Smartb0y:


Body built but mind deflated

Lack of frame brings about irritation.
Too much irritation brings about divorce.

Pretty sure he's the equality type.
I hope he realizes he was responsible for not just his but his exes attitude.

Men have a heavy burden to uphold and it just doesn't end financially.

That burden of performance is in different phases.

The burden to provide for her
The burden to keep her in her feminine yet chaotic state.

There's no greater challenge a man can encounter than marriage.
He's not just responsible for himself but also his partner.

She knows he's not going anywhere which prompts her to unleash her fully chaotic state without any form of regard.

A man in such position won't survive such feminine force just like this fella.

Sad part is the single mom circle is still in order, breeding kids that'll eventually lack any form of frame to guide them.

No greater curse than a man with a weak mind who gushes over pussy.

He'll be served a cold thin ice of feminine chaos.

Dexter08:
Dear men,

There was this single mom I use to date some years back. Naive me thought given the experiences or the shege life and her baby daddy showed her, she will finally submit, love a nice guy.

The little cash I had then were for her and her daughter. At one time I actually borrowed money to finance her lifestyle so she wouldn't leave me.

I am sure you have an idea in how the story went given I had to write about this one.

Dear men it is not your responsibility to finance the lifestyle of single moms and their kids. It is the duty of the man that knocked her up, the man she gladly opened her legs for and called PAPI while he thrust in and out with reckless abandon.

If a woman can keep a man's child, that man would continue to have his way with that woman till he have his fill. For it is in this context, the Okafor's law stand true.

Dear men that adventure with that single mom left me broke, made me always doubted my worth since I couldn't provide enough for her and her kids.

Dear men single mom are just for fun and never to be taken serious. Never ever to be taken serious.

luminouz:




What we can do is to tell any woman we don't feel anything for the truth because I don't think redpill is about hurting women or being sadists. It would interest you to know that since attraction can't be bought, the same so-called ugly girls are mercilessly rejecting other men who want them too...so why should you

chukshobayo:


Please I need your advice. How can one handle this issue of a lady giving you green light in the office and she is married. I ask this question because ordinary I may not look her way but since it is office one need to be careful because na were food dey come from considering this economy, and to avoid creating unnecessary enemies at work, I feel I am simping.

IAmHim1:


The complaints of modern men in relationships never change: " I provided for her, made sure she didn't lack anything- MADE HER HAPPY, yet I caught her in bed with that nobody of a guy"


MAGNIFYING YOUR VIEWPOINT:

Now ask yourself this question: between the choice of a man with an adams oshiomole physical attributes but is hardworking, intelligent and understanding VS a man with Idris elba's physical attributes but is lazy, speaks unintelligibly and lacks understanding of anything even as simple as ABCs, who do you think the girl will settle for to oil her engines?

GIRLS MAKES RULES FOR GUYS THEY DON'T LIKE BUT BREAK RULES FOR GUYS THEY LIKE

where LIKE= sexually attracted and LOVE= financially attracted

if she's not sexually attracted to you from the very start, she'll have a long list of attributes she looks forward to you having AS A MEANS TO CONPENSATE FOR YOUR LACK OF GOOD LOOKS but whenever a girl is sexually attracted to you, all rules are thrown out the window - her list of what an ideal man should be basically unwrites itself

sexual Attraction cums first for any relationship...since men love sex and women are in control of sex, SEXUAL ATTRACTION CUMS FIRST FOR ANY SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP ON THE PART OF THE WOMAN ie not you being sexually attracted to her but her being sexually attracted to you cus if she doesn't like you, she won't open her legs without a list of demands for you to meet first

For ANY sexual relationship, sexual Attraction cums first, just the same way for ANY business relationship, trust must come first


Guys using money to get women for SHORT-TIME SEX are playing the game wrong. Guys using pickup lines for every girl they come across falls into this category also

Your pick-up lines and any attempt to "appear hip" will just be mental masturbation to a girl that doesn't like you...same way you shape her view of you by spending your hard earned money on her knowing fully well she doesn't like you -- a beta provider

For context, refer to ubunjas work: CHOSEN/GAME OF EMOTIONS and BENEE1000 work: "The costly mistake many men make when choosing a marriage partner"

Good luck!

heartofcity12:
This marriage has crashed despite all the lovey dovey they do online.
He’s at the peak of his career in Nigeria while she and the kids relocated to the USA for a better life. Sorry man, marriages barely work in the west, the law favors the women and it’s against the men, why won’t the women misbehave..

luminouz:


Two major red flags:

1. She is married

2. She is in your office

Just be courteous with her and ignore whatever green eye/mumu light she dey show you biko.

My humble advice

heartofcity12:
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heartofcity12:
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chukshobayo:


Please I need your advice. How can one handle this issue of a lady giving you green light in the office and she is married. I ask this question because ordinary I may not look her way but since it is office one need to be careful because na were food dey come from considering this economy, and to avoid creating unnecessary enemies at work, I feel I am simping.

PstDapo:

I know majority of women are dishonest but you just took yours to a whole new level. Quite sad if I must add.

On any scale, in any environment, more women are likely to be sexually loose than their male counterparts. I mean as a woman, all you need is a great body to court attention of men. Men will promise vacation, cars and many more to have a taste of that coochie.

Just for being a woman, either poor or rich, men will PROMISE or GIVE something in return for sexual pleasure from you. For a man, it is not so, your access/ownership to resources qualifies you for sex and it doesn't even guarantee it.

Especially that hoe phase of 16 - 24 years, girls change boyfriends like they are changing scarfs, it is fuçking sooo easy. Women are getting laid and getting money as a plus. And you have the nerve to say we have more faithful ladies than guys? Perish that thought abeg.

Only about well-to-do 20 guys can be fuçking 800 girls during that hoe phase and the struggling guy have to wait for crumbs.

PstDapo:

I know majority of women are dishonest but you just took yours to a whole new level. Quite sad if I must add.

On any scale, in any environment, more women are likely to be sexually loose than their male counterparts. I mean as a woman, all you need is a great body to court attention of men. Men will promise vacation, cars and many more to have a taste of that coochie.

Just for being a woman, either poor or rich, men will PROMISE or GIVE something in return for sexual pleasure from you. For a man, it is not so, your access/ownership to resources qualifies you for sex and it doesn't even guarantee it.

Especially that hoe phase of 16 - 24 years, girls change boyfriends like they are changing scarfs, it is fuçking sooo easy. Women are getting laid and getting money as a plus. And you have the nerve to say we have more faithful ladies than guys? Perish that thought abeg.

Only about well-to-do 20 guys can be fuçking 800 girls during that hoe phase and the struggling guy have to wait for crumbs.

luminouz:


Here we go again with the 'you must spend money on women directly or indirectly' mantra. I find that many men who support this here pay for sex(hookers, oloshos or whatever) and you use that justification to overgeneralize and I don't agree with that. Me no dey pay for sex. You may and I'm not fighting with you, it's your money but don't force that fallacy down my throat biko because I no go ever gree.

heartofcity12:
This marriage has crashed despite all the lovey dovey they do online.
He’s at the peak of his career in Nigeria while she and the kids relocated to the USA for a better life. Sorry man, marriages barely work in the west, the law favors the women and it’s against the men, why won’t the women misbehave..

UppaZakum:

His lamentations already show that his wife was the man in the marriage. He was always going about posting their lovey-dovey pictures on Facebook (attribute of a Beta-man in my opinion). Never seen his wife once post their picture. Obviously he invested more in the marriage, hence his outburst. Nigga is blessed with good looks but he's a simp. Mr lover boy got served. I blessed the day I encountered the Redpill. You can have all the good looks and money in the money in this world but without knowledge of the red pill, one will be miserable in their relationship with women.

heartofcity12:
Simp at it again 😂
He sent 350k to a random girl he doesn’t even know just to get her attention😆.. Later he’ll come out to cry that she’s a gold digger 😂

HARDDON:


The fact remains that all the affairs of life operate on set rules(laws).

Disobey the law of electrical energy and get burned, gloss over the law of floatation and drown.

The world of women is no exception

One.