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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Padipadi: 2:54pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
VOsimhen144:Your own is believable. I knew they were lying cos Jennyclay is a boy hiding behind a female handle here. There are many of them. Not all females are have breàsts and vaginå! |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 3:17pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Ever since Nigerians embraced these two foreign religions (Islam and Christianity), they have lost their minds. How do you flog a 16 year old for watching p0rn? Age 16 is the peak or near peak of puberty. The hormones are raging like crazy. Christianity and Islam turn EVERY NATURAL IMPULSE to sin. God forbid foreign religions. 1 Like |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 3:19pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
felong: Islam and Christianity introduced violence as a means of correction of children. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 3:22pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
riclan: You're flogging your 2 year old child! And you're bragging about it? I bet you're probably a christian or muslim. The two imported religions that says violence is the best way to correct children. 1 Like |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by nairalanda1(m): 3:23pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Nigerians, when you go abroad, behave as they do. Because the things we think are acceptable here, they think they are evil here. One funny story I want to tell, one guy was beating his wife for Nigeria, then they jakpa, then he calmed down, but one day, he beat him wife for there. Na so police come dey appear in front of their door in minutes..it was almost like magic. (No, madam did not call them at all). It took the wife begging them not to press charges, otherwise, na so he go go jail. Since that time, him never lay hand on him wife. Not a stick , not a hand, not a belt. When in Roma... Yes, flogging children is good...if a child associates being bad with pain, he or she no go do am again. (And eventually will learn that bad habits cause problems). But in Oyinbo land, they don't believe in that anymore...because of too many well publicised reports of children who have suffered under sadistic parents...even by Naija standards (google Baby P, UK for a particularly bad example). So you flog your pikin, wahala dey. Fortunately, there are programmes, books and so on that teach you how to discipline your child without using koboko. And to be fair, koboko is often times the easy way out for many frustrated parents...it was not meant to be that way. But read those books, take that advice, and the child will grow up and behave well. Also, remember, no such thing as a perfect child. Even upon all the koboko and cane we use, Nigeria is still very corrupt. Dem bandits in the bush, most of them were caned when they were pikin, and they are still evil, ditto cultists. Some children, no matter what we do, would still be stronghead. After all, one of the USA's most horrible serial killers had a normal upbringing. Brevik's papa brought up his son right. And yet they turned out horrible. We can do our best for our children, but at the end, our kids still have free choice. Good luck 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by esiri4jesu(m): 3:24pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
officialwdhtv:She should relax, the boy will come home. I guess he is now the responsibility of the government. 16years know his roots. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 3:24pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
LegallyBlunt: Yet, Nigerians that are filled with 'discipline' beg to migrate to UK because Nigeria is a failed state. Maybe we should start copying the 'indiscipline' of the UK maybe our country will become a place others want to migrate to also. 2 Likes |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by nairalanda1(m): 3:26pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
DodadaKoKigbe: I don't think our ancestors ,who were not Muslims or Christians', did not spare the rod and spoilt the child either. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 3:26pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
sojisenai: How are you better off because you had a violent mother? If your mother had not been violent towards you, would you have been any worse off than you are right now? |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 3:28pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Nazgul: If you follow the history of violence towards children by Nigeria parents, you will see that its copied from the colonial masters. The colonial masters will beat the Nigerian workers as a means to make them do what the colonials want. Then the Nigerian workers will go back home and practice the same violence on their children as the means to make their children do what they want. Remember, that the colonial masters consider Africans (old or young) as children. 1 Like |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 3:30pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
blaquemyc: You mean its hard to be a violent parent. Why do Nigerians celebrate violence towards children? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 3:30pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
bigiyaro: How? Because he escaped from a violent father? 1 Like |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 3:33pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
aycorporat: Parents inflicting violence on their children in the name of 'discipline' was not African culture before the Arabs and the whites came to Africa. The Arabs and the whites flogged African workers viciously and the Africa workers go back home and inflict their trauma on their children. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 3:35pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
EdiskyHarry: And a Nigeria child has never killed another human being in Nigeria before? 1 Like |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Oscargiles1294(m): 3:37pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Lol. Is his name Brian? |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by YettyPicky(f): 3:37pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
The kind of beatings I 'collected' from my Mum made me doubt she is my Mother.My Dad?Lord have mercy!He will ask you to go and bring the appropriate whip out of his collections-1,2 or 3 thonged koboko,1 and 2 strip folded hose,cable,e.t.c.You will be your own jury and judge to bring one of these 'collectibles' commensurate to your sin. The beatings didn't kill us.We respected them so much we dare not look them in the eye when 'colleting'.I'm sure it never crossed our minds to run away or report then to neighbors,let alone other family members. Most of us turned out out to be honest and upright because of this. God help this wishy-washy generations. 1 Like |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 3:37pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
nairalanda1: Using violence to 'correct' children never happened in pre-colonial Yorubaland. I don't know about Iboland or hausaland. But, as far as the Yorubas are concerned, the Europeans brought corporal punishment they used to 'correct' the African colonial workers. The traumatized worker then goes home and inflicted it on their children. Inflicting violence on children is NOT African culture. Its part of the evil legacy of European and Arab colonialism. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Oscargiles1294(m): 3:38pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Jennyclay: I know a kid like this back in Command. Was his name Brian? |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 3:41pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
DeShineShine: Don't forget the white man gave you the same bible. What has following the bible benefited Africa and Africans? You're still the most impoverished, least developed and least advanced continent on the planet. 1 Like |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 3:43pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
isabi2lof: Your parents traumatized you with violence. You then took that trauma and inflicted the same violence on your child. Generational trauma converted to violence. And yet, you're too dull that you even brag about it as if its an achievement. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 3:45pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Ennybouy: If this statement is true, then why do countries who don't inflict violence on their children in the name of discipline performing better than Nigeria? They perform so much better than some of you will do ANYTHING to migrate there. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Benrosaria(m): 3:51pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
And more of your kids they will still take, low minded brat, you want to now enforce your Nigerian culture on a life on another soil. Hell no sir.. it can't work. That's the punishment for absconding your home that you pertook to destroy to find solace in another place. Hell yeah sir karma awaits every goddamn doer |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Guguru102(m): 4:03pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
JayDaily2: Still the same thing..No results
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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by sojisenai(m): 4:33pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
PopQueenAgency: ...Sigh. It is well. Sorry. You'll be fine. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by sojisenai(m): 4:34pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
DodadaKoKigbe: I just but wonder how people say things like they know absolutely everything about you...you could have asked one or two questions before jumping into conclusions. Well, what do I know? You'll be fine. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by drnoel: 4:44pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Padipadi: Still, it's left for the child to decide where he wants to go. If the child decides he wants to be on his own then so be it. He is not yet a man but is getting their. Sad the dad could have handled things differently but chose the path that led to this. 1 Like |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by godofuck231: 4:49pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Very stupid person , 16 year old when suppose don marry ? Instead of educating him and letting him know its normal to have the urge and pressure at that age and teach him self control , sex education, rape baits, laws concerning women and sexual offences and preventions na belt? Ok na 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Corridon: 4:58pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Jennyclay:Are you related to Lai Muhammed? |
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