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Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by fineboynl(m): 5:35am On Aug 24, 2023 |
I’m in a serious situation. i have been dating this young widow for a while now without any issues. But From the day I slept with her i have been noticing some things i don’t want to talk about. Many things have been going through my mind concerning her. From the igbo/Yoruba and all other cultures in Nigeria. What should a widow do before she start sleeping with another man? Should she returned the bride price? Because I’m considering cutting ties with her and go for deliverance. 4 Likes
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Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by MrsTwrite(f): 5:41am On Aug 24, 2023 |
Hmmm... This is weird, I think you should discuss with her, she should open up, perhaps she's hiding something. 62 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Kingosytex(m): 5:43am On Aug 24, 2023 |
fineboynl: Enquire about her traditions and culture. No be everything dem go tell you for Nairaland. 137 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by fineboynl(m): 5:54am On Aug 24, 2023 |
Kingosytex:that should be from the husband tradition. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Mindlog: 6:01am On Aug 24, 2023 |
In Igbo culture, the widow and her family do not return any bride price upon the death of the husband as the marriage ended with the death of the husband, not divorce. 260 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by NoToPile: 6:04am On Aug 24, 2023 |
I believe death ends all marital ties in Yoruba land too. 129 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Skyfornia(m): 6:12am On Aug 24, 2023 |
Absolutely no idea what tradition demands, but morally, there is need to let your late husband family know about your decision to remarry, especially when there are children involved.. 46 Likes |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Berrityga: 6:15am On Aug 24, 2023 |
For better for worst till death do us part. Simpl English but hard to understand. I don’t know why a widow who swore till death do us part wants to still chop gbola. It’s just insane. 8 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by madridguy(m): 6:23am On Aug 24, 2023 |
Death ends every marital ties in ISLAM. Since you are a christian, and you found the young woman a ideal woman you would like to marry, take her to your church for deliverance. 27 Likes |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by DaddyRochie1642: 6:29am On Aug 24, 2023 |
Better go for deliverance 3 Likes |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by thorpido(m): 6:52am On Aug 24, 2023 |
Berrityga:You don't seem to understand the English,'till death do us part'.smh 213 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by 22o62021: 7:04am On Aug 24, 2023 |
You de act like say you don't know the answer. Bia nwokem hapu nwanyi ajadu 5 Likes |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by samwash(m): 7:15am On Aug 24, 2023 |
If the woman wants to remarry, she has to return the bride price, and inform the late husband's family of her decision. 17 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by femmoy(m): 7:41am On Aug 24, 2023 |
fineboynl: Funny how you placed the cart before the horse. You bleeped her before coming to make your mumu enquiry so deal with it. 32 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Nazgul: 6:16pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
samwash:Under which culture in Nigeria? 37 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Ishilove: 8:19am On Aug 26, 2023 |
Berrityga:It seems you typed without understanding what you typed 62 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by ATEAMS: 8:25am On Aug 26, 2023 |
Why...?? Which kinda local tradition be that... That 1 na hustle Modem day local slavery But on another levels if already birthed for her husband then no ... |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by AntiChristian: 8:26am On Aug 26, 2023 |
Return Gini? |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by DamnnNiggarr: 8:26am On Aug 26, 2023 |
![]() people dey try o! did you bother checking what caused her to be a widow at a very young age, I guess NO Not every hole is right to insert your fertile rod. But, for returning her bride price, that is hell No, because death has done them apart and she's free dating and cohabiting with anyone she so wishes to. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by deanofusa: 8:26am On Aug 26, 2023 |
No need for that na. She's a widow 6 Likes |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Nobody: 8:26am On Aug 26, 2023 |
Lol Very strange cultures and ways of thought in Nigeria. Las las...na poverty dey make people think this way. Once a man/woman dies, that is the end. Which one is returning dowry or bride price or whatever again? The dead is dead and he is gone. Man wan go for deliverance. Lol. Superstition in Africa is the reason we are backward. The deliverance we need is from poverty. Period. Poor people have a backward way of thinking. OP should get a digital skill and he will be delivered from poverty. Only failures associate their failed businesses to spiritual issues, culture and tradition that are non existing. 15 Likes |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Yocez: 8:26am On Aug 26, 2023 |
I don't think so |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Lanretoye(m): 8:26am On Aug 26, 2023 |
Sleeping with is different from marrying...you no even see who to cheat,na oku orun you go dey cheat.make wetin make the husband go where he go no do you too o. Something must kill a man anyway. 4 Likes |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Emarvel(m): 8:27am On Aug 26, 2023 |
Return the bride price and you’ll be fine |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by omowolewa: 8:27am On Aug 26, 2023 |
No |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Mindlog: 8:27am On Aug 26, 2023 |
samwash: Which tribe? 4 Likes |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by ideatoprince18(m): 8:27am On Aug 26, 2023 |
Yes she does so that whatever held her and her husband had been cut off by death will be finalized by the returning of the bride price. |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Whalis: 8:27am On Aug 26, 2023 |
No. If you are having issues ask her she mighty have contributed to her husband demise. My tradition has it that dating a widow without returning her bride price to her husband family is not an offence but such person should be aware that any pregnancy resulting from such relationship belongs to her late husband's family. This is biblical as well. If you must claim such pregnancy you must return her bride price prior to having such relationship that might lead to marriage and hence pregnancy. 6 Likes |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by wittywriter: 8:28am On Aug 26, 2023 |
Return to who? Wittyness |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Laredojohn(m): 8:28am On Aug 26, 2023 |
Death has separated her from all vows made, except there is more to it she isn't telling you. Or it's just your mindset,what stuff exactly are you experiencing some may not be spiritual you may just be thinking it is 6 Likes |
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