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Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by josilcool(m): 5:52pm On May 18, 2023 |
That's too harsh, her daughter might be her best friend before you married her You should have talked to your wife instead, to caution her mother to stop her frequent visit 2 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Brimstone77: 5:53pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman:.... Just wait,a day will come when you will need her presence,then you will regret your reckless utterance.. 2 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Brimstone77: 5:58pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman:... You guys are impossible.. You forgot that this same wife of yours have liveth with her mom for decades before you got married to her? If she had wanted to influence her wrongly she would have done that before you got married to her daughter.. You are simply insecure. 2 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Olowunl01: 6:00pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman:Note to self: Never allow your daughter get married to a disrespectul boy? Would you say the same to your own mom or father? If her mom was rich and powerful - you wouldnt dare; these are some of the reasons for repugnant desperation for wealth we see today. 3 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by khalif090: 6:04pm On May 18, 2023 |
YOU TRY I SWEAR, MAKE SHE GIVE SPACE ABEG thesilentman: 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Pascaldebravoo: 6:06pm On May 18, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: That is not the issue here, what is wrong is the manner in which the message was passed, OK. 2 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by SeriouslySense(m): 6:07pm On May 18, 2023 |
That's true, people should be free to be with their families. Especially healthy relationships between mother and her daughter. MrBrownJay1: 2 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by GodPrince: 6:13pm On May 18, 2023 |
Jovialjune1:editing my post about you doesn't change the fact about you. My post about you is still original and safe stating that your vagina smells dangerously and I warned you not to mention me again before you kill me with your vagina smell oozing out of your post. Pls, leave me alone, I don't want your smelling vagina, hawk it somewhere else. As you edit you're using the terms that's describes you. |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by DrDunamis(m): 6:19pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman: Very rude and disrespectful fellow. How could you speak to your mother in law in such a manner? If you were bother by the amount of her visits, why didn't you speak to your wife to subtly let her mum know? Na wa ooh The rate and level of dishonour is just too alarming 3 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ajike931(f): 6:22pm On May 18, 2023 |
Family problems |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by thesilentman(m): 6:23pm On May 18, 2023 |
Hassanmaye:No but my woman is first child. 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by linearity: 6:28pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: I do not know why we sometimes think that, being passive is the right thing and way to go! The mother's right to check on them stop at their own right to privacy. You can not put it upon yourself to check me and expect me to passively agree to it, I also have rights, I have the right to say No, or they suggest when and how such visits should occur. This is no longer the mother's family, they gave their daughter away, from the OP comments, it appears the wife i.e. the mother's own daughter is siding with the husband and the reason she did not do it herself is because it might seem callous coming from her. Coming on omogwu is at the discretion on the husband and the wife, how long stays is also at their discretion. I do not see it as a disrespect, in Nigeria we have the mistaken default position that, elders are always right and we should always bow to their wishes, that is not true, the mother was in the wrong here and the husband as the head of that home had to put his feet down and say enough is enough period! 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by victorVIC1(m): 6:29pm On May 18, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: You obviously lack reading comprehension. Idiot. You better carry this your lack of manner go face your papa 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:33pm On May 18, 2023 |
victorVIC1: just answer the question accordingly to who's time, space etc |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by victorVIC1(m): 6:36pm On May 18, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: If you had also communicated decently, you obviously won't get such feedback. You get no further response from me 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Segzy19: 6:36pm On May 18, 2023 |
Have you asked her daughter, your own wife to speak with her first? Is the woman still with her husband? Separated or the hubby is dead? It could be boredom.. Is your wife the only child, first born or only daughter hence they closeness or attachment. These are the considerations to think about before knowing how to talk to the woman. Your approach was too harsh, too direct and a bit disrespectful... We shall grow old one day and may find ourselves in some situations beyond us. You could said it or passed your message in a more subtle way. The fact that you later had to apologize shows that your approach wasn't the best 2 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Offpointng: 6:38pm On May 18, 2023 |
Foodqueen: I'm the last of my momma's kids and she hardly even visit 3 times yearly while Christmas is constant, and this goes to every of her kids. Do you know why? cuz she ain't jobless. tell me why a busy woman would visit her daughter almost every week?? For my wife to yell at my mum that visit just 2/3 times yearly is the end of that union |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by pek(m): 6:38pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:This is nonsense. Either you didn't read what he wrote or you read with biased mind. The bolded is trash. If the parents didn't want their daughter to leave their house, they won't have married her out |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:42pm On May 18, 2023 |
linearity: i agree we pass on bad habits by default of being elders hence we keep on repeating the same mistakes generation to generatiob and now call it its our culture Mun should have non better how guys are 1st borns or only son and does their fathers check on them all the time ?No Most people are biased simply becoz it parent doing it and we dont see nothing wrong with it becoz culture and tradition groomed us to question elders or correct them . Hence most people will focus on the wrong thing, than the parent doing wrong things |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by imagrg(m): 6:42pm On May 18, 2023 |
Bad talk. Learn to be more civil with words. 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Romanoff(f): 6:43pm On May 18, 2023 |
Women dey marry idiots. People no longer have regard for elderly or the marriage institution. You did something terribly wrong and you're in a forum where children will hail you for validation. When something goes wrong with your wife that will need the intervention of your family and hers, which mouth will you use to appeal to her family since you've decided to burn the bridge that will take you there? It's men like you that will say "your mother comes first before your wife", it's still men like you that will bring down thunder and brimstone when your wife disrespects your mother. One thing I've learned on life is to treat people the way you'd want to be treated. The food wey you dey cook dey front dey wait for you. 5 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by PeachtreeReside(f): 6:43pm On May 18, 2023 |
You could have phrased it nicer. It is usually not easy being unmarried and ones daughter cum friend is out of the house. This generation sees no harm in being rude to older ones just because they can string words together. 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:44pm On May 18, 2023 |
victorVIC1: thats were you wrong, quoting you doesnt mean i expect further respond becoz u can actually ignore me and i wont be bothered |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:46pm On May 18, 2023 |
Romanoff: lets take your version children nolonger have regards for adults, but does adult have regards for newly married ? its a two ways system not one way |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by PeachtreeReside(f): 6:47pm On May 18, 2023 |
linearity: The daughter should have being the one to caution her mom not her hubby. She threw the mum and hubby under the tracks by not speaking up. With time, the mum might have stopped visiting. I'm sure the dad is dead or remarried. That's why i would advise and older one to remarry or have a life partner so that in future the same kids you sacrificed for would allow their spouses insult them because she comes around too much. |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by liquidmetall: 6:50pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Been following this up Oga you're trying so hard to appear so correct and good and in the end sounding stupid You want to be visiting your child always in their matrimonial home It's like you're mad or something Talk is cheap 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Romanoff(f): 6:59pm On May 18, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: If it was his mother, will he talk to her like that? I feel sorry for the woman that married a poorly raised sycophant like him. A simple talk with his wife would have fixed it. "Honey, don't you think your mum visits us too often, seeing that we are newly weds? I think you should talk to her so she can reduce her visits" If that approach doesn't work, talk to FIL. But no, he decided to disrespect his MIL like a child raised from the gutter. If his wife puts the bed, isn't it her mother that will still come for Omugwo? The geh sef no get sense, you talk to my mother like that, I'll wait for your own mother for front. Let all of us kuku be mannerless and uncultured. 5 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ArticleBeast: 7:02pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman:Nothing like redpiller. You should have seek for advice before taking it the way u did. Apologize but I believe she got the message 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by chccho(m): 7:02pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman:Yes u beeped up cos there are wise ways to do everything 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by simplepee(f): 7:04pm On May 18, 2023 |
I won’t be surprised if op is a yahoo boy. They are the ones with these nasty attitudes. Very stupid set of men. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by brucelee29: 7:05pm On May 18, 2023 |
You did the best thing |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by brucelee29: 7:07pm On May 18, 2023 |
superCleanworks: I agree strongly with you 1 Like |
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