Klass99:


You and Denrele are on the same page of making excuses for men and putting the blame elsewhere. The Lord Jesus said there will always be temptations to sin! What does that tell you? It is our responsibility to be on guard, watch ourselves and NOT yield to every temptation that arises.

I know a woman who established a house rule that the only male visitors allowed to sleep over at her crib will be blood relatives - that was her putting parameters around herself to guard against temptation.

I have told some married men that I live with my sister and her husband, in some cases I have said I am not allowed male visitors as a matter of my tenancy agreement. My landlord refused that, so if you visit me we will sit in your car to gist or take a walk around the estate and gist. What do you think usually happens when they hear that?

Talk to ur fellow women to stop bombarding us with sexy things.. Even on social media, ladies naked..

U r pushing us to cheat.. That's the obvious truth

1Sharon:


Lol.

I know you agree with me.

You are fully convinced.... I don't know why Klass99 is taking long to understand

Klass99:


Denrele you are just a jackass and I mean that in a friendly way not as a diss.

No offense taken

DenreleDave:


I know you agree with me.

You are fully convinced.... I don't know why Klass99 is taking long to understand

I don't. I just don't feel like arguing. You seem to be trolling.

Klass99:


You and Denrele are on the same page of making excuses for men and putting the blame elsewhere. The Lord Jesus said there will always be temptations to sin! What does that tell you? It is our responsibility to be on guard, to watch ourselves and NOT yield to every temptation that arises.

I know a woman who established a house rule that the only male visitors allowed to sleep over at her crib will be blood relatives - that was her putting parameters around herself to guard against temptation.

I have told some married men that I live with my sister and her husband, in some cases I have said I am not allowed male visitors as a matter of my tenancy agreement. My landlord refused that, so if you visit me we will sit in your car to gist or take a walk around the estate and gist. What do you think happens when they hear this?

My point is this - women see these things coming from afar and they put measures in place to tackle the likelihood of things happening. What measures do men take or put in place? Besides shouting up and down like you and Denrele are doing that the assault is too much and women are at fault.

You even went as far as using the analogy of rice and stew with a chicken🤣. The difference between a man and a chicken is that, a man knows better and he can do better, he was created above every animal, he has a working brain, thinking faculties and the power of choice in him. Why do you guys keep acting like you are helpless and you will be okay IF ONLY there were no temptations?

Remember, there will always be temptations to sin for as long as we live in this earthly body. You can yield to it or ask God to help you overcome it. Even gra gra can help you overcome temptation because you are a human being with a free will and the power of choice. Talk to yourself, psyche yourself into saying no, I am better than this. Biko where is that logic you people keep claiming to have na? Is it not logical to take measures or put parameters in place to counter us when we seduce you like you claim?

Look at natural temptations, they come in once in a while and they are often momentary and overcomable. In the past, it used to be one girl/woman that just suddenly rose up to disrupt your regular life and living. But today, it is waves and waves of attack. The bible told us but people never listen to God, so more casualties.

Anyway, everyone has heard about God and the bible and how He can help but... their garden or their grave, theirs to choose.

UnfairLife7:
LOl

You don't blame married men but single ladies. I hope you're normal sha?

Bobo yin ti ya werey gan.
He dey always reason backward.



Anyways I m here to read comments.

DenreleDave:


Men cheat because single ladies are jealous of married ones.. Hence, they want to take their husband and some succeed

Two questions

How old are you?

Are you educated?

Na ashawo de there mind.

Because POLYGAMY is not a CRIME. Say AMEN....

Dozie32:
Na ashawo de there mind.

Nope. It is allowed etc...

Money and freedom. Married man can only stay with you for a limited time. They don’t get to take of them every day.

DenreleDave:
This is a billion dollars question in my mind. It is now a norm for single ladies to compete with a married woman for her husband. They know the man is married with or without kids but our single ladies see it as a normal thing and the society has also ignorantly or unconsciously accepted it as a norm.

This makes me think again that a man doesn't instigate cheating on his wife, he is only tempted by another lady who is greedy jealous and envious about her fellow woman that is married to a man. Yes, men don't have the intention to cheat, we are only enticed by the greedy single ladies whose intention is to frustrate their fellow ladies and to fulfil their greedy needs.

Single men rarely mess with a married woman because when the society finds out, it will bring a heavy backlash on the married woman, the society won't stop reminding her that she cheated on her husband with a single guy but the society normalized a single lady for sleeping with a married man.

Many guys are still single because the single ladies are busy devicing how to get a married man on her bed to fulfil her greed. Many of we single guys are stranded because we can't approach married women as we respect the sanctity and vow of their marriage


My question is; Why do single ladies love to sleep with married men?

single ladies or single mothers.... ?

Jovialjune1:



Two questions

How old are you?

Are you educated?

Sadly I don't answer to you...

I only answer to Beremx because she is my woman

The feel single guy are not matured enough and will also get jealous over most things.

Married men will give them money and still don't have time to tame them...

They want freedom I guess📌

Gratefullheart:
single ladies or single mothers.... ?

Single ladies

DenreleDave:


Men cheat because single ladies refuse to work but want to enjoy good life and they see married men as the only way to do that..
There is a limit a man can take with the seductive way these ladies do nowadays..

Men are not wood.. Ladies should caution themselves and engage themselves in a trade.

For example, how many men have u seen doing prostitution in a hotel? It's only women scattered all over the corners of the earth sleeping with married men, single one and so..

Hope you know you just agreed to the fact that men are extremely weak, emotional beings that cannot control their pènis, you are saying women control Men niyen abi? You're saying men do not have sense, they are stupid when it comes to women right? Noted.

1Sharon:


I don't. I just don't feel like arguing. You seem to be trolling.

I'm not trolling. I'm serious..

Don't see unclothedness of women all around u.

Lying on fashion to be naked so as to prey on men whereas their intentions is to seduce married men

As a young guy, dress nice and notice the number of stares you will get from ladies.
Now, dress nice and add a wedding ring (even if fake) and see how ladies will be swarming around you.

Ladies are like fish, They are attracted to things that other ladies desire. Once they say that they can't have you, they become attracted to you.
To them, a wedding ring is a sign of financial stability, emotional maturity and desire from other women.

The greatest magnet of single ladies is that wedding ring.

because they dont have husband yet. When they have husband that has sidechicks thats when they will know that they are reaping what they sow

DenreleDave:


Sadly I don't answer to you...

I only answer to Beremx because she is my woman

You wan die prematurely abii?
See you laying claim to someone's wife?
The height wey you don carry your obsession go ,dem need to flog you.

DenreleDave:


Sadly I don't answer to you...

I only answer to Beremx because she is my woman

Toh beremx, i didnt know your husband is also on nl, and denrele for that matter🤨

Denrele you for answer na, make I finish you and your senseless comment.

Jovialjune1:



Hope you know you just agreed to the fact that men are extremely weak, emotional beings that cannot control their pènis, you are saying women control Men niyen abi? You're saying men do not have sense, they are stupid when it comes to women right? Noted.

Insult insults insultss

That's all you can offer

They are Hungry single girls... What else?

ahnie:

You wan die prematurely abii?
See you laying claim to someone's wife?
The height wey you don carry your obsession go ,dem need to flog you.

Death is not my portion especially with Beremx.

She is my wonderful darling

An uncle told me that consciously and unconsciously, most Nigerian and African men and ladies fully endorse POLYGAMY.

Even the ones that speak against it verbally don't mind indulging in it if the money and comfort are in play.

Well, Op, an average Nigerian lady's interest in a guy is first his financial backbone... For most, his marital or relationship status comes second.

Jovialjune1:


Toh beremx, i didnt know your husband is also on nl, and denrele for that matter🤨

Denrele you for answer na, make I finish you and your senseless comment.

I didn't say I am her husband

I don't answer to senseless question also

How do you become the second, third, fourth wife, If you don't date a married man? How?!

DenreleDave:


Insult insults insultss

That's all you can offer

Where did I insult you pls? 😒

You admitted that men are senseless and stupid, I'm trying to confirm from you, yet you wan twist am, why na?

DenreleDave:
This is a billion dollars question in my mind. It is now a norm for single ladies to compete with a married woman for her husband. They know the man is married with or without kids but our single ladies see it as a normal thing and the society has also ignorantly or unconsciously accepted it as a norm.

This makes me think again that a man doesn't instigate cheating on his wife, he is only tempted by another lady who is greedy jealous and envious about her fellow woman that is married to a man. Yes, men don't have the intention to cheat, we are only enticed by the greedy single ladies whose intention is to frustrate their fellow ladies and to fulfil their greedy needs.

Single men rarely mess with a married woman because when the society finds out, it will bring a heavy backlash on the married woman, the society won't stop reminding her that she cheated on her husband with a single guy but the society normalized a single lady for sleeping with a married man.

Many guys are still single because the single ladies are busy devicing how to get a married man on her bed to fulfil her greed. Many of we single guys are stranded because we can't approach married women as we respect the sanctity and vow of their marriage


My question is; Why do single ladies love to sleep with married men?

No emotional attachment plus it a business transaction in most cases