Johnnyposh:
This is very true man,I’m just 26 years now,I regret starting the relationship cos I later impregnated her and I married her cos of the love I have for her,but I forgot that I’m not emotionally and financially ready and now with us having our daughter that will turn to 2 years Old in November,I can’t cater for them well and I’m very guilty,man you don’t know how I do cry every night cos I can’t take care of my family well,I regret it so bad.

Puss360:
Lol... It happens.. We just pray to God to give us the mental strength to leave such relationship coz it's very hard..

Some guys find it hard to leave their relationship when girl gives good sex and can cook despite the fact that this same girl has bad manners to him Nd his family and sometimes can be aggressive...
Same with some girls, find it hard to leave a relationship where the guy has money and us very good in bed and very handsome to the extent other girls jealous her.. this same guy still has eyes for this girl, no cheating on his part... But this same guy is very strict and can be violent and sometimes beaten the girl on some occasions!!!!

May God help us
I don't tolerate aggressiveness or shouting o...

Persephone1:
Whatever you do, don't allow sex come in first. It becloud your sense of evaluation and judgement
When you realize you aren't made for each other it's easier to let go. Be friends, know your intending partner but most importantly know thyself first.

You see the last part, it's very very important. Most people do not know who they are before allowing someone else in. So you see them loving Kola's blue eyes today, falling for Emeka's abs tomorrow then all of a sudden Umaru's brown eyes is giving. Same with Men too, you see a man looking for a born again with ashawo vibes or a sugar baby with sugar mummy's vibes

saphiere:
Nigerian men have turned relationship to sex-satisfying scheme.
They go into relationship with the intend to have sex.
The most annoying part is the rape part.

Caleycash:
But money will come in!?, Well SIMPLETONS full everywhere, they no born any girl well we dey relationship and you're seeing my money and open mouth to say no sex!

Persephone1:
How is this my business?

Caleycash:
Its your business!, stop posting nonsense, life is give and take!

You must be delusional to think you have a right to override my opinion . You mistake Nl for your family meeting

BoboNogoDie:

No relationship is a mistake!
What will make any relationship not to work is if you start it on false or bad foundation.

Often times, GREED AND DISHONEST BETWEEN PARTNERS IN THE RELATIONSHIP WILL DEFINITELY END UP NOT MAKING THE RELATIONSHIP WORK.

IMAGINE A PARTNER YOU'RE CONSTANTLY CHEATING ON, EVEN IF YOU THINK THEY DON'T KNOW OR YOU'RE SMART AT PLAYING YOUR GAMES, THE RELATIONSHIP WILL STILL END UP CRASHING ON NOT WORK OUT WELL.

Persephone1:
You must be delusional to think you have a right to override my opinion . You mistake Nl for your family meeting

Persephone1:
Whatever you do, don't allow sex come in first. It becloud your sense of evaluation and judgement
When you realize you aren't made for each other it's easier to let go. Be friends, know your intending partner but most importantly know thyself first.

You see the last part, it's very very important. Most people do not know who they are before allowing someone else in. So you see them loving Kola's blue eyes today, falling for Emeka's abs tomorrow then all of a sudden Umaru's brown eyes is giving. Same with Men too, you see a man looking for a born again with ashawo vibes or a sugar baby with sugar mummy's vibes

saphiere:
Nigerian men have turned relationship to sex-satisfying scheme.
They go into relationship with the intend to have sex.
The most annoying part is the rape part.

ExudeLoveToAll:


If you don't want sex stay out of relationship.

You want to be in a relationship without sex but want to fuel your monetary drive, you can't approbate and reprobate at the same time.

When you want to marry just go outside and propose to any man you want , problem solved

Akano5:
Great writeup