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Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Albertgr8: 4:13pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Almiron: Your type will be there looking for money and turn 80 Life is not like that if you want to marry just be yourself don't form what you are not both the guy and the girl 4 Likes |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by stevups(m): 4:14pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
If you want to marry any woman, just package yourself very well. The most smart among women can be outsmarted with enough packaging. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by luckyz4rea(m): 4:15pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Wodu89: Seasons comes with lessons. If she’s not intentional about learning lessons and making choices in line with same from this, she may be as susceptible as she was before the marriage 1 Like |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Emaprince: 4:16pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA:I know say you dey vex like this. You too dey vex. Go and watch movie or something. 1 Like |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by zanifa: 4:17pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Menclothing:Well said |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by ppogba: 4:17pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
On behalf of Nairaland's official OAP, I hereby dedicate Fire Fire by Daddy Showkey to the bride. Great Jam. |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Bostin(m): 4:18pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Born2Freak:There was a sincere and honest promising young man in her life who beg to have her but she detest truth and sincerity . Enjoy your chosen fake rich husband aunty . 1 Like |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Acidosis(m): 4:18pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Sad but common. It's even more prevalent because some women have a way of evaluating a man's worth without factual evidence. I mean, they look at the shoes and the car and mentally estimate a salary (all in the head). In an era where everyone is a tech and AI juggernaut, more people will be scammed, unfortunately. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by OboOlora(f): 4:18pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Op, I know this story. Ur sister husband name na Olumide Lopez abi?🤣 3 Likes |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by yusufmurry: 4:19pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Born2Freak: @OP, Firstly, you failed to tell us what job or work your sister's friend does for a living but has quickly jumped to advised ladies to investigate that they would-be husband is financially responsible. So a lady going into marriage should not be financially responsible too? Gosh! See, there is nothing wrong that your friend's sister did. Every Nigerian girl will fall for that too. Every Nigerian girl is carried away with what she sees. Just imagine the scenario here: the guy is from a rich family and the guy spends on her. What else did you want her to do? You people should keep increasing the number of failed marriages because you (Nigerian girls) have taken marriage as charity scheme. A grown Nigerian girl who has no job, no work, no skill, no value wants to marriage the son of Dangote and same time, wants the dangote son to respect her. Tell your friend to pack her things and leave. The guy did nothing wrong too but lived that kind of life to impress the girl. If you don't package or live a fake life, a Nigeria girl will ghost you. You and your sister's friend should get away 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by BRATISLAVA: 4:19pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Emaprince: Why are you vexed by my post? |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Dshocker(m): 4:19pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Born2Freak: Tell her; Marriage is for better, for worst. She has to work with the man and help manage his finance. But before then, he should get a job, or start a business. 2 Likes |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by BRATISLAVA: 4:21pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Acidosis: And men, the sorts of boys who post about the economic value of women who they will date, they don't assess the women too? Is it that greed is not in men because men are saints when going into relationships? Or men aren't human enough to have the emotions that women do? They don't evaluate women in any form? Men are golddiggers too, a lot of them But it's a cultural for Nigerian men to never admit it discuss their tendencies. They instead project it on their women. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by BRATISLAVA: 4:22pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Dshocker: You'd give this exact, same advice if this were about a jobless woman pretending? 1 Like |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by abbey621(m): 4:22pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
The man gave her exactly what she wanted......A ready made product, the appearance of wealth, real or imagined ![]() ![]() ![]() Ole.....Thief! More & more of you women will continue to find yourselves in situations like this because your main criteria in choosing a spouse is MONEY! Nobody wants to suffer but if you had your own bag, you wouldn't be too upset at the guy not being financially buoyant, in fact if you loved him enough, you might be the catalyst that finally gets him to sit up and be a real man but then again, women like this are NOTHING without their cash cow/man! 5 Likes |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by linearity: 4:23pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Born2Freak: You forgot to include that, your friend is greedy and also a gold digger. She clearly know or had the means to know that her intending husband have no meaningful job before saying I do. She instead ignored all the red flags 🚩 and went all in, they are match in heaven, who will now marry the husband if she succeeds in divorcing him, please ask her to stay put, she can’t run away now that all the glamors are gone! 1 Like |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Emaprince: 4:23pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Clementz0(m): 4:24pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
she's already into it divorce won't do her any good people don't know that what sustain a marriage is more than "I LOVE YOU" you need faith,prayer,a lot of counsel. A wise woman they say builds her home tell your friend to be an helper to her husband and not complain, my own piece of advice 1 Like |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by bizhop01: 4:24pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
I have no advice for golddigger ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by BRATISLAVA: 4:26pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Emaprince: You misconstrued the tone of my post. |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by SamuelLoch: 4:27pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Almiron: Do you know that one of the ways to build wealth is through marriage? "One can chase a thousand, but two can chase 10 thousand" The two just gats get sense 4 Likes |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Acidosis(m): 4:31pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Evaluating a potential partner is good. However, ideal evaluations should be based on realistic and rational criteria. A woman who prioritizes the thought of "how much can this man spend on me?" is essentially setting herself up for failure. Knowing an ideal man isn't primarily about "you" (the woman and her needs) but rather about "him" (the man and his life choices). The former depicts greed, the latter can be anything but greed. Some women emphasize their own needs too much and mistakenly assume that a man who meets these needs must also be doing well personally. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Kobojunkie: 4:33pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA:Why those features abeg? ![]() |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by michoim(m): 4:34pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Your friend is looking for a ready made husband. Awoof dey run belle... 4 Likes |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Kobojunkie: 4:35pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
SamuelLoch:Yet over 83% of Nigerians who are marriage are under the clasps of poverty and their children are projected to remain under the same burden for generations to come? ![]() No be marriage abeg... na commonsense, whether married or not. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Idaytesj29(m): 4:36pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Born2Freak: LoL 😂😆 women and money 💰🤑 2 Likes |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by BRATISLAVA: 4:36pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: They vilify women with those traits. Imagine Nigerian men saying that women with bigger buttocks have a lot of sheet in them. They constantly claim they want a woman with brains, as if women aren't born with them, and as if women with these body parts are pariah. So what you have made bold is what they say they want. 2 Likes |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Intergrated: 4:38pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Kanekwagii:greed she probably saw other young guys but no. Benz and Lexus thief. |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Wodu89: 4:40pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Maobichek: 4:47pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
stevups: Hahahahaaa!!! I just remembered what happened last month at a suya stand beside National Mosque where packaging made a matured lady fall for a "driver." 5 Likes |
Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Almiron: 4:50pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Albertgr8:My type is gonna walk a beautiful woman to the altar later this year, while your type still dey on Nairaland, wasting their lives away, you don’t even know where your next meal will come from, or probably your parents are still feeding your sorry asss. F**k off my mentions. 1 Like
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Re: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Trustmea: 4:52pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
Nteogwuija:I can tell you for sure that that family is not wealthy enough as OP portrayed because if the family is stinkingly rich they will rehabilitate that guy with their wealth, it's just this family that drives Toyota Camry or Corolla living a middle class life. rich family and the son ran to the village to stay lol funny 5 Likes |
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