Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Nobody: 9:47am On Sep 09, 2023 |
henrimoto: Is involvement in Forex, Gambling ? Do you do Sports betting ? The OP write about the difficulty she is passing through with the Gambling habit of her husband , how it's killing progress and advancement of the marriage and family, You are writing Off point.
For your information , the gambling nature of her husband is Sports betting. Exactly. Not forex trading or any good online trading
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Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Saintmary(f): 9:47am On Sep 09, 2023 |
DaddyCoool:
Women RESENT being bread winner. It almost never works out Only a gigolo ever expects any married woman to provide. Live within your means. 2 Likes |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Nobody: 9:50am On Sep 09, 2023 |
mrblessed: This is a tough one. I support separation to see if he would turn a new leaf, that's if all you narrated is the truth. But he said he said, he will be with the children. The same children, he can't even afford food to feed them not to talk of other bills. I'm just tired. I just want peace and I don't know how to achieve that. 1 Like |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Nobody: 9:53am On Sep 09, 2023 |
DaddyCoool:
You will need companionship and a helper - especially as you're broke. Nothing wrong with trying your luck - you never know So, in your context, being broke is a yardstick for relationship? Not same with my opinion. I'm broke and struggling. All I need is how to stand on my feet not a relationship or dating as you advised. 4 Likes |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by omoredia: 10:03am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Adeboye Pastors dey carry traditional titles and u want to follow their ways? Continue |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by pongwa(m): 10:03am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Prettycute90: Since we got married, everything about the upkeep, rents, bills, feeding, general upkeep. I mean everything is on me and he has refused to provide for us as he always claimed he doesn't have. I have always be an understanding person who believe, I should be doing while I can, pending when things gets better for him. I never knew he was getting little little, but was gambling away with it.
We really do not date for a long time before we got married. Because I knew him back then in school from a far distance. And we liked each other but didn't date. So, meeting again after graduation and in a different environment, made me believe I already knew and the fact that we already liked each other.
He was struggling with a little job when we got married. My foresight then was to grow with him. I supported him in all ways. Infact, during our wedding, most support came from friends and relatives. Because I'm not the type of a wife that pressurized, It took me a very long time to know the nature of habit he had that has kept him low even before I married him.
He is a chronic gambler. No money stays with him. He wouldn't even care about himself so long as he can afford little money to gamble. Now, I don't have a job and too much burden has crippled my business.
To be honest, I'm losing myself. Sometimes I feel I need a therapy myself. My husband has refused to change or make effort to make this marriage work. Before I had my second child, he was pretending as if he has changed. But immediately I took in, he continues this lifestyle. I almost died due to emotional breakdown and responsibilities shouldered by myself.
I have done everything, (both family members have adviced him severally, I have prayed, fasted, cried, shouted, talked with a calm voice, all my efforts. but non is working.
Presently, since two weeks ago now, I don't cook for him. I source for food for just myself and my children. We barely have decent conversation in this house. I can't even remember the last time we had intimacy. I always avoid him, each time he tries to get close. Because of the situation of things in this house. We had two children and I don't intend having any other. The cost of taking care of myself and the children all by myself is emotional hurting me so much. School has resume and I can't even afford all the expenses of taking my first son to start a new school and I know, he would watch our son stay back at home. He wouldn't care.
We're in the house, but he's only concern is how to get little money to gambles.
Are these not enough reasons to divorce him? During one qurrel we had recently, I told him I want us to separate for now, so we can work on ourselves, and he said he will be with our children not me. I see that as way to make my children suffers.
What can you advise please?
I just want peace of mind.
I don't want to waste my youthful life in a loveless marriage. Where myself and my husband can not support each other to grow in Love. Rather, stressing me.
I feel your pain........what can I say |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by jeromestarks: 10:04am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Prettycute90: Since we got married, everything about the upkeep, rents, bills, feeding, general upkeep. I mean everything is on me and he has refused to provide for us as he always claimed he doesn't have. I have always be an understanding person who believe, I should be doing while I can, pending when things gets better for him. I never knew he was getting little little, but was gambling away with it.
We really do not date for a long time before we got married. Because I knew him back then in school from a far distance. And we liked each other but didn't date. So, meeting again after graduation and in a different environment, made me believe I already knew and the fact that we already liked each other.
He was struggling with a little job when we got married. My foresight then was to grow with him. I supported him in all ways. Infact, during our wedding, most support came from friends and relatives. Because I'm not the type of a wife that pressurized, It took me a very long time to know the nature of habit he had that has kept him low even before I married him.
He is a chronic gambler. No money stays with him. He wouldn't even care about himself so long as he can afford little money to gamble. Now, I don't have a job and too much burden has crippled my business.
To be honest, I'm losing myself. Sometimes I feel I need a therapy myself. My husband has refused to change or make effort to make this marriage work. Before I had my second child, he was pretending as if he has changed. But immediately I took in, he continues this lifestyle. I almost died due to emotional breakdown and responsibilities shouldered by myself.
I have done everything, (both family members have adviced him severally, I have prayed, fasted, cried, shouted, talked with a calm voice, all my efforts. but non is working.
Presently, since two weeks ago now, I don't cook for him. I source for food for just myself and my children. We barely have decent conversation in this house. I can't even remember the last time we had intimacy. I always avoid him, each time he tries to get close. Because of the situation of things in this house. We had two children and I don't intend having any other. The cost of taking care of myself and the children all by myself is emotional hurting me so much. School has resume and I can't even afford all the expenses of taking my first son to start a new school and I know, he would watch our son stay back at home. He wouldn't care.
We're in the house, but he's only concern is how to get little money to gambles.
Are these not enough reasons to divorce him? During one qurrel we had recently, I told him I want us to separate for now, so we can work on ourselves, and he said he will be with our children not me. I see that as way to make my children suffers.
What can you advise please?
I just want peace of mind.
I don't want to waste my youthful life in a loveless marriage. Where myself and my husband can not support each other to grow in Love. Rather, stressing me.
If you divorce him, you will suffer. Next. |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by LegallyBlunt: 10:05am On Sep 09, 2023 |
How many times will we see this?? |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Fiscus105(m): 10:06am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Prettycute90: Since we got married, everything about the upkeep, rents, bills, feeding, general upkeep. I mean everything is on me and he has refused to provide for us as he always claimed he doesn't have. I have always be an understanding person who believe, I should be doing while I can, pending when things gets better for him. I never knew he was getting little little, but was gambling away with it.
We really do not date for a long time before we got married. Because I knew him back then in school from a far distance. And we liked each other but didn't date. So, meeting again after graduation and in a different environment, made me believe I already knew and the fact that we already liked each other.
He was struggling with a little job when we got married. My foresight then was to grow with him. I supported him in all ways. Infact, during our wedding, most support came from friends and relatives. Because I'm not the type of a wife that pressurized, It took me a very long time to know the nature of habit he had that has kept him low even before I married him.
He is a chronic gambler. No money stays with him. He wouldn't even care about himself so long as he can afford little money to gamble. Now, I don't have a job and too much burden has crippled my business.
To be honest, I'm losing myself. Sometimes I feel I need a therapy myself. My husband has refused to change or make effort to make this marriage work. Before I had my second child, he was pretending as if he has changed. But immediately I took in, he continues this lifestyle. I almost died due to emotional breakdown and responsibilities shouldered by myself.
I have done everything, (both family members have adviced him severally, I have prayed, fasted, cried, shouted, talked with a calm voice, all my efforts. but non is working.
Presently, since two weeks ago now, I don't cook for him. I source for food for just myself and my children. We barely have decent conversation in this house. I can't even remember the last time we had intimacy. I always avoid him, each time he tries to get close. Because of the situation of things in this house. We had two children and I don't intend having any other. The cost of taking care of myself and the children all by myself is emotional hurting me so much. School has resume and I can't even afford all the expenses of taking my first son to start a new school and I know, he would watch our son stay back at home. He wouldn't care.
We're in the house, but he's only concern is how to get little money to gambles.
Are these not enough reasons to divorce him? During one qurrel we had recently, I told him I want us to separate for now, so we can work on ourselves, and he said he will be with our children not me. I see that as way to make my children suffers.
What can you advise please?
I just want peace of mind.
I don't want to waste my youthful life in a loveless marriage. Where myself and my husband can not support each other to grow in Love. Rather, stressing me.
First of first ,seperate from and see if things would change for better, if he doesn't change and you dnt have interes in marriage going forward, I will advice you to divorce him. |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by kcdendelo: 10:06am On Sep 09, 2023 |
DaddyCoool: Since he offered to be with the children, let him. While helping from a distance, sort yourself out and also find out how marketable you are in the dating scene - maybe you'll hook a better guy what sort of stupid advice is this? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by MuMuOnBail: 10:09am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Na wa oooo
Divorce him, we association or Widowed women Kpekus servicers, Divorce women kpekus Protectors, Evening Newspaper kpekus collectors and Single mothers Kpekus massagers will not run out of Job. 1 Like |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by jeromestarks: 10:11am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Prettycute90: Since we got married, everything about the upkeep, rents, bills, feeding, general upkeep. I mean everything is on me and he has refused to provide for us as he always claimed he doesn't have. I have always be an understanding person who believe, I should be doing while I can, pending when things gets better for him. I never knew he was getting little little, but was gambling away with it.
We really do not date for a long time before we got married. Because I knew him back then in school from a far distance. And we liked each other but didn't date. So, meeting again after graduation and in a different environment, made me believe I already knew and the fact that we already liked each other.
He was struggling with a little job when we got married. My foresight then was to grow with him. I supported him in all ways. Infact, during our wedding, most support came from friends and relatives. Because I'm not the type of a wife that pressurized, It took me a very long time to know the nature of habit he had that has kept him low even before I married him.
He is a chronic gambler. No money stays with him. He wouldn't even care about himself so long as he can afford little money to gamble. Now, I don't have a job and too much burden has crippled my business.
To be honest, I'm losing myself. Sometimes I feel I need a therapy myself. My husband has refused to change or make effort to make this marriage work. Before I had my second child, he was pretending as if he has changed. But immediately I took in, he continues this lifestyle. I almost died due to emotional breakdown and responsibilities shouldered by myself.
I have done everything, (both family members have adviced him severally, I have prayed, fasted, cried, shouted, talked with a calm voice, all my efforts. but non is working.
Presently, since two weeks ago now, I don't cook for him. I source for food for just myself and my children. We barely have decent conversation in this house. I can't even remember the last time we had intimacy. I always avoid him, each time he tries to get close. Because of the situation of things in this house. We had two children and I don't intend having any other. The cost of taking care of myself and the children all by myself is emotional hurting me so much. School has resume and I can't even afford all the expenses of taking my first son to start a new school and I know, he would watch our son stay back at home. He wouldn't care.
We're in the house, but he's only concern is how to get little money to gambles.
Are these not enough reasons to divorce him? During one qurrel we had recently, I told him I want us to separate for now, so we can work on ourselves, and he said he will be with our children not me. I see that as way to make my children suffers.
What can you advise please?
I just want peace of mind.
I don't want to waste my youthful life in a loveless marriage. Where myself and my husband can not support each other to grow in Love. Rather, stressing me.
You chose your fate. Better men came with true love to marry you but you rejected them and settled for this one you called husband. You met loving men when you were 18/20 but you rejected them saying you're not ready, you're young etc. Now look at you. Dance to the music alone. You will suffer. You have not seen anything yet. 2 Likes |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by AngelicBeing: 10:11am On Sep 09, 2023 |
DaddyCoool: Since he offered to be with the children, let him. While helping from a distance, sort yourself out and also find out how marketable you are in the dating scene - maybe you'll hook a better guy Muchecheche, you cracked me up with the last 3sentences of your post, marketable in the dating scene, like seriously ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Focusmind: 10:12am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Watch how some goons will come here to lash at the woman and forget about the man. Please men here this: It is your responsibility to provide for your family. Even if your wife is working and earning, it is at her discretion to support or not, and I know that any reasonable woman that has a hardworking husband will always support him.
It pains me when I read stories of men relying totally on their woman to foot the family bills. If things are not okay for you, show some actions and intentions to help your situation. An understanding woman will always support you. But when you turn your self to a liability, even to the woman supporting you, you become a liability.
The quality of men these days is becoming terribly low. 5 Likes |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Ofunaofu: 10:13am On Sep 09, 2023 |
DaddyCoool:
Women RESENT being bread winner. It almost never works out When they are the bread winner, the marriage is not working... but when the man is the bread winner the marriage is working 1 Like |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Chibuzoripob: 10:14am On Sep 09, 2023 |
![sad](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/sad.png) No oo.Such a idiot fellow can't train his son.A goat that follow 🐕 will eat faeces ![lipsrsealed](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/lipsrsealed.png) . He won't care if the boy go to sch/eat as long as he satisfied his gambling huge & lifestyle.,nothing mata to him again DaddyCoool: Since he offered to be with the children, let him. While helping from a distance, sort yourself out and also find out how marketable you are in the dating scene - maybe you'll hook a better guy |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Chibuzoripob: 10:15am On Sep 09, 2023 |
![sad](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/sad.png) gross irresponsibility 1 Like |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by AlaafinOfOyo: 10:17am On Sep 09, 2023 |
DaddyCoool: Since he offered to be with the children, let him. While helping from a distance, sort yourself out and also find out how marketable you are in the dating scene - maybe you'll hook a better guy This is a very satanic advice. As in, you're advising a Christian to divorce and start dating (adultery) so that she'll burn in hell? To the OP, do not despair. You've already made a mistake of marrying blindly but God is a God of a second chance. I advise you to carry your burden but if you must give up, you must remain unmarried. I advise you not give up because of your husband's habits. It's not easy but don't think it'll get easier if you leave. You'll only expose yourself and your children to wolves out there. Focus on making the marriage work. That's the cross you have to carry for now. Since he's not physically abusive, keep praying for him. There's nothing God cannot do. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by talented321: 10:19am On Sep 09, 2023 |
The man is irresponsible... DaddyCoool:
Women RESENT being bread winner. It almost never works out what about that? |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by harsysky(m): 10:19am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Wetin I wan even talk?
God please do not take away the source of income of the responsible men because I hate it when wives run the affairs of husbands.
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Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Dothans(m): 10:19am On Sep 09, 2023 |
God bless you for this wise response. I'm actually in same shoe like this woman's husband...just that I'm not married and gambling is what is delaying me from getting married. It's like I'm under bondage. Money hardly stays in my account. I'm always thinking of sportybet. And anytime I manage to win a little, I lose it all and become zero broke. I really need help. I hate gambling but it has become my addiction and I'm hating myself for it. I believe I need serious help as I'm really tired of everything. Woman, please seek spiritual counsel for your husband, he might be under something stronger than his will. I'm talking from similar perspective. kingviny: Often times, we look at a problem on the surface. But if we look deeply, there could be more than meet the eye.
If he is a good man but just that he has money issues ; he has little and in a bit to make it big he is trying gambling but always loosing it, perhaps it could be that he needs spiritual help , he also need counselling and then let him search for Jeffrey Benson on YouTube and be his devoted student for 1 year since he already likes speculative endeavour. Trust me, he would be ok.
Gambling is just a means to an end, it is not an end itself. He would need to learn functional skills as well. He can go into food business, digital marketing etc.
What type of gambling is he doing? Hope not lottery o ? as that one is a no no but If it is Forex, there is money in it oo. He just need to learn from those who are doing well in it. Out of 4 things I am doing, it is Forex that is giving me the most money to run my home right now and we are talking of 6 figures expenses monthly. I have 2 kids like you too and my wife is a teacher.
I know of someone who makes at least 10m monthly trading , his wife can never say he is gambling, she would say my husband is a fund manager and is doing so well .
Please don't leave him yet, help him if not for anything but for the sake of your children who need the presence and love of the 2 of you.
I am happy that you are a good woman. You have tried to have held forth for him all this while, not many women would do that even though it is not supposed to be a big deal if it is temporary. But if there is no end in sight , then it is right to shout out for help. Taking care of kids is a big job on its own.
How is your husband's family like? Are there successful siblings there ? Is your husband a lazy man or is it that he has not found help/job?
Try and get someone you feel he would listen to to join you in this mission. I can be of help to talk with him if you wish. We need to save your home .
Most men would want to work and provide for their families, only an irresponsible ones would not .
Above all, you need God's intervention.
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Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Lama70(m): 10:24am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Don't attempt to date another man while still living together. Find your way out first. Any such attempt could be fatal. He may use that as an excuse to hurt or harm you.
May God lead you. |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by PrinceOfLagos: 10:24am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Foodqueen: Take your children and go back home.
U need a separation for now. hear from the other party first before giving such advice E get why 1 Like |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Fiscus105(m): 10:25am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Dracula123: The only condition for divorce according to the bible is adultery
Gambling is a very serious addiction and needs a drastic action before it can be stopped, grace of God is also required.
I stopped gambling about 3 months ago and every month, my fiancee request for my bank statement not only for the gambling but also as a check to my spending
I can tell you that the urge to play is still there but I have a lot of people to prove wrong and that's my motivation.
There are ways to help him you know
I recently also helped a close friend from it, though he hasn't stopped but it has reduced by over 70% You people should stop all these rhetoric about immorality alone is the only reason for divorce. What about abuses and abandonment of Faith...... Read 1cor7:14-15 among others to update urself. 1 Like |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Paracetamol01: 10:25am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Allow him take care of the kids .he will get sence by the time the kids started stressing him 2 Likes |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Procashtips(m): 10:27am On Sep 09, 2023 |
kingviny: Often times, we look at a problem on the surface. But if we look deeply, there could be more than meet the eye.
If he is a good man but just that he has money issues ; he has little and in a bit to make it big he is trying gambling but always loosing it, perhaps it could be that he needs spiritual help , he also need counselling and then let him search for Jeffrey Benson on YouTube and be his devoted student for 1 year since he already likes speculative endeavour. Trust me, he would be ok.
Gambling is just a means to an end, it is not an end itself. He would need to learn functional skills as well. He can go into food business, digital marketing etc.
What type of gambling is he doing? Hope not lottery o ? as that one is a no no but If it is Forex, there is money in it oo. He just need to learn from those who are doing well in it. Out of 4 things I am doing, it is Forex that is giving me the most money to run my home right now and we are talking of 6 figures expenses monthly. I have 2 kids like you too and my wife is a teacher.
I know of someone who makes at least 10m monthly trading , his wife can never say he is gambling, she would say my husband is a fund manager and is doing so well .
Please don't leave him yet, help him if not for anything but for the sake of your children who need the presence and love of the 2 of you.
I am happy that you are a good woman. You have tried to have held forth for him all this while, not many women would do that even though it is not supposed to be a big deal if it is temporary. But if there is no end in sight , then it is right to shout out for help. Taking care of kids is a big job on its own.
How is your husband's family like? Are there successful siblings there ? Is your husband a lazy man or is it that he has not found help/job?
Try and get someone you feel he would listen to to join you in this mission. I can be of help to talk with him if you wish. We need to save your home .
Most men would want to work and provide for their families, only an irresponsible ones would not .
Above all, you need God's intervention.
Forex trading is not gambling just as trading stocks, shares and indices. Where do you guys get the notion that forex is same as gambling? |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by BePrepared: 10:29am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Prettycute90: Dating another man or hook up is the least of my worries now. Never ever do that This is really a cross and trial of faith Pray for grace to endure At worst separate don't divorce. |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by qtx(m): 10:29am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Prettycute90: Since we got married, everything about the upkeep, rents, bills, feeding, general upkeep. I mean everything is on me and he has refused to provide for us as he always claimed he doesn't have. I have always be an understanding person who believe, I should be doing while I can, pending when things gets better for him. I never knew he was getting little little, but was gambling away with it.
We really do not date for a long time before we got married. Because I knew him back then in school from a far distance. And we liked each other but didn't date. So, meeting again after graduation and in a different environment, made me believe I already knew and the fact that we already liked each other.
He was struggling with a little job when we got married. My foresight then was to grow with him. I supported him in all ways. Infact, during our wedding, most support came from friends and relatives. Because I'm not the type of a wife that pressurized, It took me a very long time to know the nature of habit he had that has kept him low even before I married him.
He is a chronic gambler. No money stays with him. He wouldn't even care about himself so long as he can afford little money to gamble. Now, I don't have a job and too much burden has crippled my business.
To be honest, I'm losing myself. Sometimes I feel I need a therapy myself. My husband has refused to change or make effort to make this marriage work. Before I had my second child, he was pretending as if he has changed. But immediately I took in, he continues this lifestyle. I almost died due to emotional breakdown and responsibilities shouldered by myself.
I have done everything, (both family members have adviced him severally, I have prayed, fasted, cried, shouted, talked with a calm voice, all my efforts. but non is working.
Presently, since two weeks ago now, I don't cook for him. I source for food for just myself and my children. We barely have decent conversation in this house. I can't even remember the last time we had intimacy. I always avoid him, each time he tries to get close. Because of the situation of things in this house. We had two children and I don't intend having any other. The cost of taking care of myself and the children all by myself is emotional hurting me so much. School has resume and I can't even afford all the expenses of taking my first son to start a new school and I know, he would watch our son stay back at home. He wouldn't care.
We're in the house, but he's only concern is how to get little money to gambles.
Are these not enough reasons to divorce him? During one qurrel we had recently, I told him I want us to separate for now, so we can work on ourselves, and he said he will be with our children not me. I see that as way to make my children suffers.
What can you advise please?
I just want peace of mind.
I don't want to waste my youthful life in a loveless marriage. Where myself and my husband can not support each other to grow in Love. Rather, stressing me.
Really disturbing. And your topic says as christians? 1. True christians dont gamble. 2. The mistake was you assumed he was a good person by seeing him from a distant while in school so you took no time to know him more. 3. Have you spoken to him about this as in, wake him up in the middle of the night in a friendly and sensible way to talk about it? If you have , maybe you allowed anger to control your words. He is gambling because he believes he can make big money and take care of you and the family(my guess). 4. Gambling is actually a habit which makes it dangerous. As a christian, approach your pastor or priest to assist in talking to him. 5. Alternatively speak to someone he respects so much to help in engaging with him. 6. Have you also prayed about it? As a true christian, prayer is indeed a master key. Also, assuming you hear he has hit a jackpot of about 30M naira, will you still contemplate divorce? First try to find solution through all the above suggesstions, if all fails then we can start another conversation on divorce. |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Osanoghodua1: 10:30am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Dear sister, I am sorry about this, may God change him and equally supernaturally provide for you both. Go and read this book MARRIAGE DIVORCE AND REMARRIAGE by Kenneth E. Hagin of blessed memory. You will find answer there. |
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Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Procashtips(m): 10:34am On Sep 09, 2023 |
I gamble for fun because I can, yet I trade Forex apart from other businesses I do by the side.
Though I am about to even stop the fun gambling too because my mentor said it's distracting me.
Now to the op, what exactly do you want to achieve with this thread?
How to help your husband stop gambling? How to help him get a job? How to help him get something to replace the gambling with? Or gather support for what you have in mind to do already?
You can't stop anyone from gambling without something to replace the gambling with though. |
Re: As a Christian, Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by AlaafinOfOyo: 10:35am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Exodus15v11: You can do what's best for you and your children who are in the equation. My dear, you're just a church goer not a Christian because what you just advised is the advice of the world. Beware because you're on the broad road to hell. In marriage, Satan will easily show you reasons to leave and continue with adultery (remarriage). |