blessingnenye:
Why Is Cheating Considered Normal In Men? But For A Woman, Hell Will Let Loose?

GO0DHardDick:


You're just ranting. Madam answer my question and stop lamenting!

A man can marry a poor girl from a poor home but a poor girl can't marry a poor guy, why is this so ?

CuriousStudent:
Very simple because they can get away with It in Nigeria.

In that women in this clime will not leave their husbands easily because of shame,stigma,prejudice against divorcees/single mums in the dating field. This women face ostracization from their family as they have brought "Shame " to the family. And such shame will rub off on the divorcee female siblings as potential suitors will be wary of marrying them.


If she leaves,no financial security for her kids. As there are no child support laws that makes men stop supporting financially for their kids. The law doesn't force the men to keep up with the kid support and people will shamelessly defend those deadbeat by claiming it was "her manipulation of the kids" that caused him to neglect them

Plus we have people defending cheats.


That explains why op.

I really don't have problem with this reality,the only problem I have is when people try to restrain/demonize female tendencies( hypergamy et Al) but normalize polygamy.

Why shouldn't I leave my husband when he loses his job or can't sustain giving me the best of life when if he is in my shoes he will go for younger,fresher, interesting women when I don't appeal him? The former needs to be normalized not demonized . I will encourage any woman to take to her heels and run from a man that can no longer give her the best of life whether is loss of a job or illness or economy. Leave!

blessingnenye:
Why Is Cheating Considered Normal In Men? But For A Woman, Hell Will Let Loose?

1Sharon:


I answered your question in detail and you want to be obtuse.

Do you live in Nigeria at all? How many men in Nigeria in rich ?

The women that you see doing menial jobs, do they look like they have a rich husband? Stop being obtuse.

Poor women in Nigeria marry poor men all the time.

GO0DHardDick:


Dude it has been Scientifically proven that Women cheat far more than men but barely get caught. Dude a girl can be seeing you and at the same time be seeing 4 other guys and you'll never know about it.

Men are real and not pretenders, this is why it's easy to spot when a man is cheating. But you see Women? That's discussion for another day. Their cheating is mad gan! Dude she can be dating you and be knacking your friend, and all the boys in her area Must have penetrated her honeypot before And yet she'll still code like nothing happened. Women cheat far more than men

blessingnenye:
Why Is Cheating Considered Normal In Men? But For A Woman, Hell Will Let Loose?

GO0DHardDick:


You're still ranting. Madam answer my questions or desist from quoting me henceforth!

We see how your gender both online and offline always praying to get married to a rich man and hence trade themselves for the highest bidder. Your gender now tells men they considered ''broke and poor" as not my type! I am classy, you can't afford me and all manner of parasitic statements.

I asked you again,
A man can marry a poor girl from a poor home but a poor girl can't marry a poor guy, why is this so?

Kobojunkie:
The reaction of the women is what I said also stems from traditional ideas/problems.

Jovialjune1:
They see it as normal because so many women enabled them.

1Sharon:


Are you okay?

Are ALL the poor women in Nigeria married to rich men?

They pray for a rich man but do they always get what they want??

Jovialjune1:
■ Again, not tradition, no tradition has ever mandated women to endure and live with a cheat, polygamous men will tell it before marriage to any woman willing to marry a polygamous man, its a character flaw, these sets of women see themselves as nothing without marriage, they suffer from low self esteem and see themselves as inferior without a man in their life, this cannot be said for all African/Nigerian women cos some of us will never ever condone cheating, so it has nothing to do with tradition.

GO0DHardDick:


Dude it has been Scientifically proven that Women cheat far more than men but barely get caught. Dude a girl can be seeing you and at the same time be seeing 4 other guys and you'll never know about it.

Men are real and not pretenders, this is why it's easy to spot when a man is cheating. But you see Women? That's discussion for another day. Their cheating is mad gan! Dude she can be dating you and be knacking your friend, and all the boys in her area Must have penetrated her honeypot before And yet she'll still code like nothing happened. Women cheat far more than men

GO0DHardDick:


You're still ranting. Madam answer my questions or desist from quoting me henceforth!

We see how your gender both online and offline always praying to get married to a rich man and hence trade themselves for the highest bidder. Your gender now tells men they considered ''broke and poor" as not my type! I am classy, you can't afford me and all manner of parasitic statements.

I asked you again,
A man can marry a poor girl from a poor home but a poor girl can't marry a poor guy, why is this so?

adebayo987:
Tradition caused it. Women are treated like properties such that a man must buy her in the guise of dowry. Why wouldn't men see cheating as normal when they paid for their wives?

Why do most Nigerian women divorce their Nigerian husbands once they get to the Europe or America? It's simply because they're treated equally as men. Here, a woman is seen as a house maid whose duties lies in the
kitchen and the other room. This is the bitter truth. I love Korean and Japanese people so much because they're so honourable, their women honour their bodies and are in charge of their homes more than their men as they're respected, which made cheating almost impossible in those countries.

Abifarin16:

I agree with you but why do we hail one and castigate the other? Why do we demand loyalty from one and not the other? Why will a woman be kicked out for the same thing that a man would only have to apologize and bribe his way out. What's bad for one should be bad for both don't you agree.

Kobojunkie:
Well, I have to disagree with you on this.

CuriousStudent:

To me this is a very dishonest stance to pretend that cheating is not normalized in men.

I can agree with your stance if the case study was world-wide and not African men.

For real Angel? When young guys are already repeating the mantra "when I make money nobody will dictate the number of women I have", young guys in their 20s have this mindset

Or "I can't guarantee my wife faithfulness if she wasn't a virgin"

And the rest
Yet you believe this is just generalization?

Jovialjune1:



And you are educated, so poor men don't get married abi? Na stone dem dey marry ni? In this 21st century you allowed delusions think for you, na only rich men dey cheat?

chipower:

You are not far from the truth. Women are smart cheaters. Many women have cheated on their partners, and their partners will never find out. Men are not clever when it comes to cheating. Consequently, catching cheating men is very easy.
Another reason why women are not caught while cheating is because men traditionally think that women hardly cheat. With this mind set, men find it difficult to notice the signs associated with cheating women.
The truth is that many women here have cheated on their partners without being caught.

GO0DHardDick:


Why una dey avoid this question? Why ranting instead of answering the question?

The question was never about men, it's about you Nigerian girls. Answer it and stop yarning dust

A man can marry a poor girl from a poor home but a poor girl can't marry a poor guy, why is this so?

Jovialjune1:



Poor girls marry poor men, they are everywhere, except you are blind.

Father4all:
Men are polygamous in NATURE

Jovialjune1:
Why?

GO0DHardDick:


Noticed how you deliberately avoided the question and started using reverse psychology? U dey use question dey answer questions? If e sure for you answer the question

A man can marry a poor girl from a poor home but a poor girl can't marry a poor guy, why is this so?