Persephone1:
This right here is what led to the end of 8 years friendship with a guy. You Nigerian guys are so morally declined that you can't maintain a platonic friendship with the opposite gender without you wanting to get intimate or suddenly growing"unexplainable emotions" . You don't trust yourselves with women but somehow you lot are very good at policing what goes in into a woman's veejay and judge women.

Oomoh women dating you lots are really trying

Kog45:
Stop checking your woman phone and you will live longer

Kingsley123456:
I will go straight to the point.....
I've not dated a faithful lady since I started dating and I've dated up to 6 different ladies aside from Shop and clean mouth).

My girlfriend which I thought I will at least manage to settle down with was cooking for me 2days ago and I took her phone went straight to WhatsApp and telegram to see chats. One was wooing her and she's responding normally, no iota of restrain in the chats and another was inviting her over and she said, sure, she will come.

I dropped the phone immediately , I was still thinking of where to start with her when I received a call from work and I had to leave, I message her while I was at work and asked her while she's doing all these to me, as usual she claimed they are platonic friends and nothing more.

I blocked her immediately she mention there is nothing wrong in visiting Platonic friends in open places and even at home....

This is isn't the type of woman i want.

That wasn't her first time but she always accuse me of not wanting her to have good male friends.

I'm tired of things like these, I will be 35 by September.

Initially I thought I'm getting older and I should settle down, but, will I ever meet a Woman of my choice?? Someone I can at least trust?? someone who won't be going round visiting Platonic friends, ano wan loseguard, I need a woman in my life but I think I'm giving up......

I don't want to die young...
Lastly Nairalanders

Do I have to look for another relationship again or
Take her back and give her last chance?? Or, concentrate on money making for another 5yr? And forget about getting married,
Pls advice.

doggedfighter:
Nothing serious.


She's just keeping her options open just in case you end up telling her stories.


At 35 you're not old.


You can still marry a 20 year old even at 75

They say men never age.

macho44:

Since you have a PHOBIA for marriage, and you are already developing SERIOUS trust issues, perhaps a domestic partnership might just be what you need. Make babies and raise them together.

Kingsley123456:
I will go straight to the point.....
I've not dated a faithful lady since I started dating and I've dated up to 6 different ladies aside from Shop and clean mouth).

Pls advice.

Persephone1:
Lol of course he does. He called two days ago to check on me and rant about "how I dey misbehave" 😂

GboyegaD:


They are single and married friends. I guess my concern is how people date people they can't trust and whose values do not align with theirs. I think these are things that are ironed out right from the beginning of the relationship. However, I find it extreme that someone has issues with another making friends with another gender because s/he feels the person is sleeping around. My simple question to such a person is that whenever they are alone with the opposite sex, does it mean all their brain and hormones can process is just to have sex?

Persephone1:
This right here is what led to the end of 8 years friendship with a guy. You Nigerian guys are so morally declined that you can't maintain a platonic friendship with the opposite gender without you wanting to get intimate or suddenly growing"unexplainable emotions" . You don't trust yourselves with women but somehow you lot are very good at policing what goes in into a woman's veejay and judge women.

Oomoh women dating you lots are really trying

EndRape2:
U go old, you still young nah, 35, you young, keep seraching phones, and looking for mistakes and excuses, so because she is dating you she should not have friends abi? Have you engage her? Engage her first and see if she will keep Platonic male friends , most ladies are afraid of heart break, so the Platonic friends can console her when you break her hearts .

My girlfriend which I thought I will at least manage to settle down with was cooking for me 2days ago

TheOldGods:
Relationship is nothing and has no proof that you will marry her. So you expect a lady to be with only you, with no single concrete proof you will settle with her. What if you die before then? A relationship is just friends with benefit. Let's call a spade a spade. She has every right to visit whomever she wants at that stage. The only time you have morale grounds is if you engage her and then go for first introduction or knocking on the door which is not even expensive, if she continues that act, then you have every right to be angry and come here to rant. Not when you people are just friends with benefit, only having sex and nothing more, no plans for her future, did you swear with your life that you will marry her. Oga go and rest. That op guy is very toxic human being.

Nazgul:

You don't keep your options open by flirting with unserious people while being with someone who takes you serious. You'd discover that at the end of the day, you'll have no one to call your own, cos all the guys hanging around you including the serious ones would flee due to fears of infidelity if they decide to marry you.

The best way to secure a partner is to be sexually loyal to him and him alone.

If along the line, you find out that you two can't work, end things officially with him before going into another relationship. That way you won't have your ex creating problems for you in your new relationship.

Kingsley123456:
I will go straight to the point.....
I've not dated a faithful lady since I started dating and I've dated up to 6 different ladies aside from Shop and clean mouth).

My girlfriend which I thought I will at least manage to settle down with was cooking for me 2days ago and I took her phone went straight to WhatsApp and telegram to see chats. One was wooing her and she's responding normally, no iota of restrain in the chats and another was inviting her over and she said, sure, she will come.

I dropped the phone immediately , I was still thinking of where to start with her when I received a call from work and I had to leave, I message her while I was at work and asked her while she's doing all these to me, as usual she claimed they are platonic friends and nothing more.

I blocked her immediately she mention there is nothing wrong in visiting Platonic friends in open places and even at home....

This is isn't the type of woman i want.

That wasn't her first time but she always accuse me of not wanting her to have good male friends.

I'm tired of things like these, I will be 35 by September.

Initially I thought I'm getting older and I should settle down, but, will I ever meet a Woman of my choice?? Someone I can at least trust?? someone who won't be going round visiting Platonic friends, ano wan loseguard, I need a woman in my life but I think I'm giving up......

I don't want to die young...
Lastly Nairalanders

Do I have to look for another relationship again or
Take her back and give her last chance?? Or, concentrate on money making for another 5yr? And forget about getting married,
Pls advice.

Kingsley123456:

Honestly, I'm not too selective , I only need one faithful lady, who will understand I don't share P**sy

UyaiIncomparabl:


Nothing but the truth.

Most of them just want to pipe and swipe. Explore. Eat their cake and have it back.

Women should be very meticulous and selfish about who they render their exclusivity to. Many of these men aren’t ready for commitment. When you find one who’s committed and provides, keep him.

Persephone1:
Wahala

You guys are something else. Later Pansophist go talk say women are the one to close legs

Kingosytex:


At the bolded, how do unmarried people cheat on each other?

Lastpharoah33:


Airforce1 comes to mind,

almarthins:


Mostly, by being dishonest with you feeling, and also by hopping from bed to another.

ShaqFu:
the subject of who provides shouldn't be exclusive to the man, women too should provide and help. The days of men having to provide everything even the woman's undies shouldn't be encouraged.

Kingsley123456:
I will go straight to the point.....
I've not dated a faithful lady since I started dating and I've dated up to 6 different ladies aside from Shop and clean mouth).

My girlfriend which I thought I will at least manage to settle down with was cooking for me 2days ago and I took her phone went straight to WhatsApp and telegram to see chats. One was wooing her and she's responding normally, no iota of restrain in the chats and another was inviting her over and she said, sure, she will come.

I dropped the phone immediately , I was still thinking of where to start with her when I received a call from work and I had to leave, I message her while I was at work and asked her while she's doing all these to me, as usual she claimed they are platonic friends and nothing more.

I blocked her immediately she mention there is nothing wrong in visiting Platonic friends in open places and even at home....

This is isn't the type of woman i want.

That wasn't her first time but she always accuse me of not wanting her to have good male friends.

I'm tired of things like these, I will be 35 by September.

Initially I thought I'm getting older and I should settle down, but, will I ever meet a Woman of my choice?? Someone I can at least trust?? someone who won't be going round visiting Platonic friends, ano wan loseguard, I need a woman in my life but I think I'm giving up......

I don't want to die young...
Lastly Nairalanders

Do I have to look for another relationship again or
Take her back and give her last chance?? Or, concentrate on money making for another 5yr? And forget about getting married,
Pls advice.

ShaqFu:
the subject of who provides shouldn't be exclusive to the man, women too should provide and help. The days of men having to provide everything even the woman's undies shouldn't be encouraged.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Why are you angry?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Why are you angry?