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Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:07am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: You didn't encourage her to be proactive against 'violence' like you have edged this woman on? You care about this strange woman more than you do your sister? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by cococandy(f): 3:07am On Aug 23, 2023 |
thesicilian: All hell breaks loose if the woman is not providing and not taking care of the home front as well. You’ve chosen to not be truthful to yourself 8 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 3:08am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Only the op can answer that question. Luckysbab: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:09am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: What about Chidinma, the 'innocent-looking' lover killer? 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:11am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: We can assume the OP has a psychological disorder for continuing to beg him to stay. 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 3:11am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Trying to twist my words wouldn't get you anywhere. Say whatever you like, but the op did the right thing. Luckysbab: 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 3:12am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Assumption is not proof. Luckysbab: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:13am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: At least now we agree the OP is just as much a problem as she claims her husband is. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 3:14am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Would you endure your ungrateful wife beating you up? Luckysbab: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:14am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: The proof is the OP practically begging to stay on. Is there a sequel I missed? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:15am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: Now we agree you have been misleading the OP, intentionally or otherwise. So much for women supporting women. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:16am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: I don't have a wife I have to endure. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 3:17am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Well, apparently in Nigeria you guys believe in enduring in unhappy marriages because you don't want to bring shame to your families, which I find to be weird and wayward, if you ask me. Luckysbab: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 3:18am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Continue twisting my words...😂😂😂 Luckysbab: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 3:19am On Aug 23, 2023 |
If you had one, would you do it? Luckysbab: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:20am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Persephone1: Samantha Kobojunkie Here is the bone of contention - why is the Op choosing for the man how he should react to her own reaction to his action? This is my grouse, not the correctness of her action or otherwise. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 3:22am On Aug 23, 2023 |
And the problem with you is that you're emotional. If you've been following me, you'd know that I'm unbiased and I support what is right. This has nothing to do with me being a woman, but you wouldn't see that because your emotions have over clouded your level of reasoning. Luckysbab: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:23am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: This is not my own grouse here. She chose to react however she deemed fit. It's selfish (which isn't unexpected of a typical woman) to try to dictate his own reaction. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:24am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: I have no plan for one. Since I have not been tasked to write a movie script, I can't tell what the answer to that will be. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 3:28am On Aug 23, 2023 |
So it's good for the husband to react however he deemed fit, but it's bad when the woman does the same thing? Luckysbab: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:29am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: You support her arresting the man, good. At the same time, you want him to be grateful for that, hold hands with her to sing kumbaya, cos that is what happened between you and your sister, So who's been emotionally prejudiced now? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by victorazy(m): 3:29am On Aug 23, 2023 |
A40: Yes I dey fear |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:33am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: I would have been surprised if you didn't attempt to manipulate the man into taking responsibility for your own slip. You're only |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 3:34am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Lol... You know very well that you'll contradict yourself if you answer me. And since you've refused to answer my question by showing me how hypocritical you are, this discussion is over... Bye. Luckysbab: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:36am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: Thankfully, I have not given any opinion on if she should have arrested him or not. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 3:38am On Aug 23, 2023 |
I don't want him to be grateful, I want him to be remorseful. He wouldn't be in that cell if he respected his wife. Luckysbab: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:39am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Dammyseyon: Good you admitted that. Can you now also advise her to stop suffocating the man with her selfish begging? Afterall, now he's doing the right thing by keeping away from having confrontations with her. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 3:40am On Aug 23, 2023 |
You don't lay your hands on me and get away with it... It doesn't matter whether you're a man or a woman. Luckysbab: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 3:44am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Yet you're busy quoting me. Luckysbab: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Luckysbab: 3:50am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: Be safe. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by occfx: 4:01am On Aug 23, 2023 |
cutesharon: Men support and female support are different. A man is happy to support his wife financially, emotionally and psychologically... He will add domestic support as romantic support but when a man is handicapped and limited to domestic support only, he sees it as man abuse. No man prays to be a domestic helper to the wife only. It's unfortunate you don't understand how men are wired and you are likely to have problems with men. It's expected for men to understand women, it is also important for women to understand men. If you are not married yet, you will know when the time comes. You can do your man anything you like and go free but not when you bruise his ego and disrespect him carelessly. Note, that a man who dropped from been a bread winner to full time house husband is sick and a good wife should help him to cure the sickness and not worsen it. I know you will say he should go and hustle bla bla bla, sickness is sickness and must be cured with antidote or medication. Everybody needs help from everybody that's why God wants you to get a life partner. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by henrydav: 4:04am On Aug 23, 2023 |
We have heard your own side of the story but we never heard he's 1 Like |
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