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Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by LegallyBlunt: 4:59pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
DodadaKoKigbe:the point I made flew right over your head. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by being(m): 5:08pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
People in Nigeria are corrupt because the system is so lax and also because of the economy. But they have the discipline in them. A lot of pple in govt were not corrupt until they got into govt and saw d opportunity.. For those abroad, they don't even hav that control of themselves... Can u honestly compare juvenile delinquency over there to that of Nigeria? Would you be happy to have a child talking back at you, or your 12 yo scattering your house without you not able to do anything? Dont joke with your children future, when you have them. Nazgul: |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Crafteck1: 5:13pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
felong: U mad gan |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Temidayo9(m): 5:33pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
IconicR:Not really, but check the parents when they were young also, they may be stubborn. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Crenzywilliams(m): 5:59pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
felong:Shut up you stupid sod. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Iamzik: 6:12pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
felong: You never chop Cain before shey |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by isabi2lof: 6:18pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
DodadaKoKigbe: You're the one that is dull , go and read these Bible passages , proverb 22: 6 and proverbs 13: 24 .. What kind of trauma? If I may ask , so it's a crime for parents to discipline their children .. And you think a parent will treat his or child like a criminal.. That's why we've so many undisciplined children and adults everywhere.. I wasn't in anyway traumatized by their discipline, it shaped me for who I am today . |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Mrniceguy001: 6:27pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
It's incredibly difficult raising children in European countries... Any small thing, police don come fiam. They even give the children police hq numbers in school — incase their parents act out of order As if that isn't enough, they can go as far as taping the children books and bags 🎒 in order to listen to all conversations and if you really flog them oyibo na craze.... |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Nobody: 6:29pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Spare the rod and spoil the child, that's why children in America carry guns and shoot up school, no control. Africa must preserve it's values of respect. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 6:39pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
isabi2lof:The same bible that what given to you by the white man. The bible also say it is a sin to eat shrimp or shellfish. isabi2lof:You CAN discipline children without using violence. Use your brain, be creative. isabi2lof:Yes, many Nigerian parents attack their children till they bleed or get injured. isabi2lof:And YET Nigerian parents are known worldwide for inflicting pain on their children to discipline them. Clearly its not working! isabi2lof:Who are you today? Are you more successful than the average westerner who was not viciously attacked for 'discipline' by their parents? 1 Like |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Xkale1996(m): 6:42pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
felong:keep quiet |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by izunned: 6:58pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
felong: What do you mean? |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Fuckyoumod: 7:02pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
felong:so what is right? |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Cromagnon: 7:40pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Padipadi:Toh Ìtàn Better to send your kids to boarding school |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by isabi2lof: 7:44pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
DodadaKoKigbe: When you have your own , you can as well allow them to control you and not the other way round , you kept on mentioning violence , to discipline a child now is synonymous to violence.. na wa o .. You're talking about being successful, I might not be rich , but in character wise , it has shapen me . |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by aycorporat(m): 8:10pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
DodadaKoKigbe: Hmmm Insightful 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by kcbaba007: 8:51pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
felong: Flogging will not kill that child, not flogging the child will kill the parents and the child |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 9:18pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
isabi2lof: Inflicting violence on children does not make you have control neither does it guarantee good character in the child. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Segzy19: 10:32pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Japa japa! Now the doctor will look back and regret japaing in the first place. She may not see that child again if care is not taken, and that is how and where depression sets in and she starts going down... This thing keeps happening over there.... The other time it was a Nigerian mom that was imprisoned for 6 months because she took her son to Nigeria to deliver him from homosexualism. Son already had an elderly boyfriend. It was the boyfriend that reported the boy's mother to the police.... |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Oluwomonext212(m): 1:01am On Jul 28, 2023 |
Just told my 10 old son I wil send him back in no time if he refuse to listen to instructions…. No beating just ticket to naija will do the needful. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 2:35am On Jul 28, 2023 |
officialwdhtv: Something’s missing from the story. Spanking your children isn’t against the law and I don’t believe that the father was arrested for a simple whipping. What I do believe I’d that the father gave the boy a brutal beating that left marks and that’s why he was arrested. Another lie is that a parent lost custody over one incident. Authorities try many things even parenting classes before taking custody. What I do believe is that this wasn’t the fathers first run in with the police for beating his son. I’m still reading responses but can anybody give me a spoiler and tell me if the beating cure the young man’s curiosity about sex? He was watching inappropriate movies but I thought that was something 16 year old boys who are curious about sex did—I thought it was normal. To the men condoning the father’s action, were you curious about sex at 16 and if so, did you sneak to watch porn? I don’t expect to get to many honest answers. To the men blaming the women, it’s a father’s duty to teach his son about sex. To the monikers bringing up LGBTQ, which doesn’t belong in this conversation, what you’re saying is hypocritical because if the boy is curious about sex which is a normal thing, there’s a smidgen of a chance that the father beating him for being normal will make him feel like sex is wrong until he can’t suppress it anymore—-that’s what causes sexual deviancy, something that sometimes leads to desires for the same sex. The father is a doctor, he knows what beatings do to children psychologically. No pity for him. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by ItswellMike: 4:40am On Jul 28, 2023 |
felong:See them. Who said d child will die |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by gwinaB(m): 5:46am On Jul 28, 2023 |
Jennyclay: 1 Like |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by gwinaB(m): 5:47am On Jul 28, 2023 |
felong: When you have yours, hug them when they persistently do wrong. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by Nursepepeye(f): 6:45am On Jul 28, 2023 |
felong:it's better you die than being stupid, not flogging you as a means of corrections can get you killed faster |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by b0rn2fuck(m): 8:34am On Jul 28, 2023 |
DodadaKoKigbe:you must be stupid for using the words stupid, I would not use such words for anyone parents no matter how brutal I am, that's effect of lack of flogging training given to you. I won't accused your parents because I wasn't train that way but you |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by hero2000: 9:56am On Jul 28, 2023 |
felong: I am sure you are looking for 'Quotes'. |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 1:09pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
b0rn2fuck: So, you're not a millionaire or a medical doctor or the top of whatever field you chose? So, what's the point of the violence inflicted on you by your useless and f00lish parents? 1 Like |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by b0rn2fuck(m): 2:19pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
DodadaKoKigbe:I own my business, I live comfortable in my own house, I mind my business and I don't mingle with useless people |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by pansophist(m): 2:40pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
Leave him. Reality will reset his brain. Only a matter of time, he will realise that the content of love involves disciple, and his parents beating him is not hate, it's love. When he receives the black race treatment, and got subtle reminder everyday that he inferior, and lucky to be adopted from his backward parents, then he would learn. But sadly by then, the damage had been done and the father might just have signed his mind off him, yes that's a possibility. This is also one thing japa folks should come to terms with. That as a man, you can't lead your family in a godly way. Biologically, he is your child, but realistically, the government gave him to you to keep. Your child can come back from school one day and tell you that he is a girl, and if the teachers hears, then without your consent, they may perform sex change, because your consent doesn't matter and is infringing on the child's right. Your wife and your child can turn against you and the system will support them. It's an evil system against traditional family. For example, in the Netherlands and Belgium, most couples are having cohabitation agreement (locally known as Samenleving contract) instead of marriage. Cohabitation agreement is better because during divorce, everyone leaves with what they brought in, so no hungry girl sharing what you worked for years. Also, no lawyers involved during dissolution, just move out and it's over. When the system choose to be against you, then it's common sense to do everything to protect yourself. But for an African man, it's just better to not raise a family in such system. It's sick. 5 Likes |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by DodadaKoKigbe: 2:44pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
b0rn2fuck: So, you're just an average bloke despite al the violence your f00lish and useless parents inflicted on you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by 1stGenAmerican(f): 3:57pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
FacilitatorLekk: The values of respect that you’re saying Africa must preserve—children are beat mercilessly in Nigeria but those children grow up to kidnap, join cults, do Yahoo, kill people for money ritual, or demand bribes and become corrupt police, civil servants, or politicians. Preserving those values don’t seem to be working. |
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