Someone needs to be careful

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Many don't discover themselves before going into relationships.




Wittyness

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9erI9SvAv_M

Was shocked to discover this kind if platform in the Chinese platform

She well deserved it. Na wetin people wey dey marry money go see be that. All that glitters is not gold.

Born2Freak:
As I am writing this, my friend's sister is considering divorce just after 5 months of marriage. She recently learnt that her husband is a serial debtor- a specialist in borrow-posing (borrowing things and acting as if you own them).

The husband in question is from a rich family but he spends money recklessly and borrows recklessly. His family was covering up for him and she thought that the man is responsible.

The point is that the woman (my friend's sister) was fooled by her husband's rich family and big house in Lekki. The family has a house in Lekki while the man rents in Ibeju Lekki.

But can we only blame the man? If my friend's sister was wise enough to do investigation into the man she was marrying, she would not have married him. She saw a rich family and didnt ask questions. The man does not really have a job. He just helps to manage the family's properties. The man also parties like a wild animal. But because he spends on her, she believed that he was a "big boy"

Now, the reality has set- loan apps and police have come looking for the husband at their apartment. The wife is getting different threatening phone calls and the husband quickly ran to the village to chill.

Please, for any woman that is going to get married, please do your proper investigation.
-Is your husband to be financially responsible (does he have a steady job or business?)
-Does your husband to be flirt with other girls or have cheating spirit?
-Is he a wife beater?
-Is he respected in his own family?

Open your eyes. Ask questions and be careful. Marriage is not a joke. My friend's sister is depressed today because she was carried away by greed and didnt look into her husband.

In summary, she followed the money.

If she was genuinely interested in him and not his bank balance and monetary capabilities, she would have smelled a rat at the dating stage.

It's that simple.

He lied, I'm not saying he did a good thing.

However, it was the money he used to keep up appearances with her.

And her greed failed to let her see the truth before agreeing to tie the knot.

Born2Freak:
As I am writing this, my friend's sister is considering divorce just after 5 months of marriage. She recently learnt that her husband is a serial debtor- a specialist in borrow-posing (borrowing things and acting as if you own them).

The husband in question is from a rich family but he spends money recklessly and borrows recklessly. His family was covering up for him and she thought that the man is responsible.

The point is that the woman (my friend's sister) was fooled by her husband's rich family and big house in Lekki. The family has a house in Lekki while the man rents in Ibeju Lekki.

But can we only blame the man? If my friend's sister was wise enough to do investigation into the man she was marrying, she would not have married him. She saw a rich family and didnt ask questions. The man does not really have a job. He just helps to manage the family's properties. The man also parties like a wild animal. But because he spends on her, she believed that he was a "big boy"

Now, the reality has set- loan apps and police have come looking for the husband at their apartment. The wife is getting different threatening phone calls and the husband quickly ran to the village to chill.

Please, for any woman that is going to get married, please do your proper investigation.
-Is your husband to be financially responsible (does he have a steady job or business?)
-Does your husband to be flirt with other girls or have cheating spirit?
-Is he a wife beater?
-Is he respected in his own family?

Open your eyes. Ask questions and be careful. Marriage is not a joke. My friend's sister is depressed today because she was carried away by greed and didnt look into her husband.

You have now listed what women should check out in their would-be spouses before committing. If men include body count on their own list, someone will get aggressive.

IconicR:
Family name and reputation matters but make sure you are not getting married to the black sheep. These signs are always there but most ladies overlook them and later regret it. Someone is dating you and he keeps clubbing, partying, drinking, smoking, always at the wrong places and keeping the wrong companies and call it vibes and you sef dy follow am shake head say na vibes only to start crying blood later in marriage lailai no be me. Na nonsense full street but if you are wise, you'll still get the best but also make sure you are deserving of the few best among these nonsense littered everywhere these days.

Rose, so I follow for the "nonsense wey full street" ?

Hehehe, interesting.

Kobojunkie:
Define lasting marriage?

To Nigerian boys, it is one contracted in poverty to a woman with no breasts or buttocks and a brain that weighs 50kg who steadily gives them $$$$>5000 monthly and turns a blind eye to everything they do, yet carries the bulk of the relationship as a wise woman.

It won't stop them from cheating or make them better men themselves.

Na today catfish pepper soup dey collect woman sense. I pray make them listen to you o.

She saw a family with money and her brain hibernated.

Make she run go stay for the Lekki house na as the husband don go village.

Born2Freak:
As I am writing this, my friend's sister is considering divorce just after 5 months of marriage. She recently learnt that her husband is a serial debtor- a specialist in borrow-posing (borrowing things and acting as if you own them).

The husband in question is from a rich family but he spends money recklessly and borrows recklessly. His family was covering up for him and she thought that the man is responsible.

The point is that the woman (my friend's sister) was fooled by her husband's rich family and big house in Lekki. The family has a house in Lekki while the man rents in Ibeju Lekki.

But can we only blame the man? If my friend's sister was wise enough to do investigation into the man she was marrying, she would not have married him. She saw a rich family and didnt ask questions. The man does not really have a job. He just helps to manage the family's properties. The man also parties like a wild animal. But because he spends on her, she believed that he was a "big boy"

Now, the reality has set- loan apps and police have come looking for the husband at their apartment. The wife is getting different threatening phone calls and the husband quickly ran to the village to chill.

Please, for any woman that is going to get married, please do your proper investigation.
-Is your husband to be financially responsible (does he have a steady job or business?)
-Does your husband to be flirt with other girls or have cheating spirit?
-Is he a wife beater?
-Is he respected in his own family?

Open your eyes. Ask questions and be careful. Marriage is not a joke. My friend's sister is depressed today because she was carried away by greed and didnt look into her husband.

Eyaaaah.
One chance.

Menclothing:
It’s money you looking for
If you had brought value to the table you won’t meet a deceiver

Does the man in the story have any value? If he were poor he would have loads of value, right? Then we would hear that his future is bright.

U fortunately women likes men that tell them.lies.

Women have NEVER liked truthful people..including the OP that is preaching.

These are the type of men women fall for and will continue falling for.

Abeg park oneside and tell her to carry her cross. If she wan divorce, it can not undo the fact that she is now an ex wife.

Only a foolish man gives a ring to a woman who have worn another man's ring before.

Time for boys to chop and clean mouth.

Let her divorce!!!

LegallyBlunt:
In summary, she followed the money.

If she was genuinely interested in him and not his bank balance and monetary capabilities, she would have smelled a rat at the dating stage.

It's that simple.

He lied, I'm not saying he did a good thing.

However, it was the money he used to keep up appearances with her.

And her greed failed to let her see the truth before agreeing to tie the knot.

Yes, blame her.

BoldBrainz:


Rose, so I follow for the "nonsense wey full street" ?

Since your marriage is still intact maybe you are not among

Born2Freak:
As I am writing this, my friend's sister is considering divorce just after 5 months of marriage. She recently learnt that her husband is a serial debtor- a specialist in borrow-posing (borrowing things and acting as if you own them).

The husband in question is from a rich family but he spends money recklessly and borrows recklessly. His family was covering up for him and she thought that the man is responsible.

The point is that the woman (my friend's sister) was fooled by her husband's rich family and big house in Lekki. The family has a house in Lekki while the man rents in Ibeju Lekki.

But can we only blame the man? If my friend's sister was wise enough to do investigation into the man she was marrying, she would not have married him. She saw a rich family and didnt ask questions. The man does not really have a job. He just helps to manage the family's properties. The man also parties like a wild animal. But because he spends on her, she believed that he was a "big boy"

Now, the reality has set- loan apps and police have come looking for the husband at their apartment. The wife is getting different threatening phone calls and the husband quickly ran to the village to chill.

Please, for any woman that is going to get married, please do your proper investigation.
-Is your husband to be financially responsible (does he have a steady job or business?)
-Does your husband to be flirt with other girls or have cheating spirit?
-Is he a wife beater?
-Is he respected in his own family?

Open your eyes. Ask questions and be careful. Marriage is not a joke. My friend's sister is depressed today because she was carried away by greed and didnt look into her husband.

Greediness will Nigeria girls, from your comments she marry that man for money when she got there she saw another thing

There are many like her husband out there and divorce is not the best option since he is not abusing her.
I will advice she use the influence of her husband family to build herself.

BRATISLAVA:


Does the man in the story have any value? If he were poor he would have loads of value, right? Then we would hear that his future is bright.

Value attract value

If you are valueless and package urself with make up no business or well paid job and you want a man of class shift

Menclothing:


Value attract value

If you are valueless and package urself with make up no business or well paid job and you want a man of class shift

And if you are valueless like the man in the op with everything and nothing and want a classy woman with make up, a business and a week paid job? What then? She should be blamed for your valueless state? Or you think value is the sole custody of men?

He who brings an ant infested wood invites the lizards to a feast. Same girl must have turned down lots of genuine men for the simple reason that they didn't party hard or spent on her. Marriage is a package of it's own. She should carry her cross.

Kobojunkie:
Again... define lasting marriage so we clearly understand how it can be sustained by soul alone?

Good one

The point is that the woman (my friend's sister) was fooled by her husband's rich family and big house in Lekki. The family has a house in Lekki while the man rents in Ibeju Lekki.

You have said the point of why she got married to him. That is not true love! Secondly, it is why most women have become evening news papers.

When your friend's sister was eaten barbecued snail with whatever drink, you did not come to NAIRALAND.

One that one chance driver has dropped her off Maryland bridge, you want to seize the opportunity to be a special adviser on Nairaland.

Dey play.

Marriage without Christ is a scam!!!

He is a happening guy na

What does she want again

Abeg rest

What if it's a test?
Just saying o!

What's the proof she got that he's a chronic debtor? Did Palmpay chase them when they went out?
What if the borrowing is just because of some things during the wedding?

Some ladies, would wait for the "best" Las Las they will still complain

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