slawomir:
Damnnn niggar


What is wrong is wrong

Dating a sugar daddy is absolutely wrong
What happened to huzzling yourself to feed the children then later look for the family of the man and report especially the person way he husband dey fear pass


All I see here are two wayward people coming together as husband and wife right from onset

7upnigeria:


Staying away from cheating is about the dignity and value you place on yourself and by extension your husband. There are so many women who are separated, widowed who are not sleeping around because they place so much value on themselves. ONE THING IS SURE, the woman has been a hoe all this while. The husband not providing for her is just an excuse to resume her JOB.
The husband's irresponsible behaviour is something very different from her actions and should be handled differently.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar


What is wrong is wrong

Dating a sugar daddy is absolutely wrong
What happened to huzzling yourself to feed the children then later look for the family of the man and report especially the person way he husband dey fear pass


All I see here are two wayward people coming together as husband and wife right from onset

joyandfaith:


Are u sure the children belong to the husband? He should have divorced the man instead of messing around. Women should learn to provide for themselves and their kids.

MilitantAtheist:
From all the comments of the females so far in this thread one can confidently say most Nigerian girls or women are cheap prostitutes and scums whether married or not. You can fhuck any of them with little money or manipulation, that's why pastors have free access to Nigeria women pussy any day any time. Out of every 100 group of Nigeria girls pastors has fhucked 99 or fhuckd all. All are prostitutes, I pity fools that marry these cheap scums. Read their comments on this thread, not even 1 condemns their fellow prostitute

lomprico:


Gbam!

Dainy1:
This dude was missbehaving and not providing for his family, accordingly to the wife, some days, they goes hungry why the guy spend time outside not minding what's happening at home to the kids. So, instead of sourcing a means to survive, the woman decided to have a sugar daddy who is now providing for her and her kids.
The man is heartbroken and threatening to kill the sugar daddy.

Is there any reason to justify a woman cheating in marriage?
Is the sugar daddy the main target here?
What will you advise in this situation?

Dainy1:
This dude was missbehaving and not providing for his family, accordingly to the wife, some days, they goes hungry why the guy spend time outside not minding what's happening at home to the kids. So, instead of sourcing a means to survive, the woman decided to have a sugar daddy who is now providing for her and her kids.
The man is heartbroken and threatening to kill the sugar daddy.

Is there any reason to justify a woman cheating in marriage?
Is the sugar daddy the main target here?
What will you advise in this situation?

alobright17:


The cheating started way before the lady is just using the lies to cover up, it’ll shock you when the husband open up his own side of the story.

Is like a lady never fabricated a lie that shock you before , they’re manipulators.


So if the sugar daddy is no more the lady will find another sugar daddy? She can’t start any business? Is sugar daddy a work ?

Emaprince:


My only surprise in this thread is the fact that they came out openly to support a married woman doing transactional sex.

isabi2lof:


Look at them wailing, same men that goes out sleeping with prostitutes leaving their children to die of hunger .

When a man cheats on his wife , he's tagged as an alfamail according to Nigeria standard but if a woman does the same , she's tagged as a prostitute .

Hyprocrites everywhere, they can't take half of what they dished out to women.

Most of them are looking for women that will take care of their responsibilities whilst womanizing at the same time.

They should allow women to breath.

Emmanuel909090:
When you see an unproductive woman avoid her by every means possible, so if the man was late ashawo is her only source of income,?

I really don't know how we got here, failed society.

Emaprince:
You are right...and our men are too naive and believe in their wives. Lol.

However, if you follow my post history, you will see that I ha e always preached against falling in love in this part of the world. Our women doesn't love any man. They are just pretenders. Our men tend to believe that once a woman marries, she will stop sleeping around. They trust their wives so much which is why most of them get heart attack when reality hits them.

My only surprise in this thread is the fact that they came out openly to support a married woman doing transactional sex.

I have always known that women in Niaja are mostly closet runs girls. Including most of the working class ones. They run suger daddy paroles to augment their earnings. This is why in a workplace, females will be shinning and using the latest gadgets, while their male counterparts are managing their salary. Look at banks for example. See the ladies living lives that their salaries can't afford. Look at the movie industry etc etc.

To think that they carry it into their marriage and come out openly to support it have sealed it for me.

I have always said it here that, it is only a man that wants to be doomed will trust any woman or Fall in love in this country.

00FFT00:


A woman who doesn't do her work, another woman will do it for her?

Beremx:
my sister I wonder o! A man can cheat but woman can't

Originalsly:


Where in the thread does it say they have transactional sex? We too love to jump to conclusion and build on it as though it is a fact. Can't we work with the information provided? She has a sugar daddy... we don't know if he's 99 years old ... but know he's having sex with her. We don't know if he's abroad ... a foreigner... an online sugar daddy ... but we know he's having sex with her. We don't know if it's a celebrity or just a charitable person providing for her ... but we know she's involved in transactional sex. We need to stop jumping to conclusions.

lopjohnny:


You were making sense until you said "she had no choice"

frozen70:


The same way men finds fun in cheating on their partners

Same way some women does that especially when they find themselves in a tight corner

I am married with children
I work in a place that I don't want mention here

When my husband can't provide, especially for the children, I do so with out hesitations
That's because I work and I can afford to raise my home

Now don't be surprise this woman may have just be seating idle at home with no source of income and all the man does is come home pregnant her and so on

Still the man have women he rocks with outside his nome

Is he doing himself or doing his wife

Women who can afford to raise a home because they are working have left irresponsible men long time ago so face their family

A helpless woman have no place to go wi b those children especially if she is hot working

That's when this kind of nonsense things comes up under a man's roof

frozen70:


She hasn't been identified as a prostitute

The story didn't say she is into prostitution

The story said she has a sugar daddy not sugar daddies

The question is what made her get a sugar daddy when she has a man she birthed children for

frozen70:


When the man kept her idle at home how do you want her to cope

Most men doesn't want their wife to work because they don't want her to get too expose

What if it happens that the man is no more just suddenly

How do you expect such woman to handle the family

Assuming that woman is working, she can take care of herself and her children in situations like this

But you have to condemn the man who neglected his family

To the extent that the children were starving
No woman can stand the starvation of her child

Gerrard59:


White and East Asian men, not black African men.

Please note the difference.

Jman06:
Why do you always find a reason to blame men in everything As if we don't know that many of you ladies crave men who would keep you at home as housewives? That is why you look for an already made men for marriage? Even after wasting spaces in schools and even when you have gainful employments Now, you're making it look like the man prevented her from working against her own will, like though you were there when he did that.

sweetkev:
Stupid comment. A prostitute spotted.

alobright17:


Madam I’ve seen rich married women cheats with small boys they themselves even gives money to, when they’re caught their usual excuses are my husband is too busy for me he doesn’t last in bed bla bla bla

Madam many ladies in the exact or even better position you’re cheats , some cheats and end up blaming devil when they lack excuses of the the husband not having their time or not caring , this is where my point is .

frozen70:


In as much as I dont support what she is doing, I can't judge her because the story said that her husband doesn't provide for them but rocks out, they go hungry some days but am sure he eats while his family goes hungry

So she has no option left but to have a sugar daddy who cares for them and provide for them to feed

Well if the husband can't stand it, let him find his way out of the relationship

Hunger is not something to play with

A man who doesn't do his work, another man will do it for him

sweetkev:
Men, the only women who truly loves you are your sisters and your mother. Talking from experience.

Maynmann:

Are they not her children too? Is she not also feeding her children?
Why is that the next option to do is to cheat on your husband?
Is just like an armed robber saying he stole because he was hungry and he wasn’t paid at his workplace.

Crucifying the guy and her cheating is not correlated.
If the man start providing will that reverse the cheating?

Draslo:

Shame on you. I was expecting you will write something like she should have gone out to work/hustle. You people are quick to rubbish my gender all the while depending on us for survival.