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Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 7:56pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
The entire family was in support of what I did, from my grandparents to my siblings and my sister later apologized. My mother was there when everything happened, she even gave my sister a hot slap... Everything that I told my sister later happened and I was there to give her a shoulder to cry on because she was regretting not listening to me and she was also depressed. Everything that happened is now water under the bridge because blood is thicker than water. darealez: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by TheMostComplex1: 7:57pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
BennyDGreat: Yes that's the more reason when you want to take this route which is the right thing to do you should be prepared for anything 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 7:57pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
It's not rhetorical, it requires a yes or a no. KingLennon: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by vickydevoka(m): 7:58pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena:I have 4 sisters , they hardly give full details of what happened especially the sides the bleeped up 3 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Procashtips(m): 7:58pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Dennisochampa: Ok chief judge, she's the victim because she said so. No questions asked No scrutiny No evidence tendered You that believed her, do you live with her? Are you her family member? Do you know her? Now that you have believed her, I hope you're also going to help her resolve her family issues and undo the damage she's already afraid of through her guilt? Oh great judge you're. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Dollywood(m): 7:58pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
You are right. He deserves more than being locked up in Jail. He's a loser and an irresponsible father. Your children will grow up to hate him. Avoid him and look for somewhere else before he attacks you again, which I'm sure would be far more brutal than last time because of what you did. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 7:59pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
That's because the people don't like taking responsibility for their actions and they're too prideful. BennyDGreat: 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Amumaigwe: 7:59pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: Just having a dangler does not make a man. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 7:59pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
BennyDGreat:But that is bullsheet since there should be absolutely no reason why they, as professionals, should do any such. ![]() |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by LadyRosa(f): 7:59pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Some women dey try sha! Whats fixcking attractive about a Jobless, drunk, vindictive and abusive husband? The first mistake was apologising to him. I wouldn’t if I'm in your shoes. And I ain't leaving that station until he sign an undertaking with sureties. If he feels he is too humiliated to continue a peaceful marriage, well, fine. Life goes on. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by godofuck231: 7:59pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Auntie stupido, you go shoot injured lion with catapult and you wan beg for forgiveness? Ok I de come 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by cutesharon(f): 7:59pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Very typical response...blame the woman, she must have done something wrong right. Do we ever think of that working class woman that still has take care of the home. Doesnt she deserve some love too. Amidst the constant going to work knowing she cant quit as her fanily depends on it, who remembers her. She may also be depressed too. And nothing wrong in calling the cop. Do the crime, face the fine. Why must he lose his anger and make her feel threatened. The human response is to react amd protect herself. blackgold2018: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Slic1: 8:00pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
LadyRosa: Judging with one sided story is the most dangerous thing to do. We have heard from her but we have not had from him. Too bad. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by jayman33: 8:00pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Hello dear... Please, never ever regret what you have done. I'm a man too. If one is experiencing challenging situation, it's only wise to genuinely seek help for the sake of the family as a man because if you go down the whole family goes down. And if one goes down you must refused to stay down rather than finding excuses to stay down. Woman your actions can be strange because in this part of the world, you're expected to be dumb as woman... What you do here, your genuine intention matters , since it was to restore sanity and not a brag or a show of power to the man.. it's fine. Because if it's the other way now, he comes home with a bottle of Beer and smashed it on your head while you're asleep and your enemy goes to the grave just because someone lost his job and he's depressed and acting like a child who does not know he needs help and makes effort in getting one... Then, it's gonna be a sorry case oo. And for you woman, please it's your home, you need to work in the background the more, it's not going to be easy, talk to people ( professional)on his behalf, they will advise you on distance management, sign that you look out for, emotions and also help loot out for job, then Spiritual... Not kneeling down before pastors oo. Personally talking to God yourself in prayer abou your family 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Edusouls(m): 8:00pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
thesicilian:women are like that naturally, they are not meant to be providers, they have one kind parasitic and extremely selfish nature towards nature men, stressing and draining them out, no one knows why God created them that way, I no easy to be with a woman Abegi |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Slic1: 8:00pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
LadyRosa: Judging with one sided story is the most dangerous thing to do. We have heard from her but we have not had from him. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by shantti(m): 8:00pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Dennisochampa: which you think it is? How do u know the truth since u don't live with them also |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 8:00pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Hisincrease:domestic violence is a No. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by royalfly(m): 8:01pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Why is osinachi case ur only mantra.. I know ur type, take away Osinachi on this matter, what's ur point. Do you think women have not killed men too. As a matter of fact, women have killed more men from the inception of life. My happiness is that the woman is remorseful for going that far, meaning she knows husband is not a dead bit. Bros stick with the issue on ground, I don't av time 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 8:01pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
MrAbufayed:Na reason why your policemen dey use una as punching bag every chance they get. ![]() |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Dareal90s(m): 8:01pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena:Lol, you are warning your husband. Dammn |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by KingLennon(m): 8:01pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Samantha124:What's ur question? Now try asking it without involving emotions |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 8:01pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
shantti:domestic violence is a No. I do not care what led to that |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by DavidTech23(m): 8:01pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:People interpret threats in different ways. What's life-threatening to you may be child's play to me. The bottom line is, he was provoked |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by LadyRosa(f): 8:02pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Slic1: Call him and ask him. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Procashtips(m): 8:02pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: Stay one place. You don't even read your own comments? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by darealez(m): 8:02pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Samantha124:Why didn't your sister arrest your mother? 3 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by BRATISLAVA: 8:02pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
royalfly: Please, batter your woman in peace. I don't have time for this. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Procashtips(m): 8:02pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: No. I believed no one, hence my questions I have asked so far. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by lollybizzu(m): 8:02pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
He who judges by a one sided account is a fool. There's more to OP's account than meets the eyes. However, if everything OP typed up there is 💯 true, then the man didn't do well. He definitely needs to get back to his senses and do the right thing especially if he still wants the marriage to work. OP should have explored other options before calling the cops. Who did she report to amongst his family? Did she report to someone he fears and respects? Did she take her children and go on some safety vacations to her father's house for the man to have some time to get himself while she's also safe? She can even make the man sign undertaking not to lay hands on her again without having him detained for two days. Going forward, OP needs to be very careful staying under same roof with him for now. Having him sign an undertaking is not enough; we have heard stories of men killing their wife and children and still kill themself. Take a break, be sure is mentally stable before you can be with him again. Be sure he's happy again. You can care for him from a distance, you can apologise, reconcile without necessarily staying with him for now. All the best ![]() |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 8:03pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Dareal90s:LOl You seems think husband is a demi God? You are really still backwards at this age and time. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Dennisochampa: 8:03pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
shantti:.... Good, I don't live with them so I am judging based on the information I have @ hand and also based on experiences... I have seen men who act irrational simply because they don't have jobs and they perceive that their wives is attempting to boss them around simply because their wives stood up to them at one point or another |
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