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Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Pearlslove: 12:03am On Jul 20, 2023 |
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Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Fefa: 12:08am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Hello dear writer! I would appreciate ma, that you carefully go through my reply to your message in regards to your ' lonely state ' carefully and with a OPEN MIND, PLEASE. Ensure you read more than once too, please. Don't mind the construction, if it seems unprofessional rather focus on the points. First, let me start by saying, " you are over 80% gone at finding the solution ( s ) TO WHATEVER IT IS THAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH. So, DON'T GIVE UP! NEVER! I say this because the first major step at being a better ' us ' or improving at something is REALIZATION. Which you already have! Therefore, I celebrate you, your Success, your courage and determination to get help?👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🤗 I am certainly NOT here to preach religion even though a part of me is happy that you mentioned your efforts at getting friends from a church. This is NOT because I am a preacher or a know - it - all ma BUT because I believe that reading your post just this night; was DIVINE! I was so touched by your story. Hubby shared link with me ) and I have a burden to share some useful tips with you if you don't consider me a ' child '. These are my sincere observations: ✓ You are a sincere individual; it's evident from your post. You opened up about love for going abroad and also started your " mistakes ". I mean, NOT MANY PEOPLE WOULD DO THAT! ✓ You are restraining yourself " unnecessarily " ma! How? If your sister didn't complain about you calling her, who are you to refrain yourself ma? OPEN UP MA! That's what sisters / brothers do for one another! I mean, it's in tough times that we know through friends. ✓ You CANNOT GIVE WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE! Find God, sincerely now. You won't regret it ma. Note: The people in the church cannot give you want you need if you don't first, find the giver of every good and perfect gift! What if you aren't paying enough attention to the cues from your maker? I mean, everybody in the church can't be the problem. They all CANNOT hate you; that is if they do without any reason. I am not judging ma; just stating the obvious! ✓ There are still great people out there, INFACT MANY; so why should finding one be so tough on you? Look in another direction, please. ✓ Stop entertaining negative thoughts. It's playing a fast one on you. Don't forget the Bible scriptures below; you can read them too. * The hearts of Kings are in his hands... * Without Him you can do nothing... * Commit your ways unto the Lord... * Help does not come from the east... * We wrestle not against... * If we have faith as little as a mustard... I mean no insult at all: But please pardon me if you feel insulted! My humble suggestions: # How about you START by ' LOVING ' you and being happy. This is one thing that I am CERTAIN about; HAPPINESS STARTS with you! You don't believe me? Ask yourself this question then: Why do rich, comfortable, seemingly happy people, home and abroad Commit suicide? Here is it, you may have all the money, family, affluence and even loved ones around and still do the unthinkable! # Geniuenly answer the following questions ma: A. Am I truly lonely because I am abroad? I mean, I know it's busy there; never been there but then... B. Was I happier back home? C. Are people the reason I feel this way? D. What is it that I am not doing right? E. What do I truly lack, my inner self, family, fun memories or good friends F. Do people ( family, now ) call me if I don't call them? G. Has it always been this way? H. Can I trace this loneliness to some past events? If yes, am I exaggerating it ? Let me explain some of my reasons for asking you to do the above. 1. You may only need to change your mindset. • Work more at being a better person, • Learn great attitudes and communication skills. • Get positive distractions and keep being positive. 2. Maybe, just maybe you have an attitude that is refraining you from expressing yourself the way that you should and this could be a huge turn - off to intending true friends! # Join physical and online groups that interests you. Here you would learn about other people and KNOW FOR SURE that YOU ARE NOT ALONE! # Get involved at something you enjoy doing. Maybe, music, writing, traveling, cooking, attending to peoples' questions like me or anything at all! So long as it is something productive. I tell you, you can't regret it! # Focus more on your STRENGTHS! The more you do this, the lesser your weakness ( es ) show up their ugly faces! Strick warning ma! The internet isn't the best place to seek personal ANSWERS to pressing and possibly life - threatening issues like you have ma because some people here can't exactly tell what it is you are feeling, they probably are underage, you most likely can't share the same mindset because they " have it all. " What more, no one may understand exactly how you feel and may just offer you advise ( s ) based on their own current situation or even past experiences. Imagine this scenario, how can you explain to someone with food enough to take him the whole year that there is hunger in the land? How can you tell a young lady in love that love doesn't exist? How do you explain to an expectant mother that childbearing isn't really important? I hope you get the picture now ma? Now, INSTEAD of RELYING on answers from random people, why don't you consider: 1. Talking to a professional e.g counselor, therapist and so on. 2. Ask for honest feedback about your bad / good personality traits from close family members. This can truly be of tremendous help IF you truly want a positive change. Don't get me wrong please, I ask questions online too from different helpful sites BUT I do well to be sincere with myself and the situation at hand before taking to any useful advice given online. Then, my concern is that your own issue is something that involves emotions! ( Our emotion can do a lot, BELIEVE ME! ) They can make you call white black and vice versa!😊 A slight or immature reply could set you to a place you can't even imagine ( DEPRESSION ) and that is why I think otherwise ma. KEEP TO HEART THE FOLLOWING: CHANGE BEGINS WITH YOU! Research has shown that OUR BRAINS BELIEVES WHAT WE TELL IT. So, BE POSITIVE! EVERY BATTLE WE WIN OR LOSE STARTS FROM WITHIN; OUR MINDS! It is NOT enough to read this post. As it won't do you much good EXCEPT you PUT TO PRACTISE some of the things you find useful from it. I hope you find the post helpful and I shall be glad to help in any way possible. However, TO BE SURE that you saw and read my comment, do well to leave a reply or you could leave me a message mymoves2017@gmail.com. You would be fine! Help is closer than you can imagine. Your Mr. Right is around the corner. I can sense him! God loves you! 🤗🤗🤗 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by AfroKnight: 2:23pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Calitoscassius: Definitely not Maggie. She has sense. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Calitoscassius(m): 5:52pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
AfroKnight:Yea, and you don't have sense, Now, fork off!! |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by NOETHNICITY(m): 6:25pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Omoawoke:The funny thing is, when they meet that successful guy they(the girls) expect him to spend and invest in them, without anything in return from them other than pussssy. Women are the most self centered creation. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by imagrg(m): 6:58pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Come marry me if you don't mind. Chat with me on WhatsApp: zero eight zero three five zero nine six three four two |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Badmuscole123(m): 10:43pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
We can be friends. I live in Manchester. Can I know more about you. Can I have your number to make friends with you. I’m also lonely here |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by AfroKnight: 11:33pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Calitoscassius: Tell your old man to fv<k off. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Calitoscassius(m): 7:56am On Jul 21, 2023 |
AfroKnight:I have, now you can fork off too. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by AfroKnight: 9:21pm On Jul 21, 2023 |
Calitoscassius: Tell your popsy one more time boy |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by luminouz(m): 2:03pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
1Sharon: Kai. .Sharon, you can so lie ehn!!! ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by luminouz(m): 2:06pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
HaneefahRN: I love how it pains you. Narcissistic Nurse!!! ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by 1Sharon(f): 2:15pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
luminouz: And what country are you in? |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by luminouz(m): 2:17pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
1Sharon:Lol...your country ni and it ain't like what you said at all... |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by 1Sharon(f): 2:49pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
luminouz: If you live in the UK, then you're just in denial. There are fatherless swirly kids everywhere Look at Dele Alli, he cut ties with his father. Unless you're trolling. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Nobody: 3:55pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
obaidan:Avoid black women outside and concentrate on the white women that owns the country your are in |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Nobody: 3:57pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
Gerrard59:For Naija here, my Ex beat me blue and black inside my own house, I couldn't touch her. I'm not violence, if say I de outside Naija, I suppose sue my Ex collect better money |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Nobody: 3:58pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
HacheNoire:Help me travel make I organize better girls outside give you ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by luminouz(m): 8:39pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
1Sharon: Dele Alli cut ties with his father and that means what? His father was irresponsible? Was he fatherless? Or you don't get what fatherless means? All I saw was a brainwashed kid with a mom who had a vendetta against her husband and of course used the courts against him. Then, all the fatherless swirly kids everywhere are the fault of BM in the UK? Or is it not in the same UK that's the divorce capital of Europe, with the most divorce cases initiated by Women of every colour? Go to the US and see the same demographics. A society that rewards divorced women with money and other benefits had it coming and it's designed solely to destroy marital Foundations. Women will always make use of such weakness because women are the same everywhere. Nigerian women are just the upcoming version of their UK and US counterparts. If BM are that bad, why is it that even those BW married in Nigeria and sponsored to the UK by their husbands still get divorced as soon as the BW started making money or done using their husbands to upgrade? This year alone, I have had to counsel close to 6 different men in these shoes. Wait!! I guessed it's also the husbands faults because they refused to wash plates or do other chores right? That's exactly why younger men should learn the redpill and be alert. My dear, I'm not like the ozuor on NL oh...I have seen and I have heard. So please use statistics and not emotional yigiyaga banter with me. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by 1Sharon(f): 10:09pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
luminouz: Where do you live, you're yet to answer me? You are just spewing crap as your emotions lead. Bloviate away. Divorce, husbands, divorce, husbands. Most of these non-black women were not wifed up by black men they chose to father their children. They were relegated to baby mothers. Black women used to be the face of single motherhood in the West and now white women have opened up their options to black men and now they've become mothers to fatherless swirly kids. The common denominator is black men. So yes BM are culprable, not just in the UK but also in the US! The reason why BM dated out is because they thought they could do better than BW so why are they doing the same thing they do to BW to other communities? Becky has natural hair, is petite, "feminine", submissive yet you still couldn't settle🥴 You instead turned her into a racist wishing she listened to her racist father. You helped make a mockery of white women and now they can't mock black people anymore🥴 Thanks for that😂 BM have even gone so far as to fake convert to Islam to have access to Pakistani Muslim women. Somali imams have spoken about it. BW have been told by Bm for decades that it is their attitude driving BM away, but it's all LIES. It is their unbridled lust for any and every kind of woman. You've seen and heard. You really thought you did something. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by 1Sharon(f): 10:17pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
Lewisjohnson: Black men are doing that already. But the more black men open up their dating options, the more single white mothers of swirly kids are created, wetin dey happen? I thought they were better than BW. 2 Likes
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Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by luminouz(m): 1:22am On Jul 23, 2023 |
1Sharon:Ma'am, all this shalaye no dey my side. I'm not interested in all that. I just gave you the truth and I could see it's bitter. Go to the divorce courts and ask if BM or WM are initiating divorces and taking half of everything and the kids. Sayonara!!! |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Fredoh(m): 8:48am On Jul 23, 2023 |
Maria96: Many women are too afraid of loneliness! Why do you sound as if loneliness will kill you? You have a better life than majority of Nigerians and your problem is loneliness, to the point you went sleeping with a man you know is married. Well, you sound desperate for attention. Which is a sign a chameleon can take advantage of. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Ojagun(m): 9:23am On Jul 23, 2023 |
1Sharon:Passport bros a.k.a US black male travellers scream from the rooftops to avoid western(black,white,latin etc) women they damaged,impregnated and ran away from their responsibilities as men and instead go for 'traditional' women in Thailand,Colombia and Philippines but what do these same BM do with the traditional women in these other countries?You guessed right;damage,impregnate them and runaway from their responsibilities.I am neither pro-man nor pro-woman.I am pro-ojagun 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Gent: 2:40pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
Maria96: What about visiting Friend sites like Friends Finder, etc and connect with friendly people in your vicinity? Besides, there are social places like beaches, zoos, amusement parks, etc. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by 1Sharon(f): 3:01pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
luminouz: You're trying to make this about gender but it is not! This is about Black men and their nature!! You're not interested in what I've just said but want me to be interested in what you've said?? Bloody hypocrite. You came to quote me, I didn't quote you |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by luminouz(m): 3:19pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
1Sharon: Oooohhhhh!!! I guess I got you ticked off...🙂🙂🙂 You need to watch your BP, black woman!! ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by luminouz(m): 3:21pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Ojagun: Jesus Christ!!! Another screamer!!! I don't envy your psychiatrist |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by OluDonald1(m): 11:50am On Jul 27, 2023 |
Same thing here o... But it seems no one can tell us something about the company. Pearlslove: |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by BeLookingIDIOT(m): 12:23pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
TemplarLandry:So she isn't supposed to talk about loneliness because she's abroad? |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by zanebaddo(m): 3:36pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Calitoscassius:Hey man can I get your contact? I'd send you a pm.. |
Re: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Iamlakexide(m): 11:33am On Jul 29, 2023 |
Pearlslove: Please any response regarding this company? |
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