fifehanmi938:



My wema bank account has entered dormant and I have not been able to go to the bank since I came back.

Find out about how to setup a bank account. Banks thesedays easily set accounts up for people. Look into it

Wodu89:



Find out about how to setup a bank account. Banks thesedays easily set accounts up for people. Look into it

Okay I will thank you

fifehanmi938:


I am a Christian

I haven't attend any church since I came back
I'm currently in Ogun state

I know but I don't have any option at the moment 🥺

Check mail please...

Icant adopt your daughter and Iwont advice you to give up your daughter on a faceless forum to total strangers(icant even imagine)

May Allah give you wisdom that is all Ican say

••pained••

Candidlady:



Check mail please...

Icant adopt your daughter and Iwont advice you to give up your daughter on a faceless forum to total strangers(icant even imagine)

May Allah give you wisdom that is all Ican say

••pained••

Amen ma

I can't see your email but I have sent you an email request I Don't know if it goes through

You can contact me on my alternate email
iyanuoluwabillz@gmail.com

fifehanmi938:


Amen ma

I can't see your email but I have sent you an email request I Don't know if it goes through

You can contact me on my alternate email
iyanuoluwabillz@gmail.com

Resent it

Candidlady:


Resent it

Seen ma I replied

fifehanmi938:


Seen ma I replied

yankuri danallah drop the "ma" thing don't give this NL fruitless gender a reason to start calling me ENP lol


Don't reply this mention.. Ialready replied your mail

Rather than look for a job, or learn a skill to cater for yourself and daughter, you're looking for a short cut to escape the mess you made.

The father has absconded and left the whole responsibilities for you, that's why you feel it's completely normal to give up your 10 year old daughter for adoption on a faceless forum to a total stranger?

I'm sorry to say this, but you're not a responsible person, if you were you would have know that there are perverts lurking around who would happily accept that child for the sole purpose of making her their séx toy, there are ritualists who wouldn't blink an eye lid before considering to use her for rituals, there are demons, who would beat, torture and make life miserable for her.

Better go out there and get a job to take care of that child. If you want help, look for the father or any member of his family.

nickyvil:


Okay I will accept now

GOD bless you abundantly for helping the Lady. If we have more people like you in Nigeria, the country will be a great place to live.

Nazgul:
Rather than look for a job, or learn a skill to cater for yourself and daughter, you're looking for a short cut to escape the mess you made.

The father has absconded and left the whole responsibilities for you, that why you feel it's completely normal to give up your 10 year old daughter for adoption on a faceless forum to a total stranger?

I'm sorry to say this, but you're not a responsible person, if you were you would have know that there are perverts lurking around who would happily accept that child for the sole purpose of making her their intimacy gadget, there are ritualists who wouldn't blink an eye lid before considering to use her for rituals, there are demons, who would beat, torture and make life miserable for her.

Better go out there and get a job to take care of that child. If you want help, look for the father or any member of his family.

Not everyone is a pervert and ritualist. There are kind hearted people on this forum.

keymatt:
Not everyone is a pervert and ritualist. There are kind hearted people on this forum.

Next time read my post properly and understand it before giving me a mention.

Candidlady:



yankuri danallah drop the "ma" thing don't give this NL fruitless gender a reason to start calling me ENP lol


Don't reply this mention.. Ialready replied your mail

Okay I understand 🙏
I replied back

Nazgul:
Rather than look for a job, or learn a skill to cater for yourself and daughter, you're looking for a short cut to escape the mess you made.

The father has absconded and left the whole responsibilities for you, that why you feel it's completely normal to give up your 10 year old daughter for adoption on a faceless forum to a total stranger?

I'm sorry to say this, but you're not a responsible person, if you were you would have know that there are perverts lurking around who would happily accept that child for the sole purpose of making her their intimacy gadget, there are ritualists who wouldn't blink an eye lid before considering to use her for rituals, there are demons, who would beat, torture and make life miserable for her.

Better go out there and get a job to take care of that child. If you want help, look for the father or any member of his family.

Hmmm

Wodu89:



Life.is funny..I have a vacant two bed about four hours from you. Hmm


I know areas you can get a room with little fee. What city are you in presently ?

What Ii fee are you. Talking about

ahnie:

What Ii fee are you. Talking about

There are places people can get a room 15-25k

Wodu89:



There are places people can get a room 15-25k

..I don't think she's bouyant

ahnie:
..I don't think she's bouyant

If she sees 70k, she'll be fine.

25k for house

15k for daily transport for some time

25k for a POS machine to do POS business and she'll be fine within six months

The rest miscellaneous

Wodu89:



If she sees 70k, she'll be fine.

25k for house

15k for daily transport for some time

25k for a POS machine to do POS business and she'll be fine within six months

The rest miscellaneous

The 25k is it per annum payment

ahnie:



The 25k is it per annum payment

Yes


.

Can u try n contact a motherless babies home instead? If u don't want, she can stay with my mom in Ilorin and then we'll find a way to work things out for u and her. Send me Ur number, or call and then we'll talk. My number is on my profile here.

My Mummy is in Satellite town in Lagos, she actually stays alone as all her children have left house. If you wouldn't mind we can arrange for the girl to stay with her. Her well-being and education is guaranteed but proper documentations must be done.

fifehanmi938:
Good morning everyone, please I opened this account to be anonymous.
Please I really want to give out my daughter for adoption because am going through it all and want to commit suicide. Here is my story
I had my daughter when I was 17 years old and the guy I had the daughter for left me and run away after the child's naming and this made me to return to my family and living with them with the kid.i started working as a teacher to survive.. everything was going fine until devil came into my family and my parents separated.and my mom got very sick, serious sickness and my Dad left home for a long time ,not until my mom's family came to take my mom to the village and now left with me,my daughter and my two siblings..

Things became very hard but I still continue working but not enough to survive us,not until the day my dad brought a woman to the house ,two years after my mom was away.
My mom sickness turns out to be mental illness so no hope of her recovering fast because her family took her to different churches and all but still the same.

So when my dad brought this woman,she started to frustrate us and my dad told me to leave the kid and go out to work ,that his wife will take care of the kid which I agreed.
So a friend told me about traveling to Cairo to work ,but I will pay back for 1 and half years to my boss. It was maid work but we call it shagala there.which I agreed,so thdy process my passport and travel document and I travelled.

I started working and serving my boss there not until one day my sister called me on phone that my dad wife has pursued her and left only my brother and my daughter and she told me how my daughter is maltreated and she is very malnourished,at a point I am very depressed but I don't have option because am not in Nigeria and still working and paying back.

So after a year and half I paid finish and start working on my own ,we are paid 100k monthly if we exchange it to Nigeria currency and I paid house rent monthly because we work for 26 days and go home for the remaining 4 days.

A year after I started working,my Dad's start calling me to come back and take my child because they can't take care of her anymore,since his new wife gave birth they say my daughter is now a burden to them and my kid brother I heard they sent him to learn apprentice and live with his boss..

I told them to be patient with Me that am not in Nigeria,he said he don't care that I should know how I come for my daughter or I will not see her again,he became very aggressive.

I had no option than to travel back to Nigeria with the little I save, getting to Nigeria on my way to Ogun state,I was robbed and got injured and everything I had was taken,my clothes phone and all.

I had two phones,one Samsung that is badly broken and not working really well and one Redmi,I am posting from the Samsung now since the Redmi was stolen.

I got frustrated more ,now I am homeless and I started working with a woman who sells food which she allows me to sleep at her shop after we close and give me 400 naira everyday but the problem now is that she said I can't bring in my child and I reach out to my sister,she said my dad give me 4 days to come and take the daughter or else I won't hear from her again because he will go and dump her somewhere.

I am totally depressed and suicidal please who can adopt my daughter 🙏🥺😭I beg in the name of God just for sometimes if I can be able to gather myself to rent a house later then I come take her.

Here is my email feranmi938@gmail.com

I don't think you understand what adoption means, foster maybe

nickyvil:
And one more thing, we will have a proper documentation at the police that your daughter will be staying with me. I don't want a story like, they kidnapped my daughter cos something like that was reported of recent. I have to be on a safe side.

Just involve a lawyer and she too will involve her own lawyer to avoid issues of child theft

You dont even need police now on this matter

We have spoken, I have this too in mind to sign proper undertaking to avoid this.

frozen70:


Just involve a lawyer and she too will involve her own lawyer to avoid issues of child theft

You dont even need police now on this matter

All this guy's up there looking for maids for their mother.

Una no get family members that aren't able to take care of their kids.

Or widows no de una family wey the children no de fit go school.

Foodqueen:
All this guy's up there looking for maids for their mother.

Una no get family members that aren't able to take care of their kids.

Or widows no de una family wey the children no de fit go school.

Dont trivialize people's good wills. On their behalf, I rebuke you. Before I became financially comfortable, I've had family members died when help wasn't offered to them.


Please do away with this behavior going forward. Even as a man with pity, I took in a girl this way on Facebook a decade ago. After feeding her five times daily, everyone today wants her. Please if you won't have positive contributions to bring in life, don't smear people who come with an offering


Thank you

Foodqueen:
All this guy's up there looking for maids for their mother.

Una no get family members that aren't able to take care of their kids.

Or widows no de una family wey the children no de fit go school.

You have a point...

Wodu89:



Dont trivialize people's good wills. On their behalf, I rebuke you. Before I became financially comfortable, I've had family members died when help wasn't offered to them.


Please do away with this behavior going forward. Even as a man with pity, I took in a girl this way on Facebook a decade ago. After feeding her five times daily, everyone today wants her. Please if you won't have positive contributions to bring in life, don't smear people who come with an offering


Thank you

I beg shift.

Ya, fed her 20 times daily.

U can't read to understand.

Your writeup sef, is mixed up.

Your families and neighbor no de homeless.

fifehanmi938:



My wema bank account has entered dormant and I have not been able to go to the bank since I came back.

Download opay app and open account with your phone number asap let's contribute a little we can for u

Sucre6:



Download opay app and open account with your phone number asap let's contribute a little we can for u

help sir

Dcass:
help sir

Ijust went through your topics now

Is this single mother the new thing in town now

Allahsukaruwa

Don't know who to even trust again.... This is just madness

So as a single mother now the next thing is to become a liability and Iam here bashing all the males for begging...


This forum don tire me iswear 😡
No integrity

Iknow enough single mom who are made and are even happy to be one but this part of the world like it is totally different (ijust hope it is all for the scam) cos most single mum Iknow are extremely hardworking and proactive


Nonsense

nickyvil:
We have spoken, I have this too in mind to sign proper undertaking to avoid this.

Ok that's nice