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Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
I just did..💃💃💃 jeromestarks: 2 Likes |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by Kobojunkie: 7:51pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
DaddyCoool:I am afraid you are the only one competing with yourself. I am simply trying to grasp the rationale behind your various claims, including your attempt to connect polygamy to the idea of natural selection. Just a thought but as you argue that a man spreading his seeds across many women increases his chance of spreading his "success genes" , does it not also occur to you that it equally increases the likehood of him "fathering" more kids that are from other "success gene" proliferators such as himself? 3 Likes |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by PDJT: 8:03pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: -Such a hysteric bitter soul. |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by OriginalCEO: 8:04pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Samantha124: You have spoken well. I'm sure many men and guys fall into this category. Do DNA on your children to avoid shalaye if you know you are in the above category. 1 Like |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by Nobody: 8:10pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
That's why I don't do long distance relationships or marriage. I don't want to end up being tempted because temptation is real, the same way as loneliness is real too. OriginalCEO: |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by Nobody: 8:11pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
And they will come and insult you for telling them the truth.. OriginalCEO: |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by Kobojunkie: 8:18pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
PDJT:I am a bitter soul simply because I don't like the way you rubbish what is African heritage for your own selfish cause... I get it! Your kind are a dime a dozen out there. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by PDJT: 8:26pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: -Sorry. I have been duly informed that you have a chronic psychological disorder. I'm not a psychiatrist. Bye! |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by OriginalCEO: 8:26pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
If you ask me, most of the men thought not to be cheating are either poor or yet to be caught. Women are so wonderfully created, it's easy for them to enter our eyes and if your pocket is full, it's even easier to bed them. So whether it is in our nature or not, most men are cheaters is a fact. And by most we are talking really high numbers if we count the ones wey no get money but wan do maybe 85%/90%. It's good for a man to be disciplined sha. If you are the undisciplined type, keep things in moderation. Don't keep side affairs. If you must chop outside, have a good reason, chop and clean your mouth. Don't lose guard like Davido and don't go close to Anita, unless u r tired of your marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by nimelssaite: 8:34pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Hello Nairalanders, Please advise me on a possible solution. For those of you who travelled to the US to deliver your babies, what medical excuse did you cite as the reason for travelling and how did you go about it? Please help |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by Kobojunkie: 8:35pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
PDJT:And the one who informed you of this claims to be my psychiatrist? Typical Nigerian! Like I said,you lot are a dime a dozen on here. 1 Like |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by nimelssaite: 8:39pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Hello Nairalanders, Please advise me on a possible solution. For those of you who travelled to the US to deliver your babies, what medical excuse did you cite as the reason for travelling and how did you go about it? Please help OriginalCEO: |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by Nobody: 8:40pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Stay in your country and deliver your baby there. Have you ever seen Americans coming to your country to give birth? nimelssaite: 3 Likes |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:43pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
the reality of this issue is irrelevant to whether men are polygamous in nature or not.... IF A MAN IS INDEED POLYGAMOUS THEN LET HIM BE HONEST AND TELL THAT TO HIS WOMAN/WOMEN OPENLY, SO HE DOESNT HAVE TO CRAWL LIKE A RAT AT THE DEAD OF NIGHT TO CHEAT! if you tell your woman from the get go:" hey babe, i am a polygamous man and you will only be one of the many women in my life" then technically, when this man meets other women, it can never be considered cheating. the problem here is that the majority of the weak yeye men we have today are so afraid of being themselves, so they would rather PRETEND they are "one woman man" and then crawl at the dead of night to cheat. ***spit on floor*** 2 Likes |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
I agree with you 200%... MrBrownJay1: 1 Like |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by lawani: 8:49pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Cheating is not the same thing as polygamy. Cheating is dishonesty. Both men and women cheat but men do it more. 1 Like |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by Anonymoususher: 8:50pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Depends. I am in a relationship (not yet married) it's been 6yrs but have not seen pants of another girl despite fact that I and my partner are far apart and see just twice a year. I think it all boils down to self control. I am good looking, I am tall, I have a car, I am trying in my earning, I live in a 2 bed apartment alone but I have never tasted another lady in 6yrs except my fiancee who visits during holidays and we make love to our full. I have female friends, presently 5 are giving green lights. One even accused me of being a gay. But I don't mind. At least my babe knows how hard I go on her. I have always been a one man one woman guy. What people describe as fun is disturbance to me. I don't drink, smoke, club or even take sex as a big deal. Sometimes I feel tempted to taste another but after inviting them over, a day to the meeting I will just cancel it and they will. Feel bad. I don't want to start what I cannot finish and also don't want to get the wrong person pregnant because I only want to marry and have kids with who I love. Hence I avoid laying with any other girl 4 Likes |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by lawani: 8:53pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Anonymoususher: Cheating is not easy now. Very difficult and that is why many men save themselves the headache 1 Like |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by DaddyCoool: 8:54pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: If you still don't see the connection after all the explanations, then you're a lost cause. Let me spoonfeed you: If men had an inate desire to be with only one woman and that woman alone, then there'd be no way to select (NATURAL SELECTION!!) for the most admirable/adaptable/successful genes! If you still don't get it, go jump in the lake! |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by Kobojunkie: 9:06pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
DaddyCoool:May I suggest you a bit more actual digging into the theory of Natural Selection is order that you gain a better understanding of what it is in fact about? I say this because none of the assumptions you continue to insist on connects in any way to the idea or what it is truly about. 1 Like |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by 1Sharon(f): 9:15pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Lol I've said it before. Why do these men that scream "men are polygamous in nature" never marry more than one woman? Sneaking and cheating isn't polygamy and it's not done in secrecy. If there's nothing wrong with having more than one woman, why are you sneaking around? Marry your other woman and bring her home then you can talk about being polygamous. 5 Likes |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by 1Sharon(f): 9:23pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
luminouz: Lol does the red pill talk about marrying multiple women? Polygamy may not be everybody's cup of tea but it's not a crime. Why are the men that claim to be polygamous always married to one woman? Sneaking and cheating is not the same as polygamy. If you claim to be into polygamy they either marry multiple women from the get go or marry another woman as time goes on. But they never do this why? They should walk the talk or keep quiet. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
And I respect those polygamous men who are honest with themselves from the get go, unlike all these ones shouting "men are polygamous in nature", but they're in monogamous relationships and busy sneaking around. 1Sharon: 2 Likes |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by DaddyCoool: 9:46pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Samantha124: lawani: But MrBrownJay1 is talking off point - and very agitatedly too. The discussion is whether men naturally tend towards polygamy not wether it is right or wrong! |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by Gohs: 9:52pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
PDJT: Right from the time of Adam and Eve in the garden, human beings have preferred lies to PLAIN TRUTH. And if you Choose to turn away from truth. . ., Don't blame God for that. 2 Likes |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by DaddyCoool: 10:48pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Anonymoususher: Well the discussion is what you'd be inclined if there were no constraints whatsoever. You could be an outlier but experience has shown that most men would tend towards polygamy |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by DaddyCoool: 10:59pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
advanceDNA: So let's do a thought experiment. 1) Would a young lady still want to get married and be tied to just one man if she had a bunch of willing guys available for sex any time she wants? Answer: a resounding YES!!! 2) Would a young man still want to get married and be tied to just one girl if he had a harem of girls available for sex any time he wants? Answer: a resounding NO!! There is no biological nor evolutionary advantage to girl to have a bunch if guys using her "thing"! |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by DaddyCoool: 11:03pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
MySolace: Biologically, a woman's vagina gets aclamted to a given man's sperm. Familiarity is what turns women on - hence the phenomenon of craving their ex |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by 1Sharon(f): 11:04pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
DaddyCoool: Polygamy isn't sleeping with multiple women while being in a relationship. Polygamy is marrying more than one woman! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by luminouz(m): 11:14pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
1Sharon:You know nothing about the redpill or even polygamy!!! Just say most men around you cheat. But that is not polygamy. On my end, polygamy is polygamy and I have dudes practicing that stuff. |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by 1Sharon(f): 11:17pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
luminouz: Lol. That's why I asked questions We just said the same thing, perhaps you need to read my comment again. 1 Like |
Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by lekjons(m): 11:23pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
I think the nature/behavior of women throughout history validates the assertion(that men are polygamous in nature) more than anything men did/does. For instance, a lot women would marry or become a baby mama for a known married man if he meets certain standards, and will happily stay with him and continue to "love" him as long as he maintains status quo. It's not quite the same for men as men are more territorial in that regard. |
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