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Man breaks up with his ‘amazing girlfriend’ because she is too ‘independent’ and he can't ‘control her’

SUMMARY
The man said that she is soo independent that he feels useless and that he cannot control her because of that.

He further says that he fears that it will get into her head and end up being disrespectful.

What are your thoughts?

No cause for alarm'''
A girl reject my friend because he don't smoke or drink''
When they want to break your heart everything is possible

Hmm

This is why more Women need to stand up for themselves.


He knew he's useless [can't offer anything apart from sex and money ].And if she did depended on him ,he will be the one to useless ,disrespect and shame her.
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kudos to our former mothers, they did endured a lot of rubbish .

Nigga is just used to women that beg for money like almajiri and stress him out...

It happens to women too...u find a faithful men with no pressure, u start saying he's boring...

Sometimes its not good getting used to bad things for a long time..... u just take the bad thing as the norm.......

I like this type of man.
No responsible man feels ok receiving gifts from his unmarried girlfriend.
Women should only spend on the lawfully wedded husband.

advanceDNA:
Nigga is just used to women that beg for money like almajiri and stress him out...

It happens to women too...u find a faithful men with no pressure, u start saying he's boring...

Sometimes its not good getting used to bad things for a long time..... u just take the bad thing as the norm.......

Lol, that's if the chats aren't made up

He shouldn't even try to "control" a grown woman. Good they break-up he will eventually resent her.

advanceDNA:
Nigga is just used to women that beg for money like almajiri and stress him out...

It happens to women too...u find a faithful men with no pressure, u start saying he's boring...

Sometimes its not good getting used to bad things for a long time..... u just take the bad thing as the norm.......

Please erase this comment and have shame.
You think it's normal for girlfriend to be spending on a boyfriend?
That guy is intelligent because women ain't submissive when they provide. Provision comes along with submission.
Provide as a man and demand submission from your woman.
I can't ever spend on any man except I'm already married to him else if he talk one I'll talk ten

IconicR:
Please erase this comment and have shame.
You think it's normal for girlfriend to be spending on a boyfriend?
That guy is intelligent because women ain't submissive when they provide. Provision comes along with submission.
Provide as a man and demand submission from your woman.
I can't ever spend on any man except I'm already married to him else if he talk one I'll talk ten

Iyaebe....Please clear off with ur shitťy, parasitic mentality.....try refine ur mentality abeg so u can raise impressive daughters tomorrow

Luminouz

I hope I got the moniker correctly.

Seeing how you were schooling me on what "real" love is on the other thread, I want to know what your opinion about this relationship arrangement is...

advanceDNA:


Iyaebe....Please clear off with ur shitťy, parasitic mentality.....try refine ur mentality abeg so u can raise impressive daughters tomorrow

You hate truth but I'm here to always tell you the truth.
I'll raise my daughters to always go for traditional men who provides and command respect from their women

Enugupikin:

Lol, that's if the chats aren't made up

Yeah chats can be made up...

.but there are lots of men like that..they are not comfortable dating women that support or buys them things, even when they are broke nd clearly need help........makes them feel emasculated

I have heard guys say they would never receive help or gift from their girl cos she can come tommorow and make a fuss claiming she made them....

I dont blame them though.... woman wey no give u anything but pvssy will be shouting "I gave him eveeything" when break up happens

advanceDNA:


Yeah chats can be made up...

.but there are lots of men like that..they are not comfortable dating women that support or buys them things, even when they are broke nd clearly need help........makes them feel emasculated

I have heard guys say they would never receive help or gift from their girl cos she can come tommorow and make a fuss claiming she made them....

I dont blame them though.... woman wey no give u anything but pvssy will be shouting "I gave him eveeything" when break up happens

It is cultural sort of. Also adding to the way women behave, it has contributed to why men feel they don't need help from women. It's well

IconicR:
You hate truth but I'm here to always tell you the truth.
I'll raise my daughters to always go for traditional men who provides and command respect from their women

Iyaebe the great. How many years ban were you given?

IconicR:
You hate truth but I'm here to always tell you the truth.
I'll raise my daughters to always go for traditional men who provides and command respect from their women

Truth.?? Lol..u just like to cap...
...Dating a traditional man does not mean u cant give ur man gifts from time to time or when he needs help..
.. gosh..iyaebe... u are so backward in ur thinking...
the funniest part is ..u dont even have a billionaire husband or boyfriend...so u are probably supporting ur man or dont even have any man......so stop capping

advanceDNA:


Truth.?? Lol..u just like to cap...
...Dating a traditional man does not mean u cant give ur man gifts from time to time or when he needs help..
.. gosh..iyaebe... u are so backward in ur thinking...
the funniest part is ..u dont even have a billionaire husband or boyfriend...so u are probably supporting ur man or dont even have any man......so stop capping

Boyfriend is different from husband, I can never spend on a boyfriend.
If I give a boyfriend money and he's comfortable with receiving it, he's dating himself from that moment.

ChemicalReaction:
Luminouz

I hope I got the moniker correctly.

Seeing how you were schooling me on what "real" love is on the other thread, I want to know what your opinion about this relationship arrangement is...

Yeah, I'm here!!!

The guy had complex issues. Na mumu dey use money control woman. I have never used it. There is what's called an Alpha will and frame that mean you are just so confident in yourself and your goals that the woman will naturally defer to you, no matter how rich she is. While women hypergamy is real, na woman who get poverty mentality go think say money is everything in a relationship and she should never respect her man because she has more. Many women are divorced and baby mamas today because of that mentality.

This dude is like dozens of simps who think money can buy women's love and that's exactly what the redpill teaches against. Women are human beings,not objects and no matter how hard they scream for a rich man, their pussies always get wet when they find someone else who is poorer but has her mumu button. That's who they love. What a woman says and what she means/does are often parallel lines that will never meet. The dude prolly came from a family where money is worshipped as the God and the father is the priest. So whoever is in charge of the dough, takes the cake.

The funny thing about the guy is that he admitted that 'she is submissive now' but she can change later. While that is possible and should never be doubted, a lady who is rich and independent and submissive to you( confirmed after several redpill tests) won't suddenly change after wedding and become a virago, so long you retain your status quo as her Alpha. There is a difference between being independent and being innately stubborn, hardheaded and unyielding. The former is an asset while the latter is a problem.

That dude up there is looking to breakup with her and just needs an excuse to do it.

IconicR:
Boyfriend is different from husband, I can never spend on a boyfriend.
If I give a boyfriend money and he's comfortable with receiving it, he's dating himself from that moment.

Múmú... boyfriends will bcome husband.....or u just meet a man today and he will just bcome ur husband by evening... mama werèy

If ur boyfriend doesnt spend anything on u claiming u are not yet his wife...wont u say he's not serious....

oh let me guess...only men should spend b4 marriage abi....lol...

.. u are just broke iyabe...your mentality is broke, ur pocket is broke, everything about u is broke....thats why see buying a man u are dating a 10k perfume as a crime

advanceDNA:


Múmú... boyfriends will bcome husband.....or u just meet a man today and he will just bcome ur husband by evening... mama werèy

If ur boyfriend doesnt spend anything on u claiming u are not yet his wife...wont u say he's not serious....

oh let me guess...only men should spend b4 marriage abi....lol...

.. u are just broke iyabe...your mentality is broke, ur pocket is broke, everything about u is broke....thats why see buying a man u are dating a 10k perfume as a crime

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 so if I'm broke, should I still allow a broke guy near me?
Broke+broke= Brokeeeeeeee
You really don't understand some things, God didn't create women to provide, it is for these reasons marriages ain't working anymore because these generation men have successfully chased their women out to hustle like them which comes with it's consequence.
No woman respects a man he provides for, it's natural.
Well women should assist their husbands if needs be but a boyfriend does not deserve husband's privileges.

IconicR:
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 so if I'm broke, should I still allow a broke guy near me?
Broke+broke= Brokeeeeeeee
You really don't understand some things, God didn't create women to provide, it is for these reasons marriages ain't working anymore because these generation men have successfully chased their women out to hustle like them which comes with it's consequence.
No woman respects a man he provides for, it's natural.
Well women should assist their husbands if needs be but a boyfriend does not deserve husband's privileges.

Only lazy women use that line...God ddnt create u to provide.... so God gave u two hand and legs to bend down and chop peńis from back as a means of support...

.. all i have talked about is gift......even the chat from the op is just a gift from the lady..... just because u are too broke to give ur man a gift, u are dragging God into ur broke parasitic mentality.....

U lazy broke women...what does supporting ur man even mean to you?? U cant give perfume, u cant give boxers, u cant bring business idea, risk management? Zero knowledge....so what does support even mean to broke women like u....?? To come and watch zee world with 600naira/ liter fuel from morning till night.. and spread legs??

advanceDNA:


Only lazy women use that line...God ddnt create u to provide.... so God gave u two hand and legs to bend down and chop peńis from back as a means of support...

.. all i have talked about is gift......even the chat from the op is just a gift from the lady..... just because u are too broke to give ur man a gift, u are dragging God into ur broke parasitic mentality.....

U lazy broke women...what does supporting ur man even mean to you?? U cant give perfume, u cant give boxers, u cant bring business idea, risk management? Zero knowledge....so what does support even mean to broke women like u....?? To come and watch zee world with 600naira/ liter fuel from morning till night.. and spread legs??

Let me advise you as an old woman. Never go into a marriage/relationship with the mindset of a woman feeding you or gifting you, I bet you it will surely not last. Take note of the word mindset.
A wife can gift her husband all she has and be a solid support but a girlfriend has no business doing wifely duties.
How do you know I've not in one way or the other made someone rich? You know little to know too much

myyansh68:
This is why more Women need to stand up for themselves.


He knew he's useless [can't offer anything apart from sex and money ].And if she did depended on him ,he will be the one to useless ,disrespect and shame her.
..


kudos to our former mothers, they did endured a lot of rubbish .

Thank you for saying the gospel truth.

They always feel so insecure if you are financially independent. Very, very insecure .

Men will stupidly ask what women bring to the table, the women that brings equal or higher than men will still be resented for having equal footing in a relationship or marriage, because money is the only thing men has to offer, nothing more, same men will still resent women that bring nothing, the nothing being money, because we all know table refers to finance, so basic a gender,

I pity women getting married in this generation, they really need to be cautious and very careful when choosing a spouse.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
They always feel so insecure if you are financially independent. Very, very insecure .

Their low self esteem and Inferiority complex starts to show immediately, it's so disgusting, confused nomenclature.

He has seen a girl that doesn't ask him for urgent 3k and he doesn't know what to do with himself.

IconicR:
Let me advise you as an old woman. Never go into a marriage/relationship with the mindset of a woman feeding you or gifting you, I bet you it will surely not last. Take note of the word mindset.
A wife can gift her husband all she has and be a solid support but a girlfriend has no business doing wifely duties.
How do you know I've not in one way or the other made someone rich? You know little to know too much

Chatting with u is tyring ....
U that cannot buy gift for ur man...yet u want to make someone rich...iyaebe...thats not how life works....
...the way u woman know a man will be stingy in marriage right from the dating stage..is the same way a man knows a woman that will be supportive and caring in the marriage right from the dating stage....

na only mouth u get.... ....make someone rich indeed......with ur yansh abii?? Iyaebe your mentality is too parasitic and poor to contribute to any man's life....

Jovialjune1:



Their low self esteem and Inferiority complex starts to show immediately, it's so disgusting, confused nomenclature.

Very, very confused nomenclature. Very, very.

On one hand they complain about you being a liability if you are not financially independent and if you are they feel so insecure.

Very confused nomenclature.

During sex when you try to be that churchy prude. The complain that you not interesting in bed. When you step up and start being adventurous in bed they start feeling insecure. That's when their minds will be telling them that you must have fvcked a thousand d!cos to be able to be so skillful in what is a basic human instinct.

More over men are not INTELLIGENT. Weac results have proven so. As confused as they are. If these girl's result were to be University results. Their confusion will be that their grades is due to sex with lecturers.

Laughing...
This is staged... very staged..




No man.. no man.. will leave such Lady.. Her giving you stuffs doesn't make you useless Unless you make yourself useless..

Buy her stuffs too.. spend on her too.. insist to do that..