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Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 8:47pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
OZIOGU1:if you like beat your wife, you go spend days for cell. If your wife is too naive to stand for herself your neighbours will do that for her free of charge. Dominic violence is a No 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 8:47pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
BennyDGreat:Again, Stop fooling yourself! The moment you tailor the counseling to suit your religious/traditional idea, it ceases to be professional and becomes religious hogwash! ![]() I bet your kind would not be happy if you found yourself sitting down to be counseled by a so-called professional who had no problems introducing ideas from his own religion — say Islam or traditional beliefs— into each session. But here you pretend it is all good to do so if the so-called professional claimed to be of Christian leanings. Nonsense! ![]() You only pretend what I say is vulgar because you know it is a fact. ![]() |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by KingLennon(m): 8:48pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Samantha124:He wasn't abusive at the early stages of the marriage... |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 8:48pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Nemesis0147:wife don't beat their husband. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by sageb: 8:49pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Persephone1: Good advice |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Oomardesigns: 8:49pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
When you see Kano hisbah destroying alcohol, you people will start raining insults that they are destroying people business. Now see what alcohol has done to your husband 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 8:50pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Bennysam:Now wait a minute.... is the best a man going through a hard time can do to turn his wife into a punching bag? ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by shantti(m): 8:50pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: U r very dumb. like so dumb. So u are now scared on the op's behalf Abt a divorce. Do u resolve anything with someone who resents u so much. That man won't forgive her. That's the truth, so matter how much lies we tell ourselves, that marriage won't remain the same again should it continue. For her safety, divorce is the best path to take, a divorce is equally good for the man's mental state cos it is torture living with someone u resent He was wrong if he beat her, arresting him was the nail on the coffin 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by royalfly(m): 8:52pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: If that submission by ur reference is correct they would never be disagreement with people or nations. Social behavior is unpredictable but there is a standard. And that standard always changes. Hurt no one and let no one hurt u. Never let anyone hurt u, I repeat that, violence against a woman or man is never acceptable but never give what u don't want. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nemesis0147(m): 8:52pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:so na only beating go make you lock up your wife? Can you lock up your wife for any reason? If yes….give me like one reason that will make you lock up your wife. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by darealez(m): 8:52pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Samantha124:Nah, I presume your sister is elderly. People who overlook the overbearing excess of their kiddlings are. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 8:53pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
royalfly:You are not making any sense to me. In fact, you are beginning to remind me so much of a guy, on some other thread, who claims that Ifa invented a binary system from which he then derived the Yoruba language and cultural laws. That guy also claimed he was a physicist even though none of his populations made sense. ![]() |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Gbolahan111: 8:53pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Your points ooze fuming anger. Can you calmly go back and read what I wrote but this time very slowly? Perhaps you’ll notice that I mentioned “giving a distance” if every efforts prove abortive. The poster needs an advice. Do you want to assist her to pack out tonight or is leaving the marriage your only solution? I don’t understand. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 8:54pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
LilMissFavvy:exactly what i was telling some of these Men with their warped reasoning. She doesn't have a home before the iccident. A man who doesn't work, a drunkard, smoker and physically abuse a woman. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 8:55pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
royalfly:That post is meant for you to address your hangups with women that have led you to pretend you have them all figured out when you have no clue at all. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 8:55pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Nemesis0147:seems you didn't read what i said clearly. Domestic violence is a No. I do not care what led to that. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by royalfly(m): 8:55pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Y would u make sense when ur references are already out of point. Ifa? I don't get. Good night, u are an upcoming, u made my evening 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 8:56pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
But that's not an excuse to inflict pain on someone that's been by his side since he lost his job two years ago. She could've left him, but she stayed in the marriage. KingLennon: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 8:56pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Gbolahan111:LOL..... Mr. Anger-Meter.... please don't quit your day job! ![]() 1 Share
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Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nemesis0147(m): 8:56pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:so you can lock up your wife? Yes or no 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Jman06(m): 8:57pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
bionixs:My responsibility ![]() The one who works and earns should cater for the family. This is me being realistic and not sugarcoating fact! |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Odekayodenr(m): 8:57pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
It well You should have try and involve his family member or better still ur Pastor or any spiritual person you know,i think he could have being more of helpful than arresting him but I don't blame u for your action too.. Just lay everything to God hand and please try and carry his family members along, everything will be fine at the end by God grace.. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by SonofGod231: 8:58pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
LadyRosa:Noted |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 8:58pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
If she's guilty, then she'll be getting what she deserves. Nemesis0147: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 8:59pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
What if she couldn't escape and he killed her? BennyDGreat: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by royalfly(m): 9:00pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Enjoy. Good night. No one has figured out anything except u. U seem to be the only one who already figured it all, I repeat am standing on a bigger picture, u alone wants to narrow, in ur bid to expatriate, u continue to rope urself. No man should beat a woman, u did not read that but continue to show u av a very good woman. May it continue to be that way for u. For people or men who re good, I speak for them and wish someone would hear thier story before they become monsters |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 9:00pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Odekayodenr:For what purpose exactly? OSinachi did the same but that didn't stop her from ending up food for worms. Why is it not Ok to call the cops but better to call on family which has failed so many before now? Why is it almost always about the woman enduring beating when calling the cops can spare her such trauma in life? ![]() |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 9:01pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Nemesis0147:if she abuse me physically like some men do to their wives. Yes i will get her arrested |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by AbuAeesha: 9:01pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
thesicilian:Ideally that is his responsibility as a Man. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by int0x80(m): 9:03pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
The level of wickedness amongst some Nigerian 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 9:03pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
royalfly:Your so-called bigger picture is culled from a delusion that stems from a low level of social intelligence. The moment you tackle that problem, you will probably begin to see that the gender world, particularly where women are concerned are in fact not as black and white as you pretend. You cannot speak for anything except for yourself in your delusion. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Styluss: 9:03pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Oh I forgot, you are a South African. My babe told me about the rate of Femicide in there, Yall have so many principles and the guys still kill for fun. Begs for the reason why there are lots of single mothers roaming in S.A. Samantha124: |
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