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How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Born2Freak(f): 12:43pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
As I am writing this, my friend's sister is considering divorce just after 5 months of marriage. She recently learnt that her husband is a serial debtor- a specialist in borrow-posing (borrowing things and acting as if you own them). The husband in question is from a rich family but he spends money recklessly and borrows recklessly. His family was covering up for him and she thought that the man is responsible. The point is that the woman (my friend's sister) was fooled by her husband's rich family and big house in Lekki. The family has a house in Lekki while the man rents in Ibeju Lekki. But can we only blame the man? If my friend's sister was wise enough to do investigation into the man she was marrying, she would not have married him. She saw a rich family and didnt ask questions. The man does not really have a job. He just helps to manage the family's properties. The man also parties like a wild animal. But because he spends on her, she believed that he was a "big boy" Now, the reality has set- loan apps and police have come looking for the husband at their apartment. The wife is getting different threatening phone calls and the husband quickly ran to the village to chill. Please, for any woman that is going to get married, please do your proper investigation. -Is your husband to be financially responsible (does he have a steady job or business?) -Does your husband to be flirt with other girls or have cheating spirit? -Is he a wife beater? -Is he respected in his own family? Open your eyes. Ask questions and be careful. Marriage is not a joke. My friend's sister is depressed today because she was carried away by greed and didnt look into her husband. 142 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Nobody: 12:44pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
Family name and reputation matters but make sure you are not getting married to the black sheep. These signs are always there but most ladies overlook them and later regret it. Someone is dating you and he keeps clubbing, partying, drinking, smoking, always at the wrong places and keeping the wrong companies and call it vibes and you sef dy follow am shake head say na vibes only to start crying blood later in marriage lailai no be me. Na nonsense full street but if you are wise, you'll still get the best but also make sure you are deserving of the few best among these nonsense littered everywhere these days. 191 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by LookFront: 12:46pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
IconicR: B 12 Likes |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by izonborn098(m): 12:47pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
Why some women deceive their husband good character' then after marriage show him his true colour. Why are women after money? You can't have a lasting marriage when you are after money and not the soul'' Las las everybody go dey okay sha 236 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Wodu89: 12:58pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
Tell her I said this, yes it's bad, it's a season and that this season would pass. She must develop the understanding in knowing that it's a season, and it won't last forever 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Kobojunkie: 12:59pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
izonborn098:Define lasting marriage? ![]() 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by izonborn098(m): 1:08pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
When u are serious i will reply u Kobojunkie: 76 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Kobojunkie: 1:10pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
izonborn098:Again... define lasting marriage so we clearly understand how it can be sustained by soul alone? ![]() 17 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by izonborn098(m): 1:15pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
Go and read the post again' is like u don't reason wide Kobojunkie: 42 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Kobojunkie: 1:43pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
izonborn098:I see you are equally clueless. ![]() 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by izonborn098(m): 2:04pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
How can a clueless one sided madam call another person name' nairaland kids Kobojunkie: 40 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Kobojunkie: 2:05pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
izonborn098:** yawn** 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Zigzagman: 6:41pm On Aug 11, 2023 |
OP, e be like say your sister dey among the women wey lament about men inside dis video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EU3zIpAEQ64 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Nobody: 7:25pm On Aug 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Hehehe ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Stevenbright(m): 8:25pm On Aug 11, 2023 |
Born2Freak: 1 Like |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by juman(m): 8:31pm On Aug 11, 2023 |
She saw the signs before marriage but she ignored them out of her greed. 59 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by JeffreyJunior: 3:23am On Aug 12, 2023 |
If it's an addiction then I support the divorce. A serial borrower and debtor fit go borrow from fulani bandits one day and not pay back. ![]() 22 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by ecolime(m): 6:40am On Aug 12, 2023 |
Faworaja ti gbe baby yi ni handicap ![]() She thought she struck gold. It is well with you. 53 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Pacesetter2021: 6:51am On Aug 12, 2023 |
Money- excess or deficiency of it is not enough grounds for divorce. If he ran to chill in the village, why is she still in Lagos? She should go and chill with the husband in the village too. She thinks marriage is for the shallow or faint hearted. Tell her to roll up her sleeves. More grace. 78 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Nazgul: 11:03am On Aug 12, 2023 |
The question is what does he use the money for? It's one thing to borrow, it's another thing to spend the borrowed money productively. If he has an addiction that's consuming his money, she can help him overcome it. That's why she's he's wife. 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Ishilove: 12:52pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
JeffreyJunior:For some, na condition, for some, na mental illness 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by mrblessed(m): 12:57pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
izonborn098:Don't mind them. As if to say the so-called friend didn't see all these stuff before diving in. At least, the guy has a wealthy background; let her deal with it. 33 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by GloriousGbola: 1:00pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Born2Freak: Your 'sister' married a panty sniffer. Too bad. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Kanekwagii(m): 3:49pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
When those women too are too greedy 22 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by envoymedia: 3:49pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Hu 1 Like |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by OseJo: 3:49pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
48 laws of power 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Almiron: 3:49pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Na inferior men aka losers, dey package to marry women, if you’re not financially stable stay away from women, if nature calls soapy or carry olosho. Focus on your goals. If you marry and born pikin with no stable source of income. Read my fingers…. You will suffer. 36 Likes 8 Shares
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Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Menclothing: 3:50pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
It’s money you looking for If you had brought value to the table you won’t meet a deceiver 32 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by BabaCommander: 3:50pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
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Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Hezzyluv: 3:51pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Is long throat that brought her this woe. She thought he's a big boy. ![]() Women and long throat are like 5&6 ![]() 51 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by theophorus(m): 3:51pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR SANITY NEVER REPLY ANY OF KOBOJUNKIE POST. On the ongoing matter, Na Mumu dey marry Man because He dey spend on top Her. She be correct Mumu. If She leave the guy next person wen she go marry go be Yahoo boy or Thief because na wetin dey attract Her be that. Man wen use Front and Back or Skin color as Criteria for marriage go likely marry "wahala Promax". Change you values and you will attract people like You. Check well, that Girl na from that Tribe wen like Money pass their anything. 36 Likes 5 Shares |
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