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Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Kingosytex(m): 1:46pm On May 19, 2023 |
Maynmann: You are still mixing things up... A wife and girlfriend ain't same. Sex should be the exclusive right of the married, hence, only them should have the right to complain of infidelity. Unmarried people fornicating, yet expecting their bf/gf to be faithful doesn't just make any sense. |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Maynmann: 1:52pm On May 19, 2023 |
Kingosytex:The difference between a wife and a girlfriend is marriage certificate. Marriage certificate will not make sex exclusive between married people, people will cheat regardless of the term you call them “wife” “spouse” “fiancée” “gf”. A person that is faithful will be faithful regardless of marriage. Calling someone “wife” doesn’t mean they won’t cheat. So Married people can fornicate and expect their partners to be still faithful, do you even understand yourself? |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Maynmann: 1:58pm On May 19, 2023 |
Kingosytex:You should live in the moment and not fantasy, look around is sex exclusive right for married people? And if i catch my gf cheating I should not complain until i make the cheating gf a wife, then I should complain, is that your logic? |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by GboyegaD(m): 2:05pm On May 19, 2023 |
Maynmann: We all think and value things differently ooo. Yes, it should happen in either house and we could cook while we gist. |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Maynmann: 2:09pm On May 19, 2023 |
GboyegaD:You won’t mind if your wife is doing this for her male friendS? |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by GboyegaD(m): 2:15pm On May 19, 2023 |
Maynmann: I wouldn't because we don't have many friends and of late or friends are almost the same. That said, this is referring to those who are single and may have more friends that are single as well. It is about the discipline and value system you have which guides the kind of friends you keep. I don't roll with "silo silo" people. |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Maynmann: 2:24pm On May 19, 2023 |
GboyegaD:You wouldn’t mind “because” lol What if your wife suddenly start having NEW male friends, gisting and cooking at their homes? That’s some people reality, did you really read what the OP said? |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by GboyegaD(m): 2:37pm On May 19, 2023 |
Maynmann: She can't go cook in their homes, that is not right as it brings disrespect. The lady is OP's girlfriend and not his wife. These are two different things. |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Maynmann: 2:40pm On May 19, 2023 |
GboyegaD:It isn’t disrespecting for a gf to be cooking and gisting in her NEW male friends house? Will this act prompt anyone to marry such woman? |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Kingosytex(m): 3:14pm On May 19, 2023 |
Maynmann: Moving back in forth on a particular issue is tiresome. To me, unmarried fornicators got no right to complain of being cheated on because I don't understand how they cheat in the actual sense. Our views are different. |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Maynmann: 3:19pm On May 19, 2023 |
Kingosytex:Marriage won’t stop “unmarried fornicators” from cheating on their PARTNER. Cheaters are Cheaters irrespective if they are a “wife” or “gf” or “fiancée”. 1 Like |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by segcymoor(m): 11:22pm On May 19, 2023 |
[quote author=Evolutionlove post=123204748] Nigerian Women/Ladies left the Group Chat😂 The conditions below are the things that will ever make me to marry a Nigerian Lady. 1.She must be Rich. 2.She will be 100% responsible for the Wedding Expenses. 3.She will be responsible for the 80% of the Expenses at home and Subsequent Expenses. 4.Monthly allowance of 500k be paid into my account monthly for my Upkeep. 5.My money is my money and i can spend it how i deem fit but her money is mine and hers. 6.Vacation to any country of my choice Twice in a year and all expense will be covered by her. 7.Court wedding is a must and there will be a clause if i ever caught her cheating. I will file for divorce and 80% of all her Assets will be transferred to me.[/quote ] Who be this?? |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by okoroemeka(m): 6:41am On May 20, 2023 |
Kingsley123456:I don't think you have a valid reason to dump her,women get admirers on a daily basis,even my wife still have men chasing her talkmore of an unmarried girl,also you must know women like attention a lot and it will almost be impossible for her to bluntly tell her admirer to go to hell |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Charx122: 8:48pm On May 22, 2023 |
slawomir: Fair enough you don't understand what relationship means or when your courting a woman. Truth be told Yes you have no right but she has every right to respect the relationship not talking about the next dick to jump on.. You made your choice but if you go back to this girl or give her another chance I'm sorry your life will just be hanging by a thread. |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by GreaterFuture(m): 3:21pm On May 26, 2023 |
Ogechi98:Nigerian man Nko? |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Obarofrederick(m): 10:03am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Dexy4yah:Senior man, nobody is perfect even you is not perfect. You can't be expecting 100% nau, is she a God? 1 Like |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by benqo01(m): 12:52pm On Jun 03, 2023 |
Oyindamolah: Let us leave d introduction part for now what am concern about is her loyalty? If d guy is keeping girls around will you say same thing here? Let's be realistic for once see even if he goes ahead with the introduction she will still do same and you will still blame him for seeing d red flag and still going ahead with it See being faithful is key even if d guy done d same i will condemn it, her acts was uncalled for!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by benqo01(m): 12:54pm On Jun 03, 2023 |
Y'all saying no introduction bla bla bla u re very wrong it is highly condemnable both men and women should stop that rubbish abeg |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Oyindamolah: 4:06pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
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Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by PARADIZEPRIEST: 4:49pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Marriage is for matured minds brave and dareing,even when you have millions it is no guaranty of allaying your fears ![]() |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Lady97: 7:53am On Jun 26, 2023 |
Hello people I want to create a circle of friends…What am I saying more than friends but family…Family that have each other’s back, a family that show genuine love, affection, care, support. I know most of us crave for such. Most of us have been hurt by people will love and care about. Some of us are looking for closure…we need someone to talk to… A circle of like minds. Trust me Guys, I have a strong feeling that we can achieve this. If you are judgmental please you aren’t needed If you aren’t a born again Christian please don’t come close We will be doing a lot : Movie Night Games Talk show Heart to heart talk Hangout etc So if you are interested you can reach me on WhatsApp via 07047991156 / 07065616074 |
Re: Why I'm Scared To Get Married by Lolachef(f): 7:56am On Jun 26, 2023 |
........,............... . You never ready for marriage. Kingsley123456: |
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