fifehanmi938:


She is 10 years old now

I will be glad of you can adopt her🥺

But jos is far ,did you have someone who can pick her up from here.


Yes I'm currently in Ogun state abeokuta precisely

I only have school certificate and I learnt fashion design when I was still in school..

Send me a pm

Nazgul:
Rather than look for a job, or learn a skill to cater for yourself and daughter, you're looking for a short cut to escape the mess you made.

The father has absconded and left the whole responsibilities for you, that why you feel it's completely normal to give up your 10 year old daughter for adoption on a faceless forum to a total stranger?

I'm sorry to say this, but you're not a responsible person, if you were you would have know that there are perverts lurking around who would happily accept that child for the sole purpose of making her their intimacy gadget, there are ritualists who wouldn't blink an eye lid before considering to use her for rituals, there are demons, who would beat, torture and make life miserable for her.

Better go out there and get a job to take care of that child. If you want help, look for the father or any member of his family.

Oga,please tune down your word...

She's a kind mother, I'm not supporting her in anyway, but mistakes happen...

Reason why I said she's a kind mother is because,for her to leave her 100k job in Cairo down to Nigeria 🇳🇬 just because of the love for her daughter says alot about how she cares...

Please let always give people on this forum a benefit of doubt..

The person who is even in question to take in the little girls was even the first to propose a police station, because of future problem...

Foodqueen:


I beg shift.

Ya, fed her 20 times daily.

U can't read to understand.

Your writeup sef, is mixed up.

Your families and neighbor no de homeless.

Smiles. People who take people's.conditioms.as joke. May you have an experience that will shut your mouth and teach you wisdom


Good day

Wodu89:




Smiles. People who take people's.conditioms.as joke. May you have an experience that will shut your mouth and teach you wisdom


Good day

You are so daft.

Back to the sender. May you experience all the bad things life can ever throw at anyone. Idiot.

Foodqueen:


You are so daft.

Back to the sender. May you experience all the bad things life can ever throw at anyone. Idiot.

You're a witch. Don't bother. I've prayed over it. You've seen the little girls life would change hence you're fighting hard so the will of your father the devil happens to keep the family in bondage. It won't work. You're not the mother and the mother isn't complaining..Marine kingdom witch. You've exposed yourself.


I won't bother repwonsding to you again witch

Wodu89:



You're a witch. Don't bother. I've prayed over it. You've seen the little girls life would change hence you're fighting hard so the will of your father the devil happens to keep the family in bondage. It won't work. You're not the mother and the mother isn't complaining..Marine kingdom witch. You've exposed yourself.


I won't bother repwonsding to you again witch

Ur mom right

Update on our discussions this morning;
I've been trying to call her since 12pm and her line is not reachable, I want it to be transparent here, I called her and she explain, where she stay is far from where I stay but that is not the problem, I told her to give me her dad's line since the daughter is there so I can call the dad and from there I will be able to go there to see the daughter and arrange on how to pick her, I told her I will have to find out about her daughter so as to know if we have to work on her cos some kids once they have gone through issues like that, it changes them so it's something we have to let her see the positive of life cos I have a kids too and I will want them to learn positive things from each other so that I won't regret bringing her home to my family. And I asked her if she have recent or any pics of her daughter and since she said her phone is bad and she didn't have any pics of her daughter or her to send. This is my suggestion ,

* She should contact her sister that have her father's contact so to get his contact, she said the father don't want her and her sister to know his place and that he said he will bring the daughter to the nearest bus stop for her. Once she get the contact, I will take it from there and fix a day I will pic her up to go pick her daughter together.

Lastly, I've already spoke with my family and lawyer about this and I can go ahead since my family have given me the permission.

Another suggestion is if there is someone staying at IFO since that is where her daughter is, it will be helpful so that the person can go and verify, get in touch with her father after she drop her father's contact.
Thanks all

95% men loose their senses when they see women.Its not made up.

I'm waiting for when this man will die and the group who tells you to forgive will crawl out from their crevices.

Growing up,the most pampered ,entitled and spoilt among children are those raised by their grandparents .No punishment ,just excess wisdom,love and excess food.
But what is this child benefiting from her Grandpa?Suffering and rejection.
Just because of Toto.

Tufiakwa!

nickyvil:
Update on our discussions this morning;
I've been trying to call her since 12pm and her line is not reachable, I want it to be transparent here, I called her and she explain, where she stay is far from where I stay but that is not the problem, I told her to give me her dad's line since the daughter is there so I can call the dad and from there I will be able to go there to see the daughter and arrange on how to pick her, I told her I will have to find out about her daughter so as to know if we have to work on her cos some kids once they have gone through issues like that, it changes them so it's something we have to let her see the positive of life cos I have a kids too and I will want them to learn positive things from each other so that I won't regret bringing her home to my family. And I asked her if she have recent or any pics of her daughter and since she said her phone is bad and she didn't have any pics of her daughter or her to send. This is my suggestion ,

She hasn't replied my mail too since.. maybe her phone is down

Let us just be hopefully

Thanks for trying to assist her

May Allah grant you the strength and wisdom you need to take of yours and hers
Amin

nickyvil:
I can adopt her and I stay in Lagos, but we will have to come to an agreement that at least she will stay till she have a proper education not that you will come pick her up and she start going to hustle again with you.

Obviously op needs help, financially. Knowing fully well that nlanders will bash her for public begging she decided to use the adoption route. She is unaware of what adoption entails. And the legal process can run into a year that during the duration she may have already found her feet and have a change of heart.

Too sad that fraudsters her overtaken Nl. To know those in real need and those scammers is hard.

Op kindly take her to a Catholic orphanage,explain your situation,they may assist and keep her till you are financially okay

Amen anc you too

Candidlady:


She hasn't replied my mail too since.. maybe her phone is down

Let us just be hopefully

Thanks for trying to assist her

May Allah grant you the strength and wisdom you need to take of yours and hers
Amin

Nazgul:
Rather than look for a job, or learn a skill to cater for yourself and daughter, you're looking for a short cut to escape the mess you made.

The father has absconded and left the whole responsibilities for you, that why you feel it's completely normal to give up your 10 year old daughter for adoption on a faceless forum to a total stranger?

I'm sorry to say this, but you're not a responsible person, if you were you would have know that there are perverts lurking around who would happily accept that child for the sole purpose of making her their intimacy gadget, there are ritualists who wouldn't blink an eye lid before considering to use her for rituals, there are demons, who would beat, torture and make life miserable for her.

Better go out there and get a job to take care of that child. If you want help, look for the father or any member of his family.

This is the wisest post I have seen. The op isn't aware of what adoption entails. She is in need of money(assuming the narration is true),instead of coming out plain to seek for help because of fear of nlanders rebuking her for internet begging or calling her a scammer,chose the adoption route.

It actually isn't normal for one to give up a child they have loved and bonded with for a decade just like that. Something is off.

But incase this is a genuine plight,a Catholic orphanage pending when she has sorted herself will be the best option

ShenTeh:


I also think that providing more information will help your cause.l, eg your daughter's age, location (eg State), the position of her father's people, (you should contact them, as I do not think you can solely give her up for adoption without their say so.

All I see in your story is fatherhood failure on all parties. When

I am always telling our GenZ girls, once you get carried away by a 15minutes enjoyment and pregnancy happens, that will alter the trajectory of your life forever. It would take God, guts and grace to live your life to the fullest. I hope this provides additional learning materials for our teenage girls today.

May help come your way.

@ the bolded. Apt!!!!!

Good evening everyone,my phone is off since morning,I went to charge it at a nearby store
Please I will reply to each and every comments shortly.

I got a call just now from a cousin that my father cane to drop the kid at her place this afternoon, because he knows we are close they said they have been trying my number and it's off and he said if I like I should not come and pick her from there🥺I am crying right now,and my cousin said I should come for her tommorow, my cousin stays at Abule egba U turn,Please I will appreciate if anyone can rent me a single room maybe or 2k monthly,so I can live with her and start selling food,I can cook very well and I can start selling food and taking it to school or start selling puff puff and doughnut.
Please I'm not here to beg money, please we can meet and anyone who can help me rent the house pay for it and buy me flour and ingredients to start Baking or food selling.

Please I beg I'm shaking writing this,deep down in my mind I Don't want her to suffer and am also scared of leaving her with a stranger..

Please I need help🙏🥺😭😭

I Have read some heartbreaking comment so far , please I'm not here to beg,this is my situation,my father is evil and they are trying to frustrate me,I almost got hit my a car tonight when I was thinking while walking on the road side..

I just feel like ending it all, but I don't want to put her in pains.

Pls sis, never give out ur daughter yo any one.. I'm talking from experience.. They will maltreat her

I hope the other young ladies still jumping from one man's bed to another will see this and learn. When they'll be telling you then to stop, you'll shut down everybody. Now see? I'm sure that's why your father is not moved to continue keeping your daughter.

Once you start doing what will bring a child into the world, be ready to go through with whatever comes with it.

Someone created a palmpay account for me
Please I will appreciate any support
Anyone who want me to.meet up with my daughter too🙏

I will appreciate any help please I just need an accomodations now and starting something

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Palmpay
Feranmi Kolawole

Jewessgratitud3:
I hope the other young ladies still jumping from one man's bed to another will see this and learn. When they'll be telling you then to stop, you'll shut down everybody. Now see? I'm sure that's why your father is not moved to continue keeping your daughter. Once you start doing what will bring a child into the world, be ready to go through with whatever comes with it.

Did she tell you she was jumping from one man to another? She was impregnated by a deadbeat is what she says.

Ulunne777:
95% men loose their senses when they see women.Its not made up.

I'm waiting for when this man will die and the group who tells you to forgive will crawl out from their crevices.

Growing up,the most pampered ,entitled and spoilt among children are those raised by their grandparents .No punishment ,just excess wisdom,love and excess food.
But what is this child benefiting from her Grandpa?Suffering and rejection.
Just because of Toto.

Tufiakwa!

🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
I don't know what we have done to receive this much hate.

Kobojunkie:
Did she tell you she was jumping from one man to another? She was impregnated by a deadbeat is what she says.

Did she not jump on his bed? Or how did she get pregnant? A 17 year old girl at that

Jewessgratitud3:
▪■ Did she not jump on his bed? Or how did she get pregnant? A 17 year old girl at that

Oh, she was not in a relationship as she said, instead she was jumping on his bed? I see how you think.

You're a foolish mother

Usel**s mofo

You are looking for a way to go out and sell your self for free


Take care of your child or return her to her father the man wey give you belle
That's if you know

fifehanmi938:


🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
I don't know what we have done to receive this much hate.

.no body hates you. Your father is not happy with what you did. what father will be proud or happy with being saddled with a child he didn't bring into the world or planned for?

Hes not happy that you toll that path and now want him to be the one suffering for your mistakes. It's not easy . Everyone is trying to manage themselves and all you could do is add another unplanned burden. So stop blaming the old man rather blame yourself and the guy that impregnated.

I feel for the innocent child caught in this whole mess because she didn't ask to be born.

Kobojunkie:
Oh, she was not in a relationship as she said, instead she was jumping on his bed? I see how you think.

Relationship my foot! I see how you too think brother korkor. Imagine justifying immorality. So every relationship must have a sexual tone to it? Right? Whatever happened to purity relationship. At least all thesis would have prevented.

Mr thinker.

Jewessgratitud3:
■ Relationship my foot! I see how you too think brother korkor. Imagine justifying immorality. So every relationship must have a sexual tone to it? Right? Whatever happened to a pure relationship. At least all thesis would have prevented.Mr thinker.

Immorality? Hahahahaha

Pure relationship? You religious people ehn... always looking to impose your delusions on others.

Never planned my life this way
I don't know if it's generational curse or first born curse 😭😭
I'm just tired of everything happening to me
I don't just want to live this child in this painful world the suffer when am no more

Because all hope is lost
I just feel like am cursed and rejected
I never known my purpose in this world
I'm typing this In so much tears on my face

Please if anyone can recommend any church that have a live in accomodations for me and my daughter please.

I can't stand leaving her
I'm just frustrated and want to die

fifehanmi938:



My wema bank account has entered dormant and I have not been able to go to the bank since I came back.

are you not practicing feminism anymore? What about the other Monica you normally use to bash Nigerian guys every day here on nairaland? Some people will just go to Libya and Egypt to knack and after scattering there kpekus they will still come back to Nigeria and be forming men are scum... No offense...

fifehanmi938:
Never planned my life this way I don't know if it's generational curse or first born curse 😭😭
I'm just tired of everything happening to me
I don't just want to live this child in this painful world the suffer when am no more

Because all hope is lost. I just feel like am cursed and rejected. I never known my purpose in this world. I'm typing this In so much tears on my face

Please if anyone can recommend any church that have a live in accomodations for me and my daughter please. I can't stand leaving her I'm just frustrated and want to die

Snap out of it! There are no generational curses or first born curses after you. What you have here is simply the consequence of many decisions made. So wake up and work towards carefully thinking things through before jumping in.

Will your mother's people not have you and your child? If they can, move back there to take care of her and offer to help them out as much as is possible. Put your kid in school there and work any job available from there.