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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Beess(m): 1:46pm On Jul 02, 2023
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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by unclejb2(m): 1:46pm On Jul 02, 2023
Keep her away from Fanta and other surgery drinks, make plenty of space with no hazardous materials so she can run around without injuring herself. She would outgrow it

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by merits(m): 1:46pm On Jul 02, 2023
SAMBARRY:
If you born slowpoke you go still complain.you born healthy child that is acting her age you dey complain.what is your problem?

You dey mind the idi'ot.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by SirMichael1: 1:47pm On Jul 02, 2023
Reduce her sugar intake and pray that's not ADHD - not like ADHD is a curse or a death sentence though.

It's just not easy handling kids with ADHD. They play too much and forget things easily as well.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Breezy90(m): 1:47pm On Jul 02, 2023
Too early to rule out ADHD, children naturally that age are hyper active, you just have to look out for other symptoms that compliments the disorder in other to make a diagnosis. But I am sure she is perfectly Normal.
Cheers
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by mayowascholar(m): 1:47pm On Jul 02, 2023
Introduce cartoons and/or channel her energy towards a more productive enterprise....Pls don't kill her morale you might not like the repercussion.Speaking from experience.
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by MASTAkiLLAh(m): 1:48pm On Jul 02, 2023
Learn o grin children will surprise you
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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jul 02, 2023
Have you tried googling the causes and it's effects? That will be my first point of contact for informed knowledge before coming to NL where you read all sorts of ignorant laden comments.
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by yemmit90: 1:49pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you

Is your daughter the first kid you ever came into contact with in your life?

I asked this because only a person that have never be with little kids before can ask this kind of question.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by KingDash09(m): 1:49pm On Jul 02, 2023
Girl child😂
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by blaise26abj(m): 1:49pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you

Study how she plays and the things she loves playing with the most . Take those things and make them more interesting for her . Help her channel that energy well . Do not stifle her energy . My son is like that . He is a very social 4 year old while I the father is an introvert

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by blaise26abj(m): 1:50pm On Jul 02, 2023
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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by BigCowHornn: 1:50pm On Jul 02, 2023
You see that rope Hausa people use in selling goat and rams? Very cheap and very strong

Get one and tie her leg to a chair or a bed

Thank me later

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Babaibeji2020(m): 1:50pm On Jul 02, 2023
Weldone bro.
Congrats on having an hyper active rather than a 'hospital' active child.....!
Get the child a kiddies educational tablet or used android phone, load it with lots of cartoons and voila......peaceful life for you and the Mrs😉🤗

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by nextstep(m): 1:51pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you

Nothing to do my brother, just play with her and continue to watch her so she doesn't hurt herself. It's hard work, plain and simple.
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jul 02, 2023
You'll keep talking to her advisingly and not be temper making sure that you keep an eye to praise her when she does well and tell her when she is wrong. Use the hyperactivity to your advantage.
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Gajagojo: 1:51pm On Jul 02, 2023
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by clearcrystal: 1:52pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you

Join her to play around whenever you are not busy so that she won't injure herself.
She has the energy and she must use it. I can see she is a lively type never a dull moment with her. You can buy her lots of educational toys and join her in playing with the toys.
I pray you don't have a child that sits in one place for hours, that cries at the slightest provocation.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by xavuv: 1:54pm On Jul 02, 2023
Princelyod:
Reduce carb and sugar intake

Why? Your method is crude and sad. Reduce writing again?
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by naturefellow(m): 1:55pm On Jul 02, 2023
Hollybratt:
Hey chap, Please leave that innocent girl alone. She behaved the same way your dick works, jumping from one hole to the other.

Congratulations! You successfully derailed a healthy thread with obscenity. Can't you have better imagination with your mind? undecided

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Lovelyn451(f): 1:55pm On Jul 02, 2023
Same as my daughter o, and the environment isn't safe too, she's in school,even her teachers dey hear am, she's intelligent, understanding is 💯% but focusing is the problem

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Mindlog: 1:55pm On Jul 02, 2023
Gajagojo:
Take a look at this

https://psychology-tools.com/test/vadrs-vanderbilt-adhd-diagnostic-rating-scale

Nice but you know it can not be used for a diagnosis by him.
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Mindlog: 1:56pm On Jul 02, 2023
Lovelyn451:
Same as my daughter o, and the environment isn't safe too, she's in school,even her teachers dey hear am, she's intelligent, understanding is 💯% but focusing is the problem

What have you done to help her focus better?
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by franchasofficia: 1:59pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you
There is little or nothing you can do, it seems its the norm for kids of this era cos I have a 3yrs plus son and I am as tired as you are. Even our baby minders don tire. Only his personal Nanny (an aged woman) that took care of him from birth can calm him down, and she seems to be the only person he listens to temporarily and its because the woman pampers him a lot and he sees the woman as his grandma cos that's what he calls her grin


I have bought virtually all toys in the world; from drivable cars he can enter and drive to drivable powerbike to tricycle to bicycle and uncountable number of toy cars and toys.


He started using adult tablet at 1yr and started accessing internet with it from 1yrplus which he uses to watch cartoons like Baby Shack, Wheels in the bus, Coco Melon Rhymes and other nursery rhyme videos yet this tablet that is constantly connected to the internet hasn't helped to stop his hyper active behavior .


Just try and endure while praying for him not to carry over the behavior into teenagehood

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Mandesz(m): 1:59pm On Jul 02, 2023
izonborn098:
Are you not happy for her? I like it when my children play alot, sometimes it is full of fun. Just clear and remove dangerous objects from the territory she is playing around and watch her steps.
Goodluck
u be mumu. U dey compare your place with his own? Advise base on what he said bcuz u don't know how dangerous his area can be
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by TGM2015: 1:59pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you
Why not buy her educational tablets, with free/paid educational app from Play store, most importantly, YouTube kids. If you are using android phone, you can setup family link, enabled you monitor and control her activities on the phone.

If you have smart television, explore installing YouTube kids and get yourself some rest. Anyway, you should be happy she is playing around, as most people as advise. Your duty is to make the house safer for her. She will learn her limit with time.

On her starting school, please if you noticed she gentle within a month, change that school immediately without thinking about cost. A little behaviour change is expected but when the change is significant in terms of her hyperactiveness, CHANGE THE SCHOOL without a second thought.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Proffdada: 1:59pm On Jul 02, 2023
I like active kids. They're joy to parents. I don't know what you want from the girl 😂
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by pharmaking: 2:00pm On Jul 02, 2023
Don't bother yourself.

Mathematics assignment loading for both of you.

Both of you will be fine by then.

Equilibrium will set in.

Daughter will calm down while Daddy/Mummy will brace.
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by 6ixT8: 2:00pm On Jul 02, 2023
Funny advice all over from people who know nothing... This kd of kids are found in special school.

Your child is exceptional op. Go for counselling if you can. This indeed is what you should be concern of.
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Olumaeme: 2:03pm On Jul 02, 2023
My daughter is like that, she's 4. Very brilliant.
For me, I bought a phone and she watches cartoon, she learnt her American accent from there.

I load 120gb of data monthly, and enroll her in Montessori school.

Avoid talking down on her, encourage and be her friend. My daughter loves me so much that she Dosent go to her mum when I'm around.

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