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Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by janeedema(f): 5:27pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
As much as I love your stories. I believe what it simply shows is people who have done their homework as per how to act on a date. It proves nothing about being a wife or his an material. Some of us just love acting, sha. If this would be the basis of your choosing a spouse, I can already start laughing in Spanish. Ladies especially the enlightened ones know how to do their homework.The female gender is a born actress, I can tell you this for free. Don't be fooled. I am a female, so I know what I am talking about. A lady can act to get anything. You are looking at sustainability. So, as much as possible, you would want to keep off the drama and keep it real. And that hardly ever happens during dates. Where people pretend to laugh at boring jokes and scream "awwwwnn", when all they want to say is, "You talk too much". Dates prove nothing. Love who you marry, not marry who you love. So, first sort things out from the spiritual before bringing it to the mental and then, the sensual realm. Good manners during a date does not translate to marriage material. tquote author=rickleye post=125243721] How do you get to know the person without going on a date. This is potentially someone I plan to spend the rest of my life with, of course I’ll go on a date and see if we are compatible. Does she attempt to pay , bring along her wallet . How does she eat ? Is she loud , quiet . Does she laugh at my jokes ? Does she tell jokes ? Does she pray before eating , does she eat with her mouth open. ? Does she talk with food in her mouth ? Does she smell nice ? What does she order ? I went out with a lady to a restaurant and when the menu was brought , she ordered an expensive meal , pop and 4 pieces of meat. That was the beginning of the end. What concluded was on our way back we took an Uber was having issue with transfer . I had cash but asked her to pay the cab driver N3000. She said she had no money . So I quibbled if I didn’t pay for dinner how would she pay , she just laughed . I just pecked her on the cheek and told her cab man to drop her off at home. She’s wasn’t serious 🧐 I went out with someone else. I ordered first - she said she would have want I was having . She wasn’t loud. Did everything lady like. When the bill came she said 2 bills please . I almost kissed her then and there . I told her no that I am still old fashioned. And I paid. Guess what she paid the cab fare home. We had an amazing 3 days affair . [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by imoh4king(m): 5:30pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
rickleye: Are you guys still dating or married? Abi, one person don give the other person red card. |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by Samcent: 5:33pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
DanielsParker: You are making sense but this advice is hard to follow in today's Nigeria. Hunger dey this country o... Na only rich people dey chop 3 times now. Forget the looks, many guys and ladies just dey package. Get close, you go see say ground no level. Belle first! That's why almost every date must be in a restaurant or fast food joint. Las las everybody go dey alright. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by Emmahunk(m): 5:35pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
If women are not important, why do you find the topic worthy of discussion? Abi no be data you take write the story come still use data de read the comments? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by maticar: 5:41pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
pocohantas:This one go boarding school 1 Like |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by HugeElephant(f): 5:42pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
pocohantas:twoclans |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by sarutobi: 5:53pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
rickleye: This is it. We should not generalize women. They are humans and humans behave differently depends on if they like you or not. The first girl did not give a shit about you. There are many of them like that who go on dates with guys they dont like, just to eat free food and get free gifts. Some of these girls dont spend a dime of their own money on food. The second girl is also not a good girl. There is nothing like good/bad girl. It is just that this one might like you and want to play it safe. Trust me, if the second girl runs into a guy she does not give a shit about, the experience will be like the first girl. BOTTOMLINE is that DO NOT take a girl out on an expensive date. Getting to know someone is not about spending money. Its is about spending time with each other. I usually pick a free place to go. A place that is fun or cheap. Once the girl reaches the place, you will know if she is genuinely interested in you or just want to use you for free food. If she does not like the place, her body language will change. Thats how i filter them out. It is usually funny to see a girls face when she realizes that you cannot be played. They usually go nuts. You willl hear things like "he is stingy" etc. Once you hear that, give yourself a pat on the back. You have overcome her. They don't like it especially when they know you can easily afford it BUt chose not to. It destroys their ego. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by KingLennon(m): 5:55pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Evolutionlove:Seconded.... |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by Offpointng: 5:58pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Dshocker: Not every nigga out there got their priorities misplaced like you would have yours. Broke, Timid or Gay? can sound nothing much to me but an understatement. You have wasted your years following women ight? What tangible thing have they offered you and what progress have they made in your life?? No Nigga, you should be the one not deceiving yourself by placing your priorities right and work on making your future better than it is |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by skj1377(m): 5:58pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
The 46yrs only guy your talking about was once married. He probably left the sexual market place 10 to 15yrs ago , he does not know things have changed. An average 26yrs old lady is into hookup or multiple sex partners for things! He needs reorientation. I felt embarrassed when he brought the topic to Nairaland. 46yrs old guy asking such questions? Persephone1: |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by FRANKOSKI(m): 6:02pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Saintinoo: WHY NOT ...? IT DEPENDS ON THE KIND OF GIRL. |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by Sunnyrado: 6:08pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Good evening.. my name is sunny I am a single man, I am 43 years old I have never been married before, I am looking for a serious minded woman for marriage... please can someone kindly help me push this to the appropriate place.. thank you 1 Like |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by Nemesis0147(m): 6:18pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
obynokoko:na sense una no get or let me say…just broke. Why will you see going on a date or hanging out as an investment? Omor…una lives dy boring… I go out a lot..just for the fun of it…I will only stick to my budget….. Even if I have someone visit me for the first time….chances that we will still go out is 90% unless I’m not on funds or I don’t feel like… That is how I build my own rapport sometimes. 2 Likes |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by Offpointng: 6:21pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Saintinoo:Same here man... I chill out with my Male friends and I'm just good |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by spencekat(m): 6:50pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Octopusssy:Na so.All na buy. |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by Saintinoo(m): 6:52pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Octopusssy: Haha... Madam 33+ I doubt you watch news about happenings in other part of the country. At 70, a man can get a woman, as long as he can provide her needs, I am not here to argue with you, that is the reality and you know that. I doubt if you know 50 percent of what I know about life, I so doubt. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by Saintinoo(m): 6:57pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Samcent: |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by Nemesis0147(m): 6:58pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Offpointng:there is nothing wrong with hanging out with an opposite gender….change your circle. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by Calitoscassius(m): 6:59pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Naaa!! Women takes me.on a date nowadays, the days of men taking women on dates are long gone, women are "woke" now, some of them shows off their brand new cars and expensive belongings on facebook, they the ones with the money nowadays. Any man who takes women out on dates nowadays is a bloody fool! Even as ugly and broke as i am women takes me on dates. 2 Likes |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by eepeepook: 7:00pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
I will date only women I've caught. Doing so before the start of a relationship has led me to failure endlessly. |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by frankson1(m): 7:15pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
rickleye: Are you minding all these grown boys giving us 'bobo juice' . Lots of them are running after 'plantain seller', 'iya ewa agoin beans seller' and little girls who haven't learnt to properly clean up themselves. You get to learn alot when you take a lady out and at the first date, you should know if there's going to be a second. As for me, I don't sit-out, na phone conversation all the way o 1 Like |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by Mryacks: 7:28pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
BoldBrainz: Lmao @ "ran wild numbers on your groin" Hey Jevenik is top with them soups! |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by FuckHomophobes: 7:43pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
oyeb15: 😂😂😂 2 Likes |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by chidiokay: 7:45pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
DMerciful: All we keep hearing everyday is women are more capable, women are more richer women are these women are that without evidence The highest paying sectors are sport, entertainment,Tech not to mention politics and the males are the highest paid So when you say women are MORE capable, how ?? in what context ? |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by DMerciful(m): 7:55pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Men spend massively on women while women keep their money so they have free money if they really wanna spend chidiokay: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by bamideleoyin(f): 8:09pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Na who dey relationship dey go on a date jare
The last date I went with a guy omoh.... E no end well |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by BoldBrainz(m): 8:28pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Mryacks: Word..✌!! |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by rickleye: 8:34pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
frankson1: Lol 😂 ….exactly … forgot phone conversation very important. As I invest in the relationship so has the lady. Anyone asking me for data on first date is suspect . 1 Like |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by rickleye: 8:36pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
sarutobi: Very true ! |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by cocoined: 8:50pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Samcent: |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by cocoined: 8:54pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Calitoscassius: Real meet real |
Re: Men, Do You Still Take Women On A Date? by lymelyte(m): 8:54pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Kevineleven: omo..you nor well..I swear.. |
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