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Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Sharpsharp00123: 8:10am On Aug 24, 2023 |
djon78:Oga calm down jare U don’t even care to know if he drops a little but u assume he didn’t drop a dime in his 2 years while out of job, u keep hammering 2 years of joblessness like the guy has been like that since forever, do u even care to know how many years marriage n how they guy has feed his family for years but now that a woman fed him for 2 years then na war He came back from drinking to pounce on his wife? Oga U have a very poor judgement sense n I am not sorry to say Who does that? Did u bother to ask d op what transpired? The op made it clear the man destroyed some things, did u care if d op was using the phone to call other men? Op claimed d guy destroyed things, I can bet the op used her own money to buy some stuffs n he keeps rubbing it on d man’s face, that’s y d man wanted to destroy it so the woman’s shakara can end Psychologically u should know some of op words don’t connect It’s annoying majority of u saw only 3 things from d write up Domestic violence 2 years joblessness Feeding for 2 years N those are things that could emotionally attract people to pity the op, I don’t blame her though cos the hunter will always win every story until d lion learns how to write I am not here to argue but I can bet if u listen to d guys story u will tender an apology Every story has 3 sides, Mr A side, Mr B side then the truth from a neutral person Modified……have u ask yourself what brought about d man asking questions regarding d paternity of d children? Or we should forget that part? Or are u saying the man just woke up one day n started all those things? 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by talented321: 10:03am On Aug 24, 2023 |
Bring ur useless sisters and let me bleep one'' i want to see whether u have the guts to arrest me'' simp men everywhere......did i said i support the man for beating her... fxexperts: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by kaybams1(m): 10:14am On Aug 24, 2023 |
My advice to the real men out there getting their grind together and making a life for themselves, do not marry a feminist. If possible stay off marriage altogether. Your life partner largely determines the quality of your life and most of the public toilets you have nowadays are badly raised kids looking for established men to destroy. Men now have to work ten times as hard to impress women ten times as worse as their mothers. Damaged goods with no substance, empathy and basic intelligence. Understand that only women, children and pets are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved on the condition he provides something. The moment he misbehaves, he’s judged more harshly than the demon that instigated it. No one really cares about you when you’re at the doldrums. So act accordingly. Most suicide rates recorded are largely filled by men, most workplace hazardous accident victims are also men, depression rates, mortality rate and other long list of negative things. So focus on yourself kings. This message isn’t for everyone. So pls get the fvck off my mention if you’re not my targeted audience. 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Sharpsharp00123: 11:09am On Aug 24, 2023 |
Luckysbab:stop stressing yourself with that girl If u know what obtains in South Africa u won’t stress yourself, she’s looking at it from what happens in her country In South Africa their men are so so lazy n entitled n the women mostly feed the men n the women engage in shits a lot There’s a very high rate of divorce n baby mama full everywhere so I think u get d point The kinda men who see it as a taboo to give women money Many woke South Africans ladies don’t like to marry their men, I think this lady believes Nigerian men are same with their men not knowing Nigerian men are born providers South African men that will protest over increase in beer price, imagine a jobless man protesting over increase in beer price Nigerian men are like gold to them n there’s a high rate in increase of marriage between Nigerian men n South Africa women that’s y their shameless men even protested at a point that we are snatching their women |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Sharpsharp00123: 12:27pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
LadyRosa:many of u will marry foolish simps n present it as if that’s how it is everywhere Only a foolish man like your husband will see no big deal about a wife to b saying she will lock him up Na very useless man with low self esteem |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Sharpsharp00123: 12:51pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
LadyRosa:u dey beat your father I pray u jam someone like my hostel mate in school(Toni) u will humble las las See this one forming strong lady I just dey laugh |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by culf: 1:02pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
cutesharon: Amen to your prayer for yourself from here. God has already answered my prayer on that regard. Please make sure you tell anyone you're dating all these before marriage so he can prepare himself, thank you. who is talking about alpha here? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by cutesharon(f): 1:09pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
You didn't see the i am married part. Alpha is when a man is irresponsible and stillbwants his wife to baby him na cos he is a man. culf: 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by culf: 1:24pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
cutesharon: Oh, congratulations and I hope you intimate your hubby all these before marriage ooo. God bless you home. No marriage without challenge, so men that are facing some challenges and can't can't handle their responsibilities like before should be thrown out? #Nothing beat marrying a virtuous woman truly |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by LadyRosa(f): 1:27pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Sharpsharp00123: Mtchew! Toni dey beat you? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by LadyRosa(f): 1:28pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Sharpsharp00123: Your mother is a useless woman! 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Sharpsharp00123: 2:39pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
djon78:so he has locked the man up now, what if the man gets back on his feet tomorrow? U are d kid here cos u don’t care to know how they have been living before the job loss For a woman to take care of a man for good two years means the man has done a lot in d past n even u know that The op skipped many parts in d write up n a wise man should b able to decipher that She cooked n left nothing for the man, that was y the man got angry in d kitchen The man destroying d phone should tell u there must b some issues of infidelity lurking around it The man raising doubt about d paternity of the children should make u understand he’s definitely coming from somewhere, he can’t just wake up n say that at least op didn’t tell us the man has any case of mental illness The man destroying certain things should send a message to u that the wife might have gotten those things while he was out of job n he was mocking d man with it Let me tell u a brief story of what happened to my little cousin, the guy na yahoo boy n the girl is from a very poor background He gives d girl 3k per blessed day n I remember when they did final year award the girl was given the most expensive in d department, she used iPhone 12, when the girls dad or any family is celebrating birthday na 50k soft d guy dey send The guy later went broke, sold his car, sold his phone n all those shit n he requested just 1 thing from the girl He told the girl to give him her phone for just 1 month so he can update his clients n at least get some change for survival The girl turned the guy down n the guy who is now broke now observed that the girl has been calling other men with the phone he bought for her The guy smashed the phone n seized everything he bought for her n sent her out Today the guy is seen as d devil but the devil paid all bills for her hnd n even bought d most expensive things for her but just been broke for few months exposed everything Imagine a girl from a very very very poor background upgraded to d level that she can’t drink pure water again she only takes table water but can’t sacrifice her phone for just few months make d guy use an update Oga just pray u don’t have issues Women go chop your eye, the op is presenting d man as useless but will never tell us his good deeds |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Sharpsharp00123: 2:42pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
VTJN:will d woman help him go through hell? Do u know what it means for a man not to b able to pay his bills? The man is dead alive already cos there are many things he won’t b able to say but many of u don’t understand |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 2:44pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Sharpsharp00123:hmmmm this your story is really pathetic. The Yahoo guy deserve to destroy her phone truly. But all the same, i don't condole domestic violence no matter what. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by cutesharon(f): 2:46pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Not thrown out but he should not be a nuisance. All i am saying is the man should also support by helping in the house. It is the least he can do. Yes virtuous women do not encourage lazy men. Support is not only financially. Yes my hubby knew as he was also raised in a home that doesn't limit the man to just being a provider. culf: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 2:51pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Sharpsharp00123:we understand. What has the man doing to get back on his feet? Or is he waiting for his wife to spoon feed him on what next to do? If he was single, would he be waiting for his mother, siblings or friends to tell him what to do? Is he willing to start from some where again or is he being selective? Remember this is a grown man not a boy or teenager. Left to me, i don't think a serious man with a family will be out of job for 2 years. Like 2 whole years? Like i said earlier, unless he's selecting work based on his level. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Sharpsharp00123: 3:29pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
LadyRosa:greet that foolish man for me Someone tells d dingbat u call your husband she can lock him up before marriage n he agreed, I won’t even agree to that if the person is d queen of England U better don’t allow that man sign documents cos that fool can sign your whole family off with his stupidity cos I can’t call that love No wonder your father cried, your father cried n d mumu still waited Men dey sha |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Sharpsharp00123: 3:36pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:guy if to say u dey Ibadan I for carry u go meet d guy Things dey happen, above all a man should never loose guard cos even if u give woman the whole world na that moment u need her pass she go mess up The girl came to my shop n what she was concerned about is how to repair her phone, she just keep stylishly asking me if I can at least help her with the phone repair She doesn’t really seems bothered about the guys present condition, girl wey dey wear join join skirt for her ond days suddenly became most expensive in hnd. Imagine what the guy has spent on her, them dey stay for 2 bed but them no dey cook like that, na everyday d girl dey go block delivery man for junction I know if the girl brought the story here all these block head girls will still call d guy derogatory names |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by culf: 4:14pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
cutesharon: to most of you, once a man is not providing, or not enough, he become a nuisance, lazy etc, no matter how great he had performed prior to the issues. How did you know he wasn't supporting, chores go beyond cooking. Thank God for your hubby, Thank God for the type of wife he gave me. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by LadyRosa(f): 6:31pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Sharpsharp00123: So na my husband dey make you cry like this? Ozuor! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkiee: 7:19pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
culf:People like you like to while without knowledge. If a man contracts a relationship with his wife stating that he will as head of household be sole provider while she acts in the role housewife and chore-doer at home, of course the woman has every reason to complain when he no longer fulfills the responsibilities he chose for himself in the marriage which should have benefitted more from an equal partnership instead. Why are you bleating that a woman shouldn't do any such? 2. Go back and read the wife's description of events if you are lost. 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by fxexperts: 8:51pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
talented321:This idiot is truly a fool, no sister of mine can ever agree to talk to a foolish simp like you. idiot.. and if you think you have balls, just come near anyone close to me i will remove all your teeth and you will regret the day you were born. You can bring your sisters let me feed them to my boys to run train on them so you can thank. me later for it. olodo. When you try to blame the wife for arresting the idiotic husband even after he beats his wife what is that to you. In my house we are all boys only one girl, married now, her husband dare not try such rubbish, because we are not going to arrest but we will give him the beating of his life. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by EndRape2(f): 10:58pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
How to get a man that is beating her back? She wan die? The man should be the person coming back to her to apologize, she is married to a narcissist, that is playing victims card. ote author=Mrbllymer post=125299032] She wasn’t asking for validation all she wants is how to get her husband back can you provide solutions to that ? [/quote] 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Mrbllymer: 8:02am On Aug 25, 2023 |
EndRape2:That’s her choice, none of us leaves with her to know exactly the truth except both of them. Violence is not good and I’m not supporting it. But he can react the way he wants after the arrest once you arrest someone in Nigeria just know the relationship is over. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by uniqueboi1(m): 10:19am On Aug 25, 2023 |
Gloriagee: Who no get husband dae give advice. You must be a loof. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by cutesharon(f): 10:55am On Aug 25, 2023 |
The nuisance part refers to him using his situation to drink and not finding a way out not becusse he lost his job o. I dont understand this your first line. If he was, OP will not bring this matter here. We are all reacting to the issue that led to police station ke. culf: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 12:26pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
culf:I know how to cook, clean and do laundry. Marriage will not stop me from doing that even if my wife is a full time house wife Ordinary, nobody can wash my clothes for me and i get satisfied. I wash my tin by myself because na me wear am 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by talented321: 12:35pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
Oya na drop ur location and ur sisters... Just send me ur facebook details... I want to show u that u can't mess with everybody u see online.... fxexperts: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by maasoap(m): 1:02pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
Gratefullheart:Or what he has reduced himself and his family to. Losing his job shouldn't make him become irresponsible and useless. He's basically taking his frustration on this woman. The day this woman finally has enough of his bullshitt and pack her belongings is the day his common sense will return. Is he the first husband or last to lose his job? 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by maasoap(m): 1:18pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
Sharpsharp00123: He's simply frustrated and feeling insecure. Men like him do misdirect their anger and frustration to their wives. He would say many things in anger which he would still apologise for later. Let me tell u a brief story of what happened to my little cousin, the guy na yahoo boy n the girl is from a very poor backgroundThe guy would sell the phone, simple as ABC. He sold his own phone to survive even when he knew that he was still going to need it, why wouldn't he sell that of his gf? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by maasoap(m): 1:23pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
Sharpsharp00123: Are you married? If you are not, you can't possibly understand that he might not have had any reason to say that. His goal might just be to hurt the woman and put her in defensive position, simple as that. You can't understand 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by fxexperts: 1:23pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
talented321:Idiot drop me your sisters and all your female family members facebook details make a send to my boys make them run train on them make a wait make you come dey praise me. Idiot.. |
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