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Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by Kobojunkie: 7:10pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
kkins25:Family planning is against growth as far as their Churchian businesses as concerned, so what do you expect? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by Originalsly: 7:45pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
Klass99: Marrying for companionship or marrying for sex ... neither has been .... or is the norm of African culture. The two come as a result of marriage ... but are never the primary purpose of marriage. The culture you are proposing we adapt is that of the LGBTQ community. 1. Marriage for companionship .... a man can marry a man or a woman marry a woman.... all will qualify. 2. Marriage for sex .... same as above. 3. Procreation ... the primary purpose of marriage. African culture a man is expected to have enough to start and raise a family at the point of marriage. What happens after is not guaranteed. In what culture is it different?... where people who marry are all able to afford to raise their children? Should we rethink and involve the government in our family affairs? ... like in the "advanced cultures"? Sadly... we are doing exactly that and yet we wonder what's wrong with "nowadays children". This is a discussion forum and if I should feel insulted if you disagree with my view then I need not be here. Feel free to disagree. |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by kkins25(m): 8:47pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
Klass99:Interesting @bolded. What knowledge and skills when there was no hard labour? It clearly meant multiply biologically. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by Kobojunkie: 8:55pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
kkins25:○ No hard labor- Genesis 3 vs 16 - 19? ○We read in Genesis 4 of Cain building a city and you say there was no hard labor? ○ in Matthew 19 vs 11-12 we read that the same God created some Eunuchs from their birth so how could it have meant simply to multiply biologically? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by Klass99(f): 11:12pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
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Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by Klass99(f): 11:18pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by Klass99(f): 11:42pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
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Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by Originalsly: 12:58am On Jun 22, 2023 |
Klass99: Two of the three "essential purposes of marriages" open the door for gay marriages. I briefly showed how. I'm not at all surprised you learned this from the Anglican Church ... a Priest ... after all ... doesn't the Anglican Church allow gay marriages? I don't know who is saying or implying we must be slaves to culture. Culture evolves. Some people always break away from norms ... laws ... culture ... dress etc ... everyone cannot be on the same page. People can marry for their own reasons but that doesn't change the basic purpose of marriage .... to start and raise a family. Who is saying marriage is mandatory? Men marry men.... women marry women ... for sex or companionship.... but it's not normal in our culture. What would you say about a brother marrying a sister for sex and companionship to unlock happiness in their adult stage of life? Would you support it? , 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by kkins25(m): 4:35am On Jun 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:was the command given before or after the said verses? |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by Kobojunkie: 4:36am On Jun 22, 2023 |
kkins25:Before. |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by kkins25(m): 4:37am On Jun 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:was there hard labor at this time? |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by Kobojunkie: 4:38am On Jun 22, 2023 |
kkins25:At what time? |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by Klass99(f): 9:28am On Jun 22, 2023 |
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Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by talented321: 1:20pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
You want them to be looking at each other like pictures, ur reasoning na wa Skyview01: |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by Nobody: 2:05pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
talented321: Keep quiet if you have nothing to say or rather learn and observe. |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by talented321: 2:15pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
I blame the two people that bring you this world Skyview01: |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by Nobody: 2:31pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
talented321: Keep quiet! |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by kkins25(m): 10:07am On Jun 25, 2023 |
Klass99: In context with the quote in question, it meant to reproduce. Don't mind me, I itch when i see verse given meaning to suit 21st century line of thought.. |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by kkins25(m): 10:09am On Jun 25, 2023 |
Originalsly:Very good point. The logic should be spread across the board and not those that we like alone.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by Davidave(m): 2:09pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
A poor man can become rich tomorrow. What I don't subscribe to is the very poor having more than 2 children. |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by drnoel: 2:44pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Skyview01: U can't leave a goat and yam and expect it not to eat the yam |
Re: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by maasoap(m): 5:19pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
falcon01:I get the gist but no one is better off alone. |
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