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UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by officialwdhtv: 9:42am On Jul 27, 2023

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RoMt5eBPyYw

UK based Nigerian doctor's 16yr old son taken from him because he flogged the boy with a belt after catching him watching an inappropriate video with his 2 friends shocked

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by TemplarLandry: 9:50am On Jul 27, 2023
cool
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Jennyclay(f): 10:10am On Jul 27, 2023
Send the naughty boy to Nigeria to come learn some respect and manners undecided

That was how my elder sister’s child in this same UK was misbehaving. He mingles with bad gang and if my sister yells at him or try to spank him he won’t hesitate to call the cops on her.

She explained everything to us and My mother told my elder sister to bundle the boy to Nigeria, that she would reset his head.
When he came to Nigeria my mother sent him to Command secondary school Ipaja Lagos state.

Every time we visits him during visiting day, he would cry and beg saying Grand ma please I won’t be stubborn again, I wanna go join my fam in the UK.

He spent 2 years (J.S.S 2 - 3) in command secondary school before he went back to UK. Now he’s a well behaved boy.

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Nobody: 10:23am On Jul 27, 2023
Boy child is always war to train.

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by felong(m): 11:47am On Jul 27, 2023
Flogging a human being is wrong. What if the child dies.

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Padipadi: 11:48am On Jul 27, 2023
I think it's very good to understand the hypocrisy of UK in cases of first to report. And the demonic teen friends that lied against their friends that in order to further indulge in their life spoiling practices like watching pôrn and not studying well.
If only the father had contained his anger and make a video evidence of those crooks. Then reporting his child formerly to the govt that how do you want me to handle this boy cos I don't want to beat him to the point your govt ll say I beat him with anger.
UK is a theoretical place where you can pretend like you swallow all their bullshits but hypocritically go behind the scene to scheme things to your taste.
Chai, my Nigeria. That father ll trash both the son and friends together. In fact if it's one woman I know, she ll craftly lure those kids, lock herself and those kids up in a store, apply fresh pepper in their eyes, buttocks, armpits, ear and nose, carry 3 brand new koboko and flog the hell out of those kids. That store ll be a mess! They ll see them the next day and ask if they were caught stealing at the market.
UK dey fall my hands when they don't farabale handle civil cases. It's not all first to report that are innocent. They v used this to give wrong judgements especially on issues of husband and wife's issues where wife ll be the first to rush and lie against her husband cos they know the law there is sympathetic to women.
In all, may we not be unlucky in this life, amen.
Jennyclay:
Send the naughty boy to Nigeria to come and learn some respect and manners undecided

That was how my elder sister’s child in this same UK was misbehaving. He mingles with bad gang and if my sister yells at him or try to spank him he won’t hesitate to call the cops on her.

She explained everything to us and My mother told my elder sister to bundle the boy to Nigeria, that she would reset his head.
When he came to Nigeria my mother sent him to Command secondary school Ipaja Lagos state.

Every time we visits him during visiting day, he would cry and beg saying Grand ma please I won’t be stubborn again, I wanna go join my fam in the UK.

He spent 2 years (J.S.S 2 - 3) in command secondary school before he went back to UK. Now he’s a well behaved boy.
Lamba. Lambadowsky from a fake female. Your story is fallacious. We know sending stubborn abroad kids to Nigeria resets their brain. But as you can see, this story fit no work that way cos he's already taken away from his dad. In all, you cooked up your write up to gather share and likes for your coconut 🥥 head ego.
Wail, I ll drink you tears cos I just want tackle you today. I get your time. Don't call me agbaya, I just want to drink the tears of this shim (he/she)!

Ohibenemma:
I remember the story of a friend some years ago. His sister, who had lived in the UK for many years was having serious issues disciplining her son of about six/seven in the Nigerian way because of the UK laws. Well, she bottled up her feelings until the next visit to Nigeria for a very close loved one's burial.

The boy was happy to accompany her to see grandma and others, not knowing his mum had other plans.

The floodgates opened at the airport with an unending flow of slaps and knocks and what have you for the slightest mischief. The boy, thinking it was business as usual, had run to a uniformed policeman to report his mother's assault, but he got the shock of his life when the policeman lent the criminal a helping hand by twisting his ears before returning him to his mum.

He'd spend the next three years in Nigeria with an aunt, only returning to the UK when there was sufficient proof of a changed behaviour.
Lamba united, twin brother of Jennyclay. You were motivated to lie your own version cos of the first lier above. The both of you aren't practical in your lies. Not all kids eventually visit Nigeria. So how do you effect the correction. The best option to correct kids in UK is to gather enough evidence against the kid which ll make the govt to not believe the child when you actually do mild scolding. You outsmart their system. The scolding you ll do must be very minimal.

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by OboOlora(f): 11:48am On Jul 27, 2023
They tell you to JAPA so you can explain Tiffnubu and be sending pounds home to build houses all around but nobody tells you the real facts:

You can’t beat or even scold or shout at your kids
Your kids are a target for being black as they will be stereotyped as being susceptible to assault by the parents
Men are the last on the scale of women, kids, animals, plants and then men
You will work like your life revolves around that and only be considered moderately rich if you convert the untaxed income to naira

I can go on and on.

As per the person that said they took the boy to Nigeria for two years and then back to the UK, the boy is gonna be worse than Naira Marley at the end cos the PTSD of the horror at Command school will haunt him for life and he will use joining a gang as a coping mechanism

Stay in Nigeria and beat ur kids well o😁

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by blazepascal(m): 11:48am On Jul 27, 2023
;Da
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by b0rn2fuck(m): 11:48am On Jul 27, 2023
Lol, the kind cain when enter me then, me and my brother go dey use Cain dey practice by beating each other hands to hands just to master the pains for body... Because we no miss Cain after playing balls till late hour for field

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by blazepascal(m): 11:48am On Jul 27, 2023
grin
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by marlow1962(m): 11:48am On Jul 27, 2023
Lol
Hope the new parents will fund the child's bill?

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DukeNija(m): 11:48am On Jul 27, 2023
Leave him for the Government. He will learn that parental care is a gift when he gets the inferior race treatment. Shey you dey whine?

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by mariovito(m): 11:49am On Jul 27, 2023
For me, I think a Nigerian or African should allow their kid grow up a little over there then send him down to Nigeria or their respective African country to do secondary school under the tutelage of their grandparents.

Yes, I know that grannies may not be as tough on the grandkids as they were on their own direct kids, but the training they'll get plus the African sense will be a lot better than what the west has to offer.

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by inoki247: 11:49am On Jul 27, 2023
Lol make the Govt hold the pikin now nd be feeding him and take care of him...
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by LegallyBlunt: 11:49am On Jul 27, 2023
Indiscipline rules the UK. Most of their teachers are running to the Middle East for more money and respect kids there give them. As a parent, you dare not hit your child.

If you wan japa, hold your hand and caution yourself ooo. Ehen.

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by sojisenai(m): 11:49am On Jul 27, 2023
WoW...those days ehnn...if you could lose custody for disciplining a child, then my mum would have been jailed for life. That woman ehnn...but even though it had some bad side effects on my life, I discovered later she meant well for me and my sister. We are better off today for it.

Meanwhile, We are a caregiving company dedicated to providing the highest quality care for our elderly clients or those that are ill, disabled and nursing mothers, right in their homes...kindly check my signature.

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by blazepascal(m): 11:49am On Jul 27, 2023
The boy needs a nigerian hand. send the boy back home.

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Nazgul: 11:49am On Jul 27, 2023
From what I've understood and witness about flogging, most parents flog their children out of frustration and not to discipline them.

Take a walk around remote neighborhoods and you'll see first hand wickedness. The way parents there flog their kids, you'll think we're still in the slave era.

You don't have to flog a human being in order to make him/her have a good character. Your life is already a mirror for them. If you train them well, they'll be good. If they see hypocrisy in you and your life doesn't reflect what you're telling them to do, they'll live their lives however they want and become wayward.

This is the 21st century flogging should be banned.

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Strangebuttrue(m): 11:49am On Jul 27, 2023
Jennyclay:
Send the naughty boy to Nigeria to come and learn some respect and manners undecided

That was how my elder sister’s child in this same UK was misbehaving. He mingles with bad gang and if my sister yells at him or try to spank him he won’t hesitate to call the cops on her.

She explained everything to us and My mother told my elder sister to bundle the boy to Nigeria, that she would reset his head.
When he came to Nigeria my mother sent him to Command secondary school Ipaja Lagos state.

Every time we visits him during visiting day, he would cry and beg saying Grand ma please I won’t be stubborn again, I wanna go join my fam in the UK.

He spent 2 years (J.S.S 2 - 3) in command secondary school before he went back to UK. Now he’s a well behaved boy.
you have sense today

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by airsaylongcome: 11:49am On Jul 27, 2023
Jennyclay:
Send the naughty boy to Nigeria to come and learn some respect and manners undecided

That was how my elder sister’s child in this same UK was misbehaving. He mingles with bad gang and if my sister yells at him or try to spank him he won’t hesitate to call the cops on her.

She explained everything to us and My mother told my elder sister to bundle the boy to Nigeria, that she would reset his head.
When he came to Nigeria my mother sent him to Command secondary school Ipaja Lagos state.

Every time we visits him during visiting day, he would cry and beg saying Grand ma please I won’t be stubborn again, I wanna go join my fam in the UK.

He spent 2 years (J.S.S 2 - 3) in command secondary school before he went back to UK. Now he’s a well behaved boy.

All he needed to do was reach out to the British High Commission by any means and your sister would have been in a lot of trouble

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by blaquemyc: 11:50am On Jul 27, 2023
It's hard being a Nigerian parent out there, you can't do what Nigerian parents do to their children and go scot free there. Oyibo ways no be our ways.

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by bigiyaro(m): 11:50am On Jul 27, 2023
It's the boy that will lose

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by aycorporat(m): 11:50am On Jul 27, 2023
Training a child in the Western world is by God's grace.

There was a boy of ours who grew up in the UK and had the bad traits of disobedience. His dad lured him to Nigeria to come have a good taste of culture.

The moment he landed at MMIA, he was whisked to a remote village where his dad gave him a daily dosage of strokes of cane. At first he proved resistant, later he cooperated.

In the long run, he feigned remorse but was secretly taking shots of the wounds he sustained. After sometimes, his dad seeing his calmness, decided that he had learnt his lessons and it was time to go back to the UK.

Believe me, when they got to the UK, the boy tendered all evidences to the security agencies. How the dad escaped prison sentence and deportation is what I didn't know.

African culture still remains topnotch

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Ohibenemma(m): 11:51am On Jul 27, 2023
I remember the story of a friend some years ago. His sister, who had lived in the UK for many years was having serious issues disciplining her son of about six/seven in the Nigerian way because of the UK laws. Well, she bottled up her feelings until the next visit to Nigeria for a very close loved one's burial.

The boy was happy to accompany her to see grandma and others, not knowing his mum had other plans.

The floodgates opened at the airport with an unending flow of slaps and knocks and what have you for the slightest mischief. The boy, thinking it was business as usual, had run to a uniformed policeman to report his mother's assault, but he got the shock of his life when the policeman lent the criminal a helping hand by twisting his ears before returning him to his mum.

He'd spend the next three years in Nigeria with an aunt, only returning to the UK when there was sufficient proof of a changed behaviour.

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by PeggySandas(f): 11:51am On Jul 27, 2023
Jennyclay:
Send the naughty boy to Nigeria to come and learn some respect and manners undecided

That was how my elder sister’s child in this same UK was misbehaving. He mingles with bad gang and if my sister yells at him or try to spank him he won’t hesitate to call the cops on her.

She explained everything to us and My mother told my elder sister to bundle the boy to Nigeria, that she would reset his head.
When he came to Nigeria my mother sent him to Command secondary school Ipaja Lagos state.

Every time we visits him during visiting day, he would cry and beg saying Grand ma please I won’t be stubborn again, I wanna go join my fam in the UK.

He spent 2 years (J.S.S 2 - 3) in command secondary school before he went back to UK. Now he’s a well behaved boy.

Faabu ooo! Koma roll grin

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by mikkyword(m): 11:51am On Jul 27, 2023
TemplarLandry:
cool
we africans will not step down our discipline irrespective of where we find ourselves. our culture and traditions teaches us to be discipline. we will not water down our standard for western ills.

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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by EdiskyHarry: 11:51am On Jul 27, 2023
Hmm,
No wonder a 6 years old pupil shot his teacher in USA over an argument.

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