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Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by IyaTola: 12:57am On Aug 11, 2023 |
Many relationships are a mistake, it shouldn't have started in the first place, and no matter how much one holds onto it, it will not turn out to be right. Any relationship where you are abused, belittled, made to feel less of a human is a mistake. Unfortunately, one of the parties, who does not understand this, will cling on to the relationship because they love their partner or because of how much time and resources has been invested in the relationship. 52 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by abiolamitodun(m): 4:47am On Aug 11, 2023 |
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Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by Obaaderemi2: 6:28am On Aug 11, 2023 |
This is one of the most sensible opinions ever on nairaland. This thread can save thousands of lives if studied and followed. You are in a relationship where your partner cheats or shames you without remorse and you are still holding on thinking they would change or that time will heal you, you are playing with your mental and physical health. That relationship can send you to hell if there's actually something like hell. Even if they don't cheat again it's not because of you. It's because of the last person they cheated with. They're satisfied with the either the physical or emotional content. Or with both and they're laughing at you behind your back. It's more complicated if it happens after marriage and children are involved. But still, think about yourself! 38 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by Nobody: 6:29am On Aug 11, 2023 |
Very nice post 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by Puss360(f): 7:19am On Aug 11, 2023 |
Lol... It happens.. We just pray to God to give us the mental strength to leave such relationship coz it's very hard.. Some guys find it hard to leave their relationship when girl gives good sex and can cook despite the fact that this same girl has bad manners to him Nd his family and sometimes can be aggressive... Same with some girls, find it hard to leave a relationship where the guy has money and us very good in bed and very handsome to the extent other girls jealous her.. this same guy still has eyes for this girl, no cheating on his part... But this same guy is very strict and can be violent and sometimes beaten the girl on some occasions!!!! May God help us ![]() ![]() I don't tolerate aggressiveness or shouting o... 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by Sonnobax15(m): 7:20am On Aug 11, 2023 |
![]() Nice....... Not all relationship are bound to lead to marriage........ Especially now that westernazition tends to have more negative effect on it... 4 Likes |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by Rokiat(f): 7:41am On Aug 11, 2023 |
All facts. 3 Likes |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by Zigzagman: 8:49am On Aug 11, 2023 |
Truer words never said 2 Likes |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by Edipet(m): 9:02am On Aug 11, 2023 |
Must you relate? 2 Likes |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by IyaTola: 7:46pm On Aug 11, 2023 |
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Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by DonroxyII: 4:38pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
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Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by Nobody: 4:54pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Whatever you do, don't allow sex come in first. It becloud your sense of evaluation and judgement ![]() ![]() When you realize you aren't made for each other it's easier to let go. Be friends, know your intending partner but most importantly know thyself first. You see the last part, it's very very important. Most people do not know who they are before allowing someone else in. So you see them loving Kola's blue eyes today, falling for Emeka's abs tomorrow then all of a sudden Umaru's brown eyes is giving. Same with Men too, you see a man looking for a born again with ashawo vibes or a sugar baby with sugar mummy's vibes ![]() ![]() 26 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by IyaTola: 9:26pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Persephone1:This is what most of them have become. 4 Likes |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by ThiefnubuBandit(f): 5:08pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Abeg no time for relationship matters now. This Nigeria economy dey kill sexual urge. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by Chiedu4Trump: 5:08pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
I agree oh! all the dating I no gain jack. Now to remain excited by one babe dey hard. 3 Likes |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by atobs4real(m): 5:08pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
That's life. Inside life things happen in life 1 Like |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by BabaIbo: 5:08pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Relationship is not mathematics to be honest, no be wetin you fit just calculate on but still you need to be smart and wise not to fall into the wrong hands. The lady I'm dating came at an unexpected time, she came at a time I was trying to start something with another lady. She has made me realize that most often people search for love or relationship the wrong way. Thank God for life! 5 Likes |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by atobs4real(m): 5:08pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
That's life. Inside life things happen in life Not surprised |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by saphiere(f): 5:08pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Nigerian men have turned relationship to sex-satisfying scheme. They go into relationship with the intend to have sex. The most annoying part is the rape part. 4 Likes |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by atobs4real(m): 5:09pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
That's life. Inside life things happen in life Not surprised with various happenings |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by John4B: 5:09pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Tinubu Again? |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by Rubyjade: 5:10pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Apart from wasting one's time if it falls apart, the unsatisfied tensions and all, not to talk of the risk of traveling to visit the person. God forbid one dies via accident on their way to visit what will you tell your maker? When you are so sexually frustrated who will be there to deliver you? D love at the other side of the phone? Mtcheeeew. P.S, If you've known your partner before distance came in between fine and Good. That works atleast you know him or her. But social media distance relationships are Scams(might work 4 few). Not to talk of so many psychos on the lose waiting for an unsuspecting victim. So reason it well before you enter a time wasting venture in d guise of a distance relationship. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by theophorus(m): 5:10pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
She like you when She never gain Admission to Uni. After she gain Admission she meet so "big girls" who introduce her to some 'big gods sorry big dogs I mean' and gradually they turn her to Bitch. Fact is the relationship was never a mistake but the Priorities changed along the line and a good partner becomes food for the street and a wise fellow will drop the bitch for the street. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by DWJOBScom(m): 5:10pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
I agree It was hasty It was one sided It was unplanned Both parties had poor or non existing relationship goals Both are kids Both have never read a book on relationship 2 Likes |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by Almiron: 5:10pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
I don’t offer relationship advice, but if you….. 4 Likes
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Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by TOPCRUISE(m): 5:11pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
So person wey never enter relationship never do mistake. As in a good mistake comitted is when you enter a relationship. I disagree |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by Lama70(m): 5:12pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
[quote author=IyaTola post=125028398][/quote] Even many marriages. 1 Like |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by wittywriter: 5:12pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Most people do not master self discovery before going into a relationship. Wittyness 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by Sonnobax15(m): 5:12pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
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Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by Johnnyposh: 5:12pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
This is very true man,I’m just 26 years now,I regret starting the relationship cos I later impregnated her and I married her cos of the love I have for her,but I forgot that I’m not emotionally and financially ready and now with us having our daughter that will turn to 2 years Old in November,I can’t cater for them well and I’m very guilty,man you don’t know how I do cry every night cos I can’t take care of my family well,I regret it so bad. 12 Likes |
Re: Many Relationships Are A Mistake, It Shouldn't Have Started In The First Place, by BoldBrainz(m): 5:13pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
A thread created on August 11th is just hitting the front page and the comments are still on the first page. Evidence to show that the entire content is useless. 1 Like |
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