donjazzet:


Your last statement is indeed true but like I said earlier, the prevalence of both issues are very wide in disparity.

One offense does not cancel out the other.

The percentage of women who "falsely accuse" men of rape is farrr less than the percentage of men who actually do rape and then physically assault women..

And furthermore, this issue of "false rape accusation" is a bye product of laws that were made to indeed protect women who were factually being disadvantaged in the society. I would then point out that these laws are not even a thing in the vast majority of countries. So women are still heavily disadvantaged. They're still on the short end of the stick.

What we should do is call for stronger rules that both protects women and then punish the few who misuse that privilege.

Both issue are not mutually exclusive and the way you want to try and lump it together cant work.

Rape is a crime, and anyone who is caught is charged to court to face the consequences

But there is no consequence for false rape accusation, alot of ladies just walk away freely after ruining the life of a man with blatant false accusation.

There are already punishment for those that rape, don't you think there should be punishment for those that falsely accuse someone else of rape also?

I pray you dont fall a victim of false rape accusation, maybe just then like Dr Olufunmilayo, your eyes will clear.

GrammarNazi1:
I think we should also realize that almost all men have been emotionally abused by their wives.

What can we do to help these men?

on a steady bro..

Thing is, if you love a woman, you'd be emotionally blackmailed and gaslighted by them and you'd legit fall for it..

They just need to put up that their usual emotional cry and you'd fall legit for it no cap 🧢..

3 times my mom cried and I was emotionally abused and gaslighted..

Almost fought physically with my uncle when he had a little argument with my mom, something she could have handled.. she dropped some tears at the middle of the argument and I went gun blazing to the nigga..

Second was when I wanted to sell my property.. mehn my own property I bought with my money, woman legit let out tears.. I falled for the shiit like pack of cards and had to call back the people that bought the stuffs.. ended up spending 20k extra because I had to refund them both in transport and convenience..

Mehn Love legit makes one weak..

They'd start telling you how dey bore you for 9 months, and suffered bla bla bla.. and crown it all with their tears..

Wtf 😒

Unlimited22:

I understand you. Now please help us and tell Kholiwe, because in her view, once you're born with a penis, you're already guilty of whatever you've been accused of.

I never said anything of such nature.

seankafor:
on a steady bro..

Thing is, if you love a woman, you'd be emotionally blackmailed and gaslighted by them and you'd legit fall for it..

They just need to put up that their usual emotional cry and you'd fall legit for it no cap 🧢..

3 times my mom cried and I was emotionally abused and gaslighted..

Almost fought physically with my uncle when he had a little argument with my mom, something she could have handled.. she dropped some tears at the middle of the argument and I went gun blazing to the nigga..

Second was when I wanted to sell my property.. mehn my own property I bought with my money, woman legit let out tears.. I falled for the shiit like pack of cards and had to call back the people that bought the stuffs.. ended up spending 20k extra because I had to refund them both in transport and convenience..

Mehn . Love legit makes one weak..

They'd start telling you how dey bore you for 9 months, and suffered bla bla bla.. and crown it all with their tears..

Wtf 😒

Reading this and have to say, not saying these in a negative way but you might legit have sociopathic issues brought upon by mummy issues. Please don't take this wrongly.

larride:


Both issue are not mutually exclusive and the way you want to try and lump it together cant work.

Rape is a crime, and anyone who is caught is charged to court to face the consequences

But there is no consequence for false rape accusation, alot of ladies just walk away freely after ruining the life of a man with blatant false accusation.

There are already punishment for those that rape, don't you think there should be punishment for those that falsely accuse someone else of rape also?

I pray you dont fall a victim of false rape accusation, maybe just then like Dr Olufunmilayo, your eyes will clear.

Lmao
Mans was forming Ruben Días. Voltron defender of the femiverse. Once them accuse person, ẹ don begin dey talk nonsense until ẹ reach him turn.


The girl who falsely accused Izu and led to his suicide is till on Twitter till today.

2019-21 Twitter Ng was wild man.


Once them accuse person, anyone who begins asking questions Don turn rape apologist.
It got so bad that these children of the devil made lists of so called 'rape apologists and rapists' on Twitter. It only stopped when people got in somehow and began to add their brothers and fathers.



Rape is a heinous crime and I believe anyone who forces himself on a woman should be castrated. In fact, it is because of how terrible that crime is that these idiots have turned it into a weapon of attrition.

Mtchew.

Kholiwe:

What about men that wants to leave Sudan immediately with the women or even before the women but due to Gender stereotypes and fear of being perceived as a "weak men" just shuts up and goes along with it? Patriarchy affects everybody but men are too scared to admit it.

Take a look at them finally admitting to toxic masculinity and toxic patriarchy. When we tried to enlighten them about it they called us names meanwhile they knew we were saying the truth.

The annoying part of this Mendy case is that like 4 or 5 of the ladies know each other, them even get whatsapp group. 😡

One of their browser history was even showing them googling his network.

"Royal Balderdash.

So some "non traditional" Obas in Yoruba land do not know that their towns were established by specific "Odu Ifa" which serves as the pathfinder for their forebears who first settled in the town. The Odu Ifa summarizes the traditional & cultural essence of their towns.

Take for instance, it was an Odu Ifa divinity that decided where the Egba people should settle down "under a rock" when they were fleecing from Oyo/Ibadan war bandits.

Awori people were told by Odu Ifa to follow a floating dish on the river and settled down where the dish sunk (ibi ti Awori si). The town derived its name from that historical experience.

The Odu Ifa for Ibadan is Osa Meji. I think. . Osogbo became Osogbo when some hunters destroyed the "ikoko aro" pot of dye to make Adire cloth and other materials of a woman who resided in the forest. The lamentation and exclamation of the distressed woman that, Ha "" Oso Igbo" had destroyed her means of livelihood, beautiful cultural Osun Osogbo town derived its name from that historical experience. Many Yoruba towns have similar legendary historical and cultural antecedents.

No Yoruba town founded by other means beyond traditional involvement of Ifa Olokun Asorodayo which defined what to be done before a village or town was established while migrating from Ile Ife, Oyo or other towns of origin or occupation Anyway, some of these non traditional wayward Obas didn't go to Ipebi for solitude where there would be tutored on the historical foundations and essence to their towns.

Are these royal rascals to be blamed? Some of them were recruited from abroad where they were trafficking in hard drugs and humans, credit card and travel scam and other financial crimes. Some that were recruited here in Yoruba land were the criminal land grabbers, (omo Onile), political touts, killers and agents of rogue politicians who imposed them on their people with the conspiracy of some dishonorable cowardly kingmakers. How will they respect the tradition and culture of their towns and their people? They don't even know the history of the crowns, beads, staff of office they carry around Owambe parties with red, yellow, orange complexioned women of ease virtues called "their Oloris.

The occupants of Yoruba royal stool are called are called Traditional Rulers, simple and clear. So why did they apply to such an office responsible for the custody of tradition and culture of their people if not " ojukokoro" pokenosing, or just to use the royal privilege to enhance their criminal enterprise?

If they are indeed real Muslims or Christians and they thought their religions are not compatible with the traditional institution, then why did they become traditional rulers and not pastors and Imams, abi? He who that doesn't want to be splashed with water doesn't go to the riverside. It will be wrong for a traditionalist to become pastor or Imam and use his new position to preach Isese on the pulpit. He should go back to his Isese if he's normal.

By the way, tradition does not impose religion on anybody, but what Yoruba tradition and practitioners frown at, is to occupy a traditional rulership and use the position of cultural trust to destroy traditions since no one forced them to apply for the job. No bishop, no Alfa will use their positions as clerics to destroy their respective religion. It's not done, they can only advance it for better practice. By the way, is it not the same God they say we are worshiping?

Let those non tradition traditional rulers leave the palace if they can't cope with the responsibilities or they feel their religions are not compatible with the tradition and culture of their people retrace their steps back to their religions and quit Obaship traditional institution, or their people should chase them away or force them to "open calabash"."

Source: Adeola Soetan via FB

donjazzet:


Reading this and have to say, not saying these in a negative way but you might legit have sociopathic issues brought upon by mummy issues. Please don't take this wrongly.

I didn't quite get the context of your message but the fact still remains that little or no attention is been paid to the kind of abuses men face in a relationship.. ranging from emotional and other physical abuses..

My uncle like that, his wife gives him he'll on earth in his home.. he don't dare say it out for the fear of being labelled weak..

Dele Alli say it all interview.. he said his mom's friend sexually abused him when he was 6.. he didn't say it out because he'd be labeled weak or in some cases, some people who might see it in a sexual fantasy kinda lens might not even take it serious

So apparently men gets as much abuse as women but that of men are been handled in kids glove as against the females..

All a woman has to do is to just cry and the whole world will come crumbling at her feet believing her

larride:
The annoying part of this Mendy case is that like 4 or 5 of the ladies know each other, them even get whatsapp group. 😡

One of their browser history was even showing them googling his network.

I saw this and I just began to laugh. Another one told her friend in a VN that it was 'the best night of her life'



These people never cease to amaze me.

Someone is pronounced guilty and that's the end of the case. Someone is pronounced not guilty and they start looking for technicalities.

larride:


Both issue are not mutually exclusive and the way you want to try and lump it together cant work.

Rape is a crime, and anyone who is caught is charged to court to face the consequences

But there is no consequence for false rape accusation, alot of ladies just walk away freely after ruining the life of a man with blatant false accusation.

There are already punishment for those that rape, don't you think there should be punishment for those that falsely accuse someone else of rape also?

I pray you dont fall a victim of false rape accusation, maybe just then like Dr Olufunmilayo, your eyes will clear.

Like I said...the women claiming to be feminists today, check them all. They have a behavioral pattern. Very bitter.

The movement now is geared towards taking power away from men..and emasculate them

They want a world where a wife will get humped by another man, and the hubby will understand her reasons for doing that and tries to make it work.

Like you said : It's easy to trivialize these false accusations until it hits home.

Unlimited22:


Lmao
Mans was forming Ruben Días. Voltron defender of the femiverse. Once them accuse person, ẹ don begin dey talk nonsense until ẹ reach him turn.


The girl who falsely accused Izu and led to his suicide is till on Twitter till today.

2019-21 Twitter Ng was wild man.


Once them accuse person, anyone who begins asking questions Don turn rape apologist.
It got so bad that these children of the devil made lists of so called 'rape apologists and rapists' on Twitter. It only stopped when people got in somehow and began to add their brothers and fathers.



Rape is a heinous crime and I believe anyone who forces himself on a woman should be castrated. In fact, it is because of how terrible that crime is that these idiots have turned it into a weapon of attrition.

Mtchew.

Bro, I felt no pity whatsoever for Dr Olufunmilayo tbh, he just had a taste of the soup he was cooking and couldn't take it. He left Twitter for good.

Izu death was the turning point for alot of guys to start pushing back.

There's this other popular guy that was also accused of rape, the guy saving grace was that he wasn't even in Nigeria during that period.

Some women are devil in disguise

Emaprince:


Like I said...the women claiming to be feminists today, check them all. They have a behavioral pattern. Very bitter.

The movement now is geared towards taking power away from men..and emasculate them

They want a world where a wife will get humped by another man, and the hubby will understand her reasons for doing that and tries to make it work.

Like you said : It's easy to trivialize these false accusations until it hits home.

this shiit legit happened on Twitter yesterday.. some nigga was happy and even allegedly gifted his wife a Lambo for acting a porn with another man..

Shiit is becoming bold and crazy

larride:


Bro, I felt no pity whatsoever for Dr Olufunmilayo tbh, he just had a taste of the soup he was cooking and couldn't take it. He left Twitter for good.

Izu death was the turning point for alot of guys to start pushing back.

There's this other popular guy that was also accused of rape, the guy saving grace was that he wasn't even in Nigeria during that period.

Some women are devil in disguise

Justin UG. The girls were already sending mails to his school and work place.

Man had to post his boarding pass àbí na flight ticket on Twitter to clear himself.


And e sure me say some of the people who did these things are laughing to his skits on the same Twitter today.

seankafor:
this shiit legit happened on Twitter yesterday.. some nigga was happy and even allegedly gifted his wife a Lambo for acting a porn with another man..

Shiit is becoming bold and crazy

Those are two pornstars.

larride:


Bro, I felt no pity whatsoever for Dr Olufunmilayo tbh, he just had a taste of the soup he was cooking and couldn't take it. He left Twitter for good.

Izu death was the turning point for alot of guys to start pushing back.

There's this other popular guy that was also accused of rape, the guy saving grace was that he wasn't even in Nigeria during that period.

Some women are devil in disguise

what of the pastors that do gets countless of these rape accusations?

You'd see a girl that has slept with a man for up to 5 times non stop.. when shit goes out of hand , shed start coming out with false rape accusations and everyone will be towing on same lane like zombies

Melvyn11:

Those are two pornstars.

seems the man let her have a sex scene with another man or some sort

donjazzet:


One question Emmanuel, what do see as feminism? What do you understand by feminism and lastly, do you see all feminists as bitter people?

Edit; you just said, "men are expected to bottle up". Now the question is, "by who". Is it not the same men too who have made it very difficult for other men to show emotions?
And wouldn't you want that situation to change? What you just described has a term, called "toxic masculinity". One where it is societally expected of men to not show any kind of emotion.

For example, if a man publicly shows love towards his woman, it's now called "simping". He is belittled for showing an emotional side and we all take part in that. That's just an example.

This is a great point!

"""They want a world where a wife will get humped by another man, and the hubby will understand her reasons for doing that and tries to make it work."""

This is coming from a gender that goes around fucking different girls even when married. This is coming from a gender that wants the freedom to marry more than 5 wives. When these double standards gets called out this one will start calling women bitter. The privilege should be for only men 😂

seankafor:
seems the man let her have a sex scene with another man or some sort

He didn't eat her do anything. Both of them are married pornstars who fuc.k other people.

Unlimited22:

I saw this and I just began to laugh. Another one told her friend in a VN that it was 'the best night of her life'



These people never cease to amaze me.

Someone is pronounced guilty and that's the end of the case. Someone is pronounced not guilty and they start looking for technicalities.

You start hearing things like not guilty doesn't mean he's innocent.

I agree with you that it is very hypocritical for a man to have said that.

Kholiwe:
"""They want a world where a wife will get humped by another man, and the hubby will understand her reasons for doing that and tries to make it work."""

This is coming from a gender that goes around fucking different girls even when married. This is coming from a gender that wants the freedom to marry more than 5 wives. When these double standards gets called out this one will start calling women bitter. The privilege should be for only men 😂

There are many men who feel that there are entitled to fvck many men but the women should not have any such entitlement.
If a man fvcks around, it's him being a "player". If a woman fvcks around, it's her being a "hoe". Nothing shows a woman's disadvantage in society more than this.

Unlimited22:

Justin UG. The girls were already sending mails to his school and work place.

Man had to post his boarding pass àbí na flight ticket on Twitter to clear himself.


And e sure me say some of the people who did these things are laughing to his skits on the same Twitter today.

Omo fear devilish ladies.

seankafor:
what of the pastors that do gets countless of these rape accusations?

You'd see a girl that has slept with a man for up to 5 times non stop.. when shit goes out of hand , shed start coming out with false rape accusations and everyone will be towing on same lane like zombies

Like Fatoyinbo wey use scope nack Busola multiple times and she wan turn am to rape

Busola probably had a crush on him but after many years the guy no leave his wife for Busola, she turned it into rape

donjazzet:
Please educate yourselves, I beg you.

we all know what feminism is

we also know that what we have today is for want of a better word, third wave, my way or the high way feminism


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qaHLd8de6nM

seankafor:
what of the pastors that do gets countless of these rape accusations?

Why is a pastor sleeping with church girls in the first place.

larride:


Both issue are not mutually exclusive and the way you want to try and lump it together cant work.

Rape is a crime, and anyone who is caught is charged to court to face the consequences

But there is no consequence for false rape accusation, alot of ladies just walk away freely after ruining the life of a man with blatant false accusation.

There are already punishment for those that rape, don't you think there should be punishment for those that falsely accuse someone else of rape also?

I pray you dont fall a victim of false rape of, maybe just then like Dr Olufunmilayo, your eyes will clear.

The bolded is it, you don't truly know how it feels until you experience it...

Melvyn11:

Why is a pastor sleeping with church girls in the first place.

Because he feels the urge to have sex like every male which is not a crime as long as he didn't force them and it was consensual

Melvyn11:

Why is a pastor sleeping with church girls in the first place.

Why shouldn't 2 consenting adults sleep with each other if they wish?

raumdeuter:


Because he feels the urge to have sex like every male which is not a crime as long as he didn't force them and it was consensual

A pastor should not be sleeping with his church girls especially the married ones. That's abuse of authority.

seankafor:
Why shouldn't 2 consenting adults sleep with each other if they wish?

A pastor should not sleep with his church members. The werey will now climb purpit on Sunday forming holy.