yeahh:
You don’t need love to be effective

GboyegaD:
There's a big difference between discipline and abuse. Unfortunately, many were abused and still repeat the same process and call it discipline.

Microwhy:
Child will only understand Father disciplinary and principles act as Father's disciplinary love if its not weaponize by the mother to use against him by brainwashing the innocent children.
Last week,I gave my wife money for our second child footware, she came back with the footwear and the boy loved it so much. He said "Mummy thank you so much" while I sit across the Dinning table.
No "Daddy thank you for giving mummy money to buy my footware" then, a thought came to mind and I silently prayed for every husling fathers all over the world.
Women should learn how to immediately tell their children that, "Oya go tell your daddy thank you, he gave me the money to buy it for you". My wife do it most time though but some women start using it against the father and as children grow older, they tend to trust, close and confide in their mum more.

emmaak2:
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Microwhy:
Child will only understand Father disciplinary and principles act as Father's disciplinary love if its not weaponize by the mother to use against him by brainwashing the innocent children.
Last week,I gave my wife money for our second child footware, she came back with the footwear and the boy loved it so much. He said "Mummy thank you so much" while I sit across the Dinning table.
No "Daddy thank you for giving mummy money to buy my footware" then, a thought came to mind and I silently prayed for every husling fathers all over the world.
Women should learn how to immediately tell their children that, "Oya go tell your daddy thank you, he gave me the money to buy it for you". My wife do it most time though but some women start using it against the father and as children grow older, they tend to trust, close and confide in their mum more.

youngsahito:
why not confront your wife about it now b4 it's too late.

ofexpryz:
Best thing is to always remind the child when he or she comes of a reasonable age that you usually give the funds for those things. When ignored, the child grows up not knowing. Speaking from experience.

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Chijeep:
Please which among the two is inevitable in the path of career success?

Many people who grew up in the hands of both mother's tender love and father's disciplinary love will understand what I'm trying to say.
For instance, if a boy of maybe 15years misplaced his school fees the reaction he gets from both parents are most likely to be different.
IF THE CASE IS BETWEEN MOTHER AND THE BOY:-
The mother will get angry and probably threaten the boy that she won't give him another one but eventually she will give him another one or better still mak the issue not hardened. But...
IF THE CASE IS BETWEEN FATHER AND THE BOY:-
The Father will firstly scold the boy and later on beat hell out of him for his carelessness, He may even drag it to the extent of starving him of food because of the loss just to show more discipline.

SOME CASE MAY BE LIKE THAT OF THOSE WHO GREW UP WITH ONLY ONE AMONG THE TWO PARENTS.
So my question is:- those who only tasted mother's tender care in upbringing do they achieve less than those who was brought up by father's disciplinary love?

Chijeep:

So my question is:- those who only tasted mother's tender care in upbringing do they achieve less than those who was brought up by father's disciplinary love?

Microwhy:
Child will only understand Father disciplinary and principles act as Father's disciplinary love if its not weaponize by the mother to use against him by brainwashing the innocent children.
Last week,I gave my wife money for our second child footware, she came back with the footwear and the boy loved it so much. He said "Mummy thank you so much" while I sit across the Dinning table.
No "Daddy thank you for giving mummy money to buy my footware" then, a thought came to mind and I silently prayed for every husling fathers all over the world.
Women should learn how to immediately tell their children that, "Oya go tell your daddy thank you, he gave me the money to buy it for you". My wife do it most time though but some women start using it against the father and as children grow older, they tend to trust, get close and confide in their mum more.

LikeAking:
The average father's in Nigeria don't know the talents and abilities of the child they are discipling, most of them don't know, have any clue.

You don't know the talents and abilities of your child yet your are displining him/her... That's nonsense...Most Nigerian father's are too daft, they shid instead discipline themselves first.

If the father has figured out his life and he is successful.

If the father has a deep understanding of life too, then his discipline will go a long way.

It's like real men like Tinubu and Dangote. Discipling their kids... It's totally diff form the other men.

Discipline on the other hand has been bateredised by African's

Anticrime77:


God bless u for this my brother.
This has affected me so badly dat i hardly want to see my father. Still finding it hard to connect with him till today

LikeAking:
Children brought up by mother's do well in life, than children brought up by father's.

So the mothers know what they are doing as regards building their kids than the fathers.

Microwhy:
Child will only understand Father disciplinary and principles act as Father's disciplinary love if its not weaponize by the mother to use against him by brainwashing the innocent children.
Last week,I gave my wife money for our second child footware, she came back with the footwear and the boy loved it so much. He said "Mummy thank you so much" while I sit across the Dinning table.
No "Daddy thank you for giving mummy money to buy my footware" then, a thought came to mind and I silently prayed for every husling fathers all over the world.
Women should learn how to immediately tell their children that, "Oya go tell your daddy thank you, he gave me the money to buy it for you". My wife do it most time though but some women start using it against the father and as children grow older, they tend to trust, get close and confide in their mum more.

Hassanmaye:

Lies from the pit of hell, why do most kids raised by single mums turned to drugs and alcohol and criminality??

LikeAking:


Go check am bf arguing.

Half of the kids that went to none private uni are there cos of their mothers efforts.

If not for mother's many children will not be educated.

A woman selling Amara can train 3 children in the uni, but a man earning higher can't even do that.

If not for the efforts of Nigerian mother's many children will not go anywhere..

The discipline our fathers give is mostly born out of hate and immaturity... It's over hyped.

The mothers do the real work..

Even kids trained by father's take drugs, secondly most time it's just teenage or youthful over adventures.

Dem go change.

butterfly777:
You already made it look like the father is wicked.

Its ok that the father may beat the child to stupor for his carelessness. But starving the child of food for days, rarely will a father do that, despite the discipline.

Mind you, mothers also do Starve their children as punishment, perhaps more than fathers, that's among the few people who'll do that.