| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 4:17pm On May 19, 2023 |
Truthsbitter:
Help comes to those who help themselves...
I have giving up on simps until they unsimp You are so right. Some simps can't get the help they need even when they find somebody who wants to help them with advice. They will learn in the long run by experience, hopefully. |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 6:02pm On May 19, 2023 |
zed7:
I like it when hôrny kids gather to 'educate' other hôrny kids. Nemo dat quod non habet. I thought being sexually active is very biologically normal for every healthy male person especially single guys. Some of us need to help each other in relationship aspect, having a female partner is important for most males while waiting for the right time for the proper marriage. |
| Re: Help The Simps by Dubetex96(m): 6:15pm On May 19, 2023 |
soundOsonic:
Don't play redpill shit with women, it's hard to draw the line between redpill and toxicity.
Most men will meet a girl and ask for a date, or they will carry her out and spend money.
90% of the time it doesn't work. If it works she likes you already before the date.
Meet her like the way you make friends, see each other like the way you will see your male friends.
Best way to get a girl or treat them, is to treat them like your male friends.
Don't pet them, only pet them on rare occasion and immediately revert back to your default mode.
Play with them, women are very playful.
When having conversation with them, hold their hands, shift their hair and always maintain eye contact.
Always listen to what they say, give advice and don't force it on them I use to tell them after giving advice "your big head no go allow you do wetin I talk".
When they ask you for money query them like a dad, ask them what the money is for, if it is inconsequential like hair, transport to a particular place or something stupid don't give.
Only give them money when they say they are hungry, not the one they say they want to eat a particular food, I mean like "hungry".
Give them money when they are stranded, maybe they are owing someone and he is on their neck, bail her out but be stern while bailing them out.
Carry them out without any motive of sex.
Make sure they are the one disturbing you to call them, or they always want to meet you.
Don't call them if you have nothing important to say, if at all you call them make it short and tell them you miss them.
You can invite them anytime you like, they will come, but when you make a move, and she isn't feeling it, respect that and don't ignore her still, act as if nothing happened.
She will later come close eventually.
See her as a person, no be everything be sex.
If you do this, she will be addicted to you, you don't need to date her, she can see you with other girls and be jealous, but she will not fight you but try and compete.
It will be left to you to date her or maintain this relationship.
I'm in love with this write up op u are good |
| Re: Help The Simps by Nobody: 7:56pm On May 19, 2023 |
99% of commenters on here are simps including the op. Can't help laughing skimming through the posts... Funny kids 😂😂😂 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 8:04pm On May 19, 2023 |
Runnerzz:
99% of commenters on here are simps including the op. Can't help laughing skimming through the posts... Funny kids 😂😂😂 We sincerely need somebody like you to please help us with best advice and tips. We are honestly tired of being simps. Pls, your contribution is highly needed. Pls, guide us with very good points. As the op, I'm more than happy to have somebody like you on this thread to help us with your experience and best advice. Thanks. 5 Likes |
| Re: Help The Simps by Nobody: 8:40pm On May 19, 2023 |
Helpthesimps:
We sincerely need somebody like you to please help us with best advice and tips. We are honestly tired of being simps. Pls, your contribution is highly needed. Pls, guide us with very good points. As the op, I'm more than happy to have somebody like you on this thread to help us with your experience and best advice. Thanks. Lol... A little tip is; always know the kind of relationship ur getting into with these girls. If it's FWB let it be FWB, if its an open relationship thing where u both don't mind seeing others while dating then keep it that way, if it's real girlfriend relationship with real future plans, then u know to treat her right but never worship her. Set the boundaries and stick to it no matter how sweet she may start to make u feel. Most of u guys take unserious girls seriously and then come crying foul when she's only being herself. Be reasonable in all ur dealings with them all kinds of relationships and stop trying too hard to please them . Never over spend on an FWB or fvck buddy cos ur sending the wrong signals and getting it all messed up. Keep it simple it's just sex. She doesn't need ur fancy outings and dates. If she's ur girlfriend spending on what u can is not a big deal. Take her out when u can but never make it mandatory to give and give to her it's a two way streetbe mindful of giving, she's not ur wife even if u have plans to make her one someday. Be real and know ur worth. Let ur yes be yes and ur no no. Anyone steps out of line don't hesitate to do whatever is necessary to put her back in check. In all strength, clarity, being reasonable and consistency is the key here. U don't need to be stingy or wicked to do this. Be reasonable and clear on what ur doing and with whom at all times. Take the girls as they come. Never assume she's the one until she is. Never ever doubt urself. U are the fvcking prize and if they can't see it that's her/ their loss not urs. Pls I don't subscribe to the red pill or alpha male bs. I'm just me. OG like that 8 Likes |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 10:47pm On May 19, 2023 |
Runnerzz:
Lol... A little tip is; always know the kind of relationship ur getting into with these girls. If it's FWB let it be FWB, if its an open relationship thing where u both don't mind seeing others while dating then keep it that way, if it's real girlfriend relationship with real future plans, then u know to treat her right but never worship her. Set the boundaries and stick to it no matter how sweet she may start to make u feel. Most of u guys take unserious girls seriously and then come crying foul when she's only being herself. Be reasonable in all ur dealings with them all kinds of relationships and stop trying too hard to please them . Never over spend on an FWB or fvck buddy cos ur sending the wrong signals and getting it all messed up. Keep it simple it's just sex. She doesn't need ur fancy outings and dates. If she's ur girlfriend spending on what u can is not a big deal. Take her out when u can but never make it mandatory to give and give to her it's a two way streetbe mindful of giving, she's not ur wife even if u have plans to make her one someday. Be real and know ur worth. Let ur yes be yes and ur no no. Anyone steps out of line don't hesitate to do whatever is necessary to put her back in check. In all strength, clarity, being reasonable and consistency is the key here. U don't need to be stingy or wicked to do this. Be reasonable and clear on what ur doing and with whom at all times. Take the girls as they come. Never assume she's the one until she is. Never ever doubt urself. U are the fvcking prize and if they can't see it that's her/ their loss not urs.
Pls I don't subscribe to the red pill or alpha male bs. I'm just me. OG like that This is real and straightforward helpful advice. This will be very helpful indeed. You are so appreciated. Thanks. 3 Likes |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 10:10am On May 20, 2023 |
Orbhagbemi555:
I'm loving this thread   It's an interesting thread no doubt. |
| Re: Help The Simps by KingDash09(m): 10:14am On May 20, 2023 |
All of una na simps for here I swear.. one mumu say e even collect loan for woman make she treat her mother chai 4 Likes |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 10:18am On May 20, 2023 |
KingDash09:
All of una na simps for here I swear.. one mumu say e even collect loan for woman make she treat her mother chai Please, Boss. Pls, give us more tips. We don't want to keep being simps. Your contribution is highly needed. Please, help us with best advice and your experience. Thanks. 1 Like |
| Re: Help The Simps by dontrulee: 10:46am On May 20, 2023 |
Simps.... Many simps don't even listen to advise, I think they learn more from experience. Men and women can do very stupid things when they think they've fallen in love, it's because they put themselves in a vulnerable state. Women can be very manipulative and if you're not careful as a man, they'll eat your resources. All the women I have ever had a relationship with have contributed to me more than I contribute to them, that's why they find it very difficult to leave me. If you're one liberal with your resources, woman will take advantage of you. Your money should be used for important things, the excess you've can be used for whatever you like, girls will always find mugu that'll foot their bills. Many girls know I have money but I don't spend on them, rather they give me money instead, I like that kind of Life. Have many female friends as possible but don't be the Mr. Nice guy, focus on yourself first. Whatever you do, never put yourself in a place of disadvantage! I love my freedom. Imagine your girlfriend telling you that you're free to flirt with other girls? Or she even knows that you've others and she chooses to stay? Girls are not loyal, you need to understand that. They swing branches easily and can date multiple guys at once. Their mindset is to chop and clean mouth, they want to reap where they did not sow. To be on top of your game, you've to understand the nature of a woman. Should I continue?? 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 12:22pm On May 20, 2023 |
dontrulee:
Simps.... Many simps don't even listen to advise, I think they learn more from experience. Men and women can do very stupid things when they think they've fallen in love, it's because they put themselves in a vulnerable state. Women can be very manipulative and if you're not careful as a man, they'll eat your resources. All the women I have ever had a relationship with have contributed to me more than I contribute to them, that's why they find it very difficult to leave me. If you're one liberal with your resources, woman will take advantage of you.
Your money should be used for important things, the excess you've can be used for whatever you like, girls will always find mugu that'll foot their bills. Many girls know I have money but I don't spend on them, rather they give me money instead, I like that kind of Life.
Have many female friends as possible but don't be the Mr. Nice guy, focus on yourself first. Whatever you do, never put yourself in a place of disadvantage! I love my freedom. Imagine your girlfriend telling you that you're free to flirt with other girls? Or she even knows that you've others and she chooses to stay?
Girls are not loyal, you need to understand that. They swing branches easily and can date multiple guys at once. Their mindset is to chop and clean mouth, they want to reap where they did not sow. To be on top of your game, you've to understand the nature of a woman.
Should I continue?? This is a very nice experience and smart advice for us. I love your sincere words and tips. Men, it's very important to learn from other guys o. I know there are quite a lot of smart guys who can teach many simps how to not get financially and emotionally hurt by girls. Recently, girls are so emotionally deceptive and they keep getting more clever and clever all the time. The guys who suffer the most are the toasters. Some girls just after a few days of meeting them would even start telling you on whatsapp that "they are hungry", "they are sick", or they need money to pay back thier "friend" who they "borrowed" money from or bought something from. The worst one is when a girl even told you she has a boyfriend already or she is "not ready" for a relationship but she tells you "please, can you do me a favour?" and ask you for money. Clearly, she is trying to take advantage of you to start her scamming female business on you by testing you to see if you are a simp (which is the most appropriate name for the "Mr Nice Guy" . 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 4:35pm On May 20, 2023 |
BigYash:
How will you ever find her cheating, when you don't have experiences about the way these girls roll? You talking about making $$.. There are some girls you will date ,and they will link you up .. I know of a guy wen him babe parents hold bar.. The guy car na d babe,bills o.. Currently planning to move him out of the damn country.. As a guy you need to explore to gain experience .. No go form making money,then turn mumu when it comes to gaming women o.. No be even now when girls don dey sabi deceit pass as it was before. Before you plan on sending out of your hux sef,she fit don send you go meet your ancestors. Plz guys be wise o Yes, it's true you can't be smart in something you don't have enough experience in. Only an experienced man can understand the various deception methods of women especially these days when girls are no longer like the traditional women of the past. 2 Likes |
| Re: Help The Simps by Careente7(m): 4:49pm On May 20, 2023 |
on top woman,red pill and simp,make all of una dy play.[ |
| Re: Help The Simps by BigYash: 4:51pm On May 20, 2023 |
Helpthesimps:
Yes, it's true you can't be smart in something you don't have enough experience in. Only an experienced man can understand the various deception methods of women especially these days when girls are no longer like the traditional women of the past. You are wise 1 Like |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 10:26pm On May 20, 2023 |
Careente7:
on top woman,red pill and simp,make all of una dy play.[ I believe you a smart male person. We just need your experience and advice. Your contribution is highly needed. We are waiting. It's not about red pill at all. It's about helping men to not get hurt and used. |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 10:40pm On May 20, 2023 |
BigYash:
You are wise Boss, I'm still learning o . Thanks, I really appreciate. 1 Like |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 11:32pm On May 20, 2023 |
Banilla:
They aren't against fornication, they just want free sex. 
No one says, "men avoid women cause they are evil"... It's, "how to get sex without being manipulated into paying for it"...
They are cheap, not decent... I think smart men should often share experiences and advice to help others to not get hurt and used by the opposite sex. A lot of women support one another with talks and advice and this is why they are generally way smarter at relationships. 2 Likes |
| Re: Help The Simps by BigYash: 5:23am On May 21, 2023 |
Helpthesimps:
Boss, I'm still learning o . Thanks, I really appreciate. Uwc brother.Nobody knows it all my brother.. We keep learning from experiences and that’s basically what life is all about.. But some of our gender always fail to learn from what life taught them in the past.. That’s why they will always have problems with the manipulative gender.. Happy Sunday my nigga 1 Like |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 8:02am On May 21, 2023 |
BigYash:
Uwc brother.Nobody knows it all my brother.. We keep learning from experiences and that’s basically what life is all about.. But some of our gender always fail to learn from what life taught them in the past.. That’s why they will always have problems with the manipulative gender.. Happy Sunday my nigga Happy Sunday, Boss. Enjoy your day. More blessings on our way, Sir! 1 Like |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 7:39pm On May 21, 2023 |
soundOsonic:
Don't play redpill shit with women, it's hard to draw the line between redpill and toxicity.
Most men will meet a girl and ask for a date, or they will carry her out and spend money.
90% of the time it doesn't work. If it works she likes you already before the date.
Meet her like the way you make friends, see each other like the way you will see your male friends.
Best way to get a girl or treat them, is to treat them like your male friends.
Don't pet them, only pet them on rare occasion and immediately revert back to your default mode.
Play with them, women are very playful.
When having conversation with them, hold their hands, shift their hair and always maintain eye contact.
Always listen to what they say, give advice and don't force it on them I use to tell them after giving advice "your big head no go allow you do wetin I talk".
When they ask you for money query them like a dad, ask them what the money is for, if it is inconsequential like hair, transport to a particular place or something stupid don't give.
Only give them money when they say they are hungry, not the one they say they want to eat a particular food, I mean like "hungry".
Give them money when they are stranded, maybe they are owing someone and he is on their neck, bail her out but be stern while bailing them out.
Carry them out without any motive of sex.
Make sure they are the one disturbing you to call them, or they always want to meet you.
Don't call them if you have nothing important to say, if at all you call them make it short and tell them you miss them.
You can invite them anytime you like, they will come, but when you make a move, and she isn't feeling it, respect that and don't ignore her still, act as if nothing happened.
She will later come close eventually.
See her as a person, no be everything be sex.
If you do this, she will be addicted to you, you don't need to date her, she can see you with other girls and be jealous, but she will not fight you but try and compete.
It will be left to you to date her or maintain this relationship. Very nice contribution. Highly appreciated!
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| Re: Help The Simps by LostMyZeal(m): 9:16pm On May 21, 2023 |
Helpthesimps:
I think smart men should often share experiences and advice to help others to not get hurt and used by the opposite sex. A lot of women support one another with to talks and advice and this is why they are generally way smarter at relationships. The bold is very true; men need liberation from women's claws of manipulation. However, more than anything, there's a need to enlighten men on what's obtainable at the foundation of relationships with women. Only with this can men know what mindset to have. I wish to contribute to this thread soon 2 Likes |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 11:47pm On May 21, 2023 |
LostMyZeal:
The bold is very true; men need liberation from women's claws of manipulation. However, more than anything, there's a need to enlighten men on what's obtainable at the foundation of relationships with women. Only with this can men know what mindset to have.
I wish to contribute to this thread soon Thanks for this contribution. In fact, lots of men need serious libration from these present set of women. Women watch movies a lot to gather manipulation moves against men and talk to one another a lot and teach one another tricks and emotional manipulations against their men and their toasters. For example, if your woman wants to monitor your call logs and whatsapp messages to other women, reciprocate by insisting you also want to be seeing who and who she is taking to on voice calls and whatsapp and ask her for her phone password as well because I'm very sure she put a password on her phone and this is even so bad if she is already a wife to you. She will naturally say the men are her friends. But you and I know that the first step to dating today's women is by them putting their toasters first in friendship position before the actual "mistake" of sex and dating will occur in between behind your back. I have got lots of confessions from my past girlfriends on how they all slept with some men they never "intended to sleep with" and they still slept with the same men for "another" reason whatsoever all in the name of he is "just a friend". I think men should toast more women and also simply call them "friends, as well. If not, most men will really get hurt if they get access to the girls' secrets. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 4:15pm On May 22, 2023 |
Helpthesimps:
I believe you a smart male person. We just need your experience and advice. Your contribution is highly needed. We are waiting. It's not about red pill at all. It's about helping men to not get hurt and used. So, it will be really nice for smart men to share with every other man their personal experience and best advice on how for us all the men to get the best of happiness with the woman or women we want to share our love and money with. |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 11:33pm On May 22, 2023 |
Helpthesimps:
Here is another one to discuss, guys. I have heard some men say "don't date a girl who is not employed" because of the "expenses" of maintenance or monetary demands of unemployed girls. In my view to the contrary, it's a complete mistake to date an employed lady based on that reason. The more money a girl can get for herself, the more high profile she considers herself and thereby resulting in her being ungrateful for any amount a man offers her (of course she expects her man to spend on her or else he is not "worthy of dating her" unless the money offered by the man is at least ten times her monthly income! I will explain further on this. Even some men claiming "woke" might ending up unknowingly turning themselves in as simps in this type of situation! Of course no man is completely woke when it comes affairs with women. So, keep learning from other guys on their experience and best advice. This will help you get more woke from time to time. |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 12:39am On May 24, 2023 |
Autobot05:
Or you can just focus on your life and career and make huge $$$
When you feel it's time to get married , you pick one that is quite presentable ( mentally ,physically and emotionally... don't go for poor or hungry girls too ) and marry her ( Dont take the marriage too seriously sha ) love her properly but ignore all her misbehaviors and rants ( she'll get tired whe you dont respond) anyday you find her cheating you instantly send her back to her parents .
Life nor too hard o 
Say no to fornication . Thanks for your contribution. You are highly appreciated. First, "a poor hungry girl" might actually be a decent girl. But, I think men need the necessary experience in relationships as we grow older and older. So, men can multitask by focusing on their goals and also having pleasurable relationship with a lady or ladies before choosing the best one for them for marriage. Enough experience is needed for men because these women you are coming back to after all that your "focusing on just only the career and work" are already constantly meeting and having affairs and even sex and getting the good and bad experiences all together and advice from their friends and fellow women too and will most likely treat you badly because of their sad experiences with their past smart men who "used" them for sex. If you hear of women's past relationship and sex secrets, these things will come clearer to you in future. So, you should just not focus on only "making money" first before you subsequently decide to start a relationship with ladies who will only come to your life and destroy all you have financially built for yourself since you might lack the necessary experience in relationship and affairs with the ladies who are nowadays mainly deceptive, unless you are a true religious person who will marry a true religious woman under the strict guidance and supervision of your religious institution from the dating to the proper marriage. 1 Like |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 2:11am On May 25, 2023 |
YoungLionken:
T We actually need a real contribution on the thread. |
| Re: Help The Simps by AndrewTate(m): 2:39am On May 25, 2023 |
soundOsonic:
Don't play redpill shit with women, it's hard to draw the line between redpill and toxicity.
Most men will meet a girl and ask for a date, or they will carry her out and spend money.
90% of the time it doesn't work. If it works she likes you already before the date.
Meet her like the way you make friends, see each other like the way you will see your male friends.
Best way to get a girl or treat them, is to treat them like your male friends.
Don't pet them, only pet them on rare occasion and immediately revert back to your default mode.
Play with them, women are very playful.
When having conversation with them, hold their hands, shift their hair and always maintain eye contact.
Always listen to what they say, give advice and don't force it on them I use to tell them after giving advice "your big head no go allow you do wetin I talk".
When they ask you for money query them like a dad, ask them what the money is for, if it is inconsequential like hair, transport to a particular place or something stupid don't give.
Only give them money when they say they are hungry, not the one they say they want to eat a particular food, I mean like "hungry".
Give them money when they are stranded, maybe they are owing someone and he is on their neck, bail her out but be stern while bailing them out.
Carry them out without any motive of sex.
Make sure they are the one disturbing you to call them, or they always want to meet you.
Don't call them if you have nothing important to say, if at all you call them make it short and tell them you miss them.
You can invite them anytime you like, they will come, but when you make a move, and she isn't feeling it, respect that and don't ignore her still, act as if nothing happened.
She will later come close eventually.
See her as a person, no be everything be sex.
If you do this, she will be addicted to you, you don't need to date her, she can see you with other girls and be jealous, but she will not fight you but try and compete.
It will be left to you to date her or maintain this relationship.
I wish the redpill monkeys will deflate their balloon pride and take notes from this comment... Being a reasonable human being to the opposite gender who is also a human being is refered to as "simping" in their lowly redpill dungeon. |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 3:43am On May 25, 2023 |
AndrewTate:
I wish the redpill monkeys will deflate their balloon pride and take notes from this comment...
Being a reasonable human being to the opposite gender who is also a human being is refered to as "simping" in their lowly redpill dungeon. Thanks for your contribution. It's highly appreciated. Divergent views are welcome. And you are highly appreciated. This topic is meant to help unsuspecting "nice men" (or simps) from mischievous (bad) girls or women. It's not about redpill at all. Since men are also humans and men get hurt and used too. Some men even commit suicide due to hurt and pain from bad women's deception. I think men don't get any help at all and that's very sad. Both men and women should be reasonable and responsible and no one should hurt the other by playing emotionally smart on them. We shouldn't encourage women to go ahead and play filthy games of emotions on men. Girls should be content with what they have and not financially swindle men. Men should man up and not get their pockets hurt except for a man who is happy to give them without any later regrets even if he finds out that they cheated him of his money. If a "toaster" approaches a woman and she can't give him his fantasy, she shouldn't take advantage of him and mischievously use him for her financial want. Some men and women are friends and not a "toaster" and the "toasted". People who are in friendship know what to do to sustain their friendship. This topic excludes all that. 1 Like |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 8:25pm On May 25, 2023 |
soundOsonic:
Don't play redpill shit with women, it's hard to draw the line between redpill and toxicity.
Most men will meet a girl and ask for a date, or they will carry her out and spend money.
90% of the time it doesn't work. If it works she likes you already before the date.
Meet her like the way you make friends, see each other like the way you will see your male friends.
Best way to get a girl or treat them, is to treat them like your male friends.
Don't pet them, only pet them on rare occasion and immediately revert back to your default mode.
Play with them, women are very playful.
When having conversation with them, hold their hands, shift their hair and always maintain eye contact.
Always listen to what they say, give advice and don't force it on them I use to tell them after giving advice "your big head no go allow you do wetin I talk".
When they ask you for money query them like a dad, ask them what the money is for, if it is inconsequential like hair, transport to a particular place or something stupid don't give.
Only give them money when they say they are hungry, not the one they say they want to eat a particular food, I mean like "hungry".
Give them money when they are stranded, maybe they are owing someone and he is on their neck, bail her out but be stern while bailing them out.
Carry them out without any motive of sex.
Make sure they are the one disturbing you to call them, or they always want to meet you.
Don't call them if you have nothing important to say, if at all you call them make it short and tell them you miss them.
You can invite them anytime you like, they will come, but when you make a move, and she isn't feeling it, respect that and don't ignore her still, act as if nothing happened.
She will later come close eventually.
See her as a person, no be everything be sex.
If you do this, she will be addicted to you, you don't need to date her, she can see you with other girls and be jealous, but she will not fight you but try and compete.
It will be left to you to date her or maintain this relationship.
Well said! |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 1:35am On May 27, 2023 |
KingDash09:
All of una na simps for here I swear.. one mumu say e even collect loan for woman make she treat her mother chai lol ... Funny 🤣 |
| Re: Help The Simps by Helpthesimps: 1:52pm On May 28, 2023 |
Autobot05:
Once you observe one kain awkward moment or behavior na .
Me nor depend on any woman to help me financially abeg . She'll always make you feel indebted to her.
You didn't read the part where I said "instantly"
I'm a soft guy abeg ... I nor like wahala Thoughtful ... [/color][color=#000099] |
