@Hathor5

No, she will marry several men and they still will be taking care of her financially. I think that`s better. ;


@me
Whichever way you want the woman to win. What happened to "what a man can do a woman can also do" You want equal right but not equal responsibility.

You are free do whatever you wish is your fucking life. Go and marry twenty men, sex starve woman but claiming feminism

Hathor5:


I will go into exile if I must.

Hathor5:


No, she will marry several men and they still will be taking care of her financially. I think that`s better.

I don't even agree that a man should take care of financial needs of a healthy woman in a monogamous setting let alone in a polyandrous one.

Both genders should work and take care of their personal needs. If children are involved, then both parents should contribute to their upkeeps. That's the trend in modern feminism.

Hathor5:


Really? I was surprised when I stumbled upon it.

The truth is everyone gets tired of having the same experiences after a while. The lustre wears off and it gets old, naturally there's a craving for some excitement again.

The difference is with men, séx is almost meaningless. We can sleep with a woman we despise if she's pretty or sexy enough, eg, many men don't like Toke Makinwa but they would have raging hard ons for her and bang her senseless.
On the other hand, with women there's generally a high level of emotionality and sentimentality involved which can spell doom for any relationship she's in. Mostly only damaged women who can no longer pair bond have meaningless séx.

Abeg hand done dey pain me. Make I stop here

Jman06:
I don't even agree that a man should take care of financial needs of a healthy woman in a monogamous setting let alone in a polyandrous one.

Both genders should work and take care of their personal needs. If children are involved, then both parents should contribute to their upkeeps. That's the trend in modern feminism.

Smh. No amount of idealism will dissuade women from wanting to be taken care of by their men. Know this and know peace

talented321:
You are free do whatever you wish is your fucking life. Go and marry twenty men, sex starve woman but claiming feminism

Lol. Don't take it personally my G. Una dey share toto?

Belafonte:


Smh. No amount of idealism will dissuade women from wanting to be taken care of by their men. Know this and know peace

So, men don't want to be taken care of too?

According to feminists, men and women are equal. If that is the case, then women should stop seeing men as being responsible for taking care of them. If my woman cannot spend her own money on me, then she should not expect me to spend mine on her.

I don't blame you ladies sha, I blame some stupid and thirsty men who spend money carelessly on women just to get laid. Such men disgust me! Immediately I discover that a guy is in that category that see women as some kind of trophy that should be won by spending on them, I lose respect for such men and cut all ties with them.

Jman06:
So, men don't want to be taken care of too?

According to feminists, men and women are equal. If that is the case, then women should stop seeing men as being responsible for taking care of them. If my woman cannot spend her own money on me, then she should not expect me to spend mine on her.

I don't blame you ladies sha, I blame some stupid and thirsty men who spend money carelessly on women just to get laid. Such men disgust me! Immediately I discover that a guy is in that category that see women as some kind of trophy that should be won by spending on them, I lose respect for such men and cut all ties with them.

I think you're confusing yourself here. Feminists and normal women are quite different so it's quite unhelpful to conflate both kinds of women. You shouldn't punish normal women for the perceived crimes of their abnormal look alike

Having said that, men and women naturally and generally crave and appreciate totally different kinds of affection (love languages if you will). A normal woman would appreciate you providing for her and strive to give you value in ways you'd appreciate as a man. I may be wrong but as a man, I doubt you're interested in a woman spending her money on you to show you care, if I am wrong then you'd be an outlier.

My advice would be for you to find a woman that is sane and doesn't have feministic tendencies ✌️

Belafonte:


I think you're confusing yourself here. Feminists and normal women are quite different so it's quite unhelpful to conflate both kinds of women. You shouldn't punish normal women for the perceived crimes of their abnormal look alike

Having said that, men and women naturally and generally crave and appreciate totally different kinds of affection (love languages if you will). A normal woman would appreciate you providing for her and strive to give you value in ways you'd appreciate as a man. I may be wrong but as a man, I doubt you're interested in a woman spending her money on you to show you care, if I am wrong then you'd be an outlier.

My advice would be for you to find a woman that is sane and doesn't have feministic tendencies ✌️

Where you are getting it wrong is thinking that there are women who're exceptions in the feminism ideology. Although some of them may be more outspoken about feminism, that doesn't mean that the rest don't like the idea. They're just good at pretending to be against feminism. When you place them in an environment that encourage feminism, the demons in them come out.

We've heard stories of supposedly traditional Nigerian ladies who changed and became feminazis once they were taken abroad by their Nigerian husbands. Some even threw their husbands out of his house.

So, in order not to be taken unawares, I have resolved to accept feminism as a norm. However, I have also resolved never to accord any woman any special treatments or see them as my responsibility to care for. And yes, I'll be very okay with and accept the idea of my woman spending her money on me. In fact, that would be the only condition under which I can spend my money on my woman ie if she equally spends hers on me.

Jman06:
Where you are getting it wrong is thinking that there are women who're exceptions in the feminism ideology. Although some of them may be more outspoken about feminism, that doesn't mean that the rest don't like the idea. They're just good at pretending to be against feminism. When you place them in an environment that encourage feminism, the demons in them come out.

We've heard stories of supposedly traditional Nigerian ladies who changed and became feminazis once they were taken abroad by their Nigerian husbands. Some even threw their husbands out of his house.

So, in order not to be taken unawares, I have resolved to accept feminism as a norm. However, I have also resolved never to accord any woman any special treatments or see them as my responsibility to care for. And yes, I'll be very okay with and accept the idea of my woman spending her money on me. In fact, that would be the only condition under which I can spend my money on my woman ie if she equally spends hers on me.

Lol you're so desperate to be a victim. I'm so sorry for you.

I have met women who detest the feministic ideology and these aren't women who have any interest in me romantically. I have met good women, I'm currently with one. The bible says he that finds a wife has found a good thing, however to find good things tpu have to open up yourself to attract them.

If you think only witches exist, I promise you the universe will furnish you with a confam werey.

Now with regard to unfortunate switches by Nigerian women in the west, I hope you know there are also thriving marriages in that same west. No go dey zuzu. You get what you attract

If you decide to cultivate a negative mindset, your results will only be negative

Belafonte:


Lol you're so desperate to be a victim. I'm so sorry for you.

I have met women who detest the feministic ideology and these aren't women who have no interest in me romantically. I have met good women, I'm currently with one. The bible says he that finds a wife has found a good thing, however to find good things tpu have to open up yourself to attract them.

If you think only witches exist, I promise you the universe will furnish you with a confam werey.

Now with regard to unfortunate switches by Nigerian women in the west, I hope you know there are also thriving marriages in that same west. No go dey zuzu. You get what you attract

If you decide to cultivate a negative mindset, your results will only be negative

Abegi. I want you to know that I did not just arrive at my believe about women without a proper observation. As a matter of fact, an average woman does not care about the well-being of a man. They're only concerned about what they can gain from the man. When it comes to relationship with men, women are extremely selfish! That is why I encourage men to always endeavor to protect their interests first when dealing with women.

Belafonte:


Lol. Don't take it personally my G. Una dey share toto?

you funny sha, i just dey imagine wetin a growm up woman dey think

Jman06:
Abegi. I want you to know that I did not just arrive at my believe about women without a proper observation. As a matter of fact, an average woman does not care about the well-being of a man. They're only concerned about what they can gain from the man. When it comes to relationship with men, women are extremely selfish! That is why I encourage men to always endeavor to protect their interests first when dealing with women.

I agree women are selfish when dealing with men, but that's just life. Deal with it

Son of man, don't hate the player, in fact don't even hate the game; play the game. Protecting your interests as a man means you're playing the game. A wise man understands the nature and proclivities of women and guides his dealings with them accordingly

talented321:
you funny sha, i just dey imagine wetin a growm up woman dey think

My sister na so we see am

Belafonte:

My sister na so we see am

i am a man not woman, my manchi

Belafonte:


The truth is everyone gets tired of having the same experiences after a while. The lustre wears off and it gets old, naturally there's a craving for some excitement again.

The difference is with men, séx is almost meaningless. We can sleep with a woman we despise if she's pretty or sexy enough, eg, many men don't like Toke Makinwa but they would have raging hard ons for her and bang her senseless.
On the other hand, with women there's generally a high level of emotionality and sentimentality involved which can spell doom for any relationship she's in. Mostly only damaged women who can no longer pair bond have meaningless séx.

Abeg hand done dey pain me. Make I stop here

Won da fu!😆😆😆😆

talented321:
i am a man not woman, my manchi

My broda then 👍

izonborn098:
why calling me Hypocrite, to your question, in nigeria a man can marry more than one woman it has being in existence before u were born, i dont mind my daughter been polgamy marriage if she is happy with the union i am fine, but i will disown my son for marrying one woman with another man because it is taboo and he doest not know his self worth and i dont even want my son to marry a single mom too.

People like you learn poorly.

What the thread is simply trying to prove is that the practice of female monogamy is cultural and not necessarily natural for women. Women go against their natural instincts to hold themselves to it.

izonborn098:
pls just tell the truth, will you allow your son to do that as a responsible mother u are, marrying one woman with different men. I need your sincere answer pls

You are making the other poster's point which is that what we have today is a result of social engineering and not nature.

You just brought out an article. Put it in context. How many of those relationships stood the test of time? Almost none! Why? Women are not built like that.
A woman’s innate aim for a companion is security and provision. Societal constructs exist, but not sustainable.

We aren’t operating on should, could and would scenarios. Reality favors a man having multiple women. Not the same for women.

Have multiple partners and see how your own friends will call you a hoe

I'm looking to write a more technical article on this. But I am targeting it for twitter.

Vision101:
@Hathor5

No, she will marry several men and they still will be taking care of her financially. I think that`s better. ;


@me
Whichever way you want the woman to win. What happened to "what a man can do a woman can also do" You want equal right but not equal responsibility.

You got it all wrong. What a man can, do a woman can do better.

More rights, no responsibilities.

talented321:
You are free do whatever you wish is your fucking life. Go and marry twenty men, sex starve woman but claiming feminism

No need to be angry. Life is too short.

Jman06:
I don't even agree that a man should take care of financial needs of a healthy woman in a monogamous setting let alone in a polyandrous one.

Both genders should work and take care of their personal needs. If children are involved, then both parents should contribute to their upkeeps. That's the trend in modern feminism.

Whatever works for you, go for it.

Belafonte:


The truth is everyone gets tired of having the same experiences after a while. The lustre wears off and it gets old, naturally there's a craving for some excitement again.

The difference is with men, séx is almost meaningless. We can sleep with a woman we despise if she's pretty or sexy enough, eg, many men don't like Toke Makinwa but they would have raging hard ons for her and bang her senseless.
On the other hand, with women there's generally a high level of emotionality and sentimentality involved which can spell doom for any relationship she's in. Mostly only damaged women who can no longer pair bond have meaningless séx.

Abeg hand done dey pain me. Make I stop here

bold
According to the article women get tired faster.

wagzy37:
You just brought out an article. Put it in context. How many of those relationships stood the test of time? Almost none! Why? Women are not built like that.
A woman’s innate aim for a companion is security and provision. Societal constructs exist, but not sustainable.

We aren’t operating on should, could and would scenarios. Reality favors a man having multiple women. Not the same for women.

Have multiple partners and see how your own friends will call you a hoe

Research contradicts your opinion and you may not like it but it is what it is, research.

Hathor5:


bold
According to the article women get tired faster.

From experience I'd say quite the opposite. Ever heard of post nut clarity?

We don't even get tired, as soon as we but we men would naturally say bye bye . Na society make us dey form responsible men.

One think I've observe with surveys is that people seldom answer them with facts, especially these types for some weird reason

Belafonte:


From experience I'd say quite the opposite. Ever heard of post nut clarity?

We don't even get tired, as soon as we but we men would naturally say bye bye . Na society make us dey form responsible men.

One think I've observe with surveys is that people seldom answer them with facts, especially these types for some weird reason

Experience and personal observations vs. research.

wagzy37:
You just brought out an article. Put it in context. How many of those relationships stood the test of time? Almost none! Why? Women are not built like that.
A woman’s innate aim for a companion is security and provision. Societal constructs exist, but not sustainable.

We aren’t operating on should, could and would scenarios. Reality favors a man having multiple women. Not the same for women

Have multiple partners and see how your own friends will call you a hoe

You feel you know women better than women themselves?

Belafonte:


From experience I'd say quite the opposite. Ever heard of post nut clarity?

We don't even get tired, as soon as we but we men would naturally say bye bye . Na society make us dey form responsible men.

One think I've observe with surveys is that people seldom answer them with facts, especially these types for some weird reason

Always-on clarity (before, during and post nut) beats the bolded. And that's what women have.

Escapist:


Always-on clarity (before, during and post nut) beats the bolded. And that's what women have.

Always on clarity? I might actually believe this because women are major schemers and I know you guys weaponise sèx. I might be inclined to agree