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Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 12:51am On Aug 23, 2023 |
She's interested in staying with him because she still loves him and she was only trying to teach him a lesson for destroying her dishes and beating her up. She's been tolerating him all these years hoping that he'll change, but she's finally reached a breaking point. And let's be honest here, if she leaves now, he'll be homeless. Luckysbab: 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by olurotimi(m): 12:57am On Aug 23, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: Please change your perceptions, be patriotic, we might have our issues as a result of poor leadership, corruption etc but Nigeria will flourish again. Above all be cautious of some comments you make online. God bless Nigeria |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by superemmy(m): 12:58am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: I can sympathize with your point of view. Jumping to conclude that I'm a woman beater or in support of one shows how most women are guided by emotions and not proper logic and reasoning. You will grow up one day. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 12:59am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: Being homeless isn't the end of a man's life. He has friends and family. She should give him a breather. Perhaps, it's time he gets a fresh start, devoid of her. Football players whose careers nosedived sometimes have to leave to another football club to get back on their feet. I doubt she's helping, as this is entirely diffrent from tolerating him. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 1:03am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: They say '"love conquers" all. Hers hasn't conquered his misery. Maybe it isn't love afterall. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Stevedison(m): 1:09am On Aug 23, 2023 |
[color=#550000][/color] Kobojunkie: Please what do you suggest she do? Being jobless for 2 years doesn't mean he wouldn't eventually ever get a job. Are you saying she should run away and leave the kids with him knowing fully well that he doesn't have the financial capacity to cater for them at the moment? Or are you suggesting that she takes the kids with her away from the husband? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Excelll: 1:10am On Aug 23, 2023 |
thesicilian:My brother...! 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by franco3075q(m): 1:17am On Aug 23, 2023 |
thesicilian:True talk my brnther 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by darealez(m): 1:28am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: Everyone who supported you is a partner to setting you on flames. It's not uncommon for everyone to support a child though, while hoping one day, they'll grow someday. You already sound as though a goddess around there... Time my friend, is a good teacher. Regardless of your intent, locking your sister up is wrong, indiscipline, uncouth and arrant nonsense. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by BlissGod: 1:39am On Aug 23, 2023 |
thesicilian:Bros you’re talking nonsense. No where was it ever designed by nature for a woman to bear responsibility of a home affairs. It’s nonsense. That man has to get a job or a skill to feed th family. Why should he beat the wife, if she was your sister, will you find it funny. Especially the accusations of sleeping around. All you lazy men in this forum may you all be delivered 🤮 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by BlissGod: 1:46am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Nemesis0147:You’re interested in pride when some men kill the wife for barely no reason but frustrations of life, bro you’re not a good person. What if the guy smashed her head and she lost consciousness or died nko. You people are the reason why some men feel entitled to beat the wife. Disgusting. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkiee: 1:53am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Stevedison:The man's joblessness is not the reason OP created this thread. I get the sense that she would have continued to support her family as she has for the past 2 years had remained jobless for even the next 5 years. The problem is the violence. The man she has been caring for has turned violent against her and she is confused as to what to do next after the traumatic experience. ![]() Sadly, she would need to take the kids with her because there is no stopping him from taking his anger out on the kids if she isn't there to take the beatings from him. But, yes, she needs to leave or have him leave so he can go tend to his frustrations elsewhere where he does not end up hurting them more than he already has. ![]() 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Verysmart101: 1:57am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: U are referring to the west but why does the same west have the highest divorce rate across the globe? Do u think something's about the west are better than our culture? Am not against op trying to resolve her marriage but u can't take a fatal step and not expect a fatal wound in that marriage.Since u are ready to accept the ways of the west in regards to marriage as perfect or better than our culture's,u should also be ready to accept same -sex marriage too since the west are perfect in handling marital issues that makes them have the highest divorce rate on planet earth |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 2:00am On Aug 23, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: UnAfrican man, take his place, marry her. No be by lunatic laughter. Pretender osi. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 2:02am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: The marriage is over. Bring in your perfect UnAfrican man to marry her. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 2:08am On Aug 23, 2023 |
wonderr: Oh! Her emotions is allowed to get the better of her, but the already frustrated husband is supposed to be a robot with no emotional outburst? Nothing is passing, let the 'caring' male friend that helped her arrange for the police take her in. The man deserves a new chapter in his life. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 2:12am On Aug 23, 2023 |
blackgold2018: It's not unlikely it's a 'sympathetic male colleague/friend' that facilitated the whole arrestt thing. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by tollyboy5(m): 2:21am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124:Lol no offense. I think this zulu people are not smart at all. Or maybe this one is just displaying ignorance like some other young ladies. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 2:23am On Aug 23, 2023 |
shantti: You are wise. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkiee: 2:37am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Verysmart101:I am at all referring only to the at the West. Many couples right there in your very Nigeria were joined not under traditional ideas but in the courts. So, it is safe to say that culture does not rule over every Nigerian marriage as many of you here would rather like for us all to believe. So, again, if a man and a woman were to decide to, after this sort of hiccup in their marriage, move forward with the marriage, why do you believe they should no be allowed to do just that? ![]() |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by XXCASH: 2:37am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Verokeena: My dear, I have been married for over 15 years and you must understand that men have ego issues. That's why he is depressed To start with, I dont know how many kids you have but that doesn't sound like a good environment to raise them. I'll suggest you go to take them and stay with your parents/family for a while. It will take the special grace for him to forgive, you can go over once a week to prepare meals the week. Your husband needs to spend sometime on his own. He needs to reflect and think properly for now |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkiee: 2:38am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Luckysbab:The way some of you think amazes me. So every marriage in Africa now abides by African culture, abi? ![]() |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 2:44am On Aug 23, 2023 |
LilMissFavvy: Same West where a man starts shooting people for no understandable reason? You are a dullard. LilMissDumbo |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 2:45am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: Bring in your perfect African man to replace her husband. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 2:54am On Aug 23, 2023 |
I repeat, age is nothing but a number and respect is earned. darealez: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 2:55am On Aug 23, 2023 |
LadyRosa: Yet, you couldn't get your brothers to help you loc out the cricket the last time? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 2:55am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Well, thank goodness I'm not a Zulu. tollyboy5: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 2:59am On Aug 23, 2023 |
So you expected her love to conquer his misery by enduring his beatings and probably getting killed in the process? If the man is miserable, he should've went to the gym and fought a punching bag in there... I'm sure the op is also miserable from enduring her husband's childish tantrums. Luckysbab: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:01am On Aug 23, 2023 |
LadyRosa: As a madam with men at your beck and call, you should be telling her to move out without further delays so she can move in with the perfect man that will be replacing her husband. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:03am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: Her love is useless to him. She is miserable from putting up with him. What else is left until she lets the man loose from her suffocation? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 3:03am On Aug 23, 2023 |
She's not holding him back and if he wants to leave, then he should leave. I'm sure the op would be happy and finally have a peace of mind. The man is ungrateful for mistreating the woman that has been by his side all these years... He doesn't deserve such a good woman. Luckysbab: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 3:04am On Aug 23, 2023 |
And you will man up one day, so shut the hell up!!! superemmy: |
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