donjazzet:


This sentence is blatantly false. As in, it's entirely not true. For fvcks sake, we have a living proof here amongst us.

Seriously, the notion that bigotry and prejudice is not for rich people is entirely false. There are soo many examples to pick from. Is it from landlords and homeowners rejecting tenants from specific tribes, is it white people rejecting to offer their services to black people? Or Germans outrightly relegating all Jews and having nothing to do with them even those who have money, infact the rich Jews had their entire money and property confiscated and given to state and channelled towards war efforts. Money couldn't save the Jews.
There are soo many instances of families rejecting the marriage partner of their children irrespective of wealth because of the person's tribe, be it Igbo families outrightly rejecting a Muslim Fulani or Fulani Moslems rejecting a Christian ibibio unless the girl converts.

My brother, some people have innate Bigotry in them, there is how a group of people will be targeted with hateful propaganda and they end up hating a specific demography.

Tribalism is a key type of bigotry and money doesn't heal that so don't say that rich people don't do tribalism. That's false. Bigotry doesn't see money. 18th century White racists will still partake in lynching a black man no matter his level of wealth because to them, the black people were closer to animals.

Eunoiaa:

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Let me share this story with you, too. Someone came to share it on Twitter. The guy doesn't have a laptop and he needed it to read and prep for some major exams. His girlfriend borrowed him hers, and he found out she was cheating. Would you have him confront her and breakup and she collects her laptop and his fail his exams?

Like, there was nowhere he could get a laptop. It is a painful, hard thing but keeping quiet until you're above waters is a wise thing to do.

Confronting cheating is even actually harder to do in real life than people make it seem online. The opposite of breaking up or confronting the cheater doesn't mean you have to wallow in self-destructive pity, you know? You don't have to sink into a shadow of yourself if you cannot readily leave a cheating partner.

Oasis003:


Eun oiaa......?! You seriously faulting the innocent guy for confronting his cheating wife? I am 100% sure it was even him that financed the trip, probably by selling all his properties.

Ooin.....make una calm down with this una feminism abeg.

izzou:
That is why i am waiting for you to get married naa.

You think Girlfriend/Boyfriend can be equated to marriage with kids? Maybe this is where you are drawing your "Wisdom" from.

Wait till you get married.

izzou:
That is why i am waiting for you to get married naa.

You think Girlfriend/Boyfriend can be equated to marriage with kids? Maybe this is where you are drawing your "Wisdom" from.

Wait till you get married.

Ibime:
Greenwood dey whine us

https://youtube.com/shorts/Uw7w4YMhalk?si=h8ALXHw3imouCXU1

Trevor012:
He is simply telling you even as an atheist he appreciates African culture and wants to see them promoted. There's atheism in every culture.

izzou:


Na true naa

When i was in secondary school, i used to see my uncles and aunties as stingy people because they were not sending me money easily, or as i wanted

Now, i don become uncle. I intentionally avoid calls from nephews and nieces most times, just to avoid unnecessarily billing

Marry first. Then show us how to ignore a cheating wife/husband

Ibime:
Greenwood dey whine us

https://youtube.com/shorts/Uw7w4YMhalk?si=h8ALXHw3imouCXU1

Eunoiaa:


I am not faulting him; I am faulting the timing.


Boya now that he's going to be deported back, it is a good thing.

donjazzet:
Are you ready to have a genuine conversation devoid of personal insults, name-calling and abuses seeing as these things are counter-productive??

Marry first. Then show us how to ignore a cheating wife/husband

Eunoiaa:


You don't have to wait on anything potentially happening because we comment on things that are already happening.


If you were in that guy's position, would you confront her and return the laptop or you will wait until you have finished and passed all your exams before bursting everywhere?


It's crazy as you're trying to make ME seem like the unrealistic person here.

In fact, the very idealistic me a few years ago would have been towing the same stance you are standing on. That there should absolutely be no grounds for remaining together in a cheating situation.

iamoyindamola:

Free this guy
Let him breathe small

Oasis003:


....timing? What happens to his honor? He kuku should be fanning them while they are doing the do nah, to avoid been deported.

Eunoiaa:


And when did you get married?


Because you cannot be a single person giving me this condition for commenting on marital issues...

izzou:
If he confronted his wife and she became remorseful and apologised, promising never to do it again, would you fault the timing?

izzou:
I meant it when i said you need to be married.

Eunoiaa:


Yes, I would still fault the timing because realistically, there's no way to know beforehand how she would have reacted.

It would have been best for him to have his back covered, and if she was remorseful, nothing spoil.

So now answer me. If you were the guy making use of your cheating girlfriend's laptop for your final year exams, how would you have reacted? Or if she orchestrated the loaning of a car for hailing to you/stood as your guarantor until you can pay it back and the car become all yours, would you wait until you're free of debt before breaking up with her or you you'd go broke, believing God for a miracle?

Eunoiaa:
Surprisingly, I can't see you telling Melvyn to get married first before sharing his opinions.


And if he was married, it certainly hasn't affected your reception of your opinion.


What is doing my head in is how if this was a normal cheating case of a man on a woman, and I was condemning it or I'm here preaching that cheating is a complete deal-breaker, you'd still tell me that I need to get married to see that cheating is not a white/black situation, and you cannot just call off a marriage.

Like you're literally suggesting to me to get married because marriage is a complex ball game that you cannot speak on theoretically, so how it not puerile to you that you're supporting that a man risk deportation and divorce over cheating, in the same breath? 🤣

Wo, abeg.

Eunoiaa:


Ohh, nothing naa, my dear.

His honor as a man >>>>>> being deported back to Nigeria. 👍👍

Wa sere. E make sense baje.

izzou:


You have been quoting me since, but you are looking for Melvyn inside.

Check your self esteem, ma.

You need me to drag another person for you to accept that your opinion has no experience inside?

Oasis003:




....and if he is deported, it means his life is over? He ain't gonna succeed again?!

Unlimited22:

Lol. I'm going to assume you have a lot of time on your hands, because from the first response you suppose Don abort mission.

Itsrm:



Izzou just dey fall my hand.

Some arguments are not just worth your time. Always know when to ignore.

Trevor012:

Baba report to the Chelsea thread. Something is happening 😂

Itsrm:


Free me na. Let me mourn in peace 😂

Unlimited22:

Omo. Una get time and energy.

If to say situation dey reversed all this shalaye for dey?

Unlimited22:

Maybe na why izzou dey engage eunoiaa. E no Wan go our thread 😭😭😭😭