bayfed:
I had a wonderful relationship, 1 year to the relationship, I caught my partner still talking to her Ex on chats, I was angry, she cried bitterly, that it won’t occur again, fast forward to months ago, after two years plus of been in the relationship.

she only comes to my house on weekends, I began noticing some changes, how she won’t place her phone on the table even when we were eating. I decided i investigate her, i discovered she recently got in a relationship with another boy in her school, i graduated this year, she’s in 200 level, am 26, while she’s 22. I read on her chat, telling the boy she’s has no man in her life.

She pleaded day and night, that it wasn’t something serious, in my mind I was done, I parked her things, she lobbied me for weeks, and pleaded, like she’s was going to die, if I don’t take her back, I decide I gave her the second chance, I was depressed, as result of denial I saw on her phone.

I had excessive alcohol which is bad for my ulcer, which leads to severe pains in my stomach for weeks. I visited the hospital, she accompanied me, the entire treatment took about 3 weeks. while on treatment, her birthday came, I took her out, and bought her cake, we had a wonderful time just us. 2 days later, I had previously asked her to delete the boy’s number, and stop communicating with the boy, Madam refused to listen, instead change the boys name, to another name, and was communicating with the boy, i caught her again communicating with that same boy, some of the chats I saw, was them talking about my cake, I don’t know if she took the cake to the boy in school or not. But she had deleted many other chats as usual. She pleaded again, and cried, and I allowed it slide.


Fast forward to 1 month later, I made some research and have some logic that she had an affair with her ex, 3 months ago, when she went to her fathers place to spend the holiday, her ex lives close by, i put some empirical facts, and push her to say the truth, and she confessed.

Now at this point, am leaving, I can’t stand this any more. She cried, pleaded and roll on the floor as usual, but am leaving, so she turn it to suicide, all she plead with now is her dying, all she is saying is her killing herself. I live in a renter apartment, it’s hard to control who comes in, last time she walked in, she picked a knife from my kitchen, and told me she’s going to end this all right here. That I will take her body to her family. I was dragging the knife with her for hours. I had to accept to forgive her, before she could let go of the knife. I called her sister, I told her everything, I told her sister, she needs her attention. But the woman seems to be quiet, it’s her husband that has been begging me to allow this woman come back to my life.

It almost seems like there’s no way out of this,
as the house she’s living, I rented the house for her, and no family member knows there. And she’s there speaking about killing herself everyday. Making suicidal status. And crying for me, I’m strong, but this is getting out of hand, I won’t come here to ask what to do, if it wasn’t. If I decide to block her now, there’s 100% possibility she’ll rush to my house now.
It’s her dying that’s my problem, the only knows me in the compound she’s living.

bayfed:
I had a wonderful relationship, 1 year to the relationship, I caught my partner still talking to her Ex on chats, I was angry, she cried bitterly, that it won’t occur again, fast forward to months ago, after two years plus of been in the relationship.

she only comes to my house on weekends, I began noticing some changes, how she won’t place her phone on the table even when we were eating. I decided i investigate her, i discovered she recently got in a relationship with another boy in her school, i graduated this year, she’s in 200 level, am 26, while she’s 22. I read on her chat, telling the boy she’s has no man in her life.

She pleaded day and night, that it wasn’t something serious, in my mind I was done, I parked her things, she lobbied me for weeks, and pleaded, like she’s was going to die, if I don’t take her back, I decide I gave her the second chance, I was depressed, as result of denial I saw on her phone.

I had excessive alcohol which is bad for my ulcer, which leads to severe pains in my stomach for weeks. I visited the hospital, she accompanied me, the entire treatment took about 3 weeks. while on treatment, her birthday came, I took her out, and bought her cake, we had a wonderful time just us. 2 days later, I had previously asked her to delete the boy’s number, and stop communicating with the boy, Madam refused to listen, instead change the boys name, to another name, and was communicating with the boy, i caught her again communicating with that same boy, some of the chats I saw, was them talking about my cake, I don’t know if she took the cake to the boy in school or not. But she had deleted many other chats as usual. She pleaded again, and cried, and I allowed it slide.


Fast forward to 1 month later, I made some research and have some logic that she had an affair with her ex, 3 months ago, when she went to her fathers place to spend the holiday, her ex lives close by, i put some empirical facts, and push her to say the truth, and she confessed.

Now at this point, am leaving, I can’t stand this any more. She cried, pleaded and roll on the floor as usual, but am leaving, so she turn it to suicide, all she plead with now is her dying, all she is saying is her killing herself. I live in a renter apartment, it’s hard to control who comes in, last time she walked in, she picked a knife from my kitchen, and told me she’s going to end this all right here. That I will take her body to her family. I was dragging the knife with her for hours. I had to accept to forgive her, before she could let go of the knife. I called her sister, I told her everything, I told her sister, she needs her attention. But the woman seems to be quiet, it’s her husband that has been begging me to allow this woman come back to my life.

It almost seems like there’s no way out of this,
as the house she’s living, I rented the house for her, and no family member knows there. And she’s there speaking about killing herself everyday. Making suicidal status. And crying for me, I’m strong, but this is getting out of hand, I won’t come here to ask what to do, if it wasn’t. If I decide to block her now, there’s 100% possibility she’ll rush to my house now.
It’s her dying that’s my problem, the only knows me in the compound she’s living.

She pleaded again, and cried, and I allowed it slide.

Bluezy13:
Na your type dey wear suit, dress cooperate drive car, but once you open mouth, person go know say you be mumu.

HopeNeverDies:
Why the fvck she toiling with ur mental Headquarter🙁

Bro lol.. she can’t die; Dey there dey play. And if she dies, Shey nah u kill am ni.
Brother cut off that relationship.. regardless of anything. She isn’t just worth it.

bayfed:



Baba e never reach like that, you understand how fight goes and shout out for directions when you’re outside the ring. But come inside the ring, you will understand, at the end we are all human. It’s blood that run out veins

bayfed:
I , so she turn it to suicide, all she plead with now is her dying, all she is saying is her killing herself.

I live in a renter apartment, it’s hard to control who comes in, last time she walked in, she picked a knife from my kitchen, and told me she’s going to end this all right here. That I will take her body to her family . I was dragging the knife with her for hours. I had to accept to forgive her, before she could let go of the knife. .

And she’s there speaking about killing herself everyday. Making suicidal status. And crying for me, I’m strong, but this is getting out of hand, I won’t come here to ask what to do, if it wasn’t. If I decide to block her now, there’s 100% possibility she’ll rush to my house now.
It’s her dying that’s my problem, the only knows me in the compound she’s living.

Brandiebird:
1. Tell her it’s over and follow through with your decision.
2. Every time she calls you or turns up at your place record her so you have evidence of her madness.
3. Tell your family and friends about her suicide threats so that you are not framed if worst comes to worst.
4. She will not kill her self because all this noise is to emotionally blackmail you.
5. Record every interaction with her because when she can’t use suicide to control you, she will set you up! She might accuse you of rape or anything else she can make up.
6. You’re dealing with a narcissist so you need to come prepared.

If all else fails: RUN! Move location and change your number.

Odward:
I think she loves you with all her heart, my advice is marry her. She’s a keeper and she will sire so many great kids for you my bro.

dhiqson:

Cheated on him thrice
Forgave her thrice
Came online to complain
Thank You God for guys like this
They make the world balanced
Not everyone should be stoic
Not everyone shud have sense
Some need to be foolish
Some need to be emasculated
So as we can learn
Thank you God
Thank You Jesus
Happy sunday y'all
Remember jesus loves you

extremelygolden:
@Op. See what you're going to do. Pretend you've accepted her back. Plan to move out of that environment as soon as possible. When you finally find another accommodation far from where you're presently living, tell her the scholarship you applied for in the UK some time ago, and have totally forgotten about just arrived now. That they sent you a mail that you've been offered the scholarship.

Get an alternative phone number that only family and close friends can always reach you. Make an arrangement and pack out one of the days you know she won't be visiting you. And don't forget to block her line and on all social media, including that of her relatives too.

You need peace of mind, especially at a time like this. Don't allow her to keep messing with your emotions.

I hate infidelity and pretense.

extremelygolden:
@Op. See what you're going to do. Pretend you've accepted her back. Plan to move out of that environment as soon as possible. When you finally find another accommodation far from where you're presently living, tell her the scholarship you applied for in the UK some time ago, and have totally forgotten about just arrived now. That they sent you a mail that you've been offered the scholarship.

Get an alternative phone number that only family and close friends can always reach you. Make an arrangement and pack out one of the days you know she won't be visiting you. And don't forget to block her line and on all social media, including that of her relatives too.

You need peace of mind, especially at a time like this. Don't allow her to keep messing with your emotions.

I hate infidelity and pretense.