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Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by bitingcool: 9:28am On May 26, 2023 |
the funny thing is how no one had called this married man a brostitute for checking the power of his rod with other woman.. I can imagine a woman saying his exact words, "Very worryingly for me, I decided to check myself with other men and dear readers, I achieved greater wetness and orgasm and no fail moment. That was my first shock." The whole feminine foundation would have been destroyed with insults from same people glorifying his virility. Oga, if you like marry 50 more women, as long as mentally, na outside food dey hungry you, your Rambo go dey weak during action time. REMOVE YOUR MIND FROM STOLEN WATERS.. LET YOUR BODY ANTICIPATE MEETING YOUR WIFE. rewire your mind. imagine all d sexual things with her face doing it not some public girl. Start making love to her b4 u see her, bring our the romantic in her, sext, send her nudes, bring her out of her conservative zone, talk raw with her, do kinky stuff so that when both of you meet, your antenna go don collect enough transmission to stand and deliver in its right environment. Most importantly, be prayerful. Not everything is clear eye. This issue, u don dey talk divorce. who told you it won't repeat itself if you marry 60 times. better add hot prayer join. ko ma lo bulaba. You have been advised. 3 Likes |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by delvinho: 9:28am On May 26, 2023 |
Samantha124: First, a man doesn't cheat. Read your Bible if you are a Christian. No where does it say a man cheats. Two, that isn't the response for this issue. Learn to use your upper when attending to very delicate adult issues instead of using your yeye emotions. |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by CoolNL: 9:33am On May 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Something is not right in your brain 🧠 you will leave the topic and start attacking the character, comment on the topic and stop being an ass*ole |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by HaneefahRN(f): 9:36am On May 26, 2023 |
Let the poor woman go and go and marry those ones bugging you up and down for sex. Keep deceiving yourself and being in denial that you have erectile dysfunction which needs to be sorted for this marriage to work. I am sure you don't want her to start trying her 'tight' body with other men to see if they can keep erections with her. You can start from seeing a Dr, a urologist preferably so they can find out what the cause really is, could be related to your hypertension , avoid Viagra if you love your self |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Nobody: 9:42am On May 26, 2023 |
To hell with the Bible, you guys only use it when it suits you, yet you don't live any holy lives. Where in the Bible does it states that it's okay for a man to fornicate? I'm also an adult and you can't come here and tell me how to address issues. delvinho: |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by SEALL(m): 9:45am On May 26, 2023 |
Will be straight to the point, My best advice is to re-date your wife. Yes, Re-date her By re-dating her, i you will have to do all those things that guys do when u are into a girl, let your love brew anew and in the course of an outing, if u guys felt like making love do (if u have a car probably or if u have a corner that you can use, reason been that it will help you to yearn for your wife again) and also let me add this, try to have sex at anywhere at any time and with numerous sex positions. But Note: When you start the re-dating thing, DONT do IT with the MINDSET of SEX or base on trying to reinvigorate your SEXUALLY attraction between your wife but base on knowng and enjoying your wife's company. you will thank me later. 2 Likes |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Nobody: 9:46am On May 26, 2023 |
Where am I forcing it? And how am I forcing a fully grown man to make a decision about his marriage? Am I holding a gun to the op's head and forcing it? Suspect33: |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Nobody: 9:48am On May 26, 2023 |
So it's best for him to keep cheating on his wife and probably bring baby mamas and STDs into the marriage? Would you stay in a marriage whereby your wife is sleeping with other men because she's no longer sexually attracted to you? Strap: |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Suspect33(m): 9:49am On May 26, 2023 |
Samantha124:Stop trying to deflect, you know what I'm talking about, you're projecting "hopelessness" 1 Like |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Nobody: 9:51am On May 26, 2023 |
I don't know what you're talking about, so back off. Suspect33: |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Erastuslove: 9:54am On May 26, 2023 |
Bros let me answer you straight without mincing words.... When you love your wife, the erection will come natural to have sex, but a time will come when your beautiful wife start to resist your attempt for sex with her by giving excuses, that will force you to work on your libido mentally to calm down waiting for when she will be ready and that time you wont be ready again... your mind is already off...... As this continues, your body and mind build up resistance for her and that will result to KILLING YOUR LIBIDO for her...... try it with a stranger and you will be A HORSE but for her ZEROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..... she has to start loving you again AND INVITING YOU FOR SEX IF NOT THATS BYE BYE.... ITS A MENTAL RESISTANCE WORK CAUSED BY NAGGING WIVES.. 1 Like |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Bombolistic: 9:54am On May 26, 2023 |
You should try staying together to improve your attractiveness towards her. If other women are servicing you more than your wife then there's that tendencies you loose interest in her. 1 Like |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by detectivejones: 9:57am On May 26, 2023 |
Its all in your mind somewhere in your subconcious mind its been registered and that is where the problem is talk positively to yourself and let go of anxiety believe her stamina can march your own as a lion and everything will go well 1 Like |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by blaise26abj(m): 10:02am On May 26, 2023 |
Mokole2023: Actions have consequences . It can have negative life-long effect on people around you . If you come clean or not it is between you and your creator . People do worse things is not an excuse for bad behaviour . Let me address the issue . It is very simple . STOP sleeping around and focus on your wife . Asking for separation is you granting yourself excuse for further escapades . Work to be in the same location and bond with her . 1 Like |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by tellwisdom: 10:09am On May 26, 2023 |
Idiot, see how he de grace fornication. Anu mpam 1 Like |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by patomalabosan(m): 10:47am On May 26, 2023 |
You'll continue to battle this issue as long as you continue to compare your wife with your "alternative options" The moment you come to terms with the fact that your wife is the only woman you're legitimately allowed to have and no other alternative options, and work on your mind in this regard, you'll be fine. Marry another woman and continue in this your delusional sexual-mental habit, it's just a matter of time, you'll come back to this same issue because your mind is your problem - it's a psychological issue. Get your mind to understand that there are no other options - only your wife, and you will be alright. Remember, there is no space for adulterers like you in heaven! All the best. 1 Like |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by mrblessed(m): 10:49am On May 26, 2023 |
Even if you marry another woman, na the same to happen. It's in your mind. |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by pholu88(f): 10:50am On May 26, 2023 |
Buy sex sweetner for her I think nk |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by balingaonline(m): 11:03am On May 26, 2023 |
Going to other women will worsen the situation, train your heart and body to know that this woman is the only one, stop overthinking, be eating the food that will increase your libido and use natural drug don't use tablet. You will thank God 3 Likes |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by djon78(m): 11:25am On May 26, 2023 |
Mordecai: Allah that moniker dey turn belle Everything about am irritates to the core |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by YelloweWest: 11:31am On May 26, 2023 |
Mokole2023:Until you see your wife with another man, that is when you will get your senses back. You boys are not ready for the commitment call marriage, why not stay single?? How would you feel if your wife decides to test if she's sexually appealing to other men? 1 Like |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by YelloweWest: 11:33am On May 26, 2023 |
Samantha124: As harsh as hou sound, this maybe the only cure to his stupidity. He is a boy not mature enough for marriage |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by djon78(m): 12:09pm On May 26, 2023 |
JaskanFactor: Hmmm another angle Nothing person no go see for this forum One thing I like about this forum is sharing of ideas here is top notch |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by djon78(m): 12:11pm On May 26, 2023 |
Suspect33: I like as you people are talking sense into that thing If she will have sense and keep quiet It's becoming irritating |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by djon78(m): 12:13pm On May 26, 2023 |
negga4al: Very sound advice 1 Like |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by drnoel: 12:16pm On May 26, 2023 |
LLSAINT: Best answer here nothing more to add. This poster said it all. Work on yourself and mindset first, then don't entertain other sexual partners. That's the only way to enjoy sex in marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Suspect33(m): 12:23pm On May 26, 2023 |
djon78:no mind the werey, I know her kind. Bitter women that want to recruit happily married women into their coven of bitterness |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by djon78(m): 12:38pm On May 26, 2023 |
Erastuslove: You see nagging wife issue Your woman go nag you sotey you begin to detest her And from what I am seeing and most of people say. It affects the mind!! The human mind is very powerful |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by todugo(m): 1:02pm On May 26, 2023 |
Mokole2023:Maybe your arousal is based on your sexual fantasy which turns u on. No fantasy no arousal |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by giftiy(m): 1:31pm On May 26, 2023 |
Mokole2023:You are very ok since up have confirmed that with other ladies you can perform. Your wife need to be more romantic, dress sexy when shes with you. she should put on some ashawo vibes when shes with you since thats what makes you perform. most times what we see is what arouses us. You can't be attracted to your wife if she keep putting on wrapper na.😁 Have a discussion with her and tell her what you want. once in a while take her to a hotel for short time believe me,the feelings will come back 1 Like |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Kobojunkie: 1:31pm On May 26, 2023 |
Mokole2023:Oh, I forgot to include professional marriage counseling should she, after hearing the whole truth decide to stay in the marriage. Please, look closely at what you have now. It isn't a marriage at all but a sham you are even seeking to power using such things as viagra and aphrodisiacs none of them able to overcome the human mind. Which kain marriage be that? And all this only a year in. E never dey tire already, I mean all this stress? |
Re: Worried About My 1year Marriage! by Melst: 1:35pm On May 26, 2023 |
You have to address the root cause. I have noticed that women are better at handling stress and certain crises than men. When I say root cause, not of the sexual inadequacies but of the high blood pressure. Because it's that same issue that is translating to your sex life. It's not every man that will lose millions this minute and have the urge for sex the next. Some people are emotionally mature enough to separate various aspects of their lives but others can't. So failure in one aspect, or perceived failure in one aspect affects other areas of their lives. I wouldn't say you not being sexually attracted to her or not loving her is a problem because from your story, you are sleeping around. So it's not like you are that kind of man that needs to love a woman or have a certain attraction for her before having sex with her. My advice, sort the root cause or try to separate it from your sex life with your wife. And you need to stop having sex with those ladies because they will only make things worse especially if you have a conscience. Because I don't know how your stuff will have the decency of going up after cheating on a woman you swore before God and man to honor and respect. A woman that has done nothing to you but love you. A decent woman. You need total reconfiguration. Your mindset, your values and morals. There's a gap. You don't in your attempt to solve a problem, add to it and hurt someone in the process. Except of course, you have chosen to be like these married randy men that have no regards nor respect for that institution. |
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