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Re: Explain This Thing To Me by bukatyne(f): 2:29pm On May 18, 2023 |
Klass99: š š š š š¤£ š š š š š š¤£ Please blame my 'I think this can be savaged' and ensuring peeps are correct when they reference the Bible. I don't want some girl not deeply rooted in the Word reading that ans saying 'Christianity is too burdensome for women; we are even expected to pray for erring husbands while we don't get that privilege'. @other parts: That's why I 'scream' that women should choose well. If a woman marries baruff, she would not even chase 10 not to talk of the 1,000 the Bible says a single person would chase. She would turn to prayer warrior or inspector running from pillar to post looking for what is not lost. Then live a life filled with bitterness and start tormenting her DILs. 1 Like |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by CHoccolaTE: 2:37pm On May 18, 2023 |
FairlyUSEDpussy: Interesting, show me verses that instruct women to pray for their husbands. 1 Like |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by Klass99(f): 5:15pm On May 18, 2023 |
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Re: Explain This Thing To Me by bukatyne(f): 5:46pm On May 18, 2023 |
Klass99: I firmly believe that marriage is a spiritual matter hence spiritual guidance (depending on what you favor) is important. When I say choose well, I am not just referring to the physical. And like church speak, God will not give His daughters (who rely on Him for a choice of spouse) to spiritual bustards who would turn negative in future. Are there exceptions? Yes. However, if as a spiritual person (especially a child of God) there are more cases of godly husbands/wives changing for the worse, then there is a fundamental problem somewhere. Is it possible that God's choice in marriage is a thorn in the person's flesh for a lesson? Yes. An example was Hosea in the Bible whom He told to marry a prostitute. Sometimes, the change can be a spiritual attack which I do not deny. Again, on the physical, I generally don't believe people change 360 for the worse. It is however possible for the intending spouse not to know that aspect of them. Reminds me of an acquaintance that boasts that he has different faces (aka cupboard life) for different people. To some, he is jaiye jaiye person; to others, he is 100% career driven; to others, he is a church boy. That's where God comes in and show you things you need to know. I have also seen cases God showed people things and they went ahead because of age and other circumstances. I gather that the OP in that thread knew her husband gambled before they got married. @bold: As a Christian, donāt you think there are too much instances of turning away especially for husbands (assuming they were 100% right with God initially) not to go to the foundation? P.S.: I personally don't think the personality you see in the church gives you enough scope for a martial life. And anyone meeting in the church or any religious gathering without further contact in a more natural environment has to do even more due diligence. 2 Likes |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by Klass99(f): 5:54pm On May 18, 2023 |
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Re: Explain This Thing To Me by cococandy(f): 6:29pm On May 18, 2023 |
Because the method of practicing religion in our society is strictly to keep women beneath and at the service of men. If you didnāt know anything, youād think their version of God hates women. Thereās hardly anything relating to genuinely loving one another, bringing Godās love on to earth. Making life better for everybody. You know all the good things you imagine when you think of Gods kingdom on earth? None of them is the actual goal of many religious people today. etc Itās all about how to police and control women. Thatās why they are quick to whip out bible verses in response to situations like that but conveniently mute when the tables turn 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by Nobody: 6:35pm On May 18, 2023 |
Klass99:which women are many in heaven. The same women that are easy to possess by demons easily influenced and brainwashed by worldly principles such as and the likes. Abi you are talking about the women found on Pluto ![]() |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by cococandy(f): 6:38pm On May 18, 2023 |
Klass99: Itās because they do not believe the things they teach in churches. And the things they expect from women. Itās just the ugly truth. They are holding onto religion because they know itās a useful tool to further their misogyny but other than that, in their heart of hearts, they donāt actually believe it. They know they can use religion because the women donāt want to disobey God but why are they themselves comfortable with disobeying God as if thereās a separate set of rules that only applies to them? Itās because they donāt believe it 5 Likes |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by Kobojunkie: 6:41pm On May 18, 2023 |
cococandy:You nailed it! Absolutely nothing of it concerns or is about God as it is instead primarily focused on glorifying the agendas of men in every facet!! ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by cococandy(f): 6:42pm On May 18, 2023 |
RenegadeX: This is the second comment Iām seeing within the past hour talking about how women are easy to possess by demons etc. who came up with that? How was it measured? Smh You people have refused to acknowledge how deeply deeply hateful you are towards women and how you use every opportunity you have create anti-women spaces within your religious communities. 5 Likes |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by cococandy(f): 6:43pm On May 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: So glaring I donāt even know why itās up for discussion 4 Likes |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by Kobojunkie: 6:45pm On May 18, 2023 |
cococandy:Imagine! ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by Klass99(f): 6:53pm On May 18, 2023 |
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Re: Explain This Thing To Me by Nobody: 7:21pm On May 18, 2023 |
Most of you discussing above should go and join the convent and leave men and the women that like them like that alone. Because any small thing your husband does in marriage will be seen as trying to prove superior and subdue you in the process. Wife submit to your husbands Husband love your wives The problem with you ladies of now is that you want all the loving and pampering but when it comes to the point of fulfilling your end of the bargain which is āsubmittingā that where they start debate of men and women being equal and crazy feministic crap. While courting the man you saw everything that you think you might not be comfortable with yet you proceeded. In marriage you still submit to him whether he gambles or gets drunk. Kneel down and cry that you donāt like what he is doing and tell him the repercussions of the habits calmly. He will stop But as feminist and ladies carrying baggages, hurt and bitterness from your previous 20+ toxic relationships. You will transfer your vile and anger on the man. That is no submission. And we men hate when our ego is bruised with your vile tongues. That thing you are saying we shouldnāt do with insults and nagging instead of the calm approach we will triple down on it since una no won get sense. No matter how beastly a man is a woman can have his remote control anytime if she wise but how many you are wise these days. |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by Kobojunkie: 7:32pm On May 18, 2023 |
Klass99:Not just wives, as even single women who ought to be Iiving free and unburdened have also been brainwashed into believing God's Will for them is that they fast and pray for a man to come rule over them and bring about their completion. Churches in Nigeria are filled each week with single and married women desperately praying and fasting--- in vain by the way. That is all thanks largely to the brainwashing that is religion in Nigeria today. ![]() Again, all of these ideas have absolutely nothing to do with Jesus Christ, God and the Kingdom of God. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by Klass99(f): 8:19pm On May 18, 2023 |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by Nobody: 12:01am On May 19, 2023 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I don't hesitate to tell them maybe i will do it more often. ![]() ![]() Although I must confess directives like "pray and fast " isn't mostly from a place of religion but to pepper them ![]() ![]() ![]() True believers know how to sort out marital problems within themselves through the help of the HOLY SPIRIT who is the true guide. And all through years and centuries, God has always settled every form of problem that may arise among HIS CHILDREN. |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by Kobojunkie: 12:39am On May 19, 2023 |
Persephone1:The same God that made clear that He does not answer the prayers/pleas/cries/worries of the unrighteous; The same God that in so many words made clear that every offering, prayer, gift, "good work", even praise addressed to Him by an unrighteous is an unacceptable abomination to Him? ![]() Na wa o! Make una dey stop to dey tell these lies wey dey make God look like a glorified celestial nut case abeg! ![]() |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by Nobody: 12:46am On May 19, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:"God has always settled every form of problem that may arise among HIS CHILDREN." I intentionally capitalized 'his children ' o . Aside this even as an unbeliever if you acknowledge God and tender your case before him, He will respond. It's the grace Jesus Christ has given to all. Part of this grace is why sun shines on all individual, plant grows for all, rain falls for all and air is free. God is not wicked, nah you dey judge him from far. |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by cococandy(f): 12:47am On May 19, 2023 |
Off topic RenegadeX: 2 Likes |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by Nobody: 3:36am On May 19, 2023 |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by cococandy(f): 3:47am On May 19, 2023 |
RenegadeX: But it is off topic. The question is not whether the wife is to submit or not. is it? The question is why do men feel comfortable advising women to pray for husbands who are not adhering to their marital vows whereas they themselves donāt tolerate such behavior much less pray for such wives. In your book of definitions does submission mean that the man can misbehave and their wife has to tolerate it? Because thatās what your off topic response is implying. Learn to stay on topic 4 Likes |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by FairlyUSEDpussy: 4:34am On May 19, 2023 |
CHoccolaTE: Check this few verses first...... Proverbs 16:3. ... Romans 8:9. ... Colossians 3:2. ... Philippians 4:8-9. ... Philippians 4:5-7. ... Romans 15:13. ... Proverbs 2:6-8. ![]() |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by CHoccolaTE: 8:58am On May 19, 2023 |
RenegadeX: @bold, At the expense of your children's wellbeing? By the way, calm approach does not work with all men, some men take advantage of their wife's calmness and assume that she can't do anything apart from complain calmly. They aľso double down on their bad behavior even with calmness and submission. I have seen several cases like that in real life 1 Like |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by CHoccolaTE: 9:01am On May 19, 2023 |
FairlyUSEDpussy: I am just angry with myself for assuming you were serious and wasting my time and data to google those verses. 3 Likes |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by Klass99(f): 9:06am On May 19, 2023 |
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Re: Explain This Thing To Me by CHoccolaTE: 9:08am On May 19, 2023 |
cococandy: That's one thing I can't wrap my head around. Why are so many men hateful and full of disdain for women and anything female? Women are mostly peaceful and not violent an d problematic. We have more empathy and we are more emotionally mature and understanding. Or is there a problem in males that predisposes many of them to act like violent sociopaths towards those they perceive as lesser or weaker than them? Option B seems more likely to me. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by CHoccolaTE: 9:09am On May 19, 2023 |
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Re: Explain This Thing To Me by kkins25(m): 9:51am On May 19, 2023 |
cococandy: Genesis 3:16, Bible passage (Revised Standard Version) 16 To the woman he said, āI will greatly multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children, yet your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you.ā ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Explain This Thing To Me by Klass99(f): 11:48am On May 19, 2023 |
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Re: Explain This Thing To Me by bukatyne(f): 2:03pm On May 19, 2023 |
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Re: Explain This Thing To Me by bukatyne(f): 2:08pm On May 19, 2023 |
Klass99: Let me clap š š š š š š š š š š š š for you first, you deserve the accolades ![]() You have been searching for this thread for ages. ![]() I will go through the thread. His post is true na. Simple 1st Peter, Men are told that their prayers would not be answered if they don't treat their wives right. In Malachi 2, God said He hates divorce and went further to say men that 'betrayed' the wives of their youth I.e. discarding their marital vows and discarding the old wife for someone younger. It could be the consequences of their actions that makes some of them not to enjoy the fruit of their labour or be despised in old age. 1 Like |
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