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Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Alexsyl: 8:15pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
You shouldn't have done that to your husband, you should have find a way to pacify him. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Caaz: 8:16pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Some comments Sha....mu na Gani |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:16pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
She definitely is the one paying the rent, so don't you think he's the one who should go back to his father's house? That's if he has any, or sleep on the streets ![]() Alusiizizi: 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 8:16pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
So what do you expect her to do? Endure the beatings? BennyDGreat: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 8:16pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
royalfly:Stop with the inane deviations. You asked of Osinachi, and here again.... Kobojunkie: 2. Which heaven? Na you open the door to this heaven for her abi wetin? The woman is there in her grave rotting away with worms abeg! All her singing, prayer, and fasting no comot pass her pastor roof sef. ![]() God gave her a brain to use, but she refused to use it in saving herself from a man that used her as a punching bag for many years. Do you think God is some kind of mumu who would accept even the foolish into His own abode? ![]() |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Caaz: 8:17pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Alexsyl:Are you freaking kidding me? She should have pacified him as how? Pls just tell me you're kidding. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 8:17pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Nemesis0147:domestic violence is a No. I do not care what led to that. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by shantti(m): 8:17pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Dennisochampa: ![]() ![]() ![]() I also gave my perspective from my personal experiences cos I too have seen where wicked wives frame their innocent husbands, making him suffer for something they know nothing about 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by MacEndy(m): 8:17pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Even though I never supported any kind of violence & also not had ur hubby's side of the story, I reasonbly think u are wrong in all ur actions against ur husband To me, it's more of intimidation because he is now jobless and for that reason ur feel like rubbishing him any time u like, I strongly believe that ur husband in as much he isn't insane will not do all what u have accusing him of here & I'm pretty sure of of my conviction. except he is suffering from mental ill health I have just two questions for you 1. Do u think that ur husband would have arrested u if you were the one who assulted him as u alleged? 2. If he does (arrest) u & later begging for forgiveness as u are doing right now do you think you would have forgiven him? Be sincere and truth to urself! 4 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by royalfly(m): 8:19pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: They are good men out there, the ones who are truly innocent, I speak for them. Men never hit ur wife, try as much as u can. But believe me ur species are in danger now with the way the world is. Do u know if a woman acusesses me of a crime and is found to be a lie, nothing happens, let me acusses a woman wringly and it's found to be a lie, that's the end. At least let equal justice prevail, that's all I ask |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 8:19pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Again you're not answering my question. Yes or no, please!!! Nemesis0147: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Dennisochampa: 8:19pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
shantti:.... Does the woman sound like someone who wants to make her husband suffer? Why don't you see it this way... If indeed what she said is the right thing, then is her actions right or wrong? I am basing my judgment based on the assumption that what the woman has said is the right thing. If it happens that it's not, then I stand to be corrected when the truth comes out 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 8:19pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Dareal90s:if you like beat your wife, na cell you go sleep for days. If your wife is too naive to stand for herself your neighbours will do that for her. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Clinghton: 8:19pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
You should have contacted his family members, if your life was at stake flew with your children he would come back to his senses. But locking him up is something else, you just add fuel to the fire. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by shantti(m): 8:20pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: Of course domestic violence is a no, I only asked u how u know she is saying the truth and you are saying a different thing all together |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 8:20pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
royalfly:Stop rambling already! There is absolutely no excuse or justification for violence even in marriage. Simple! If you have poor social intelligence and are hence unable to relate to women as they are, then avoid them at all costs. In fact, marry a man if you must so you can have peace of men. ![]() |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by TheGift: 8:20pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena: If He cannot understand that you did it to defend yourself from His drunken self, then He is not ready to be responsible. I am not in your shoes but I think you did a reasonable thing by reporting to the police. Or What other option did you have? 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by BRATISLAVA: 8:20pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
royalfly: K. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Dikegodspower(m): 8:21pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
You just said my mind. Dogalmighty17: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Dareal90s(m): 8:21pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:Where I come from we don't beat women. I spoke with u as a sensible gentleman, now you sound like a fouool. Use your brain for once, everything no be police. Now she's bearing the guilt and brunt alone, Unna don push am. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 8:22pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Clinghton:So family members who probably live many miles away arrive faster in an emergency than the police? ![]() |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by royalfly(m): 8:22pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Follow through, I never asked for osinachi, he or u are the using osinachi as ultimate example. Once again if osinachi husband is wrong let him die by hanging, I repeat if he is wrong. U don't know what's going on. Most of us can't be fooled again. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Padipadi: 8:22pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
thesicilian:But the man has gone extreme by bearing the wife. Verokeena, I don't condole abused in relationships whether from man or woman. Go and sort your home |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nemesis0147(m): 8:23pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:I’m not talking about being in support of demotic violence…I won’t even allow a man touch my sister. She should have walked out of the marriage or give him space….guy The woman is feeling guilty bc she knows that what she did was not right….can you lock up your wife? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by jogsman01(m): 8:24pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena:your story never complete. Are you cheating on him? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by BennyDGreat: 8:24pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You are just ranting. Calm down and learn. Go and read up on counselling. Peace |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Procashtips(m): 8:24pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Dennisochampa: What happened to their family members? Their friends? Relatives? Neighbors? Etc How come it was police straight? Was she harboring an opportunity to "show him pepper" before now thereby asking for such a scenario to play out? Has he ever beaten her before? Have they ever involved a 3rd party in their home before now to resolve a dispute? Is this a first timer situation? If yes, how come it was police straight? Was he a drunk and a smoker before losing his job? Plenty questions that you guys have chosen to ignore. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 8:24pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Dareal90s:like i said earlier, domestic violence is a No. I do not care what led to that. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by BennyDGreat: 8:25pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Samantha124: She ought to have sort help but not from police. I wouldn't even take my enemy there unless it's life threatening |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Dareal90s(m): 8:25pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:That's your problem. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nemesis0147(m): 8:25pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Samantha124:your question doesn’t require a yes or no answer… But I will never lay my hands on my wife or lock her up in the police station. What happened to taking her back to her people? Or leaving the house for her? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by KingLennon(m): 8:25pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Samantha124:I will feel bad but I won't give up on her. I will never give up on her because that's not how she was when we qot married. Something must be wrong, we'll figure it out 2geda. I hope I have answered ur question? |
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