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Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by etrange: 2:34pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
You should cut ties with yourself, oga. You guys will not keep prick one place. The moment something goes wrong, you'll start looking for another party to blame. |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by b4ball: 2:50pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
gare2510: Exactly this happened in my family. My late uncle’s wife nearly lost her first son as a result of this. Although she claimed ignorance, she was later released and she is happily married to her new man now. |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by cococandy(f): 3:02pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
Because she’s not a person right? thebar: 1 Like |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by stevups(m): 3:04pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
cococandy: It differs from culture to culture |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by IronSponge23(m): 3:10pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
Berrityga: You no wise 🤣 |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Charly68: 3:10pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
Mindlog:This is biblical .. |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Farfalla(f): 3:24pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
thebar: Stop it. Just stop it...!! Everytime people want to justify nonsense they must quote the Bible or the Qur'an. Just stop that nonsense. A man's family has no right over a widow and that's that. Nonsense...!! ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by thatigboman: 3:28pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
Berrityga:death has done her part with her late husband naa |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by obotematics: 3:29pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
If you like no go return the money Body go tell you 2 Likes |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by cococandy(f): 3:33pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
stevups: Gimme a range . I’m checking something |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Expanse2020(m): 4:29pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
In Islam also in Yoruba culture when the husband is dead.. the woman will be in the house for like 3 to 4months just to make sure she is not pregnant and after the confirmation that is not pregnant she can decide to remarry if she is still young.. but she will be notify her late husband family.. For you marrying a widow is not bad Idea and God can still use her make ways in many ways. Trust me as long as you have good intention.. Note: if you are seeing strange thing maybe you asked her if her late husband is not priest, king,or spiritual tittle person because they used to have something in the body oio 1 Like |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by riczy(m): 4:46pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
Death ends all marital ties, as a Bini man, ask d wife wat her late hubby's culture is like, but unfortunately all these ladies will never tell u d truth, she may even tell u ur ordeal has nothing to do with her! Start praying with Act 16. Num 23, psalm 70,31&51. Let her go.May God Almighty set u free (jn 8:36) 1 Like |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by zakkxx: 4:54pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
You are a very stupid man; marry her if u love her. You cannot be fornicating, is your spiritual sense death? This is how foolish men bring bad luck to them selves. 1 Like |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Mypeople2(m): 5:00pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
fineboynl:Ask about her culture and tradition. Also ask her what led to her husband's death |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by oyebanji(m): 5:02pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
Death ends the agreement...# |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by rezzy: 5:38pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
Nazgul: Isoko in Delta state returns bride price if the widow wants to remarry or she can marry within the family. I confirm that when my former landlord's son died and the wife people returned the bride price. 2 Likes |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Deebami: 6:22pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
fineboynl: You don't need to return any bride price to the late husband's family. It would have been more honorable you marry her before sleeping with her. Whatever you are experiencing may not be connected with her being a widow, but some other things. If you know you don't want to marry her, please don't play with her emotion, losing a spouse is enough pain!! 1 Like |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by asanausana91: 7:27pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
fineboynl:how long the husband died? In their marriage has they undergo blood convenant. |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by asanausana91: 7:30pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
There are some culture that will expect her to marry another man from the family of the ex husband. 1 Like |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Blackmercyvelly: 8:38pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
That one can only happen in ijebu land and entire igboland , 🤣🤣🤣🤣 |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by frozen70(f): 8:50pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
fineboynl: I think the most important thing is for her to mourn her late husband and after that she is free It could be for 6months or 1yr as the case maybe Unless there are other issues which you don't know about Then you need to find out from her family As you may not be willing to find out that from her late husband family As for the bride price, the person who paid for it is late so that one is gone with him |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
Farfalla:And your own issue is that you only craftily picked out the part of her moving on, to make a statement, to whip up sentiments from onlookers. ![]() ![]() You're a woman , after all. It's expected. I said what I said. You felt triggered and hence, felt you needed to clap back at my comment. Or are you the woman in the OP's narration? Lol. Shift |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Nobody: 9:01pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
Berrityga:Don't mind these women. They never ever get tired of sexx and attachments. |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by EndRape2(f): 10:05pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
It is only death that can seperate a man from a woman. Let no culture deceive you, as along as the hus and is dead you should not be afriad of anything . She does not need to return.any bride price Your mindset is what is affecting you. quote author=fineboynl post=125319930]I’m in a serious situation. i have been dating this young widow for a while now without any issues. But From the day I slept with her i have been noticing some things i don’t want to talk about. Many things have been going through my mind concerning her. From the igbo/Yoruba and all other cultures in Nigeria. What should a widow do before she start sleeping with another man? Should she returned the bride price? Because I’m considering cutting ties with her and go for deliverance. [/quote] |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Knetpro(m): 10:52pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
Han han! |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Chizim1: 2:18am On Aug 27, 2023 |
She will go back to her husband family to tell them that she wants to move on with her life then she will buy goat and cook food for her husband family after eating they will pray for her to be free from the marital bound Notting more Ika land, if you know, you know Delta states |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Chizim1: 2:36am On Aug 27, 2023 |
Tell her to go back to her husband family to asked if there's any ritual rite she have to perform before getting into any relationship in my place is very important especially if she have children with her late husband Ika land, if you know, you know Delta states 1 Like |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by sharone21(f): 7:37am On Aug 27, 2023 |
Chizim1: Death terminates all the ties in Ika land unless individual, illiterate families. Besides, being a Christian cancels all that. Returning of bride price is more for divorce cases. |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Mazeepac(m): 9:33am On Aug 27, 2023 |
The same power that prevailed over the poor lady's husband is the one that has started tormenting you. If you have spiritual strength you can help her seek for deliverance. Most of the time the ladies are inocent. 1 Like |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by Bankowner: 11:34am On Aug 27, 2023 |
The marriage vow is "till death do us part". The moment one partner is gone, the marriage is legally over, and the living partner has every right to move on without recourse to his or her in-laws except where tradition stipulates something else which may be for the partner (especially the woman) to marry someone else in the family. fineboynl: |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by noblebright1: 2:09pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Your mind is playing games with you n that game will only end when your heart is cleared. You're the one who have problem not the lady itself so do what you mind tells you n be free. Tell death do us part is what it is |
Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by scantee(m): 5:57pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
bestman09: In my place in Enugu this is exactly the same. If the pride price isn't returned, any kid the lady bears for the new husband automatically belongs to the late husband's family. 1 Like |
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