Nbv1:
And who told you people are not depressed abroad. Lots of people here in canada are battling depression. A lot can happen where you are, either their is no much commitment from your end or your time hasn’t just come yet.

I wish I was happier than I thought here in canada , you won’t understand until you come in here.

pansophist:


Omo, calm down o.

Just get PR move back to maybe Ghana or naija. No point living in Canada if it destroys your soul. Or you understand the game, work with the coin you're giving in life, and play to move up there.

Then be equally ruthless in mate selection, since you've been at the bottom of the selection before and know that place very well. The top always feels better than the bottom.

As a man, always position your self in a place where you'll have "comparative advantages". Meaning that a Nigerian with a western passport will have far more romantic opportunities in Africa than in the West.

For example, Davido or Yemi Alade will never blow like they did in Nigeria if they are in the West. Same as Burna boy, wizkid, etc. Your home will always crown you.

Better be a lion in a jungle, that a dog in a city. This life, na like game, know your cards and play to your advantage.

So don't ever catch yourself complaining or being angry at the game, it's the way of loosers. Don't do it. Get angry with yourself that you allowed yourself to be beaten.

Life is not for the weak. Toughen up man.

spiritedtete:
All that glitters are not Gold bro... you will come to terms with cons: Racism, loneliness(you can be married with children and still be lonely), slaving, police oppression... anxiety and depression. And you will never be rich if you don't have a special talent. (Standard of living is very high small pay check big taxes and bills)

Prons: Jobs, beautiful environments.. clean people (the are all hypocrite) . Security, good infrastructures

you will feel it more if you grow up in Nigeria. You will crave home honestly.

Personally I regret Japa despite the fact that I have been almost everywhere. I wish is stayed back in Nigeria. However because I wanted a good passport for my children it is still no regret. (I am living very well mind you... very good apartment for an avarage rich person will live in...children attend of one of the most expensive schools around and I live very comfortably) but I still regret leaving Nigeria.

mizz2posh:


I wonder when you will go back to naija since you have seen the reality, you should be writing this from naija so that people can take you seriously.

Astar007:


No, came through my white wife

Nbv1:
And who told you people are not depressed abroad. Lots of people here in canada are battling depression. A lot can happen where you are, either their is no much commitment from your end or your time hasn’t just come yet.

I wish I was happier than I thought here in canada , you won’t understand until you come in here.

Chizaam2008:
Yes ooooooo

Please JAPA apap or depression will kill you in Nigeria.
I for don commit suicide if TIEFNUBU was my president.
Tufiaaaaaaaaaaaaaakwaa.
The best minds are out of Nigeria. . . a country BY CRIMINALS FOR CRIMINALS ONLY.

NEVER! :Chaiii, make God do am for me too. Tired of this suffering over here 🥺😪

I can confidently state I am not a Nigerian with my blue passport.

Will never own any property in Nigeria.
Can't stand the STENCH!

Tufiaaaaaaaaaaaaakwa!!!!

Chizaam2008:
Yes ooooooo

Please JAPA apap or depression will kill you in Nigeria.
I for don commit suicide if TIEFNUBU was my president.
Tufiaaaaaaaaaaaaaakwaa.
The best minds are out of Nigeria. . . a country BY CRIMINALS FOR CRIMINALS ONLY.

NEVER! :

I can confidently state I am not a Nigerian with my blue passport.

Will never own any property in Nigeria.
Can't stand the STENCH!

Tufiaaaaaaaaaaaaakwa!!!!

Ge0grapher:
Mehnn guys, I know it's probably only me that feels this way.. I don't consider myself a happy person, I wan commot this country like mad!!
Do you know in the mid night I go on TikTok scrolling through of videos of Nigerians way dey japa (TikTokers in the house would know what I am talking about, when they hear that sound SIKEEE!! Japa japa)

I used to love reading through nairaland Japa threads also but nowadays una way dey commot no dey post am for here again (not cool ).. e get one kan joy way e dey give seeing those pictures of y'all in the plane with your food and sweaters, airports, plane wings, air hostesses, the landing view.. the background.. I don't know if it's weird but I totally love it.

But unfortunately I am coming to terms with reality that I might be stuck in this hell for a long time, cos I no get the facilities to commot at all. In the mean time, Abeg una way dey ball out, try to dey create threads with pictures, make we dey here dey do vivid imagination..
The God way help una go help me too 🙌😀
Japa!!

gfon:
abeg tell me the process you took boss. Have also got a white woman in US and we into a relationship, the goal is to japa likewise 🙏

Ge0grapher:
Mehnn guys, I know it's probably only me that feels this way.. I don't consider myself a happy person, I wan commot this country like mad!!
Do you know in the mid night I go on TikTok scrolling through of videos of Nigerians way dey japa (TikTokers in the house would know what I am talking about, when they hear that sound SIKEEE!! Japa japa)

I used to love reading through nairaland Japa threads also but nowadays una way dey commot no dey post am for here again (not cool ).. e get one kan joy way e dey give seeing those pictures of y'all in the plane with your food and sweaters, airports, plane wings, air hostesses, the landing view.. the background.. I don't know if it's weird but I totally love it.

But unfortunately I am coming to terms with reality that I might be stuck in this hell for a long time, cos I no get the facilities to commot at all. In the mean time, Abeg una way dey ball out, try to dey create threads with pictures, make we dey here dey do vivid imagination..
The God way help una go help me too 🙌😀
Japa!!

Nbv1:
And who told you people are not depressed abroad. Lots of people here in canada are battling depression. A lot can happen where you are, either their is no much commitment from your end or your time hasn’t just come yet.

I wish I was happier than I thought here in canada , you won’t understand until you come in here.

akslink:
Omo abroad depression pass naija own, no friends no family work work works after paying bills remains little money to eat just they pray make God help you establish one small business and stay back home when the business grows travel on holiday that all rather than living there, many of us living abroad they regret and lonely we sell all our properties for nothing

Mogajunior:
By your write up, would you advise one to migrate to Europe instead of Canada?

femocious0:

What's going on in Kiruna bro

Gucciboy:


Abeg which country you dey now?🙏🙏

sokeril:

My mentor😎
I love you sir.

gfon:
Chaiii, make God do am for me too. Tired of this suffering over here 🥺

ConfidentialDoc:


It's really sad.
It wasn't this bad in the early 2000s

cococandy:


Canada is beautiful: those weren’t lies.

There’s more money in America that’s the only reason why it’s better than Canada. And for those who can’t tolerate the cold, there are warm and hot states in America where they can survive.

Apart from those two things, Canada is awesome.

It’s expensive tho. But so is America

pansophist:


Yes o.

I dont know about Chile, but men for west need to look fine. Not like naija wey a ugly mofo go use money dey catch woman.

pansophist:


Nigerians still see Canada and the UK and also the US as it was like twenty years ago. They still see the UK like James Bond movies, and the US like nollywood potrays.

France also has joined their league. If you land Paris Central bus station Bercy) for example, the kind of smell and urine, and people sleeping on benches will shock you.

If you walk there at night and act like a JJC, you'll be robbed or maybe stabbed if you prove stubborn. When people point to the decline of the West, things like this are what they saw.

Canada own disappoint me pass because it's a really huge country, with uncountable resources and little population, but the citizens are living like beggars. Na wa

Raalsalghul:


What if you are ugly?

Or no hope for ugly folks like us?

Astar007:


No, came through my white wife

Schrodinger2:
Here is a thread I painstakingly created not long ago just to motivate guys like you to put more effort in your Japa hustle.

Unfortunately, the mods, Justwise and DisGuy have refused to push it to front page filled with mediocrity.

Another reason we could be disinterested in sharing our experiences here from the US.

https://www.nairaland.com/7826485/beautiful-pictures-inside-biggest-mall

descarado:


I understand you.
Cos even here, they have been bemoaning that we work for the govt only. We can't even save a penny .