who feels he is free to do anything he like and yet got a reward of a virgin as a wife..... Weldon Idan 1 Like |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by histemple: 5:48pm On May 17, 2023 |
worldclass68: But you also mentioned that you do "chop and clean mouth". So this is going to be a marriage of two chronic cheats. |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by FireUpNow(m): 6:01pm On May 17, 2023 |
OP forget about her and find anothy |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by richhills(m): 6:02pm On May 17, 2023 |
Then don't marry, face your business, hold bar, then cohabit. No ring, if she do anyhow you do anyhow. |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by WoroSeeWoro(m): 6:02pm On May 17, 2023 |
OOLUSEG: Fool like you.....how will someone who is not gay become gay ...seems you no get sense ...or know know how to.reason Why on earth will i be gay when am not.....how do u know i patronise gals from.social.app, ode If i need any beech to nak i get dem word of.mouth 1 Like |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by poweredcom(m): 6:05pm On May 17, 2023 |
Persephone1: Why would a guy keep friend with a woman for.long then that man is an eediot...you women will insult him behind his back Give men the nookie madam....friendship without gaining anytin who.does dat 3 Likes |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Nobody: 6:08pm On May 17, 2023 |
GboyegaD:You are right on the bolded. I got these vibes from his words and that was what really ended the friendship. On the norms I don't fault people for "catching feelings " but when they become irresponsible with it, it gets to me. It is not every lady a guy must "chop" |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by worldclass68(m): 6:10pm On May 17, 2023 |
histemple: I'm not the OP ![]() |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Nobody: 6:16pm On May 17, 2023 |
poweredcom:Wahala ![]() You guys are something else. Later Pansophist go talk say women are the one to close legs ![]() ![]() I fit send you his number, go give am on my behalf nah. With enough lubricant he should be able to "enter" ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by richardokubo(m): 6:32pm On May 17, 2023 |
slawomir:Your comment is not making any sense how can someone be so senseless like this so u will just pick a random woman and immediately go pay is bride price wth out knowing a thing about her. Bcus this ur post here I can't even understand what u re trying to say ? U are dating a girl but of ubarr in courtship preparing to marry bcus u av not paid her bride price she can open her legs for random men . Oga go get sense pls 4 Likes |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by OOLUSEG(m): 6:32pm On May 17, 2023 |
WoroSeeWoro: |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by blesboi(m): 6:52pm On May 17, 2023 |
fake ajebo drop am advice
fake ajebo : pls avoid going through your love phone.... |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Nobody: 7:09pm On May 17, 2023 |
akube34:That guy na JK no need quoting him 1 Like |
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