Zulum:
Don't mind my English pls

Anytime we had an argument with my wife, she utter some words that I can't even tell that to my enemy...."I am tired of the marriage", "I am always praying for u to die" " I always pray something terrible should happen to you" and so on....

I am Muslim, we are married three years ago and blessed with one child, I can't stay for a good one week in my house peacefully without having misunderstanding with her......i am depressed, worried, always thinking.....

Please let's hear her side of the story as you seem to make us believe that you are a saint. Just few questions for you
- Do you beat her often,
- Have you been involved in extra-marital activity and has she caught you.
- Have you been wicked by not providing for the family

I have a whole lot of questions to ask but please know that only sincerity will make you get genuine advice from the forum. For a woman to wish you death means that a terrible crime must have been committed. She is deeply hurt and struggling to forgive.

Bros run ooo, this one no be to marry second wife mata ooo

Sonnobax15:

Anger!!!! Then again,some words shouldn't be taken lightly before they are backed up by actions....Chebi she get family members na? Why don't you report her to her family?.......Death wishes aren't something one should joke with.....

When marriage which is meant to be enjoyed is being endured,then quitting it shouldn't be one of the major option one must consider..

And called that also marriage right?

Na dem

Swissli:
We Can Say Anything To Hurt You When In A Quarrel

Zulum:


I am a public servant, working in an office from 8am to 5pm, so I don't think leaving her alone will be possible, and considering the environment and how thing are going here in the north....



What do u think about not eating her food, sleeping in different room locked....for the 2 weeks?

Infact I dey fear to eat her food or sleep near her, I always slept eyes opened

The best solution to ur prob now is Mosina

Divorce again, she wants out of the marriage and feels trapped , she may feel only your death could free her. Dont allow yourself to be convinced to allow her parents push her back to you. I am in favour of always giving people what they want. She wants you out of her life so make her wish come true. Make provisions for your son's upkeep like school fees and feeding allowance paid to her parents.

Zulum:


I am always thinking of that, infact I have divorced her once before our parents interfere and brought her back....u know as Muslims you are entitled to three divorce...so remain two now

But my fear is my 3yrs old son....fear of missing him

Una go get sense by cutlass by gun...

Make Una continue...

Zulum:


I am always thinking of that, infact I have divorced her once before our parents interfere and brought her back....u know as Muslims you are entitled to three divorce...so remain two now

But my fear is my 3yrs old son....fear of missing him

So after the third divorce, you won't accept her back again forever, right?

Something must be fish out

Diddycsbsb:
If she wish you death,.. Wish her too,.Wish her accident,. Tell her that you are praying for trailer to crushe her beyond recognition.. Even go to the extreme of telling her that,the day she will be crushed by trailer that you will marry that same day to a beautiful woman better than her... Tell her that even you are tired of the marriage let's divorce so that you can have a time to sleep with as many woman you want.. Tell her that she is very very ugly🐸 that you are now realizing.. Tell she is a mistake that ever since she came into your life everything is stagnant,. Call her a witch..But don't beat her,... Stop complaining be a man go to the house🏠 and tell her Al this I just wrote✍️.. Be a man I'm strongly behind you.

Mature man, dats what to advise a man
U just showed how immature you are
Next time, keep quiet ..dat act can make u mature and wise

Zulum:


If it's easy to run for my life, I would have done that since....i have a 3yrs old child with her, I love that boy....when we separate I know definitely I will miss him.....thats my fear

how old are you and how old is your wife?

Zulum:
Don't mind my English pls

Anytime we had an argument with my wife, she utter some words that I can't even tell that to my enemy...."I am tired of the marriage", "I am always praying for u to die" " I always pray something terrible should happen to you" and so on....

I am Muslim, we are married three years ago and blessed with one child, I can't stay for a good one week in my house peacefully without having misunderstanding with her......i am depressed, worried, always thinking.....

you are weak and she has already seen it and it will never stop. post like this makes you appreciate the REDPILL, Never marry a women who you loves more, when a woman dosent respect you, she can never love you.My brother there is nothing you will do to change, the ball is in your court. i suspect you have low self esteem like thinking you can get a better woman. Maybe she is too fine thats why you feeling inferior.(scarcity Mindset e.g i cant get a better one)
One respect is gone everything is gone, no going back. You better act like a man and be in control of you emotion

People say crazy things in the heat of quarrels. Sometimes I feel embarrassed when I remember the things I said to my sweetheart wife during past quarrels.

Zulum:


I am always thinking of that, infact I have divorced her once before our parents interfere and brought her back....u know as Muslims you are entitled to three divorce...so remain two now

But my fear is my 3yrs old son....fear of missing him

It's only the living that cares for a son !
First stop sleeping with her so u don't impregnate her, more kids means u are sinking into the toxic marriage
2. A woman wishing u dead will kill u or probably she has tried it before
3 . Am not sure you understand that divorce is a man's decision not religious views. What you don't want as many is final !
Your son will be fine, start making plans to be free from death.

Nobody reconcile the living and the dead if u know what I mean
Marriage and death don't mix

Run

Zulum:
Don't mind my English pls

Anytime we had an argument with my wife, she utter some words that I can't even tell that to my enemy...."I am tired of the marriage", "I am always praying for u to die" " I always pray something terrible should happen to you" and so on....

I am Muslim, we are married three years ago and blessed with one child, I can't stay for a good one week in my house peacefully without having misunderstanding with her......i am depressed, worried, always thinking.....

Zulum:



I am trying my best....spending more than 200k in that house in a month

are u satisfying her in the other room

Ahhh, i should mention Pinkdimples...
You see the issue. Many women are like this but are scared to speak up.

Try to remain silent if it seems there will be argument.

gassbee:
are u satisfying her in the other room

No

Zulum:
Don't mind my English pls

Anytime we had an argument with my wife, she utter some words that I can't even tell that to my enemy...."I am tired of the marriage", "I am always praying for u to die" " I always pray something terrible should happen to you" and so on....

I am Muslim, we are married three years ago and blessed with one child, I can't stay for a good one week in my house peacefully without having misunderstanding with her......i am depressed, worried, always thinking.....

Then what are u still doing in d marriage? Are u gonna wait until u are truly dead? If u love ur life u better get out now that u can b4 u end up dead!
Apparently you are not meeting the expectations she had before u guy got married.

Zulum:


I am always thinking of that, infact I have divorced her once before our parents interfere and brought her back....u know as Muslims you are entitled to three divorce...so remain two now

But my fear is my 3yrs old son....fear of missing him

Dont allow religion to kill you. Religion is made to serve man not the other way round.
Thread carefully tho.

Zulum:


I have divorced her once, and returned her back...

Also send her home back after some months, when we were called she boldly told her dad that she don't want the marriage that I should divorce her....but the dad sent her away and begged us to return her back which I did

Just grant her wish. Divorce her, after some little boys don take am play finish her eye go clear.

Zulum:


I am always thinking of that, infact I have divorced her once before our parents interfere and brought her back....u know as Muslims you are entitled to three divorce...so remain two now

But my fear is my 3yrs old son....fear of missing him

3 divorce? beautiful religion

Zulum:
Don't mind my English pls

Anytime we had an argument with my wife, she utter some words that I can't even tell that to my enemy...."I am tired of the marriage", "I am always praying for u to die" " I always pray something terrible should happen to you" and so on....

I am Muslim, we are married three years ago and blessed with one child, I can't stay for a good one week in my house peacefully without having misunderstanding with her......i am depressed, worried, always thinking.....

Make una take a break from the marriage

If na me(me o) I go carry am go back to her parents, who wishes his or her fellow death

Welcome to the league 🤣🤣🤣 most married women say what they don't really mean when they are angry. Just 3yrs and you wan run, oga mind yasef o

Kenosky1:


Please let's hear her side of the story as you seem to make us believe that you are a saint. Just few questions for you
- Do you beat her often,
- Have you been involved in extra-marital activity and has she caught you.
- Have you been wicked by not providing for the family

I have a whole lot of questions to ask but please know that only sincerity will make you get genuine advice from the forum. For a woman to wish you death means that a terrible crime must have been committed. She is deeply hurt and struggling to forgive.

Yeah when she insult me I do touch her small, also she saw me chatting with a girl, and some call history too....

She's suspecting me of having an affair, but I am not doing any

I have been providing very well

Zulum:


I am always thinking of that, infact I have divorced her once before our parents interfere and brought her back....u know as Muslims you are entitled to three divorce...so remain two now

But my fear is my 3yrs old son....fear of missing him

Do the needful.....if she kill you, your 3yrs old will enjoy his life without you.

If you're proposed to take good care of your son, then take good care of yourself for you to satisfy your son.

Zulum:
Don't mind my English pls

Anytime we had an argument with my wife, she utter some words that I can't even tell that to my enemy...."I am tired of the marriage", "I am always praying for u to die" " I always pray something terrible should happen to you" and so on....

I am Muslim, we are married three years ago and blessed with one child, I can't stay for a good one week in my house peacefully without having misunderstanding with her......i am depressed, worried, always thinking.....

1. Become Christian. Go to a Catholic Church and be Baptised.

Tell her you want to become Christian.

2. She doesn't want you to die. She wants the evil in you to die. Doesn't regret marrying you. She regrets seeing the evil.


Read the lives of Saints: olrl.org/lives

Zulum:
Don't mind my English pls

Anytime we had an argument with my wife, she utter some words that I can't even tell that to my enemy...."I am tired of the marriage", "I am always praying for u to die" " I always pray something terrible should happen to you" and so on....

I am Muslim, we are married three years ago and blessed with one child, I can't stay for a good one week in my house peacefully without having misunderstanding with her......i am depressed, worried, always thinking.....

Lemme guess
You don't have enough money to tell her to shut up

What money can't solve
More money will solve it

She can't wish you dead if you're a millionaire and you can Replace her immediately

Obasempiree:

3 divorce? beautiful religion

Yeah, after that 3rd time she must marry another person and left before you can marry her again

Zulum:


I am always thinking of that, infact I have divorced her once before our parents interfere and brought her back....u know as Muslims you are entitled to three divorce...so remain two now

But my fear is my 3yrs old son....fear of missing him

When she carries out her wish for you and actually poisons you to death, you'll miss your son for eternity. Save yourself and get the hell out of the marriage.

NigerianAngelo:


1. Become Christian. Go to a Catholic Church and be Baptised.

Tell her you want to become Christian.

2. She doesn't want you to die. She wants the evil in you to die.


Read the lives of Saints: olrl.org/lives

Thanks for the advice, but I rather not marry till I die than to change my religion