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Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by NOETHNICITY(m): 5:24pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
This problem is very easy, simply attempt to marry another woman and you will see your wife sit-up like a chair. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by mercy87(f): 5:25pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: Sew? Na Ankara abi lace? ![]() |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by MySolace: 5:26pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
descarado:Are u joking ![]() ![]() Have u gone to their house to know it's not properly equipped? So, assuming d husband is making just 50k monthly nko? Or u think some families don't live within such amount? Stop sounding silly plzzz... I personally think d woman is privileged. Any woman dat has a husband da gives her money regularly to take care of home is truly blessed! Wot about d wives dat get nothing from d husband? ....or u think there's no such thing? U talking, how much are u giving ur wife or girlfriend... Or rather, (with all due respect) how much is ur father giving ur mother monthly? Just b honest.... 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by saintobing: 5:27pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Oga stay with your wife, rather get a side chick and let her know that u want to get a side chick since she have decided to starve you with sex. Forget that divorce issue bro |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Dennisbulkan: 5:28pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: Wish she get part of the dividend if you divorce her by the time it arrives? |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Exceed15: 5:28pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
You wear the shoes and know where it pinches. As long as any decision you make gives you peace. Go ahead. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by skj1377(m): 5:28pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
You need to wait for 2yrs oga. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by NOETHNICITY(m): 5:29pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
JONSYN7154:How can someone reduce sex drive? You must think sex drive is like a bicycle that someone can just match break and reduce its speed. What kind of mumu talk is this? 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by ufotunang: 5:30pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123:..you should do investigation if she has another man she is falling in love with and having sex with the man .. maybe she is tired of you 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Anonymous0001: 5:30pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: Once you start living alone.. you will definitely fall in love and get someone pregnant or be charmed by women. I’m not good in English … PLEASE 🙏 I AM BEGGING YOU IN THE NAME OF YOUR CREATOR DON’T DIVORCE HER. True love is all about Tolerance May God us help us. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by spartachico(m): 5:30pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
A lot of marriages are facing this issues and honestly I don’t know because when the dating scene was on y’all fvck like rabbits and pornstars but after couple of kids the whole vibes becomes dead , na only God know Wetin Dey worry African women |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 5:31pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
chingydaboss:Stop using God's name to lie abeg! Plus, OP tell you say him care wetin God think or no think? Abegi! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 5:32pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Anonymous0001:Stop using the mentions of God to try to justify this silly nonsense of an opinion that has nothing to do with him. What in the world is true love for Pete's sake? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by MySolace: 5:32pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
cococandy:Certainly he misused word. Maybe "attributes" would do better... |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by ufotunang: 5:33pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
JONSYN7154:...when konji is holding him....and the weather is very cold... weather for two 🙄 |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Exceed15: 5:33pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
JONSYN7154: Sometimes we don't know exactly what people go through before they make their decision. Such decision most times looks foolish. He wears the shoes and know where it pinches. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Zealag(m): 5:33pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
As this country had reach na Bleep be dis(married) man problem, instead to divorce go ashewo house go marry 2calabar chicks na you go knack tired. If you wey dey inside marriage dey complain about Bleep like dis wetin we wey still dey single without any relationship go come do😏 Mumu man. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 5:34pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
LLSAINT:Which God gave him what? Stop using the mentions of God to lie to him abeg! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by rolams(m): 5:34pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: Please and please, I beg you in the name of whatever you believe in. Do not divorce her, get another wife legitimately. You will enjoy your life without hurting anyone. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Otii4god: 5:35pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Both of you should go and see a therapist or better still give her supplements to boost her libido. E get one I know about, just few drops Na she go dey beg you every night |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Anonymous0001: 5:35pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
REMEDY REMEDY IF YOU TRULY LOVE HER, READ YOUR BIBLE EVERY DAY AND IT WILL DEFINITELY REDUCE YOUR ALL TIME SEXUAL HUGE . Be reading Psalm |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 5:35pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
cococandy:The woman accepted that as the only quality he brought to the table, who else can you blame for that? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Kobojunkie: 5:36pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Anonymous0001:Stop deluding yourself! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by ufotunang: 5:36pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Open the windows at night and let cold catch her.. weather for two ..she will even be the one begging you for sex sef....and come and thank me later 🙄 |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Tahtah: 5:37pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
[quote author=ADURA123 post=125671601]Good evening fellow NL members, My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice. I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating. Her qualities are She can cook She can keep the house clean She can manage resources And she is accommodating to my people In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife. My qualities are I work and earn like about 700k net a month. I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of. I don't drink or smoke I don't keep late night and I am the best friend to her and my kids. Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her. I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her. I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans. My decision between now and December is 1 Avoid asking her for lobe making 2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything 3 when she comes close I avoid her. 4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back Is there anything more I can do for her? Advice me pls... Don't ever divorce her cos of children n other women too have their peculiar action. Keep a side chic or visit a brothel ( be very careful cos of STI) who will be giving you sex. Live with her n pay bills for the family Don't ever fight her. When she asks for sex, consent to it. You just have to be in the marriage cos of the children n no other better lady outside, I tell you. Once again, no other better lady outside. You may get a single mother. When you give her money, she will give you sex |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Leilami: 5:39pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: Hainest!!! Oga 5 times a week? 😳 Are you a lion? I was just reading and scrolling until I got to this part and I decided to log in and comment. 5times a week for the past 10 years and you don't think you are the problem? Divorce her and remarry and believe it even the next one will run away because of too much sex. Are you addicted to sex or you don't have a hobby to distract you? Maybe you should turn one of your rooms into a mini gym and exhaust your energy because you need it. Chai!! 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by ufotunang: 5:39pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
JONSYN7154:...I have told him to open the room windows at night and let cold catch her.. weather for two..and she will even be the one begging him for sex... simple 🙄 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Amopeekun(f): 5:40pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Op, Sanu. 100k a month in Abuja! This time! She keeps the house squeaky clean! Everyday?! She cooks! Does the laundry! Take care of kids and all! She doesn't have parents. Guess she doesn't have friends either. You are her best friend. From your post, you dictate everything in the house, to places you visit with the family. She doesn't have a say! 2hours of intimacy but 1 hour of penetration and pounding! Ha! Morning! Night! 4times a week!!!! WHEN YOU FINALLY DIVORCE HER, YOU WILL JUST GIVE HER A MONTH TO FIX HERSELF UP. (AS A MUSLIM! REALLY?!!!) BUT YOU CLAIM TO LOVE HER. SHE IS EVERYMAN'S DREAM YET YOU WANT TO BE ALONE AND FREE. Hmm... Free to do what? What do you intend to do with your kids? Oh! You, alone, have the 'perfect' plan for them. Once their mummy is out of the equation, you will provide the best plan for them. Interesting. Ya Allah! Please provide for our children spouses who will respect their minds, bodies and views. Spouses who will be considerate, loving and understanding. Spouses who will allow our children to express themselves, explore their innate strengths and abilities and spouses who will support our children to fulfill their purposes in life, aamin. Thank you, op, for giving us another direction of prayers 🙏 |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Jaycee07(m): 5:40pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: Ops, Divorce is a serious decision that will alter the future and perhaps the destinies of all parties involved in that union, but especially your kiddos. Child bearing brings some biological and physiological changes in women, which essentially impact on their psychology and mental health. I am not a doctor, but I have a twin brother who’s an obstetric and gynecologist . I know that some of his patients undergo these mood altering changes after birth( postpartum depression).And that can bring unintended consequences into marriages. Here are my suggestions: 1. If you have relatives who are trusted well enough to care for your kids, let your wife take some times away from home, get somewhere and unbundle herself with family or trusted friends.I agree with you that cheating is a terrible idea. Don’t let sex ruin your beautiful home, because from your explanation, you appear to have one. 2. Try and arrange with your wife to visit mental health expert/ marriage counselor. 3. I don’t know your faith, but I’m assuming you’re a Christian. If my guess is right, study the Bible with your wife and kiddos and pray together. 4 Even in your tight schedule, create time and interact with your wife. Let her understand how deeply you love and care about her. Reassure her that she means everything to you. Be more communicative. And even when she’s eventually open to love making, be very passionate and loving about it. I hope this helps. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by pooozeee(m): 5:40pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
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Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by THEMORALMEN: 5:42pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Why will divorce be an answer just because she has no interest in sex anymore. She gave u all the qualities you desire. Now along the line she lost taste of sex and all u want is to divorce her ![]() Come bra.....u don't need to divorce her. All u need is a sex partner. A very discreet sex partner Dat will never know your bio or were you from. Cos u will keep it all hidden Pls take a break to a neighbouring state near you. Get a hook up girl and make her ur sex partner. And visit her every 4days in a month to get ur self relief 😌. And once madam is back on default. Then you do away wit ur secret sex partner. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by countryman13: 5:43pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123:I will advice u to think twice before yielding to your father's advice because you claimed in your write up that u loved ds woman so much n dt u re d best of friends to her n ur kids, then why this drastic plan of yours? Left to me u are't having problem. Cheat on her with wisdom n keep your home for the sake of your kids else u might regret ur next line of action. D devil u know dey say is better than d angel u don't know. Just my take. Thanks |
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