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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Schrodinger2(m): 8:26pm On Sep 07, 2023
Here is a thread I painstakingly created not long ago just to motivate guys like you to put more effort in your Japa hustle.

Unfortunately, the mods, Justwise and DisGuy have refused to push it to front page filled with mediocrity.

Another reason we could be disinterested in sharing our experiences here from the US.

https://www.nairaland.com/7826485/beautiful-pictures-inside-biggest-mall

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by pansophist(m): 11:53am On Sep 08, 2023
Gerrard59:


In my opinion, for a black person with a superior passport, I see Canada as a downgrade to migrate to. If it is not the United States, I remain wey I dey. Well, I am a capitalist. Anything for capitalism. grin

Yes.

Only third worlders are interested in Canada, same as USA.

For example if you check the list of countries that got the most PR in Canada and US, they were mostly from the underdeveloped world.

Europeans hardly move there. Visit yes, study for a while yes, but to move? Naaa. Its a massive downgrade of lifestyle and quality of life.

Put on YouTube 'homelessness in Vancouver", you'll be shocked to your bone. Those fentanyl inhaling zombies is fast spreading to Canada from the US.

Thousands sleeping on the street, they can't afford to rent or even own a home. And these are even white folks, citizens, not immigrants.

Canada is ridiculously too expensive. People work there just to pay rent. Even a doctor that earns above 150k a year might find it hard to own a home.

Meanwhile in Europe, people with 3k salary a month can get a house on mortgage, and you'll never see homelessness the level of North America.

Canada disappointed me really. Even sadly, their government will rather pump billions upon billions of dollars to Ukraine, instead of help the downtrodden in their community.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by pansophist(m): 11:57am On Sep 08, 2023
Nbv1:


That’s the truth. They are single and miserable and filled with ego even with their 18 cad per hour job they are financing cars worth 30,000 cad just to live fake life thinking that a mugu will sight them one day. This is a capitalist country and men are wise here . If a regular nigeria guy ask them out, they will embarrass him. They are only looking for already established men. You will see them on social media complaining bitterly that their is no husband in canada . They are praying unto God for problems they created. They are over 40years of age still hopeful and stay hopeful.

Omo, calm down o.

Just get PR move back to maybe Ghana or naija. No point living in Canada if it destroys your soul. Or you understand the game, work with the coin you're giving in life, and play to move up there.

Then be equally ruthless in mate selection, since you've been at the bottom of the selection before and know that place very well. The top always feels better than the bottom.

As a man, always position your self in a place where you'll have "comparative advantages". Meaning that a Nigerian with a western passport will have far more romantic opportunities in Africa than in the West.

For example, Davido or Yemi Alade will never blow like they did in Nigeria if they are in the West. Same as Burna boy, wizkid, etc. Your home will always crown you.

Better be a lion in a jungle, that a dog in a city. This life, na like game, know your cards and play to your advantage.

So don't ever catch yourself complaining or being angry at the game, it's the way of loosers. Don't do it. Get angry with yourself that you allowed yourself to be beaten.

Life is not for the weak. Toughen up man.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by SuperOnyi: 12:03pm On Sep 08, 2023
Astar007:



Lol, I'm in Stockholm



shocked



You finally made it there!

Congratulations grin

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by SuperOnyi: 12:08pm On Sep 08, 2023
Schrodinger2:
Here is a thread I painstakingly created not long ago just to motivate guys like you to put more effort in your Japa hustle.

Unfortunately, the mods, Justwise and DisGuy have refused to push it to front page filled with mediocrity.

Another reason we could be disinterested in sharing our experiences here from the US.

https://www.nairaland.com/7826485/beautiful-pictures-inside-biggest-mall





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Is there hope for people like me with no college degree (21 years old)? God, I see why my German friend keeps persuading me to work harder and leave "that hellhole" as he calls it. 🤲
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Gerrard59(m): 12:22pm On Sep 08, 2023
SuperOnyi:


Is there hope for people like me with no college degree (21 years old)? God, I see why my German friend keeps persuading me to work harder and leave "that hellhole" as he calls it. 🤲

Tech is the way. The hard aspect of it - fullstack or backend. But you have to be very good at it - top 5%. That is the area Africans, or specifically young Nigerians, can use to convince employers in any part of the world to employ them. It is country-neutral compared to medicine or law. You don't need country-specific training to hit the ground running. However, in the long run, the lack of degree would affect you, even at the nascent stage of being employed by foreign firms. The scrutiny applied to folks with no degree supersedes those with bachelor's degrees, even after accounting for years of experience and their quality. For instance, the immigration authority in Japan would not grant working visa authorisation to a firm to employ someone a foreigner without a bachelor degree or the equivalent of ten years cognate working experience (this has to be proven in recommendation letters by previous employers, salaries, taxes paid etc).

In summary, get that degree in a relevant field, and be good at what you do.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by hammed71(m): 2:05pm On Sep 08, 2023
Lol @pansophist wetin Canada do you na, @Gerrard59 hope you're enjoying japan
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by emmaodet: 7:10pm On Sep 08, 2023
pansophist:


Canada disappointed me really. Even sadly, their government will rather pump billions upon billions of dollars to Ukraine, instead of help the downtrodden in their community.

Bro by now you should know the US and her allies are not pumping billions into Ukraine because they love her or to uphold any nonsense democracy.
They are doing it strictly for their own survival.
The aim is simple - whittle down and breakup any impending opposition to the present status like Russia and china because a change in status is an impending doom on them.
These guys are not thinking or fighting for now or present. The whites think far and plan far reason why we see their societies well planned.
It is a fight for their own future. They are sacrificing little today so as to ripe bountifully tomorrow.
By the way, I tried chatting you up on WhatsApp but it seems you are not using that line again on WhatsApp.
How can I chat you up privately?

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by descarado: 9:03pm On Sep 08, 2023
pansophist:


Yes.

Only third worlders are interested in Canada, same as USA.

For example if you check the list of countries that got the most PR in Canada and US, they were mostly from the underdeveloped world.

Europeans hardly move there. Visit yes, study for a while yes, but to move? Naaa. Its a massive downgrade of lifestyle and quality of life.

Put on YouTube 'homelessness in Vancouver", you'll be shocked to your bone. Those fentanyl inhaling zombies is fast spreading to Canada from the US.

Thousands sleeping on the street, they can't afford to rent or even own a home. And these are even white folks, citizens, not immigrants.

Canada is ridiculously too expensive. People work there just to pay rent. Even a doctor that earns above 150k a year might find it hard to own a home.

Meanwhile in Europe, people with 3k salary a month can get a house on mortgage, and you'll never see homelessness the level of North America.

Canada disappointed me really. Even sadly, their government will rather pump billions upon billions of dollars to Ukraine, instead of help the downtrodden in their community.
Canada was not like this yrs ago.
The narrative here was like it's heaven on earth.
What changed?
Were they lying?

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by SuperOnyi: 9:24pm On Sep 08, 2023
Gerrard59:


Tech is the way. The hard aspect of it - fullstack or backend. But you have to be very good at it - top 5%. That is the area Africans, or specifically young Nigerians, can use to convince employers in any part of the world to employ them. It is country-neutral compared to medicine or law. You don't need country-specific training to hit the ground running. However, in the long run, the lack of degree would affect you, even at the nascent stage of being employed by foreign firms. The scrutiny applied to folks with no degree supersedes those with bachelor's degrees, even after accounting for years of experience and their quality. For instance, the immigration authority in Japan would not grant working visa authorisation to a firm to employ someone a foreigner without a bachelor degree or the equivalent of ten years cognate working experience (this has to be proven in recommendation letters by previous employers, salaries, taxes paid etc).

In summary, get that degree in a relevant field, and be good at what you do.




shocked



I was born in poverty but I refused to die in poverty. Anyway, thank you sir. I'm currently trying to fit into Amazon kdp and lift myself up. I don't have sponsor or anything!

Even the Nwaboi apprenticeship I was forced into, took me lower than I had ever been but I escaped and I will get there.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Sirchiboy: 10:17am On Sep 09, 2023
Astar007:


No, came through my white wife
..
Connect me with white lady looking for husband.
Help your brother

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Procashtips(m): 10:18am On Sep 09, 2023
What kind of life are you living that location determines your happiness?

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by kcdendelo: 10:20am On Sep 09, 2023
Mummyimbecile:
Bro, the fact that you're happy for others, yours will come.

9ja no be am at all.

I will be traveling from Connecticut to Florida sometime next week, I'll do well to put pictures here.

Chai! God abeg show me mercy😂😂😂😂
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by benqo01(m): 10:21am On Sep 09, 2023
That my prayer to japa one day
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by HIGHESTPOPORI(m): 10:21am On Sep 09, 2023
Astar007:


No, came through my white wife
You still marry the 68yrs old?

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by AngelicBeing: 10:21am On Sep 09, 2023
Hmmmmmm
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by maridrug(m): 10:21am On Sep 09, 2023
Astar007:



Ur time go come, na so I been dey feel before too, naija really make me hopeless but now I dey Sweden legally
Sweden denied me of tourist visa. Still dey on appeal process.
The decision hit me too much.
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Kobicove(m): 10:22am On Sep 09, 2023
tensazangetsu20:


It's funny how all the time I was in Naija I no send how I look but as I Japa I don become very conscious. Men for Chile dey rub makeup. Imagine carrying burnt offering face and trying to compete with that grin grin grin

LOL @ Men for Chile dey rub makeup

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by juman(m): 10:22am On Sep 09, 2023
You don't need to Japa.
Nigeria is land of milk and honey.
Learn how people that are doing well and follow suit.

With hard work things will be fine.
But start from any job, don't stay idle.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Nobody: 10:22am On Sep 09, 2023
Awww.

That Sabinus photo makes me laugh. I haven't watched his comedy in a while. Funny guy
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by ify84(m): 10:22am On Sep 09, 2023
Nbv1:


Thank God you came visiting and experienced it, if We advice some people they will ask why we haven’t come home yet. They won’t listen. This is why those who truly live here don’t advice people anymore . Only liars who haven’t step their foot abroad will go on saying they have several people doing well so well

Come back naaa. Foolish talk

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by maridrug(m): 10:23am On Sep 09, 2023
Basic necessities there is a luxury here.
Be happy to enjoy it.
Nbv1:
And who told you people are not depressed abroad. Lots of people here in canada are battling depression. A lot can happen where you are, either their is no much commitment from your end or your time hasn’t just come yet.

I wish I was happier than I thought here in canada , you won’t understand until you come in here.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by mirrael68: 10:24am On Sep 09, 2023
Nbv1:
And who told you people are not depressed abroad. Lots of people here in canada are battling depression. A lot can happen where you are, either their is no much commitment from your end or your time hasn’t just come yet.

I wish I was happier than I thought here in canada , you won’t understand until you come in here.
Exactly. Alot of people in Naija won't understand how hard abroad life is too in its own way!!! The grass is surely not greener anywhere.
But I agree an international exposure is good so you have a more balanced view of the world.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by juman(m): 10:25am On Sep 09, 2023
Japa!

Can you do the work they do abroad?
Many are lazy and would be crying of no money in abroad.
Me myself wrote couple of times here on the forum that there was no money in abroad. Until I was guided.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by franchasofficia: 10:25am On Sep 09, 2023
Ge0grapher:
Mehnn guys, I know it's probably only me that feels this way.. I don't consider myself a happy person, I wan commot this country like mad!!
Do you know in the mid night I go on TikTok scrolling through of videos of Nigerians way dey japa (TikTokers in the house would know what I am talking about, when they hear that sound SIKEEE!! Japa japa)

I used to love reading through nairaland Japa threads also but nowadays una way dey commot no dey post am for here again (not cool undecided ).. e get one kan joy way e dey give seeing those pictures of y'all in the plane with your food and sweaters, airports, plane wings, air hostesses, the landing view.. the background.. I don't know if it's weird but I totally love it.

But unfortunately I am coming to terms with reality that I might be stuck in this hell for a long time, cos I no get the facilities to commot at all. In the mean time, Abeg una way dey ball out, try to dey create threads with pictures, make we dey here dey do vivid imagination..
The God way help una go help me too 🙌😀
Japa!!
You will definitely travel out. In life, whatever you celebrate with joy you will receive at set time.


You are gathering the forces around you already and soon the rain will fall on you.


One of the ways to attract success in life is by genuinely celebrating and enjoying reading or listening or seeing successful people. It is the law of nature, so be patient your time will definitely come. You can bookmark this page, I speak from real life experiences and encounter

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Chibuzoripob: 10:25am On Sep 09, 2023
undecided U better stay where u are and think.The land is not always green at the other side.Get skill

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by MuMuOnBail: 10:26am On Sep 09, 2023
Na wa ooo


Let all of you JAPA and let us rest.

I was in Sweden and I JAPA back to Naija, although my wify and kids no follow me return.

I am leaving my best life here in Abj as a King.
Them insult me ooo, call me MumuOnBail.

I end up knacking their wifes, sisters, cousins, crush and friends.

Naija sweet just hold money and avoid staying in Lagos.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Chizaam2008: 10:26am On Sep 09, 2023
Yes ooooooo

Please JAPA apap or depression will kill you in Nigeria.
I for don commit suicide if TIEFNUBU was my president.
Tufiaaaaaaaaaaaaaakwaa.
The best minds are out of Nigeria. . . a country BY CRIMINALS FOR CRIMINALS ONLY.

NEVER! cheesy

I can confidently state I am not a Nigerian with my blue passport.

Will never own any property in Nigeria.
Can't stand the STENCH!

Tufiaaaaaaaaaaaaakwa!!!!

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by onuman: 10:27am On Sep 09, 2023
Japa - OTHERS TAKE THE POSITION YOU LEFT IN NIGERIA.

After some fortune diggers in judge's uniform approved INEC'S rascality and impunity in Nigeria; more Nigerians than ever, mostly from the south, will leave Nigeria.
But the movement abroad is at the favour of nomadic Fulani from the Sahel region of West Africa. The Fulani will take the positions left by the Japas. Buhsri, the modern day Othman Dan Fodio planned his exit from office well well.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Astar007: 10:28am On Sep 09, 2023
HIGHESTPOPORI:
You still marry the 68yrs old?

No dat na old American matter, my wife na 32, dem dey Facebook if u dey look for

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by franchasofficia: 10:29am On Sep 09, 2023
mirrael68:

Exactly. Alot of people in Naija won't understand how hard abroad life is too in its own way!!! The grass is surely not greener anywhere.
But I agree an international exposure is good so you have a more balanced view of the world.
Life can never be harder for a struggling Nigerian living in Nigeria than it can be for such Nigerian when he travels to a western country no matter what.

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