UnfairLife7:
Shantti i guess this is also a woman.

UnfairLife7:
it's a win win for Op. The man lost a woman 3who could put up with him for good 2 years despite being jobless. It's quite easier for Op to get a good responsible man but her hubby must bounce back financially before any woman will take him serious.

Dominic violence is a No. I do not care what led to that.

Oizee:
Like seriously?

shantti:


Bro u are dumb for twisting an argument into team I support the op cos am a woman vs team I don't support the op cos am a man

I labeled u a woman cos u refused to answer a simple question I asked u, instead you deviated from the question and brought in a totally biased perspective which is as different from my question as day and night.


My question: if a man arrests his wife who assaultes him, would u support him?

Expectation: yes or no

Your reply: men have been known to assault women, women don't physically assault men

Study this your reply and tell me why I won't label u a woman

Mrbllymer:

Stop jumping on my mention please. I don’t care about a kid’s opinion.

UnfairLife7:
keep defending domestic violence. Check your community and family members and tell me if you've heard or seen a wife beating her husband. Keep defending your likes.

LadyRosa:


So does he know what I have in mind?
So you sef no say i fit kill you for your sleep abi?
We go dey fear eachother, if I should lock my husband up in a cell, I will never have anything intimate with him for a long time to come even if we live under same roof.

I won't cook for him again but he can have access to food on the house, nor sleep near him. Infact he will not exist, he will be living like a stranger because I will not recognise him anymore as a husband. That's a subtle way of telling him I don't want him anymore.

Anything wey make me lock my husband, I don't value him again.

Mrbllymer:


I don’t judge marriages based on hearing only one particular side, there are lotta unknown variables and i have seen anybody describing stories without justifying their actions or saying things in their favor.

All these your descriptions or painting yourself mighty ain’t necessary, you are only limited to what you can do and not what the other person can do. You might be strong, intelligent and what have you but do know that another person is smarter and stronger than you and would do the unthinkable before you blink.

Your father ? Lmao funny.

UnfairLife7:
keep supporting violence. If you like beat your wife, you go sleep for cell for days. If your wife is too naive to stand for herself your neighbours will do that for her free of charge.

Dominic violence is a No. I do not care what led to that.

shantti:


U see what am saying
Madam d madam
A simple question means am defending domestic violence.
Pls carry ur feminine mood swing away from here

shantti:



Keep supporting domestic violence on men by women, when u beat ur husband, he will kill u and everyone will support him

Domestic violence towards men by their wives and subsequent lying is a No, I also don't care what led to that.

Verokeena:



It was more of a warning to him.. I didn't neglect him there.. he had access to his phone.. even though as first he wasn't taking my call but I kept texting him..

Now the thing is he was supposed to come out the next day but he refused. Said since I placed him there he'd wish to die there(emotional blackmail if you ask me)

I had to go with his friends to beg him the next day..

Savechild23:


Police has no fvkin right to detain him for one second, u either file for divorce or get the hell out of the house. Police, ur boundary stops where marriage begins!
Stuupiid idiiets claiming responsibility as whöres! Ewu nwanyi!
Ishigbuola m!

96ACE:
This man has not said his own side of the story oo, most of you here are saying she’s right because he beats her. What if she’s the one that’s beating him like most women do?

thesicilian:
A man can feed his family for years and no one will hear about it. He's often proud to bear the responsibility. But the moment a woman starts bearing the responsibility, all hell must break loose, sooner or later

UnfairLife7:
what opinion do you expect Mr adult? The worst that could happen is divorce and it's a win win for Op

UnfairLife7:
LOl

You mean most women beat their husband at home? Hahahahaha nothing wey person no go see for social media

UnfairLife7:
it's a win win for Op if they divorce. She can easily get a man and settle down but her hubby will have to bounce back financially before any woman can take him serious

Mrbllymer:
I still don’t care about your opinion as I didn’t ask for it. Stop quoting me.

Savechild23:


U are a mumu woman
Ur thoughts are tied to ur shallow understanding!
Most men lost their feet because they chose to be over supportive and this is what they get after supporting these wayward whòres!
If he retract entire from that woman, he will live better!

LadyRosa:


Whatever I lay down here is born out of previous experiences. So I'm not new to physical abuse.

I can Tolerant joblessness, its fine, its ok! Life can be hard.
I can manage depression, yeah! I will make that person see life from another angle.

Yea, you can take drinks alcohol, yea fine by me, I can buy drinks and share with my depressed husband.Na job e no get, e no kill person. The bible says drink and forget your sorrow. BUT getting drunk and misbehaving, you're crossing the line.Get drunk and sleep, no problem, I will clean you up if I can, and we talk about the actions when you're sober.

But coming home to beat me up, you just awaken a part of my brain that harbours deadly vibes. I will NEVER forget, even if I forgive. And I MUST pay back even if I forgive.

My father was misbehaving at one point, till I had to remind him I'm not his wife. My mother is the opposite of me, I don't know she managed to birth me,maybe na my father people blood I carry IN EXCESS. Very nice, funny and sweet woman, my mother.

My father thought me how to fight, so I grow up fighting and behaving like a man. He treats me like a man ,so I eventually broke his hand like a man.

I remember one time I was in the University, my mom called crying, na 5pm but I enter entered 911 to Lagos with farm goods. By 11pm I was in his house. I made sure I break all his cars windscreen and dagger all his tires. He cried!The same way he made my mother cry.

His blood runs through my veins he should calm the 4ck down!

I remember during my marriage, my dad and my uncles begged me in my room to be calm in marriage . I just dey look them, them think say I marry husband wey get scorscor for head like them.

My mother called me next day to tell me my father cried He is already missing me? After our years of cat and rat gidigbo! Very stubborn man with quiet sons but a troublesome daughter.

I don't miss him, hardly call him self.Na him dey call. I have forgiven him, but will never forget.

UnfairLife7:
The last time i checked Mr sensible man women do not beg men to marry them. Men propose and get married. Who do you expect to take responsibility in the house please? Nobody said the man will not get back on his feet either still married or divorce. We're only saying the worst that could happen is divorce which is a win win for Op. She can easily get married if she chose to but her hubby had to be back on his feet financially before any woman will take him serious. It's a bitter truth

maasoap:

A broken marriage is better than living with a lazy, frustrated, violent, destructive man and abuser. It might be hard on the woman in the beginning but she will still have her life. Do you see where this man stops if he wasn't given this soft brain resetting treatment?

Mrbllymer:
lol. Good for you. Though cos you were taught how to fight doesn’t mean you can easily fight a man. Father and daughter squabble dey different from marriage fights, one mostly leads to death while the other hardly leads to death.

Like I said I preach against violence and won’t tolerate it but anyone who arrest her husband should forget the marriage, do that and don't expect the marriage to be the same. And husband don’t beat your wives if you don’t want to be arrested.

UnfairLife7:
if you care to know, most women are not happy in their marriage in Nigeria

Luckysbab:


No, I hope he walks away, since he's been much of a burden the last two years. He desrves a breath of fresh air, a new perspective.


You see we are both rooting for the woman, abi?

at bolded i don't know why some ladies think I'm on the anybody's side

Both of them needs fresh air, make them go cool down somewhere.

Verokeena:



This your comment is really unfair...

This has nothing to do with his financial status.. for two years i tried everything within my strength to make him not feel like he was jobless.. at a point i connected him to a job but he turned it down cos he feels that position is too low for him..



But thanks for your contributions

LadyRosa:



The cricket died finally.
My brothers also dare not touch their wives, they must be stupid if they do that!Very Stupid!