madridguy:
The man should first take the children for DNA first.

madridguy:
The man should first take the children for DNA first.

Emaprince:
I'm yet to see a woman here who have condemned the woman for trying to ruin another woman's marriage.

None of you would accept it if your hubby is the sugar daddy. Cos you can't tell me the man doesn't have his own family as well.

frozen70:


In as much as I dont support what she is doing, I can't judge her because the story said that her husband doesn't provide for them but rocks out, they go hungry some days but am sure he eats while his family goes hungry

So she has no option left but to have a sugar daddy who cares for them and provide for them to feed

Well if the husband can't stand it, let him find his way out of the relationship

Hunger is not something to play with

A man who doesn't do his work, another man will do it for him

Newborn27:



This your generalization is alarming.


Your mentality about women depends on the circle of women around you and in your life .... moreso you never took your time to read all the comments above.


I'm a living proof of being faithful despite the hurdles of life....I decided not to be cheating not because of being tagged holier than thou...but because it's against my personal ethics...what if I'm created as a male....won't I provide for my home?


I pay my bills by myself....my house rent..my school fees...my kids school fees...daily upkeep and feeding all alone... it's been years I'm doing it faithfully and diligently....one thing I've learnt so far is.....the kid's happiness always serves as a source of provisions and multiply the little income I earn.



Despite all this.... your glorified gender never appreciated it yet...he left us all for his selfish interests.....life moves on irrespective of his presence.


So shun your generalization.. please.

madridguy:
The man should first take the children for DNA first.

frozen70:


You have quickly condemned her for going extra miles to feed a foolish man's children while he is still alive

Why not crucify him for starving his family yet rock his world to the detriment of his family

What makes you different from him

Ishilove:

Is there any reason to justify a man cheating in marriage?

Emmanuel909090:
When you see an unproductive woman avoid her in every means necessary, so if the man was late ashawo is her only source of income,?

I really don't know how we got here, failed society.

advanceDNA:


Are u women allergic to making ur own money? Any small thing.. will say you have no choice but to cheat, go into prostitution etc.

.the way out almost always involve spreading legs for men(tagging it no choice)

Ballotelle:
What if the husband dies, is this what she would do ?

Honestfrend:


Keep kwayet must your become a prostitute to become a provider?

What will then happen wen the man dies?

Honestfrend:


God forbid if your man was late; ashawo will be your only source of income,?

pocohantas:
Instead of killing the kind sugar daddy, he should divorce his wife and continue with his life. You can be a terrible husband, but do not be a terrible father. Most women wouldn't forgive you for the latter. No matter how irresponsible you want to be as a man, have a soft spot for your kids.

Painfully they spend outside on small small girls, but stress life out of the wife at home.

Kobojunkie:
My advice to you, Mr. Third-party is that you mind your own business and leave them to sort themselves out as they will. According to your story, the man himself has/had himself his own handwork outside of his marriage, so wetin you wan judge? The woman did what she did and fed her family, probably her husband as well, so wetin you wan talk?

Ishilove:

Is there any reason to justify a man cheating in marriage?

Samcent:


Guy the matter tire me...

The husband has failed in his responsibility, the only option left for the woman is to start sleeping with another woman's husband so as to survive.

And nobody seems to be concerned about the wife and children of the sugar daddy; whom as far as I am concerned are the real victims here.

...make we just dey play...

MilitantAtheist:
I didn't generalize. There must surely be the exceptional great women like you, all can't be scumbags. However don't insult the women in my life, my mom is a great business woman well known for her business despite my dad's wealth and Noble personality he acknowledged my mom as his back bone. For my female siblings, they're both doing well and married and both working because they're well raised, for the women I've dated I've met many of the cheap ones but I've also been lucky to date a beautiful, good heart, caring disciplined, loyal, loving working class lady but I lost the relationship with her because of my pompous behavior and little arrogance, tried getting her back to no avail. So from my experience I can't generalize promiscuity in women, I didn't generalize. You also shouldn't insult women in my life for no reason. I pray God grant you more strength, grace and wisdom to carry on with your children and may you reap the gains of work.

Emmanuel909090:
When you see an unproductive woman avoid her in every means necessary, so if the man was late ashawo is her only source of income,?

I really don't know how we got here, failed society.

Dancebreaker:

How can they condemn what they can relate to?

We men are still too naïve. Men believe their lovely wife is way above cheating because she is religious and all that.
Look many are being knacked by mechanic, security guard, family driver, etc.

In 9ja, only a very tiny percentage of women marry a man they love. It's mostly about not becoming evening newspaper, marrying a guy who is ready, a guy who can provide economically, how to escape poverty, pressure from parents to marry, etc. Love ain't got nothing to do with it.

Since most are not in love with their hubby, their heart is vacant. Fear of being caught cheating is the only restraining factor for women.

If they can cover their tracks well, which they often do far better than men, nothing stops most of them.

There are more men in love with their wives than the reverse. After all the guy sought her out from among many other women and proposed. Even if you discount for mere infatuation or beauty of the woman as motivating factor, more men will still have proposed out of true feelings.

Whereas, over 95% of our women cannot seek out the man they truly want to marry.

Emaprince:
We aren't crying. We are just surprised that you women are coming out openly to support a married woman doing hook up. This is an innate character which most of you have denied. But here the truth is laid bare.

Lot of you are closet hook up girls who won't waste no time to delve into hook up if things goes south.

Tomorrow, you will claim you are equal to men. But work, you say na hook up...because you think it is paining men. Lol

isabi2lof:


It's not as if we're supporting infedility or hook up things , you guys don't appreciate a good lady or a good wife ,you prefer spending heavily on hook up girls , where by making the those girls to throw insults at their wife faces .

The bottom line is that , you men can't take half of what you dish out to we women.

You guys make it look as if there's no gain being a virtuous woman in this world again.

MrFly:
i'm refering to a professional in hook-up and sugar daddyism like u.

Genesiis:
All these cooked up nairaland stories

frozen70:


In as much as I dont support what she is doing, I can't judge her because the story said that her husband doesn't provide for them but rocks out, they go hungry some days but am sure he eats while his family goes hungry

So she has no option left but to have a sugar daddy who cares for them and provide for them to feed

Well if the husband can't stand it, let him find his way out of the relationship

Hunger is not something to play with

A man who doesn't do his work, another man will do it for him

Chinny024:


What about your gender that's as stupid as dirty handkerchief who brought kids he knows vividly there's no source of support to train the kids..
Face ur gender and leave her alone...