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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by ogbonti: 1:43pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Nbv1: no mind am - ONLY if they know how many Nigerians commit suicide overseas yearly out of depression ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by OFAIKGROUPS(m): 1:43pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Feeling same here man! 1 Like |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Jman06(m): 1:43pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
pansophist:'Loosers' are those who are not happy about and reluctant to conform with the deceptive life most people now live just for materialism. The devil is truly in charge of this life! Las las we'll all learn to live this life of lies since that is what the world now want ( especially ladies). 2 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Enjoymentman: 1:48pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
spiritedtete: My brother how you go enjoy all this things including good passports for children and you still regret leaving Nigeria 😂😂 if you regret leaving then you have to regret the passports too, you can’t eat your cake and have it , you would have stayed back in Nigeria and enjoy then no good passport or future for children because Nigerian passport ain’t getting better soon 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by yewit37486: 1:48pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
mizz2posh: He has his right to express how he feels about being there, the same way you have the right to express yours. Let people speak their minds abeg. 11 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by gfon(m): 1:52pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Astar007:abeg tell me the process you took boss. Have also got a white woman in US and we into a relationship, the goal is to japa likewise 🙏 1 Like |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by gfon(m): 1:54pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Nbv1:no wahala, come back Boss. 5 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Enjoymentman: 2:03pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
If you are a hard working person , you will make it abroad , you need to be resilient and strong with good mental health , it is solely meant for independent minded people oh , there are so many cheap things people enjoy in Nigeria that they can’t enjoy in abroad … There is free money in Nigeria if you know your way but there is no free money anywhere in abroad … I have lived abroad before the Japa word was formed, when I moved to london back then my friend made me understood that it will be very tough for me so I was prepared mentally but guess what God did miracle and used a lot of strangers to help me and I didn’t suffer , it was grace of God and I hd some money too then , I was only 21 then oh , I missed Nigeria cuz I loved Lagos so much but in life you will sacrifice… There are many benefits of living abroad, many are suffering in abroad while some are making it , you just need to be smart and always updated and you will be fine ! There is no manna in abroad … it’s always good to visit first before you move there, I live in Nigeria now for the past 12 years , e no easy but I know my way around things and lemme just say na God , I think Nigeria makes us lazy, you oh one month rent you are relaxed but in abroad every month oh na rent lol … America remains the best place to move to , it gives you options, if you are tried of one state , you move to another …. Canada has never been a choice country for Nigerians , people go there because of their PR card and easy student visa …. You can never compare it to America !! Many people I know moved from uk to America but till date I am yet to see someone move from America to UK 😂😂😂 You will hardly see someone in America complaining bitterly about America , they can complain just like every other country but not like people in uk and canada who are always crying about one thing or the other online …. Many people that Japa in the last 10 years are not built for abroad life … Many lack the proper orientation to live in a foreign land.. You can’t enjoy abroad money and also have Nigerian liberty , weather etc 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Ombudsman1: 2:03pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
THE BEST FEELING IS TO BE ABLE TO GO TO OTHER COUNTRIES OVERSEAS AND SPEND SOME TIME THERE, RELAX, ENJOY AND STILL COME BACK TO NIGERIA. NOTHING BEATS THAT. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by gfon(m): 2:04pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by gfon(m): 2:05pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Chizaam2008:Chaiii, make God do am for me too. Tired of this suffering over here 🥺 |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by vickydevoka(m): 2:14pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Ge0grapher:Do know most japa people suffer marriage whala |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Astar007: 2:15pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
gfon: US process dey much different and complicated than EU...expect to stay for naija like two years more 1 Like |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by akslink: 2:22pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
[quote author=akslink post=125679811][/quote]Omo abroad depression pass naija own, no friends no family work work works after paying bills remains little money to eat just they pray make God help you establish one small business and stay back home when the business grows travel on holiday that all rather than living there, many of us living abroad they regret and lonely we sell all our properties for nothing 1 Like |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by TeamXola(m): 2:23pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Ge0grapher: Same here but where is the money ? 1 Like |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by chosky2589(m): 2:24pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Nbv1:e good make you de cry there than to be happy here oh bro. see me de hungry since morning here no hope of eating in sight. think about life in Nigeria and make your self happy bro 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by StemCellTherapi(m): 2:25pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
I went through the thread and read some people looking for white woman to befriend. Wow...see life. A white woman sent me a DM some months back asking to be friends with me. She is in USA. We used to chat. She was always the one sending me messages. I used to respond. Sometimes she would snap her painting and send to me. Or snap her cat. Funny thing sha. But I didn't take it serious then. Another one was a guy. I think he is gay. This is because he was always sending me pics of men in sex positions and he would say he wanted to do that with me. I had to end the chat with that one cos he was creepy. If I really wanted to Japa to the USA, I already had options. It's just to play my cards right but I was not interested. One thing I know in life is that, if u have the oil of God upon your head, they are the ones that will come looking for you wherever you are. You won't stress yourself. And Yes, they both reached out to me through FACEBOOK. Do not underestimate that app. I'm out. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Astar007: 2:25pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
akslink: Why u nor go sit down for nigeria back abi dem ban u from naija....?? 1 Like |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by pansophist(m): 2:27pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Mogajunior: Europe is better. 2 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by pansophist(m): 2:28pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
femocious0: It's the Northernmost, sparsely populated, coldest, snowiest, darkest, most boring, and least lively place in northern Europe and by extension, Europe in general. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by pansophist(m): 2:29pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Gucciboy: My father's land. Nigeria. 9 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by pansophist(m): 2:30pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
sokeril: I appreciate you sir. Na to kill goat for you remain, for your commitment to know how to spot better thing. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Chizaam2008: 2:35pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
gfon: We will never sing this song. . .. The suffering is real. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y2OhlyXx3kE?si=5A6MtALSJgk6WGgD 1 Like |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by pansophist(m): 2:35pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
ConfidentialDoc: Nigerians still see Canada and the UK and also the US as it was like twenty years ago. They still see the UK like James Bond movies, and the US like nollywood potrays. France also has joined their league. If you land Paris Central bus station Bercy) for example, the kind of smell and urine, and people sleeping on benches will shock you. If you walk there at night and act like a JJC, you'll be robbed or maybe stabbed if you prove stubborn. When people point to the decline of the West, things like this are what they saw. Canada own disappoint me pass because it's a really huge country, with uncountable resources and little population, but the citizens are living like beggars. Na wa 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by descarado: 2:37pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
cococandy: I understand you. Cos even here, they have been bemoaning that we work for the govt only. We can't even save a penny ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Raalsalghul: 2:39pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
pansophist: What if you are ugly? ![]() Or no hope for ugly folks like us? ![]() Make una consider us too na. We be human beings. 1 Like |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by lastkingsman: 2:42pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
pansophist: The decline has to do with the following: -The rise of China (major), asian tigers and other brics countries. This collected a significant share of GDP from -Socialism being practiced in the countries you mentioned (US is full blown capitalism). It's a huge burden to take care of the aging population in these countries based on socialism -OPEC+. The alignment of Russia, Saudi and Iran to make oil price expensive. Russia starting Ukraine war to teach Europe (Germany) a lesson. Germany is restarting their coal plants 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by pansophist(m): 2:44pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Raalsalghul: Others won't see your deficiencies as you see them. They are girls that consider themselves ugly but to me, if not for self control, I for don knack her. Just play with the cards you have. Do skin care, polish your English, so you can speak like a professor, dress well and have perfume. Also gym and eat for functionality. By eating for functionality, it's to eat in a way that lead you to a goal, or to maintain it, not for taste. You can eat few times a week for taste, but eat to look fine, healthy and strong. And have something doing with your life. Women by their very nature are integrators. They are looking for a man that have an admirable lifestyle to integrate into. Do the above, and though you might not get most women, but you'll get few, afterall, sebi na only one woman you need. Or are you polygamist in nature? ![]() 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Lotusflowerbomb: 2:52pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Astar007:awhich dating app did you use in meeting her? |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Lotusflowerbomb: 2:54pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Schrodinger2:Tell us first how you were able to gather funds and japa to America? |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by cococandy(f): 2:55pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
descarado:The inflation is international. The ills of capitalism ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Fatbam005: 3:04pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Na person die Inside plane en route to the uk just yesterday. In all situation give thanks first 4 Likes |
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