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Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by Hazeleyed(f): 3:27pm On Jun 12, 2007
pls i need answers to this question.
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by eusken: 4:34pm On Jun 12, 2007
It is not possible to love two people at the same time because, if you are in love with two ppl at same time is not love, at times it is infatuation, cuz if you are not satisfy with one person it is not love, LOVE IS ALL ABOUT ONE MAN TO ONE LADY, may be the other person is beutiful or handsome for occasions and parties and for ppl to admire you, WHILE the other has money or something else. So it is not real love. It is only the love people of this world practice, love today and divorce tomorow.
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by finemocha(f): 9:49pm On Jun 12, 2007
it is very possible to love two people at the same time. trust mee it is very very possible. its not the smart thing to do but it happens all the time,
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by rachiwise(f): 11:55am On Jun 13, 2007
@ finemocha
that is a lie from the pit of hell.u can only "love" one for convienence sake,like say money,beauty,etc,which i would call lust(which does not necessarily mean sex) and really love the other.or better still "love" the two for the same selfish reasons.but dont go believing u can love two ppl at the same time.Even the bible says "can there be two captains in a ship?".at least u'll love one more than the other.
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by chuckdee4(m): 12:11pm On Jun 13, 2007
If u love one person u'll have eyes for no one else, even Halle Berry would look ugly in ur eyes if ur madly in love, so HELL no u can't be in love with 2 people at the same time, its just being greedy
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by droopydeep(m): 1:20pm On Jun 13, 2007
It is possible, Forget religion and sentiments and lets face the reality of life, U can very much be in love wit more than one person and each time u r with either u fill fulfilled even if sex is not involved, Search urselves
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by smile007: 3:49pm On Jun 13, 2007
sure it happens.
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by ajayi1(m): 6:14pm On Jun 13, 2007
It is posible but be carefull
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by luxoire(f): 6:17pm On Jun 13, 2007
It is possible to love 2 ppl at same time, and ofte for completely different reasons. WHY?, i hear u ask, well because ppl are different, and that diversity is what made our creator awesome, as no one person can have all you ever wanted in a partner.

It is a difficult position to be in, but usually in your heart of hearts, you casn tell which one of them is better suited to u. whether u choose to follow it is another matter all together
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by finemocha(f): 9:55pm On Jun 13, 2007
rachiwise

its possible hommie, u can definately love more than one person, heck even three. u will jus tlove them differently. like say a person is dating two guys, she migh tlove the way the first guy acts but she might love the way the second one thinks.
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by cuju: 9:37am On Jun 14, 2007
Nope. C' est ne pas possible. You might like different qualities possessed by each of them but you cant love both equally. Unless its agape love.
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by sillyboy(m): 9:55am On Jun 14, 2007
It's possible. I had once been in "love" with about 4 ladies. cool wink
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by Nobody: 9:56am On Jun 14, 2007
Genuinely impossible!
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by Bolarge(m): 10:06am On Jun 14, 2007
Definitely not love as in loooove;as in endless love;I'll die for u love.U can appreciate different qualities in individuals but love is a completely different kettle of fish.

The kind love u dey yarn is d one I have for every pretty chick on this freakin planet.lol grin
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by CoolGuyB(m): 4:18pm On Jun 14, 2007
Talking about love, what do you have to say about this very interesting piece? http://www.nigeriavillagesquare.com/articles/michael-oluwagbemi/the-concept-of-love-confuses-me.html

If you subscribe (like I do) to the idea contained in this piece, then it is definitely possible to love more than one person at the same time - for different reasons possibly.
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by NaijaFuss(m): 7:00pm On Jun 20, 2007
Considering the mistakened meaning of love by crazy kids of this generation we can expect lots of manipulations as love.conider occasional sighting being around each other infatuation name it it goes on even friendship could mean love.But on a serious note i'ld say true love can't be shared
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by Njoy1(f): 10:35pm On Jun 20, 2007
There's love and there's infatuation. I think I went through a stage where I thought I was in love with two guys. It turned out I was in love with one and infatuated with with other.
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by bauer(f): 1:31pm On Jun 22, 2007
yes oooooooooooooo it is good to love two people at the same time because one can disapoint at anytime .

for me i regret i stay with a guy for good 10years plus but he later fork me up so i can not advise a lady to love a lady

to have a guy. Guy nowaday are not responsible.
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by doctorb1(f): 11:15pm On Jun 23, 2007
*twirls around &sings - torn between two lovers can't decide(?) which one loving you both is breaking all the rules*

been there, done that
would i go there again? nope. double the highs, double the lows.they were both two very different personalities&brought out different parts of me. @ d end of the day i had a nervous breakdown&confessed to the first, got down on my knees&begged him to stay with me. Luckily i'm still very good friends with the second although it took us a long time to get to this point.
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by buyaka(m): 12:31am On Jun 24, 2007
you can love two people at the same time, but not equaly
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by amakajune: 12:53pm On Jun 27, 2007
dont think so.
the easiest person to deceive is yourself,
so no matter what you do, someone will be getting less of what should be given.
i wouldnt want to be that person, would you?
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by mcube(f): 2:48pm On Jun 27, 2007
its not possible to love two people at a time. its either u love one and feel maybe lust or infatuation for the other. "BUT LOVE FOR TWO PEOPLE NO WAY"

cool cool cool
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jun 27, 2007
no way,

just tell us say u like money we fit understand.
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by Hazeleyed(f): 5:01pm On Jun 27, 2007
nurexg:

no way,

just tell us say u like money we fit understand.



u are just a monkey, make i tell u say na money i like.ewu congo.my friend if u have nothing better to say abeg shut up, let's even assume it's money na concrete i for chop, hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss.


eehnn,back to my good people,i appreciate ur views.it was just something i thought about not like it's happening to me.don't mind the fool that was talking about money.
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by osereka(m): 5:19pm On Jun 27, 2007
me I fit love 20 babes at the same time. so far say all of them get big boobs
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by teeirl: 6:37pm On Jun 27, 2007
It is very very possible to love 2 people at the same time. People have different characters so you will love them for different reasons but it is a dangerous game to play somebosy will get hurt, sad
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by 2dye4(m): 7:26pm On Jun 27, 2007
this is can quite confusing atimes!

i hav a friend (a lady) who was @ this crossroad somtime back. she got so confused and she couldn't make up her mind until she decided to come down from her emotional uphill & the truth was ;

-she loved one because of the things he did only (conditional)
-she loved the other no matter what he did (unconditional)

I guess it is possible to love 2 pple, but love them equally, NO! wink
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by OmoEko1(f): 8:16pm On Jun 27, 2007
@2dye4

why do i feel that statement was mentioned for me cry cry cry cry, i swear it's driving me insane cry cry cry cry cry, but have putten everything in Gods hands.
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by 2dye4(m): 8:34pm On Jun 27, 2007
@omo eko:av u had a similar xperience?  i feel your pain, i never knew this would get across 2u that explicitly. don't worry, your a survivor! wink
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by OmoEko1(f): 8:40pm On Jun 27, 2007
Yes am in a very similar situation like your friend and it's difficult cry cry cry cry, i just wish God will give me a clue or something to help me out sad sad sad, and i know am a survivor but it's giving me a breakdown and that is really affecting me cry cry cry.
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by hotchic1(f): 8:42pm On Jun 27, 2007
@ Omo eko
i pray that Almighty God wil cu through
Re: Can Someone Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time? by OmoEko1(f): 8:45pm On Jun 27, 2007
oh Thanks girl wink wink wink, i know he will but patience is all it takes

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